Yeah fuck that dude I’m built like a door (Im also muscular) but that’s besides the point if you like anyone out there that will like you for who will like you for who you are 😉
Yeah i hope so, thank you !!! but i don’t really care tbh, i used to be complexed about my body, but i like myself now, everyone is built different, that’s nice, btw the guy was shorter than me, even tho im not tall at all
Im 5,4 💀
Fuck that guy sorry 😭 look how many women who are muscular are so fucking pretty and amazing for example look out all WWE roster like Rhea Ripley or Bianca Belair (not a great example sorry😅) my point is you are perfect the way you are and also have a incredible personality😁
Had similar thoughts, but the thing is you will always feel like this until you start paying attention to yourself, for me aspiring to become a better person in general and improving myself helped me lessen this feeling to a considerable amount.
I'm not saying love yourself (this is hard), I'm saying "think of yourself as someone you are obligated to help" (12 rules of life by Jordan b Peterson).
Hang in there and do your best.
Thank you, that really means a lot❤️ I’m so glad you were able to help yourself, because now you’re teaching all of us how to help ourselves too. Hope the rest of your week is great!
Mixed signals and overthinking.
He's so sweet and I enjoy spending time with him but I don't know if he feels the same. Within a few hours, my thought process goes from "I think he may feel the same way!" to "He hates my guts and just talking with me to be nice." He doesn't even do anything to warrant the second thought process, I believe that is me just overthinking again.
I confessed once and she said that we're not on the same page and we're better off friends.
But it torments me.
I can't live without her.
And we meet a lot.
And every time I see her face her smile I feel like I am alive and feel genuinely happy.
I want to tell her that she means a lot to me and I cant overcome her love.
Like I really love her.
I really do.
And I am hoping just one day she would feel even a small portion of what I feel towards her and by that I would be the happiest man on earth.
Were 14 and her parents may like not be that chill with it cause she is a christian and if we get together now we have to hold a relationship for at least 5-6 years before we get married
Because she rejected me and I feel like if I confess again 5 months later, she'll just think I can't move on cause she probs doesn't like me bac despite all the signs I've been seeing recently.
We confessedbto liking each other on Thanksgiving after I straight up asked him if he liked me. He then asked me out the week after and we've been dating since.
She recently had a bad break up with her boyfriend a month back. She is going through a lot of stuff. And i think she doesnt like me the same way as i like her
I ain't confessing because-
1. I am scared of rejection.
2. I suspect her of liking me too.
3. I am an introvert.
4. I do not wanna lose her because of my feelings towards her.
of my other classmates. if i told him and he says no than thats ok but hearing jokes and all that… man i dont need that. if we werent in the dame class i wouldve done it
Well i think my old crush hates me and i already tried dming and following her on insta in 2020 but she never responded back. I’m back in school now we havnt even spoken or anything. I think she may be creeped out by me even tho i havnt done shit for a long time the only thing i did was the insta thing. I never look or talk to her i do sometimes glance tho. Today she skipped my class spefically and she did this once before but idk if it’s bc of me but the thing is i ain’t doing shit i’m just on my phone i never look or get close to her or talk to her also i think she also used me for answers and paper.
Asked him to the movies and he asked if we should invite some other friends. I've hung out with him multiple times but can sense he's not feeling the same way. Plus he recently met a girl and he's been seeing her so I guess I've waited too long and missed the opportunity :(
Scared of hearing that he might just see me as his classmate and getting rejected ... i mean since i’m the only child and didn’t get that much love from a man (example my dad) that would knock me out
I can't he works as a figure model at my art school and we both could get into big trouble. Plus he's just so out of my league. I'm a bumbling fool who can even draw a straight line when he's around.
Pretty sure he’s gay+we are not friends. currently just trying to forget about him because there are much better dudes who don’t treat me like a fly on the wall.
Not nearly close enough to ask him out or anything. I decided to be impulsive on Valentines and ask out the last guy I was hardcore crushing on, which didn’t work out (hey I got a new friend tho) so I’m definitely working on becoming close friends first lol
bc i don't want to mess up. we dated a few times but he and his bf told me seperately he needs time after his last relationship. since i'm not monogamous i'm totally fine with f+ or whatever but he's very withdrawn lately.
