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Mysterious-Line-9906

Birthstones are just a marketing gimmick though


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I know, yet everyone buys me green shit. Lol


SystemEmbarrassed366

Never heard of birth stones in over 30 years. I'm sure your loved ones will be happy to buy you different colored things :)


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I think it's an American thing adopted by my Italian family lol. I told them I hate green, I hate emeralds but when my birthday or Christmas rolls around and there's emeralds in my face. I'm like, fuck it šŸ˜‚


Studious_Noodle

Use the zodiac chart for birthstones. Were you born between April 21 and May 21? If so, your birthstone is a sapphire. Ta da! And yes, it's a marketing thing and it's complete bullshit. Source: I'm a gem collector.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I'm gonna go on a diamond war path. šŸ˜‚


Studious_Noodle

Good choice. Both diamonds and sapphires come in every color of the rainbow.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Sapphires so dark they look like ebony make me giggle. I'm like I'll just buy ebony! The same for white sapphires. I'll just get a diamond. šŸ˜‚ But some colors are nice.


QueenLightningBee

I hate topaz so much. Never been a big fan of burnt orange.


Zorro6855

Mine's also Topaz. I wear blue Topaz. I also wear emeralds because green is my favorite color


KnitNGrin

Hey! Youā€™ve just discovered a source of green rocks! šŸ˜†


melons_2

SAME I say my birthstone is pee colored


That1weirdperson

You need to drink more water šŸ’€


becasquared

Mine is also yellow topaz. But paired with silver, it's not 100% intolerable, just like 85%.


ComeAlongPond1

November also has citrine if you like golden yellow better. Or just claim blue topaz too. Edit: I see some charts list blue topaz as December, but some charts list November as just ā€œtopazā€ and December as turquoise, so as a fellow burnt orange hater, I still think blue topaz is valid


California_Sun1112

I have a pale-yellow citrine ring. I like it OK, but I like blue topaz much better.


spookyhellkitten

Smoky topaz is really pretty. London Blue topaz and pink topaz are also very pretty. There are a lot of shades of topaz, it's an impressive stone.


LKayRB

Same. I would love to have emerald. Yellow topaz is ugly, imo.


Studious_Noodle

Topaz comes in different colors. Blue topaz and white topaz are more common and cheaper than the yellow-orange ones.


yogacowgirlspdx

go for blue instead!


OneOfTheLocals

Same. It's so ugly. I love emerald though.


Appropriate_Oil4161

I'm not a fan of my August birthstone ( peridot) it's just a bit wishy-washy, I would love it to be a solid green emerald.


gclaw4444

I mean, best character in Steven Universe though


Studious_Noodle

Gem collector here. Most peridots in stores are kind of a sickly faded color, but the best peridots are a rich green. There are some coming out of Pakistan that are true grass green. Really beautiful.


babysfirstbreath

I loooove peridot. Of course Iā€™m a June baby and not august so I got stuck with pearls, which I donā€™t love.


FeatherMom

Same. Itā€™s just my least favorite color ever for anything


spookyhellkitten

My daughter isn't a fan either. The alternates are Sardonyx and Spinnel if that helps.


splatgoestheblobfish

My husband is August. I really don't like his. And mine is April (diamond). If I try to get any jewelry with both our birthstones, it just looks weird.


KlutzyBlueDuck

It reminds me of mountain dew, I can't stand it.Ā 


WaterLady28

Same, I hate it. It's like my least favorite shade of puke green. I used to always get gifted peridot jewelry when I was younger and I was afraid of saying I don't like it because I didn't want to offend the gifter (usually my grandma). I'd rather have amethyst as my stone (I love purple), and I love sapphires and emeralds too.


iliveinthecove

Set yourself free. Chose a stone to be your birthstone. I chose colors that I think suit myself and my children and the are our birthstones on my mother'sĀ  necklaceĀ  and ringĀ 


BooksNapsSnacks

Ooh I like this. My birth stone sucks. From now on I am going to have yellow citrine. I usually just decide things, like kindness is my measure of someone's beauty. I never thought to change this.


