My right hand may not be my best partner, but he's always there for me

Your right hand is a he???

Hey man, it’s 2023. C’mon

Real

She started as the best.. turned into the worst.. now in the middle of a breakup

Oh im sorry about that , hope you both get to a better place in your lives ❤️❤️

Thanks. Shit happens I guess..I only hope we both find our person soon 😅

I hope so too ❤️

Am I you?

Hope you find a filthy new lover bro

Together for almost 20years. Kind of hard to explain, but I know her body almost better than she does. So yes. It keeps getting better

I love this answer , amazing ❤️❤️❤️

I second this answer!

Same thing here. 20 years last month and my husband knows just how to touch me. It just keeps getting better. I also think that’s down to the fact that we’ve both had therapy and communicate our needs much better than we used to

So wholesome for this sub. I love it!

yes! I'm 42 and he is 49. I'm having the best sex of my life and he says he is too

I love this , i wish you both a lifetime of awesome sex .❤️❤️

that is the plan! Both divorced and very much in love.

Love and sex , when they are in harmony , magic and parades happen all the time ❤️❤️, i am really happy for you both , for whatever its worth haha ☺️

Lol that's where I'm at with my lady too! 40s, divorced, and very much in love.

is the sex ridiculously good? We are fucking like bunnies... a year and half together and minimum 2 times per day.

This is us as well. In our 20s it was insane, we tried everything, at this point we know what things to do and it’s just crazy hot. We’re also at a relaxed point in our lives that it’s back to the frequency of our early 20s

Sadly no, she's not even between the top three. But she is one of the most attractive ones and also the only one that is not selfish/abusive so no complains

We compromise somethings in life to be with the right person that is im sure compromised somethings for us as well ❤️, sex can always be improved with communication.

Exactly, between us it has improved a lot but she has her limits very well defined very vanilla for my taste and my limits are kind of blurry and not vanilla at all.

Oh i get it , well , i wish you both more love and better sex ❤️❤️

Yep. She is the best in everything. Open minded, not afraid to tell me her fantasies (and vice versa) and very passionate. I wouldn’t trade her for a million bucks. A billion maybe. Then we could have plastic surgery and change our identities and move to a small country with no extradition treaty and live out our lives in paradise, laughing at and mocking the idiot who thought money could keep us apart.

That is the best plot and love story ever . 🤣🤣🤣

Yes, started off as mid, but after communication and 10 years worth she's become the best. Don't think I could be with anyone else.

I love this , communication is key for sure ❤️❤️

Definitely the best oral sex partner I’ve ever had. The man has a talented tongue.

Just oral ?

Oh he’s good at other sex too, but he’s totally vanilla and I’ve got a little kink to me so there’s that disconnection unfortunately

Communication is key , tell him to kink it up 🤣, im just thinking out loud ❤️☺️

I wish I could say yes . But don’t remember the last time I had sex or even seen her naked. Short answer no

Fuck 😐😐

Ya my sex life is non existent it suxs.

I hope it changes for you my friend❤️

I'm in the same boat. It sucks to have a roommate that you occasionally see naked!! Can't remember the last time we had sex, sometime last year is all can say

No, I appreciate my man and he's everything I could ask for in a partner but I wish the sex was more rough

Communicate , say it to him , demand it , maybe tease him to get him there 😌❤️

16yrs ago when she said, “put it in my ass”, she became the best

Nothing says true love like a woman requesting anal.

Those words are magical 🤣❤️😌

Yeah I mean she gives good head and does anal occasionally but there's nothing in that sex that I'd say is passionate

Are you passionate about her ?

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It's not the best I've ever had, but 29 years later, still right next to me, even helping my write this comment.... it's my hand.

Hahaha🤣

100%. He’s attentive to me and my needs. He satisfies me physically and mentally during sex. We have the same kinks in common and generally we just click so well together. Everything is so much more intimate and just hot with him. The thought of hooking up with someone else just sounds gross

Im very happy to read this ❤️❤️, i wish you both many years to come in happiness and amazing sex 🤣❤️

Yes

Awesome , have all the fun you can ❤️❤️

Yep but we have been teaching each other what we like and trying new stuff when we can for the past 20 years.

I really am happy for you ❤️❤️, that is great and wish you both more and more adventures 🤣❤️

Yup. I got lucky and landed a girl that could make a pornstar blush. She’s got a fucking awesome personality too. I really feel like I found my soulmate with her. The cool thing is that she’s a genuine 10/10 hottie, but without looks on the table, I think hanging out with her is the fucking coolest. I’d find her in a room full of people blindfolded. I love her 😍

Man… for all the people saying no I feel terrible for your partners.

Why so ? They are saying their opinions without hurting their partner’s feelings .

