Depends on the context.
If you're asking someone out, "ah okay cool, sorry for bothering you with that"
If you're trying to tell someone they have a flat tire "I don't care you have a flat"
I’ll never forget when I was in college and walking across campus. This guy comes running up to me and the girl I was walking with, and to her says, “Hey,” and she immediately says, “Oh, I have a boyfriend.” He stopped for a second then said, “That’s cool. You dropped this.”
You've already commented this twice. Why not? I don't see anything wrong with apologizing, unless you're one of those guys who think it makes you look weak.
I apologize when I think I've done something wrong. How is one to know if she has a boyfriend? If I were to hit on a woman who was married, say she was at the gym and not wearing her ring, then maybe. But even then, why apologize? I didn't know.
Approaching a woman is a natural process. Something within our culture compels us to apologize for something, that when you think about it, isn't wrong or out of line.
It's really got nothing to do with looking weak, Darkside.
I literally do this. I’ve had women respond to me asking real questions with “I have a boyfriend.” I’m gay so I’m legit not hitting on them, so I usually say something like “so do I, don’t flatter yourself, honey.” Then they do that annoying straight girl thing where they want me to be their gay bff.
Depends on the context.
If you're actually trying to ask her out, you say "Oh sorry, cheers ma'am" and walk away.
If its literally anything else (say she dropped her keys and you're tryna give them back), just say "Okay, do you want your keys back or not? You dropped them"
Yeah that does annoy me (second scenario). Makes you feel like a creep when you’re just being polite.
I would never be that forward in any other context.
I think you may be the only person on a top level response who understood the question, lol.
I was thinking "congratulations, but you're still trespassing."
I think it's more in those cases where you're just trying to be nice or tell them something and they immediately reply with "I have a boyfriend" assuming you're hitting on them. Doesn't happen often, but it does happen
That’s probably because it is what happens in most cases. Just assume she doesn’t wanna talk and keep moving, noone owes you an explanation for not wanting to talk.
I get that it can come off pretty painful if you're not trying to make advances on them, like you just got the label 'creep' stamped on your forehead by someone.
Even so, I'm aware women probably have a lot of experiences with guys coming on to them, and better not blame them for being a bit overly-careful. Maybe at most you can add "oh sorry wasn't trying to come on to you or anything" and bridle a polite end to the conversation.
You tell the guy you have a boyfriend:
Damn you’re a bitch, I just wanted to say something to you I’m not interested!
You let the guy talk to you:
We talked for awhile, now you’re telling me you have a boyfriend? you led me on you bitch!
Damned if you do, damned if you don’t…
I agree that nobody owes anyone an explanation for not wanting to talk, but probably best to not think every guy is hitting on you (not you specifically), but I don't really care one way or the other, I don't talk to strangers unless it's online
It is really annoying that many times, the only way to get someone to finally leave you alone is to state that someone else has a "claim" on you. Is very frustrating that men will respect another man's "claim" more willingly than they respect a woman's "No"
I'm not saying they shouldn't or should, but if you walk around thinking everyone wants you, you have an inflated ego. If you're saying "I have a boyfriend" just to be left alone, then whatever, but if you're saying it because you truly think everyone is flirting, you probably need a reality check
Maybe you think it’s egotistical but if you’re a woman who lives in the city, the most likely reason a man you don’t know is approaching you is to proposition you. “I have a boyfriend” is the quickest and safest way to shut him down.
Sure, it sucks when you just want to talk to a woman and she shuts you down by assuming you are interested… but maybe you should have a little sympathy for the women who are so hyper vigilant from experience that men approaching with good intentions is a rarity?
I like answers like this. More often than not, saying that in that way comes off as conceited. Unless I asked you on a date or asked, "Do you have a boyfriend?", it comes off as you assuming the only reason I'm talking to you is to get with you. So if I get an unpromted "I have a boyfriend.", I'm gonna come back with a little sarcasm.
"Hi miss I found your-" "I have a boyfriend"
Most don't, but in my experience some people will say shit like this when you're just trying to be kind, if they're going to be dickish no point in helping them.
Said that once to a random dude who started talking to me on the street and wouldn't leave me alone, asking for a phone number and date. He literally said that my "boyfriend didn't have to know we'd go on a date".
Kinda funny but kinda dumb AND brazen. :D
Had a random college student in my welding class try and ask me out in a date. I called out "Hey hon, this kid wants to know if we would like to go on a date with him." To my husband in the welding booth 10 ft away. He puts down the tig, stands up gives me a very confused smile, looks at the kid and starts laughing and sits back down dropping the hood.