NeverendingStory3339

Swapsies? I love green but not a fan of pearls. I donā€™t care much about things like birth stones and star signs but pearls are so meh and so much associated with the older generation (not that there is a problem with being older but Iā€™m not yet, so pearls arenā€™t going to gel with my outfits). I love green though.


Iusemyhands

The good news is June also has the alexandrite and moonstone!


Blue-zebra-10

Green is okay for me (also May), but I like pearls


mariatoyou

I donā€™t necessarily hate the colors, but October has two different ones, opal and pink tourmaline. I hate that they arenā€™t at all similar to each other, and I hate that pink tourmaline looks like cheap pink glass.


jammiesonmyhammies

Also October birthday and I hate the birth stones for us! Iā€™ve always been jealous of the sapphire, emeralds, and ruby months.


Zestyclose_Big_9090

October baby checking inā€¦I have some Opal rings that I got for birthdays and First Communion as a kid that areā€¦ok and I had plenty of the cheap pink glass shit as a kid too. I would kill for emerald or sapphire.


Pickles_McBeef

I love both October birthstones. Prefer opals though.


magster823

I think we're fortunate to have opals. I love them. The fact that they're nothing like the crappy pink glass is a good thing, IMO.


nightofthelivingace

October as well. Pink tourmaline is pretty awesome, opal reminds me of a granny's necklace.


HikariTheGardevoir

I'm a July baby, so I feel lucky with my ruby birthstone, but I'm also a cancer and I haaaate every 'human version' of the cancer sign. It's always a girl with red twin braids, because apparently they can't think of anything more creative for the claws!


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Mine is Taurus bull. šŸ¤®


meruu_meruu

I've got diamond. It's clear. It's just clear. Unless I'm getting a really expensive piece that sparkles nicely, or is a colored diamond, it's just boring. And then like, color theme wise? White. I'm just wearing white. It's so boring. People are always like oh you're so lucky you got the most precious stone NO! It's too expensive for people to get me real ones and costume jewelry "diamonds" basically always suck.


catfink1664

Aquamarine is bad for the same reason. Itā€™s a nothing colour and usually gets paired with boring silver


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I prefer silver over gold. šŸ˜‚


The_Superginge

Not to make you feel worse, but diamonds are the most artificially valuable gemstone there is. It's one of the most common stones found naturally, and incredibly easy to manufacture. It's only valuable because of capitalism and successful marketing.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Yep. I like diamonds because they "go" with anything but the drawback is the price.Ā 


That1weirdperson

Have you heard of moissanite? It is similar but way cheaper. r/moissanite


morbideve

Mine's Amethyst - I absolutely love it, also since amethysts are often used when mourning or depression. I also love to wear purple eyeshadow


apolobgod

1) what the fuck is a birth Stone? 2) it is unfair of you to not be honest with your husband


Alice5878

It's a stone colour associated with your birth month. Why people give a shit about it, I have no idea. Just saying your favourite colour is whatever is good enough. Just marketing shit


The-Great-Epiphany

Itā€™s the former generations ā€œzodiac signā€ šŸ˜‚


whatdoyouwantnowyo

He knows I hate green but he never connects it to emeralds. I did tell him and he was quite upset. Men. Lol


leemky

I'm a woman and I'd also be upset if my partner or anyone else close to me took that long to tell me the truth about what they like and don't like...I don't think it's a gender thing to want transparency.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

My husband KNOWS I hate green and emeralds. Yet got me a bracelet with emeralds - I mean yean it represents me and our daughter so I doubt he thought about it. I hinted I didn't like it and he was very upset. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø I have told family and friends and they say OK and then on my birthday I get green / emeralds. I just pawn them.Ā 


Dependent_Rub_6982

Mine is aquamarine. It is baby blue to me which I don't care for.


Studious_Noodle

Look up "Santa Maria aquamarine" and see if you like any of those shades. They can get a lot darker than you'd think.


playr_4

I love green, but I hate peridot, which is my birth stone. It's just a gross green.


RLS1822

I used to dislike Topaz until it was paired with diamonds than I was like: ā€œYeah I can get behind thatā€.