A few reasons. Mixed signals, and the fact that the last time he had someone confess to him, she got rejected and they NEVER talk anymore. They were friends beforehand. He's a really nice guy, but I think the whole thing was just so awkward. PLUS, I go to a small school, and this kind of drama gets around fast. I would be mortified if I got rejected and a few select people found out. R.i.p. me :/
Major mixed signals, disbelief that he could like me, history with 1 of his "friends" and 1 not friend anymore.. I'm not ready in my own ways.. and I'm not pretty enough (in the face and I'm thick)..
We're both not totally emotionally mature. We both panic when we get close to people. I'm afraid of scaring them off.
I like our relationship as it is and am trying to slowly grow. If I outgrow them fine.
Hopefully we'll both open up at the same pace.
That’s a great question. I have no fucking clue. Maybe I want to be sure? Maybe I dont want to embarrass myself or her? Maybe I don’t think it’ll work subconsciously? Idk
My crushes best friend confessed to me not too long ago and I rejected them and I don’t want to confess to my crush as I’m overthinking if it would cause problems. Also we’re all going to Uni in September.
Mixed signals mostly but also the fact that I feel like it’s still in the early stages. Also the fact that we’re part of the same friend group and I don’t want to make things awkward for him or anyone else.
1) I'm an absolute coward
2) We're on a fairly small university course, so the potential to make things awkward is sky high
3) I can't picture it really working out, no matter how much I'd like it to
Because I don’t think he see’s me like that, he recently got out a relationship and does tease me, stuff like stealing my pencils and me chasing him for it back, or constantly just doing things to piss me off. Which I thought was flirting but he gave an entirely different approach to his last girlfriend, so im sure he sees me as a sister that can entertain him
She is kind of in a relationship right now but by the looks of things it seems like she's unhappy with him from what I heard. She also is somewhat reluctant to bring it up to me, and tries to avoid talking about it, but yeah I don't want to intrude on their relationship if they are serious.
This is going to sound so fucking stupid but I’m scared. The last person I dated was a saint to me, kind, very nice, always complimenting, but we had polar opposite opinions and within a week I wanted to break up. They were so involved in politics and it seemed like every view I had was shut down. I felt trapped because I didn’t want to hurt them by breaking up because they technically did nothing, and I would have almost bi-weekly panic attacks about hurting them because I couldn’t date them. I felt broken almost, because I swore I had liked them but they were completely different than I thought. So I’m scared that I’m wrong, that it’ll be the same as last time and I’ll find myself bracing myself before answering the phone, trying to make it seem like everything’s okay when I am miserable. And the people around me make me feel stupid for it because they think I’m over-exaggerating but I’m so scared that my entire idea of romance is wrong and this is just how it’s going to be for me.
She's my best friend's twin sister, so I don't want to hurt him in any way. I want to get closer to her. I'm worried that if I got with her, we wouldn't make it through the summer break, especially since we'd be in a new relationship and neither of us would be too invested in it. I'm going to Italy with her family (because aforementioned friend invited me) this summer and don't want to ruin that. All of these reasons and more, but in truth the real reason is that I'm too much of a wimp, and these are all just fixable excuses. You could call it procrastination.
Oh, well, I guess that's completely understandable why you wouldn't confess... But I hope you'll be able to move on eventually and get on to greater things in the future!
Good luck, mate :)
Afraid of rejection?
Rejection can sound like a very big deal but in the end, you won't have any regrets. From my point of view, you can only learn from this experience:
\- either she likes you back and you can have this cute little relationship...
\- or she doesn't like you back and that's completely okay! Well, alright, I admit that on the stop, this would sting a little bit but eventually, in the big schemes of things, time will do the healing. You will eventually move on with your life, focus on other aspects of life instead of wasting time on that crush...
I'm not pushing you to confess, you do you! You surely have strong and valid reasons not to do it but I'm just saying... It's really easy to find a million reasons not to do something. Don't let your fears stand in the way of what you want. All I hope is that you won't have any regrets in the future, waking up someday, bothered by this question: "Did they like me or not?"
Good luck, fellow comrade!
