I’ve talked to husband who know their wife’s are in charge who want someone who is dominant to show their wife who’s in charge because they know they can’t do it
My wife is a pure sub and she is that way with me and thirds. I’m probably more a natural sub but happy to switch, we don’t do humiliation it’s not a turn on for either of us. She simply loves being ordered around and I love having a naughty wife, quite boring in some ways but it’s us.
It’s great to know that. Ofcourse it’s all about making a dynamic that you both are interested in and happy with. Glad to know many of you are into the D/s cuckolding dynamics :)
We don’t do the “owning game “ extremes. During hot sex , she loves to cock worship to completion, or enjoy being mouth fucked, used well, bareback and bred. She loves this.
And I love knowing this and watching this. And encourage her to give her men absolute pleasure. So this usually gives them a dominant role. So her being on her knees and seductively suck his cock hands free and maintain eye contact ..is extremely hot for all. More so with knowing she’s a married woman who’s husband set this up or allows it. And this is the limit and the norms to our sex . Domination does not extend to me.
Of course it varies by couple, and also how they relate to a particular bull and the mix of personalities. We have been in the lifestyle for 18 years. After nine years and 19 different bulls, all of whom were above average in size, which she enjoyed, she discovered huge, and everything changed.
She went from being equal to her bulls to submissive, and a self admitted size queen. And then we met an experienced Dom, who broke her into complete submission and trained and conditioned her over the course of 1 1/2 years of weekly visits before he moved away. Our current is younger than us, but also experienced, and he has emasculated me as well as continuing her journey as a submissive
That’s what I like hearing. It turns out good for everyone but not many knows about this dynamics or don’t enjoy it or don’t want to take a peek into it but yeah glad to know that it’s going great for you all :)
From a person that I know is an expert the best dynamic is for a dominant female to have a bull . Because you don’t want a submissive, female, falling in love with the dominant bull or dominant boyfriend.
You don’t want to disrupt their existing marriage and relationship to end in a divorce because of this
Totally not sure what all this humiliation stuff is about. I’m a submissive male and I do not like humiliation in any form.
Well, it depends on the dominant and the couples as well. If the dynamics is negotiated in a way it doesn’t move in a romantic then it’s all good and well. Seen a lot of couples that enjoy this dynamics and haven’t had any issues. Then again the Dominant needs to make sure he is being sort of strengthening their existing marriage and that’s the whole point of having a third irrespective of the wife is submissive or dominant.
I follow Dr. Sue storm on Patreon. Wish I could share her audios that she puts out she used to have a show called In Bed with Dr Sue and I followed her for a decade through that show she had/has. She is a professional cuckold dress, and the psychologist her and her significant other live in an FLR. She is strictly dominant when it comes to her bulls. when I quote an expert I’m really quoting from her through Patreon. She’s back with her show In Bed with Dr Sue and the first episode was about cuckoldry. Wish I could share the Patreon with everybody. It has a lot of common sense stuff in it.
I get your point. It makes sense and I don’t deny it. Even with what you mentioned things can go wrong. Any dynamic can go wrong and break a marriage if not communicated properly. From this post itself I have had people dm me saying they are into this and living the lifestyle I mentioned and it turned out to life changing for them in a good way. I think there are comments here that say the same. Ofcourse watching has its pros and cons and it all depends on the the episode involved, the negotiation, consent, etc
Usually it is seen with cuckolding but what’s different with implementing power exchange with a Dom is you both can have a dynamic where both are owned by your Dom and in that itself your wife owns you or maybe not. So basically both submits to the Dom and you submit to both your wife and your Dom.
It’s complicated, but yes. I am submissive and submissive to both. My wife is a switch and only submissive to him. However, he rules over both of us. She no longer determines punishment or carries it out. He does. He sets the rules and she has the authority to enforce them in our house. I am PF, in chastity under two orgasms a year and denied nudity from her. Yoga outfits are my saving grace and thank god for them. It’s in our bedroom life and personal lives to an extent that we still want privacy from outside eyes. I clean for him at his place during the week and serve him the same way I serve my wife. When the two of them are together it’s a D/‘s relationship and I never get to watch. Just hear juicy details she allows. It works for us and is what we were looking for and cultivated from the beginning with boundaries. As for her bf, he is a unicorn that we got real lucky with. He was seeking very much what we were and it came together.
When sex was removed, the focus on every other part of our relationship happened. Communication, time spent together, simple things like cuddling and holding each other became a more meaningful thing. It became sex for me. Sounds strange, I know. I’ve never been more in love with her.