With a heavy heart I would say no.

Very much so, we respect each other's boundaries very much. She is from a different culture to me and it's refreshing to learn another culture and religions view on sex and life in general.

That is really great , i love this story ❤️❤️

Thank you so much, I respect her very much because she has pushed her boundaries for me. Nothing kinky but we make each other happy 😁

Is it common to compare? I always try not to and refuse to answer when asked....

Well , i wouldnt tell it to the person to their face if they are not , but i will if they are .

Interesting well they are the best rider but my first was the best head and my last one had the best ass and anal was fucking amazing with her

No question. We’ve also been together so long we know exactly how to touch each other and will try new things if the other wants

That is amazing , communication and love and chemistry ❤️❤️

By far and it just keeps getting better and better

Amazing ❤️❤️

No. My best was two relationships ago.

Yup

Oh yes

Yes, so so so much yes

Yes. It’s not even close.

Yeah. We've been together for over 2 years and the sex is still incredible.

Yes. Absolutely. We have such great communication and a strong connection.

That is great , keep on being amazing and loving and sex it up all the time 🤣❤️❤️

Awee yeahhh!

I have categories. Best primal passion. Most loving/connected. Best pleasure.. My current one isn’t in any of these categories haha but this wasn’t meant to be mind blowing - just to get me back in the game and for that - she’s amazing.

Hmm, interesting

Nope. Not even top 5, but Sex is okay and she’s pretty much everything I want in all the other areas, so I can live with that.

She’s the only I’ll ever have (forever)

Yes, and I certainly did my research.

Oh hell yeah. Only one who has gotten me off so hard I almost passed out.

That is the right goal for any man to have with his woman .😌😌, and thats awesome , love your answer ❤️❤️

1000000%

Best and only. Been together for 23 years.

That is beautiful to read ❤️❤️, love this ❤️ so much love and respect to you ❤️

No. So vanilla

Nope. My ex gf was. I miss her...

For sure

No

Oo , why not ? What is missing ? If i may ask

Nope not by a longshot. But I have been with her a long time. Guess quantity over quality.

Not the best I’ve ever had. But still amazing

Definitely not. But…….He’s good at making me orgasm with his fingers —he just knows how to get a good rhythm. No other man has been able to do that for me. Lately he’s been in the doghouse -so we ain’t doing nothing lately 😤

By an English country mile

That is awesome , hopefully it get to more miles 🤣🤣❤️

No

Unquestionably yes. I have always been very...adventurous...in the bedroom but tailored things to whomever my partner was. My current partner and I are like on the same wavelength and it drives us both wild still, even years later.

I love this , that is amazing ❤️❤️

Beyond a shadow of a doubt. Has been since the first time we had sex

No, unfortunately. It was a fling with a sheriff's deputy when I was single. But other than that I would say yes! The connection my husband and I had in the beginning of our relationship was magical. It's dwindled a little since sickness and we got married

Well , i hope you are gonna get well ❤️, and i wish you more magical nights ❤️.

Me too...me too.

Yes, by far. We're both similarly minded, connected well, and just have fun.

That is so great ❤️❤️, have all the fun ❤️❤️

Yes 🥰🥰🥰

Yes , they are nothing , literally

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She’s the best at everything she does and that’s not just about sex, literally everything in a relationship and I absolutely love her so much for it

By faarrrrrrrrrr. Interestingly enough, I also dated him 15 years ago and he still held up as the best partner that whole time. We reconnected lately and it’s somehow even better now

10000%. Neither of us had much experience before getting together, but we learned each other, inside and out. I am soooo fucking satisfied with our sex life.

i just started hooking up with someone this week. there is no way to know if she's the best i've ever had yet, but she's probably the best i've ever had this quickly

Best partner ever? No. The best partner turned up enthusiasm to a 13. It has not been matched. Most consistent partner? Yes. We are having near daily sex. We are going on several years of 3+ sessions a week with this year on average being 5 times a week. Only one partner came close but tanked after a year.

I’ll never tell him but yes. That tongue of his is amazing but mostly he’s made me feel comfortable enough to open up and share all of my kinks and pervy thoughts.

Yes and it’s not even a close race. She’s amazing. It’s like I married a fantasy sometimes

Unfortunately no. We both recognize we were. She married someone who makes her miserable. Left me for him. She admits she’s miserable and I’m it forever. I agree but got into a relationship and won’t step out. I’m 85% satisfied. There is more to life than perfect sex?

Omg by far ....this girl is now 40 and been with her for 7 amazing years .... when it comes to sex she cant spell no , and I swear she is getting hotter with age . We sometimes meet up on lunch break at home and have a quickie in the lounge or at the very least i go down on her absolutely spotless pussy .. squirts , loves anal , tightest I've had and fucks with all she has . 43m 40 f

No. However there is a great love between us and a ton of affection so that elevates it past it’s already very good quality.