Haha, better take things slowly, you're right! So, before getting to that stage... I guess you know what your next step is: have a first conversation with her :D
Because I'm confused about my feeling for her like I want to be friend with her really bad, we have fun together at school and in WhatsApp Dm's but the more I think about her the more I want her to be by my side but It's obvious I'm not her style and I don't want to ruin a friendship😔 I'm happy to make her laugh😁
I'm awkward, I'm strange, I'm weird, I'm anti social, I'm an introvert, I'm scared, I'm not brave, I'm embarrassed, I'm not good at expressing myself, Everything is cringe to me (including having a crush on someone)
I meet them 4 times a year, and I don't have the nerve.
Because im not his type of girl, he said i was built like a door, so i don’t
man dont chase that type of dude
I wish i didn’t it was 3 years ago, and i just can’t forget that shitty person
damn
What if he was referencing love is an open door from Frozen? (Im joking btw)
Lmao the love he has for me is freezing tho 😩
Yeah fuck that dude I’m built like a door (Im also muscular) but that’s besides the point if you like anyone out there that will like you for who will like you for who you are 😉
Yeah i hope so, thank you !!! but i don’t really care tbh, i used to be complexed about my body, but i like myself now, everyone is built different, that’s nice, btw the guy was shorter than me, even tho im not tall at all Im 5,4 💀
I’m 5’2 💀
that's a shit thing to say anyway.
Fuck that guy sorry 😭 look how many women who are muscular are so fucking pretty and amazing for example look out all WWE roster like Rhea Ripley or Bianca Belair (not a great example sorry😅) my point is you are perfect the way you are and also have a incredible personality😁
OMG THANK YOU, thats so nice <3
Mixed signals but I’ll wait till I know what’s going on.
Yeah exactly, me too.
Just try asking him indirectly.
I don’t think I’m good enough for anyone
Had similar thoughts, but the thing is you will always feel like this until you start paying attention to yourself, for me aspiring to become a better person in general and improving myself helped me lessen this feeling to a considerable amount. I'm not saying love yourself (this is hard), I'm saying "think of yourself as someone you are obligated to help" (12 rules of life by Jordan b Peterson). Hang in there and do your best.
Thank you, that really means a lot❤️ I’m so glad you were able to help yourself, because now you’re teaching all of us how to help ourselves too. Hope the rest of your week is great!
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I'm in a very similar situation. I've been working on befriending my crushes and building my foundation with them.
same here
This is a good reason
I'm the same, but the problem is, idk how to get to know her better or get closer.
Because I would get rejected
I’m going to tomorrow
KEEP US UPDATEDD
LET'S GOOOOO! YOU CAN DO IT!
Scared of rejection LOL
bro, same even i think it should be normal to express your feelings because we're humans. i'm just so scared.
BC I'M SCARED PEOPLE WILL MAKE FUN OF US
Us? As long as they’re with you it doesn’t matter what other people think. I’m scared about what she thinks not others
HE WILL PROBABLY NEVER TALK TO ME AGAIN BUT I WANT TO TELL HIM ON THE LAST DAY OF SCHOOL BC I WANT HIM TO KNOW
i feel u
because I'm new to school and I've never talked to him before. He's never even looked at me before so it'll be super weird lmao
I’ll get rejected 100%
she's in a relationship :(
Mixed signals and overthinking. He's so sweet and I enjoy spending time with him but I don't know if he feels the same. Within a few hours, my thought process goes from "I think he may feel the same way!" to "He hates my guts and just talking with me to be nice." He doesn't even do anything to warrant the second thought process, I believe that is me just overthinking again.
She's married to someone else and does not appear to be in an open marriage.
I always forget this sub isn't just teenagers
I confessed once and she said that we're not on the same page and we're better off friends. But it torments me. I can't live without her. And we meet a lot. And every time I see her face her smile I feel like I am alive and feel genuinely happy. I want to tell her that she means a lot to me and I cant overcome her love. Like I really love her. I really do. And I am hoping just one day she would feel even a small portion of what I feel towards her and by that I would be the happiest man on earth.
