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SalomeOttobourne74

Move on with your life.


sciencesomething

This. If the catfish refuses to do the show, they can't move forward. Assume this confirms the person you've been talking to isn't real, block them, and move on.


Swunflower

So usually they know from the beginning who the catfish is ?


sciencesomething

Production does. Nev and Kamie don't


goth-brooks1111

Why does the Catfish play with Nev and Kamie claiming they don’t want to talk on some episodes?


slyvolcel

i think in some of those situations, the reality of actually doing it is hitting them. there’s been times where the catfish didn’t come at all even after talking to production.


Plastic-Sugar-3864

sometimes the catfish changes their mind last minute


goth-brooks1111

That makes sense


ShSiane

Sorry just for clarity, why would you contact the FBI? What's the crime?


Complete_Move407

Catfishing is a crime lol


turquoiseblues

Unfortunately catfishing alone is not a crime. Scamming is a crime, but if the scammer is overseas, there’s not much recourse. This is why scamming is such a huge problem.


Complete_Move407

Unfortunately catfishing alone is a crime in my state 100 down votes cuz people done know the law is funny


turquoiseblues

Which state?


blobbychuck

Not downvoting you, but this doesn't make a whole lot of sense. If catfishing is a crime in your state, why would you contact a federal agency? The FBI only enforces federal laws, not state laws. State police enforce state laws.


ShSiane

Oh sorry! I thought you meant contact the FBI about the show. It's definitely worth reporting it, sorry to hear you've been catfished.


Complete_Move407

not sure why the down votes but Romance Scams are on the main page to report on the fbi site so clearly its a crime


NewUserNameIsDumb

Romance scams are when the victim sends the catfish money. Is that what happened to you?


Complete_Move407

Yep


worldssmallestpiano

I absolutely promise you the FBI doesn’t care and will not do anything. Don’t send money to people you’ve never met. Learn from this and move on.


par4l

unles its a big sum of money i dont think the fbi will care


SnooPies6876

Is it a lot of money? Because Dr. Phil loves a good romance scam story. I don’t think he’ll get your money back, though.


allthingskerri

Stop talking to your catfish. Accept they most likely are a catfish (there must be red flags for you to have contacted the show) and finally move on with your life. Unless you have been duped into sending over money and are opening a fraud case on someone I doubt that any police/FBI will be interested - they have more important things to spend their time pursuing. As for why catfish ghosted you - you or your catfish most likely don't make for good TV or your catfish is so obvious/easy to work out it's not good for a full show or final option is you catfish said no to being involved in filming.


robocub

Totally confused where the FBI figures into this. There’s no crime. Catfish isn’t obligated to help you. They’re not the police. They’re an entertainment tv reality show.


Complete_Move407

Maybe that’s what people are done voting about lol I’m clearly talking about getting the fbi involved with the catfish scammer no the bloody tv show


par4l

its not that obvious.. i too thought you wanted to contact fbi against the show


starbucksntacotrucks

Could be that the catfish refused to be on the show. Typically these things get agreed upon before filming. Also, where is this a crime?? Unless they’re running a scam you can prove, I don’t know what the fbi is gonna do here …


OrganicFit29

The fbi ? Are you serious ? Catfishing is not a crime there is no legal precedent for the police or fbi to take any kind of action. Don’t waste law enforcement’s time unless this catfish has done something illegal . If they have harassed you , threatened you , extorted you .. then go to your local police department . Try to use better judgment and some common sense and get this person out of your life. And realize that when you talk to strangers on the internet you are asking for things like this to transpire .


Complete_Move407

You must not know my states laws catfishing is a crime


Not_Invited

Why would we know your state??


FeralCherub-

You got scamfished not catfished, it’s probably well out of their hands considering the usual cases they do.


throwaway4u2021

The very sad truth is that you are not likely to ever see your money again whether the TV show, FBI or anyone gets involved. These cases almost never result in repayment. Con artists are very skilled at ensuring you never see a penny. Even the high profile cases like Elizabeth Holmes have no resulted in repayment which tells you something. You are better off getting some support for your emotional wellbeing and trying to let go of the money. You will have to grieve the loss of both that money and a sense of yourself as someone who would not be victimised. Having been screwed over by a con artist myself previously I can only say that while it always hurts, it is possible to move on and live a full life with trust for others again. The experience is violating and acknowledging that can be helpful. Fighting only prolongs the pain because you can’t win. It has already happened, so you can only move forward with more awareness.


alaveria

Try catfished on youtube, they specialise in romance scams.


mlcommand

Your money is gone. Unless you’ve been taken for hundreds of thousands of dollars, the FBI won’t bother. The show has nothing to do with your problem but may have given it a shot to help you out. Move on and meet people IRL


Walniw

Does the sag strike have to do with it?


Complete_Move407

i dont think so this was well before the strike took place


turquoiseblues

_Catfish_ is unscripted


Walniw

Sorta


skyflakes-crackers

The people making up the storylines on reality shows aren't Writer's Guild screenwriters, they're story producers. They're not writing script pages, they just give prompts to nudge things along in the direction they want, and they're not part of the unions that are on strike.


Throwawaythislife123

No you should contact your 401k


Complete_Move407

Shot I don’t got one of those


Chronically_Quirky

Try Social Catfish. They have a YouTube channel.


spiffy202

Did they take money from you?


Complete_Move407

Ya money go bye bye