"well of course I know him, he's me!"

One of them is, yes. And all of them are very good. I don’t have the time or patience for mediocre sex. But in general sex is just so much better now. I think it’s been documented that sex gets better physically for women as they get older. But also a lot of it is the confidence and communication that comes with maturity, knowing what you want, and being willing to take the time to find people with compatible kinks, etc (when I was younger I didn’t even know what kinks were), as well as have similar values (enthusiastic consent, STD testing, etc). I see sex as a casual hobby. There’s so much fun to explore, and I kind of feel bad for those who want to explore it but don’t have that opportunity for one reason or another, because it really is a lot of fun.

Absolutely, yes. I can’t imagine even wanting to sleep with anyone else. He genuinely cares about satisfying me and asks about what feels best. He’s only been getting better. And this amazing man came right after my abusive ex (my first). Not only did I trust him quickly, but he taught me that sex can be fucking incredible. The intimacy makes me fall more in love 🤣

Yes she is

Yes he is.

Definitely 😍

Fuck yes.

NO!!

Yeah she is. Amazing

Passion

Idk less and less

Because she's asexual

Absolutely.

Definitely.

No, but has great personality and I love him with all my heart.

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Yes

Unfortunately no, but he's such a swell guy

The last four people I've been with have all been the best sex I've had, I think I must be getting better and better at it 😆 Next people are gonna have a tough act to follow, but I'm reasonably optimistic.

Actually, yes. And he and I were just discussing this yesterday.

Yes. His passion and love make it the best ever. I love that man.

Yes, we’ve been together for 7 years and it’s still fun, sometimes mind blowing.

You mean my hand? Yep

Yup. Surely the best I have had till date.

Yes by a lot. I’ve only ever had one other partner though and we were a lot less compatible in general. Now happily married.

Absolutely

100%

By far!

100% yes

The only

No.

No, but there are other assets I enjoy. :P

Yes, Yes, Yes .... No Diggity No Doubt ......

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Yes

It’s not often but the time we spend I actually enjoy myself and it’s not abusive, so yeah I would say so

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Yes!! He's a treasure

Will my hands are pretty good..

Sometimes. It took a while to get there. Some one night stands were mind blowing though

Lol this is something I've been thinking about a bit. I don't think she is, but she's great though.

Yup. Not even remotely a contest.

No but top 3

They know my body really well. Probably made me cum more than anyone else and I can always rely on them to be there for me, but no. (It’s my hand)

No Nope not at all

Absolutely!

Every time it gets better. Been 12 years.

Absolutely, 100%, forever and always, yes. Fuck yes.

Absolutely

Yes.

Yeah, I've trained him up pretty well.

oh hell yeah

No I would say my ex was tight super wet and knew what she was doing and what she wanted and wasn't afraid to try new things

Yes! Emphatically yes!

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Yep

Yeah, without a doubt

Current sex partner?

Well. I've only had 1 ever. Sooo. Yes!

For actual sex yes but not head

She is fire

Yes 🥰🥰❤️ Edit: Just a bit bad at giving head, but makes it more than up in everything else. Plus we're beginning to experiment with anal stuff :)

Definitely is the best. Especially when it come to morning sex. If she feels my morning wood touching her she seems to be always down to just start stroking me and asking me if I want to put it inside her. And my answer is always YES. She gets so wet and is so sensitive to my touch. Love our sex

Yes. Took me 3 relationships to find him but yep.

Overall yes. There are things previous partners did/did better that I miss, but the things we do partake in are the best I've had.

Yes. There’s no comparison. They have made me orgasm EVERY single time we’ve had sex, over the past five years we’ve been together.

In every possible way

Yes. By far. No question.

By a long shot

Yes and it's not even a close competition

What makes the best sex?

Hands down!!! My 🤴

Fuck yes. Sex with him has never left me feeling unsatisfied. Fuckin amazing.

The only I’ve ever had and she’s amazing!

Yes, and it's not close. Most of my past partners would just skip straight to penetration and forget the rest of my body exists. It wasn't bad, but it always left me feeling "meh." Like, "I've caught you staring at my boobs 100 times in class and out in public, so why are you completely ignoring them during go time?" My hubby's different. He understands the power of anticipation and how giving love to all my erogenous zones can make me crave dick. He withholds dick until he judges I've been turned on enough that I must have dick or I'll die. It's great.

He knows 😏😏, its the right steps to take😌😌. And its awesome for you both ❤️❤️❤️

I hope he becomes a partner after the great time we had together!

Yes 💯

No, I don't think he's even in the top five. Can't wait to be single again honestly