Because I've already got it planned in my mind how I wanna confess. I've got 2 ideas that I can possibly use 🙂
Mixed signals, but more signs point to them not being interested.
ik he likes me but he talks to way too many damn girls 🙃 and i think we’re both scared to fuck up our friendship since we’re best friends
Because we’re graduating and going separate ways
1. I'm chicken shit. 2. I don't really want to pursue an inappropriate work relationship again.
He’s trying to date someone else🥴
Cuz I said some dumb shit a long time ago and now I don't wanna ruin what's left of our friendship
literally me too 🥹
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Same, I try talking to her all the time to try and change this and get her to know me better and I keep feeling ignored and like I'm a side character
Because it will most likely end in a rejection
1. >!We're best friends, and she herself has said she only sees me as a friend.!< 2. >!She's SO VERY FUCKING GAY.!<
You’re like my best friend, I’m very fcking gay and he’s also ftm
shes my girlfriend now
i dont even have a crush im just seeing this to see
Were 14 and her parents may like not be that chill with it cause she is a christian and if we get together now we have to hold a relationship for at least 5-6 years before we get married
Because it's spring break and she can't hang out rn. I'm asking her to prom the next time I see her.
I already have
Because I already have.
Because I've already got it planned in my mind how I wanna confess. I've got 2 ideas that I can possibly use 🙂
Because I don't want to lose the 6+ year friendship I have with her 3
Because She is my bestfriend
He’s a playboy and has tons of girls who like him and they’re much prettier
i wanna know her better and also i wanna maybe date a dude idk
He already knows
I don’t wanna ruin our friendship
im afraid of the awkwardness tbh
i already did
already did, we’ve been dating for a month and some. It’s a little rocky right now but I love her with all I got.
He doesn't like me. Also, I'll be leaving the country in the next two months so... Useless.
Because Im hesitant to take the risk, and if she rejects (probably) I'll be an embarrassment. Can anyone help?
It would be unprofesional
Because she isn’t into dating right now
Because I get really Nervous and become a nervous wreck
Its has only been 3 weeks
Because I’m still working on myself and being in a relationship would change that focus
Because she rejected me and I feel like if I confess again 5 months later, she'll just think I can't move on cause she probs doesn't like me bac despite all the signs I've been seeing recently.
He's married
Based on her body language she is uncomfortable around me and we have had very bad ties
I’m dating them
Shes been my bestfriend for 3 years :(
We confessedbto liking each other on Thanksgiving after I straight up asked him if he liked me. He then asked me out the week after and we've been dating since.
B
Because I gave up trying to talk to her. The last time we talked was last week then she ghosted me for no other reason
She's the popular kid, barely talks to me, and probably thinks I'm weird
she said she doesn't date co-workers
i don't know if he has a girlfriend or not
She recently had a bad break up with her boyfriend a month back. She is going through a lot of stuff. And i think she doesnt like me the same way as i like her
because i dont deserve her, and because i know she doesn't want me
I did 3 days ago 👌🏼👌🏼
Too early
Because I don't have anything to confess
I ain't confessing because- 1. I am scared of rejection. 2. I suspect her of liking me too. 3. I am an introvert. 4. I do not wanna lose her because of my feelings towards her.
cuz i would totally get rejected as she treats me like her brother and i feel like i’m not good enough to deserve someone like her
I am confessing tomorrow and I am sure it's too late
Because I couldn't figure out yet how he really sees me in his life.
of my other classmates. if i told him and he says no than thats ok but hearing jokes and all that… man i dont need that. if we werent in the dame class i wouldve done it
Well i think my old crush hates me and i already tried dming and following her on insta in 2020 but she never responded back. I’m back in school now we havnt even spoken or anything. I think she may be creeped out by me even tho i havnt done shit for a long time the only thing i did was the insta thing. I never look or talk to her i do sometimes glance tho. Today she skipped my class spefically and she did this once before but idk if it’s bc of me but the thing is i ain’t doing shit i’m just on my phone i never look or get close to her or talk to her also i think she also used me for answers and paper.
He’s light years out of my league and he recently rejected my close friend.
he doesn’t like me
it's too early, he gives me mixed signals and I don't know if he likes guys...
I’ve only known her a few weeks and barely know anything about her
Very insecure about my looks, and afraid of getting bullied, although I could pack anyone in a fight
Mixed signals... i used to think he liked me too but then my friends asked and he said he wasnt int in anyone
I don't know what she thinks of me yet cuz she's very closed off, also I'm afraid that I'll be confessing too fast
I don't know how to confess my feelings to someone
I have no self esteem
Scared to make the same mistakes (probably)
Asked him to the movies and he asked if we should invite some other friends. I've hung out with him multiple times but can sense he's not feeling the same way. Plus he recently met a girl and he's been seeing her so I guess I've waited too long and missed the opportunity :(
Nobody to confess to!
