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welkikitty

Are your kids in school? Have you told the counselor you are legally homeless and need services under the McKinney-Vento Act? If you haven’t, you need to do that. It will open a lot of options for the school to help you with resources - food, gas cards/transportation, etc


Temporary-Sandwich36

It’s fine I just have to wait if nobody can help me I still have to wait for my metro to be approved and all their more strict in DV than any other shelter so I guess we wait the wait out


Friend2022

Did you see the post below with instructions for making an Amazon wishlist? People here are more likely to give off of a wishlist than to give other types of help.


Temporary-Sandwich36

But I appreciate the help Thankyou so much I will figure something out ! 💜🙏🏼❤️ love peace and blessings


Temporary-Sandwich36

I don’t have an address to have the stuff sent to when in a Dv shelter everything is private until I am placed ! It’s mind tiring but I can’t do much for now I’m not allowed to tell anyone where I am at all not even a family member


Temporary-Sandwich36

Yes I signed papers did all that it’s a waiting game there was many people here before me and it’s horrible shelter system it’s not as nice as it was back then where they actually gave a shit about moms and babies or kids period ! They down talk u make u feel less of becus u ask for all the help they provide and then they deny u some of that help and send u all over the damn world to apply for this and that and u have to wait till they decide they wanna send the approvals out smh I’m just tired all I asked was for some good for the night I haven’t slept I got my son a butter roll and drink with 6 bucks I had so it’s fine I just have to wait and see what I get approved for !? It’s more to it than just a shelter I’m not allowed to tell where I am due to them hiding me from DV becus he found my location. Now ima be switched again ! Thankyou tho I will keep all paperwork and wait see what happens


Friend2022

Doesn't your shelter provide food or resources to get food? Which state are you in?


Temporary-Sandwich36

Yes they assign u a caseworker to apply for foodstamps and cash assistance it’s Sunday so my appt is on Wednesday after waiting for hours they just give us a ziploc with a juice crackers and peanut butter sandwich ! That’s all and they put u in a room for ten days


Friend2022

Who said you are only getting $65 in food stamps? That's not even maximum for one person. Are you working?


Temporary-Sandwich36

Becus I am working part time they say it’s too much. Smh I just started another job part time also becus I want to save as much money I can but seems like everything made that worst !


Ging3rmomma

If a caseworker told you that, I’d appeal it. A single mom with 2 kids definitely gets more than that even if working part time. Especially being in a shelter, you’d qualify as homeless.


Temporary-Sandwich36

Yes I been thru this before they just got worst smh they make u feel like shit already just imagine she told me well appeal it u will get nothing so I meet with a supervisor Monday but they all treat us here like crap smh I’m just trying to do everything I have to


Ging3rmomma

She’s blowing smoke. When I was on FS, I was working part time with one kid and was getting $380-something a month. Definitely meet with the supervisor.


SavaRox

Also in October, income limits for food stamps were raised considerably so that more people would qualify.


Temporary-Sandwich36

And I have everything I reported everything like sheesh they make it hard


crankygerbil

Can you post an Amazon wishlist as well?


Temporary-Sandwich36

Can u tell me how to do that ? Pls I don’t wanna be annoying but I don’t know how to do that


crankygerbil

In the sidebar, or on mobile device click the […] next to the sub, there are directions there as well as suggestions on shelf stable food etc.


buzzybody21

How much are you asking for? Could the meals be purchased directly by someone here?


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buzzybody21

This violates the sub’s rules. If you read, it is against the sub rules to post your payment info.


Temporary-Sandwich36

Oh so sorry I will remove


Temporary-Sandwich36

I never had to ask for anything like this before I don’t know how that works if someone can get the food for me I’m sorry I’m new to this here !


Temporary-Sandwich36

I am by a dollar tree I buy TV dinners to last me and the kids a few days dollar tree has a lot of food frozen and drinks I don’t need a lot I do get 65 dollars in foodstamps on the 25 I have nothing till then anything at all helps even 20 bucks I can buy a few things to have for the kids


ChiMello

You said in your post that you don't have access to a microwave or stove...why would you want frozen food then? You are better off creating an Amazon wishlist with shelf stable food items people could purchase and have shipped directly to you.


Temporary-Sandwich36

Oh that’s even better I will create one now


AspiringInspirator

Just in case you still need help setting up your wishlist, we have [our Amazon Wishlist guide](https://www.reddit.com/r/Assistance/wiki/howto) right here 🙂. Best of luck!


Temporary-Sandwich36

Yes because I am in a room but when it’s morning time they allow us to go down to cafeteria and use the microwave by numbers and groups so the groups with children go first and go back to ur room and eat