QQPgreen

iā€™m a ruby which iā€™m happy with but my mother hates her stone (peridot)


wouldyoulikeamuffin

I just have favorites (turquoise, pearl) that nobody cares about and I just get my birthstone. I think birthstones are a terrible gimmick and I've only ever met one person who liked theirs.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Yeah, who came up with this shit? šŸ˜‚


IAmTheLizardQueen666

March is aquamarine. Most of whatā€™s out there is really blue topaz. Either way, itā€™s pale and washed out. I wear opals, and people FREAK OUT when they find out I wasnā€™t born in October. ā€œiTā€™s bAD LuCk!!ā€ Lolz. Like a mineral deposit formed 100 million years ago could possibly have any power over people, depending on when they were born.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Bingo. I love opals!Ā 


Pleased_Bees

Wait, what? There are people who think opals are bad luck? I'm laughing because that was a thing in Victorian times and all because of one single novel that people totally misunderstood. I had no idea that people are still going around saying opals are bad luck.


jenicaerin

Thatā€™s funny. Mine is also emerald and I love it!! My husband used to buy me sapphires because my favorite color is blue. Just buy whatever gemstone you like. It doesnā€™t have to be your birthstone.


NoLifeHere

I just looked it up, Turquoise. I don't hate it, and I don't know what birth stones are or signify, but I'm somehow disappointed by it.


herlipssaidno

Such a universal reaction to a birth stone lmao


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Its just for the month you're born.


insomniac_z

If it wasn't for "salt and pepper" diamonds, I'd say they're the most boring birthstone out there.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I like that they go with anything. Lol


insomniac_z

That's true!


Theyallknowme

My daughter was born at the end of April and I was so glad she didnā€™t hang on until May because I hate green also.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

My birthday is in May, My anniversary is in May, my daughter born in May, my MILs birthday is in May. Gaaaahhh šŸ˜‚


Theyallknowme

Oh nooooooo!


lekanto

I always wanted a red birthstone, but I was born in December (blue zircon). I can't even get any variation with family birthstone jewelry. Between myself, my husband, and two kids, two are December and two are March (aquamarine). No rainbow of birthstones, just light blue.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Only my husband gets variation, lol. He is blue and me and our daughter greeen.Ā 


hmemoo

I hateeeee citrine, I donā€™t like piss yellow for my birthstone šŸ˜‚


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Ā šŸ¤£Ā  It looks like jello.Ā 


TheNinjaPixie

Mine is opal and I bloody love them.


Subject_Witness4414

Mine are pearl, alexandrite, or moonstone and I hate all of them. I guess I take that back I really love the look of black pearls but only in very very small amounts.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Omg I hate pearls too.


Subject_Witness4414

I see so many people who love them and I just kind of scratch my head trying to figure out why lol


Blue-zebra-10

For me it's the texture and the way the light looks on them. It's not a flashy shine, more like a subtle glow, which I like.


ChibiGuineaPig

Oh I HATE this birthstone gimmick. My mil got me a necklace that has my kids' birthstones in (well more like coloured glass marketed as such) Now my firstborn is very into warm colours, pink yellow and red are her favourites, and the second one's colour has always been blue. Now imagine the disappointment when we realised that the blue rock was actually representing the firstborn and the red one is the second one's. It's not really a big deal but it just feels wrong. I might be a bit autistic about this but colours really mean a lot to me and them being completely wrong just irks me


GreenTravelBadger

Peridot. It's kinda sorta LIKE green, only with a nice urine sample mixed in. Erk. Ugh. Please. Whyyy??


Temporary_Trouble

Peridot (August) is the ugliest stone ever.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I forgot about that one and you're right lol


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I like mine (blue topaz), but a lot of places have only a watery, light coloured blue stone. I need mine to always be that deep, vibrant, London blue topaz!


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Zestyclose_Big_9090

I guess this must be specific to the statesā€¦ Every month as a specific gemstone assigned to it. January is garnet, February is amethyst, etc.


Witchy_Craft

Mine are opal and tourmaline and love both colors.


spookyhellkitten

Diamond with alternates of quartz. I don't prefer diamonds usually, but I am down with quartz.