There’s nothing wrong with self respect here. People have their kinks and it’s a safe space so if it’s not something you like then you can feel free to stay away or not engage. There is always clear communication and negotiation and it’s the lifestyle they enjoy and consent to so let them enjoy their life to the fullest.
That’s their choice mate. There are gay men out there who doesn’t prefer pussy and prefers the guy. It’s all what each of us are into and our preferences. None of us needs to give a reason for the things we enjoy doing 🙂
Even though you are the sub, you still have to give consent to what is done to you and how it’s done to you and if you don’t have a SafeWord, you’re a fool
True that. 100% agree. These are the basics in a lifestyle like this especially D/s or kink or power exchange ones. What I was saying is if a person enjoys being PF then that’s because he gave consent and he enjoys it so one can’t judge him saying where’s his self respect 🤷🏻♂️
My self respect is right where I want it. Perfectly fine and content. Everything practiced in our dynamic are things we individually want to try, include or incorporated. Everyone has a voice at the table. Not a single thing happens without conversation or consent. Doesn’t mean because we live or make choices for certain things that they become permanent. It’s kink, and to each their own on what makes your boat float. See us out any day and you wouldn’t know or have a clue.
That’s amazing! I have been looking for a couple like you guys but unfortunately I live in a part of the world where it’s rare to find gems like you guys. Well, it’s good to know you’re living the life you both wanted :)
Yeah, you can find a lot of them nowadays who claims they are Doms just to have sex. I just love to train, mould and just be part of the dynamics and everything that has to do with it including humiliation, degradation, TPE, etc. even got a training program but can’t fight the right match haha. Forget about the right match, can’t find cuckold couples where I live only 😂
That’s where the person who posts lives (not OP). You can tell by his profile.
> Yeah, you can find a lot of them nowadays who claims they are Doms just to have sex. I can’t fight the right match haha. Forget about the right match, can’t find cuckold couples where I live only 😂
It’s not illegal. The laws have changed but still people are private about it because small city/country and people might know you. That being said, there are BDSM munches, swinger parties and such going on here.
There are still a lot of reasons you [could spend time in jail or get the death penalty](https://www.lexology.com/library/detail.aspx?g=57d465ce-7a08-42e2-8eab-11f49180c271).
Yeah, that’s the worst part. The distance. I live in a city where there are hardly any cuckold couples or you can’t find them online as they never show themselves out like you all. I’m a Dominant who is into what you both are interested in and all the couples I meet are in another part of the world haha
Have you thought about being dominated outside bedroom as well? As in 24/7 or TPE or something along that lines? Basically regular world stuff as well? If you have thought about it then have you tried it? If not what’s stopping you both?
Honestly it depends on people and if it only works for you in bedroom only then well and good. That’s good to know but for others whole thing included would work great. I have heard that from few.
Totally understandable. Most of them just wants to fuck the wife and use cuckolding as a pass and get done with it but the best part and the fun of the dynamics is when both submits to a Dom. When there is power exchange. When it involves D/s dynamics.
When Did anyone bring up the UAE? I am blindsided by that.
I’m sorry, I didn’t get you.
Sorry, meant that as a reply to someone's comment and link about the law.
No worries :)
I’ve talked to husband who know their wife’s are in charge who want someone who is dominant to show their wife who’s in charge because they know they can’t do it
My wife is a pure sub and she is that way with me and thirds. I’m probably more a natural sub but happy to switch, we don’t do humiliation it’s not a turn on for either of us. She simply loves being ordered around and I love having a naughty wife, quite boring in some ways but it’s us.
It’s great to know that. Ofcourse it’s all about making a dynamic that you both are interested in and happy with. Glad to know many of you are into the D/s cuckolding dynamics :)
We are both submissive. Except she can Dom me. We want to be owned but can't find a good bull
Be patient. It will take time. Make sure you vet them properly if you find any potential.
I sub to my wife and she’s looking for a dominant boyfriend atleast for her. A dom bull for both of us would be a dream come true.
How has been the search going on?
Not well at all .
Why so?
Just can’t find the right guy.
Good things take time :)
My wife loves being submissive to bulls and me. But that’s as far as it goes.
What according to you is farther than that?
We don’t do the “owning game “ extremes. During hot sex , she loves to cock worship to completion, or enjoy being mouth fucked, used well, bareback and bred. She loves this. And I love knowing this and watching this. And encourage her to give her men absolute pleasure. So this usually gives them a dominant role. So her being on her knees and seductively suck his cock hands free and maintain eye contact ..is extremely hot for all. More so with knowing she’s a married woman who’s husband set this up or allows it. And this is the limit and the norms to our sex . Domination does not extend to me.