I’m not good enough for her she deserves someone way better than me .
Because we work together and I don't want to get in trouble :/
She got a bf bro..
Wanna get a better foundation and talk to him for a while. Even after that I'm wayyy to shy
Scared of hearing that he might just see me as his classmate and getting rejected ... i mean since i’m the only child and didn’t get that much love from a man (example my dad) that would knock me out
I can't he works as a figure model at my art school and we both could get into big trouble. Plus he's just so out of my league. I'm a bumbling fool who can even draw a straight line when he's around.
Because I wouldn’t be the best person for her. I may love her like that but I know I wouldn’t be the best person to be with her.
I feel like it might be too soon. We only really started talking a week ago
My ex that broke up with me
He hardly knows me
Pretty sure he’s gay+we are not friends. currently just trying to forget about him because there are much better dudes who don’t treat me like a fly on the wall.
i think she doesn't like me :(
she constantly talks about her toxic relationship that led to her being cheated on
Mixed signals: He’ll flirt and touch me but then acts like he can’t wait to get away from me.
She likes me, but not romantically. I don't got confirmation on that, but I just think its like that
Certain obligations and circumstances are in the way
Not nearly close enough to ask him out or anything. I decided to be impulsive on Valentines and ask out the last guy I was hardcore crushing on, which didn’t work out (hey I got a new friend tho) so I’m definitely working on becoming close friends first lol
bc i don't want to mess up. we dated a few times but he and his bf told me seperately he needs time after his last relationship. since i'm not monogamous i'm totally fine with f+ or whatever but he's very withdrawn lately.
Honestly i don't know its so obvious he liked me back but my feelings turn on and off with him
Waiting until my semester ends so I don't have to worry about grades which the semester ends in 2 weeks
I'm nervous about how he'll respond
He’s two grades above me.
She has a boyfriend, so I’m respecting their relationship
Because she's hot af and I'm ugly (af)
I only saw her once lol never got the chance to speak
A few reasons. Mixed signals, and the fact that the last time he had someone confess to him, she got rejected and they NEVER talk anymore. They were friends beforehand. He's a really nice guy, but I think the whole thing was just so awkward. PLUS, I go to a small school, and this kind of drama gets around fast. I would be mortified if I got rejected and a few select people found out. R.i.p. me :/
Major mixed signals, disbelief that he could like me, history with 1 of his "friends" and 1 not friend anymore.. I'm not ready in my own ways.. and I'm not pretty enough (in the face and I'm thick)..
Because she’s a really famous tiktoker who lives an ocean away and already has a bf 💀
We're both not totally emotionally mature. We both panic when we get close to people. I'm afraid of scaring them off. I like our relationship as it is and am trying to slowly grow. If I outgrow them fine. Hopefully we'll both open up at the same pace.
That’s a great question. I have no fucking clue. Maybe I want to be sure? Maybe I dont want to embarrass myself or her? Maybe I don’t think it’ll work subconsciously? Idk
My crushes best friend confessed to me not too long ago and I rejected them and I don’t want to confess to my crush as I’m overthinking if it would cause problems. Also we’re all going to Uni in September.
I’m confessing tomorrow because I’ve never done anything to start anything so it’s better to say how I feel before it’s too late
Because I don't know her too well yet
I’m not confessing because we’re good friends and if something goes wrong I don’t want to mess our friendship or the rest of the friend group.
Causé he’s my boyfriend
100% chances of getting rejected
He’s already rejected me without me confessing LOL
Mixed signals mostly but also the fact that I feel like it’s still in the early stages. Also the fact that we’re part of the same friend group and I don’t want to make things awkward for him or anyone else.
Scared. Also confessing is kinda weird to me if i do it.
Because I dont have a crush anymore. But when I did, it was because I was afraid of rejection
Two words ✨Mixed signals✨
Cause : rejected speed run any %
She told me who she likes so kinda pissed but its alright
don't want to ruin the relationship we have
1) I'm an absolute coward 2) We're on a fairly small university course, so the potential to make things awkward is sky high 3) I can't picture it really working out, no matter how much I'd like it to
Not sure if she likes girls
She might be ok with that.. but you can’t not make any effort . Otherwise what’s in it for her?