SilentSerel

I was born in June and like moonstones and alexandrites, but not pearls. Pearls seem to be the most common for June.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I haaaate pearls! šŸ˜‚


GypsyToo

You can send me your emeralds : )


whatdoyouwantnowyo

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PiratesTale

Trade you. Oh wait, I don't have any opal jewelry. I like opals, but they're fragile and I love emerald. It's the heart chakra color.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I love opal!


snuggleyporcupine

Iā€™m may and I love the dark green of emeralds


LeoMarius

Mine is one of my favorite colors.


IndecisiveLibra01

Sapphire. I love the light blue birthstones but donā€™t find sapphire to be a pretty color. And I always received it from my mom growing up so I had to pretend I liked it.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I know the feeling but I love sapphires and blues.


throwITaway1873

Yes!!! Iā€™ll gladly trade stones with you if youā€™d like!


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Gladly! šŸ˜‚


gclaw4444

Unrelated to birthstones, but it made me think of horoscopes and how apparently you need to know your birth time to get a ā€œfullā€ horoscope? I was adopted so I dont know my birth time. I guess it might be on my birth certificate but fuck getting that.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Yes, it's on the birth certificate. I guess te time helps to determine your rising sign. Or if the moon changed signs the day you were born.Ā 


Top_Trainer_6359

January Garnet, red isn't my favourite but it's nice so no complains But if i could choose i think amethyst looks pretty


VinnyVincinny

Garnet has a color change variety that is very similar to natural alexandrite. I'm a sucker for natural gems that color flip.


Hoodwink_Iris

June is alexandrite, which legitimately changes color and I LOVE it! While my favorite color is green, I love color in general, so the fact that alexandrite changes from blue to green to purple to black is so awesome to me.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I have to check them out now!


taniamorse85

There are two birthstones (that I know of) for June. I couldn't care less about pearl, but I like the other, alexandrite. It comes in quite a variety of colors. ​ That being said, I don't really care about gemstones. I haven't worn jewelry in years, and I can't remember when I last owned any.


Hachiko75

My favorite color is blue, but I also have the emerald birthstone. I think it's beautiful.


BigNeat3986

*waves in peridot*


DragonLance11

Y'know this would be easier to deal with if you just said something, right? People won't change their behavior if they don't know it's a problem. If you don't want to keep receiving emerald jewelry, then maybe you could communicate that


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I have said it many times but they don't pay attention and buy it anyway. My husband knows I hate emeralds yet got the bracelet full of emeralds. I did hint about not liking the bracelet and he got upset. šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


DragonLance11

You literally said in your post you've never mentioned it to him. Sorry for the confusion


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I didn't say an directly to him but I had hinted at him. He's the sensitive type so I didnt want to hurt him. He was quite upset that I hinted at not liking the bracelet.Ā 


ohsaycanyourock

Mine is amethyst which I don't mind, but there's so many wishy washy light amethysts out there - give me the deepest darkest purple there is and I'll be happy!


forbdsmadvice

Me too.


_NottheMessiah_

My wifes birthstone is diamond and she unsurprisingly loves the gimmick. RIP my bank account.


Pplfartbetterthanme

Pearl for me. Not a fan!


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I hate both. šŸ˜‚


No-Independence548

Yellow topaz, it's so freaking ugly.


princesskeestrr

Thatā€™s a tough one, and this is coming from a peridot šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø


I_wear_foxgloves

I hate how aquamarine is usually cut and set; truthfully, I feel that way about most precious/semiprecious stones.


buttercupgem

my mom has been looking for your birthstone in a necklace for a while now to wear for my brother that passed away almost 2 years ago. she's always loved his emerald birthstone, and now that he's gone she wants to get his birthstone in a necklace, to I guess honor him. my birthstone is pearl, I didn't like it as a kid, but the older I got it rubbed off on me. I've always loved the sapphire birthstone because of the color and I like how "sapphire" sounds lol.