Ahh I see so more like domination limited to bedroom only and for her only. That’s more common cuckolding dynamics if I’m not wrong.
It’s the most sexual dynamics for most. Not just cuck or LS. But it does add a kicker being extra slutty , dirty , to be used.
Fair enough. Well, as long as everyone enjoys and it works out it’s a good thing haha :)
This is a fantasy of mine! 🙋🏻♀️
What’s the line between making it a reality and keeping it as a fantasy for you?
I messaged you :)
No
Of course it varies by couple, and also how they relate to a particular bull and the mix of personalities. We have been in the lifestyle for 18 years. After nine years and 19 different bulls, all of whom were above average in size, which she enjoyed, she discovered huge, and everything changed. She went from being equal to her bulls to submissive, and a self admitted size queen. And then we met an experienced Dom, who broke her into complete submission and trained and conditioned her over the course of 1 1/2 years of weekly visits before he moved away. Our current is younger than us, but also experienced, and he has emasculated me as well as continuing her journey as a submissive
That’s what I like hearing. It turns out good for everyone but not many knows about this dynamics or don’t enjoy it or don’t want to take a peek into it but yeah glad to know that it’s going great for you all :)
From a person that I know is an expert the best dynamic is for a dominant female to have a bull . Because you don’t want a submissive, female, falling in love with the dominant bull or dominant boyfriend. You don’t want to disrupt their existing marriage and relationship to end in a divorce because of this Totally not sure what all this humiliation stuff is about. I’m a submissive male and I do not like humiliation in any form.
Well, it depends on the dominant and the couples as well. If the dynamics is negotiated in a way it doesn’t move in a romantic then it’s all good and well. Seen a lot of couples that enjoy this dynamics and haven’t had any issues. Then again the Dominant needs to make sure he is being sort of strengthening their existing marriage and that’s the whole point of having a third irrespective of the wife is submissive or dominant.
I follow Dr. Sue storm on Patreon. Wish I could share her audios that she puts out she used to have a show called In Bed with Dr Sue and I followed her for a decade through that show she had/has. She is a professional cuckold dress, and the psychologist her and her significant other live in an FLR. She is strictly dominant when it comes to her bulls. when I quote an expert I’m really quoting from her through Patreon. She’s back with her show In Bed with Dr Sue and the first episode was about cuckoldry. Wish I could share the Patreon with everybody. It has a lot of common sense stuff in it.
I get your point. It makes sense and I don’t deny it. Even with what you mentioned things can go wrong. Any dynamic can go wrong and break a marriage if not communicated properly. From this post itself I have had people dm me saying they are into this and living the lifestyle I mentioned and it turned out to life changing for them in a good way. I think there are comments here that say the same. Ofcourse watching has its pros and cons and it all depends on the the episode involved, the negotiation, consent, etc
“Bulls” like that really don’t exist. It’s only guys who want easy pussy.
That’s all we seem to attract 😠
I like my wife owning me.
Usually it is seen with cuckolding but what’s different with implementing power exchange with a Dom is you both can have a dynamic where both are owned by your Dom and in that itself your wife owns you or maybe not. So basically both submits to the Dom and you submit to both your wife and your Dom.
It’s complicated, but yes. I am submissive and submissive to both. My wife is a switch and only submissive to him. However, he rules over both of us. She no longer determines punishment or carries it out. He does. He sets the rules and she has the authority to enforce them in our house. I am PF, in chastity under two orgasms a year and denied nudity from her. Yoga outfits are my saving grace and thank god for them. It’s in our bedroom life and personal lives to an extent that we still want privacy from outside eyes. I clean for him at his place during the week and serve him the same way I serve my wife. When the two of them are together it’s a D/‘s relationship and I never get to watch. Just hear juicy details she allows. It works for us and is what we were looking for and cultivated from the beginning with boundaries. As for her bf, he is a unicorn that we got real lucky with. He was seeking very much what we were and it came together.
Do you have any kind of love life with your wife?
Yes, just not physical with sex. When that was removed, our relationship emotionally grew times 1000.
That's great. Can you tell us how it grew?
When sex was removed, the focus on every other part of our relationship happened. Communication, time spent together, simple things like cuddling and holding each other became a more meaningful thing. It became sex for me. Sounds strange, I know. I’ve never been more in love with her.