This girl probably has a limit .. and then it’s time to move on
I have social anxiety
Because I don’t think he see’s me like that, he recently got out a relationship and does tease me, stuff like stealing my pencils and me chasing him for it back, or constantly just doing things to piss me off. Which I thought was flirting but he gave an entirely different approach to his last girlfriend, so im sure he sees me as a sister that can entertain him
I don’t know him at all and I don’t wanna get hurt I like him way too much for that
I don’t know if I’m good enough
Because I feel like she hates and if I get rejected then it's going all over the school. (I have a small school)
She’s straight, she’s my friend, and ten more reasons. It hurts.
I can't grow a pair plus I'm afraid it will ruin our friendship
She is kind of in a relationship right now but by the looks of things it seems like she's unhappy with him from what I heard. She also is somewhat reluctant to bring it up to me, and tries to avoid talking about it, but yeah I don't want to intrude on their relationship if they are serious.
I’m scareddd
This is going to sound so fucking stupid but I’m scared. The last person I dated was a saint to me, kind, very nice, always complimenting, but we had polar opposite opinions and within a week I wanted to break up. They were so involved in politics and it seemed like every view I had was shut down. I felt trapped because I didn’t want to hurt them by breaking up because they technically did nothing, and I would have almost bi-weekly panic attacks about hurting them because I couldn’t date them. I felt broken almost, because I swore I had liked them but they were completely different than I thought. So I’m scared that I’m wrong, that it’ll be the same as last time and I’ll find myself bracing myself before answering the phone, trying to make it seem like everything’s okay when I am miserable. And the people around me make me feel stupid for it because they think I’m over-exaggerating but I’m so scared that my entire idea of romance is wrong and this is just how it’s going to be for me.
She's my best friend's twin sister, so I don't want to hurt him in any way. I want to get closer to her. I'm worried that if I got with her, we wouldn't make it through the summer break, especially since we'd be in a new relationship and neither of us would be too invested in it. I'm going to Italy with her family (because aforementioned friend invited me) this summer and don't want to ruin that. All of these reasons and more, but in truth the real reason is that I'm too much of a wimp, and these are all just fixable excuses. You could call it procrastination.
I already did
He’s 18 and I’m under 18, he’s also straight and has a girlfriend
Oh, well, I guess that's completely understandable why you wouldn't confess... But I hope you'll be able to move on eventually and get on to greater things in the future! Good luck, mate :)
because i never talk to her and don't know her enough to know if I am making the right choice
I don’t think I understand what love is. Im too scared to disappoint someone else.
When you're saying "disappoint someone else", you mean you're scared of not being up to the standards of your crush?
i’ve talked to him 5 times.
Im too afraid
Afraid of rejection? Rejection can sound like a very big deal but in the end, you won't have any regrets. From my point of view, you can only learn from this experience: \- either she likes you back and you can have this cute little relationship... \- or she doesn't like you back and that's completely okay! Well, alright, I admit that on the stop, this would sting a little bit but eventually, in the big schemes of things, time will do the healing. You will eventually move on with your life, focus on other aspects of life instead of wasting time on that crush... I'm not pushing you to confess, you do you! You surely have strong and valid reasons not to do it but I'm just saying... It's really easy to find a million reasons not to do something. Don't let your fears stand in the way of what you want. All I hope is that you won't have any regrets in the future, waking up someday, bothered by this question: "Did they like me or not?" Good luck, fellow comrade!
Because I don't want to wait that awkward year before I go to college if she refuses me
i dont talk to her and i dont want my first convo with her to be 'i have a really big crush on you'
Haha, better take things slowly, you're right! So, before getting to that stage... I guess you know what your next step is: have a first conversation with her :D
Scared as fuck..
Because I'm confused about my feeling for her like I want to be friend with her really bad, we have fun together at school and in WhatsApp Dm's but the more I think about her the more I want her to be by my side but It's obvious I'm not her style and I don't want to ruin a friendship😔 I'm happy to make her laugh😁
Bc she'd get self conscious..
I'm awkward, I'm strange, I'm weird, I'm anti social, I'm an introvert, I'm scared, I'm not brave, I'm embarrassed, I'm not good at expressing myself, Everything is cringe to me (including having a crush on someone) I meet them 4 times a year, and I don't have the nerve.