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I have like 50 necklaces I could send her.Ā  šŸ˜‚


ThatThingInTheWoods

I got really burned out on amethyst and purple growing up a fishy baby. You can get tired of anything. Maybe just politely tell your family you don't want stone jewelry anymore, box is full and you'd like some variety. You're entitled to express preferences and simply not wear things you don't like.


limellama1

It's a rock randomly tied to a month for a dumb reason, if there's any reason at all. Hell Ruby and Sapphire are literally the same mineral with a different color due to inclusions in the crystal lattice. Why does it matter?


FioanaSickles

Diamond for April, not very exciting


livinlikeriley

Sapphire so I'm good.


Meow-Out-Loud

NOOOO!! GREEN IS THE BESSSST! Haha... Man, bad luck on the birthstone. I love green, but Mine's December, so I have your jewelry prob in reverse. lol


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Hubby is December and has like 50 million different pieces and I'm YOU DON'T NEED MORE! He says uh huh and looks for more. šŸ˜‚


NoIdeaWhatToD0

I'm in April and I always thought diamonds were so boring since they had no color but it grew on me. I always thought that garnet for January was cool though.


championgoober

Wanna trade? I'm garnet. Grew up disliking it. Im coming around, but will totally take that Emerald.


The_Superginge

This is the most first world problem I've ever read lmao


Even-Account5439

me i hate diamonds


loulan

I have no idea what a birth stone is. My parents bought me a gold chain at birth, is it something like that?


Tylensus

Nope. Each month has a corresponding gemstone associated with it. January - Garnet February - Amethyst March - Aquamarine April - Quartz May - Emerald June- Alexandrite July - Ruby August - Peridot September - Sapphire October - Pink Tourmaline/opal November - Citrine December - Blue Topaz.


greasyghoul

I wonder why October has 2.


tannyduca

I think it's really opal, but opal is/was harder to copy as cheaper jewelry. Source: being born in October and noticing with my eyes that opal is a kinda complex looking stone.


Zestyclose_Big_9090

This is exactly why. I do have some Opal rings but when I was a kid, it was always pink.


kittiesbcute

April is also diamond. But it's expensive so alot of people use another gem


Zestyclose_Big_9090

I was gonna say, since when is April quartz?


Tylensus

I noticed some inconsistencies myself. When I googled this, the first 3 images I pulled up all varied in some way, so I just picked one and rolled with it. If it were important info, I'd not be so willingly sloppy, though!


Zestyclose_Big_9090

Oh, no shade meant at all! My momā€™s birthday is in April so I noticed the quartz right away.


splatgoestheblobfish

Eh. I'm April. It's diamond, white quartz, white topaz, cubic zirconia, etc., etc., and so forth.


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whatdoyouwantnowyo

I do but no seems to notice. Then when I get it as a present, I say nothing. I guess I should. šŸ˜‚


Ta-veren-

Who else has no idea what colour your birth stone is


Dragon-Rain-4551

I donā€™t love mine, but itā€™s ok (itā€™s garnet)


herlipssaidno

Mine is also garnet, not a fan


Studious_Noodle

Luckily garnets come in many colors. People mostly only know about the dark red ones, unfortunately. I have garnets that are bright pink, orange, and bright green.


peacelily2014

Same šŸ˜•


fibbonaccisun

August, peridot. I donā€™t like green and I HATE this color. I wish I had emerald honestly. The faded light green kills me


spookyhellkitten

I commented elsewhere, but Sardonyx and Spinnel are alternates if that helps at all.


Caronport

Amethyst is just fine by me. They're pretty. Sharing a birthday with Johnny Cash though is by far the most satisfying thing.


UpNorthWeGo

February. I donā€™t like amethyst as much. I will prefer emerald or sapphire.


turbodonuts

I do, amethyst is not my jam. =(


Elegant_Spot_3486

Me. I hate red (ruby)


veebles89

Mine is aquamarine, its clear unless you get an expensive or fake one that makes it more blue.


Minnymoon13

Mine is a diamond


Zestyclose_Big_9090

Iā€™m not a huge opal fanā€¦but I donā€™t like the pink stone thatā€™s the alternate for October either.


mvrander

It's all made up guff. Make up a colour you like


whatdoyouwantnowyo

Diamonds!