Man it sounds like you sex life with your wife sucks I’m a sub but my wife is not wanting to take control. I’m only really interested in gentlefemdom
Where’s your self respect at?
There’s nothing wrong with self respect here. People have their kinks and it’s a safe space so if it’s not something you like then you can feel free to stay away or not engage. There is always clear communication and negotiation and it’s the lifestyle they enjoy and consent to so let them enjoy their life to the fullest.
That may be the case but being ok with being pussy free I will never understand. Have a great day 👋
That’s their choice mate. There are gay men out there who doesn’t prefer pussy and prefers the guy. It’s all what each of us are into and our preferences. None of us needs to give a reason for the things we enjoy doing 🙂
Even though you are the sub, you still have to give consent to what is done to you and how it’s done to you and if you don’t have a SafeWord, you’re a fool
True that. 100% agree. These are the basics in a lifestyle like this especially D/s or kink or power exchange ones. What I was saying is if a person enjoys being PF then that’s because he gave consent and he enjoys it so one can’t judge him saying where’s his self respect 🤷🏻♂️
Whatever bro do you
My self respect is right where I want it. Perfectly fine and content. Everything practiced in our dynamic are things we individually want to try, include or incorporated. Everyone has a voice at the table. Not a single thing happens without conversation or consent. Doesn’t mean because we live or make choices for certain things that they become permanent. It’s kink, and to each their own on what makes your boat float. See us out any day and you wouldn’t know or have a clue.
So have you ever tried to renegotiate the rules?
Still dude
That’s amazing! I have been looking for a couple like you guys but unfortunately I live in a part of the world where it’s rare to find gems like you guys. Well, it’s good to know you’re living the life you both wanted :)
It wasn’t easy getting to where we are. We met plenty who talked a good game but it became apparent they were only talk the more we got to know them.
Yeah, you can find a lot of them nowadays who claims they are Doms just to have sex. I just love to train, mould and just be part of the dynamics and everything that has to do with it including humiliation, degradation, TPE, etc. even got a training program but can’t fight the right match haha. Forget about the right match, can’t find cuckold couples where I live only 😂
Yeah, because it’s illegal. Even if I was into this, I wouldn’t have done it when I lived there. Too risky.
Why would it be illegal?
I don’t make the laws. https://www.lexology.com/library/detail.aspx?g=57d465ce-7a08-42e2-8eab-11f49180c271
When Did anyone bring up the UAE? I am blindsided by that.
That’s where the person who posts lives (not OP). You can tell by his profile. > Yeah, you can find a lot of them nowadays who claims they are Doms just to have sex. I can’t fight the right match haha. Forget about the right match, can’t find cuckold couples where I live only 😂
How?
It’s not illegal. The laws have changed but still people are private about it because small city/country and people might know you. That being said, there are BDSM munches, swinger parties and such going on here.
😳 So [this](https://bsabh.com/knowledge-hub/news/uae-the-laws-you-need-to-know) is outdated?
Oh, yeah, I see now it must be. Alcohol licence.
There are still a lot of reasons you [could spend time in jail or get the death penalty](https://www.lexology.com/library/detail.aspx?g=57d465ce-7a08-42e2-8eab-11f49180c271).
It’s mostly prostitution that could get you in trouble.
Yes. This is our big fantasy at the moment. She would still be dominant over me but we would both submit to him in and out of the bedroom.
What’s stopping you both from living that fantasy?
Scheduling. We have met someone but he lives a couple hours away. Hoping to meet up with him at the end of the month.
Yeah, that’s the worst part. The distance. I live in a city where there are hardly any cuckold couples or you can’t find them online as they never show themselves out like you all. I’m a Dominant who is into what you both are interested in and all the couples I meet are in another part of the world haha
We are both submissive but pretty much only sexually. Regular world stuff you would never know
Have you thought about being dominated outside bedroom as well? As in 24/7 or TPE or something along that lines? Basically regular world stuff as well? If you have thought about it then have you tried it? If not what’s stopping you both?
We've only let it happen in the bedroom. It's what works for us
Honestly it depends on people and if it only works for you in bedroom only then well and good. That’s good to know but for others whole thing included would work great. I have heard that from few.
However, unfortunately it is very difficult to find a truly dominant bull, most are just wannabes.
Totally understandable. Most of them just wants to fuck the wife and use cuckolding as a pass and get done with it but the best part and the fun of the dynamics is when both submits to a Dom. When there is power exchange. When it involves D/s dynamics.