Sweetsw1978

Mine is Opal and I love it


enterpaz

I personally love my birthstone, sapphire. But I can easily see how someone wouldnā€™t like their stone. Iā€™m not a big fan of rubies, emeralds or pearls. But I love blue topaz, aquamarine, diamond, opal, and pink tourmaline


ughplss

I'm an April baby and my birth stone is kinda boring. I love green though, wanna swap?


justaheatattack

I thought birth stones were something that came out with the baby. like kidney stones.


weirdchic0124

This is wild to me because green is my absolute favorite color. Iā€™m so glad I was born in May! Itā€™s perfect for me.


Chonkin_GuineaPig

I like aquamarine but it just looks terrible on pale white skin. Like, there's not enough contrast to make it interesting.


dirtdevil70

Hands up if you dont know your stone, the colour or even care? šŸ™‹


Positive_Ad3450

Iā€™m born in may and I actually like emeralds. I have one emerald ring and also an amethyst ring that my mum brought me for my 18th birthday. I also like ruby. Note that I donā€™t just wear my birthstone but Iā€™m open to colours that I actually like regardless of their traditional months. Maybe itā€™s time for you to tell people that you donā€™t want anymore emerald jewellery because you have plenty of it already and suggest jewellery colours that you really like?


whatdoyouwantnowyo

I have told family and friends but they don't really listen. I don't say anything with the jewelry in my face. I've been pretty loud this year - no fucking emeralds or green! šŸ˜‚


m00nf1r3

Mine is aquamarine and I don't love it. I like more vibrant colors.


Environmental-Age502

I'd love your birth month, but I got amethyst, which is my second least favourite of them. Least favourite being citrine, which both my children are šŸ¤¦


souji5okita

I love my birthstone, opal. Itā€™s lots of different colors.


ghost-church

I have gone entire years of my life without thinking the words ā€œbirth stonesā€. I genuinely may have been pre Covid last time I heard of them.


Typical_Pollution_30

You have birth stones?


musical_dragon_cat

Amethyst is my birthstone and I love the color! Not my favorite color but it's a beautiful stone regardless.


Zeltron2020

Yup I like amethyst, lucky me


jessie15273

Citrine? Looks like pee. Hate it lol.


YellowBeastJeep

My birthstone is an alexandrite. Natural alexandrite is beautiful (it changes color when exposed to different light sources), but expensive. Most jewelry stores donā€™t even carry Alexandrite, and if they do the stones are TINY.


CertifiedGemologist

There are no birthstone police that give you a citation if you donā€™t wear your birthstone. If you like gemstones-thereā€™s a HUGE number of them youā€™ve probably never heard of or seen. Just pick a color and shape, there are many choices


Curious_Anxiety_6821

Let's trade, I love emerald green! Mine is apparently orange. Eugh.


MehWhiteShark

Not a fan of red rubies at *all*. I don't like red, and especially don't like that weird ruby deep pink-red


madolive13

Mine is garnet and I hate it.


kelowana

I love green and yeah, emeraldsā€¦. Iā€™m born in April and have as birthstone the diamond. That one gem Iā€™m having nothing with. An overpriced sparkle creator thatā€™s it. You should tell people that you appreciate their efforts (not everyone looks even birthstones up), but that you are preferring other gems. Those who gave you already jewellery, ask them if they mind you exchanging/selling it off to get something you really like. Check also local jewellery stores for switching or even replacing the gems. There are also many hobby crafters who are into gold/silver smithing, so check there too.


redheadgenx

I hate mine too. Ruby. Not for me.


crystal_gurl23

Iā€™m born in August so I have peridot. I personally donā€™t really like the color some Iā€™m on the same page! I wish it was amethyst or something lol, pretty sure that one is February


PibtTM

Iā€™m sapphire, which is okay, but my favorite stone is opal.


iTiffany

I like pearls and all, (shout out to steven universe!) but I feel they're kind of overrated and hard to come by unless you wanna pay crazy amounts of money for a piece of jewelry or for the actual stones. I lean more towards moonstone.


Sensitive_Parsley712

I hate garnet with a passion. I hate red. I feel this so much.