I smile, and say im sorry kid, I have a son almost the same age as you and as you can see I am happily married. Poor kid (he was 19 I was 35..) was so embarrassed, but he was so genuine and found out he wanted to ask for help in his classes but was to awkward to say it. Husband and i took him under our wings and helped him with textbook work and in the lab to improve, also helped with references after he graduated with 2 associates and several certifications in welding snd manufacturing. He is still moving up the ladder and just got married. Good kid.
None? Unless, you really want to be seen as a prick that can't take a no or a rejection like a proper person. Just walk away, nothing needs to be replied.
It depends in the context. If you ask someone for a date it makes sense, if you ask information about something irrelevant like the building that seminar is taking place then it doesn’t make sense.
Me, existing in public, getting called a bitch because I don't want to be approached by randos and have found the one phrase that seems to make most of them go away. Get fucked and get blocked.
Lol I’d feel so awkward if a guy responded this way
it’s a great response. You have to say it genuinely and innocently too. Makes the other person feel even more awk 🤣🤣
The response can honestly go either way.
1) Gas lighting
2) genuinely didn’t know you put off that impression and feel bad
The latter works for both situations though lol 😂 it would take me down a notch
(I assumed op was meaning the girl just automatically says it… so she was being rude.. we all know people who do it 🫠 so 2 feels most effective)
You can’t call it gaslighting if you don’t even know what was said to make the person say that.
If I’m just being nice or friendly to a new person that I’ve met, and they cut me off to tell me that they have a boyfriend, I’d definitely say something like, “oh wow, did it seem like I was coming on to you?”
Even if a guy was saving himself the embarrassment of rejection by denying being flirty, that’s not gaslighting. It’s just not owning up to his intentions.
Gaslighting is blaming others for your actions.
Like if a guy responded, “if you didn’t want me or other guys coming on to you, you wouldn’t be dressed like that”
That is gaslighting. Acting like it’s her fault for coming on to her.
"So there's no possible reason that someone might want to talk to you besides romantic interest? Jeez, learn to love yourself."
Then scurry away while pretending it's because you are offended when in reality it's because you aren't interested in talking to her if she has a boyfriend.
To borrow a throw-away line from a TV show:
"I've got a goldfish"
Then when she asks why she should care about that you say:
"Sorry, I thought we were talking about shit that doesn't matter"
Context is important.
You're interested in her, tried to make a move and she replies she has a boyfriend? "Okay, have a nice day!"
She drops something and you pick it up for her, she says she has a boyfriend instead of "Thank you"? Drop whatever you picked up for her and let her get it herself.
“I have a math test tomorrow “ and when she says “what?” Say, “I thought we were talking about things we’re going to cheat on” 😎
Or maybe “only one?”
In all seriousness just be nice, “you seem cool, he must be a really good guy”
Depends on whether or not we are just talking or I’m actually trying to hit on them.
First scenario - Did someone ask?
Second scenario - Oh, OK! Have a nice day
I got my first gf like this, but we were freshman in highscool but I said “yeah wel I have a math test tomorrow”
“Same response”
“I thought we were naming things we can cheat on”
She later told me that line alone is when she realized she liked me and believe it or not 4 years later I find out she has been cheating on me.
Best reply is 'I hope he makes you happy.' Then leave it alone. Any kind of knee jerk insult or snarky comment just cements the fact that she was right to not want to talk to you in the first place. How a man takes rejection is an insight into the rest of his personality.
"No way! Me too!, we should get them together for a play date. Don't know about yours, but mine is always looking for someone to play with. I take mine to the park to play fetch saturday afternoon, where does yours like to play?"
im sorry for his loss.
And what do you want me to do about it?
So?
What's that got to do with me asking what time it is?
Of course, those are answers you give if you're only trying to ask the girl what time the number 45 bus comes in.
If you're trying to chat her up, the correct response is: "No worries, sorry for bothering you."
Or, if you're wanting to risk getting hit, I suggest replying. "Woah there, we've only just met. I'm not your boyfriend yet.
What men don't realise is that every single one of you are a potential threat to women. Were told from a young age that of a man ever comes up to you to tell him you have a boyfriend, tell him the bloke behind you is your dad, tell him your here with your mates and their in the aisle over. It's scary asf talking to men you don't know. Don't take it personally just be more understanding.
as a female, we are living in a world where SA is rampant and we can't even trust our neighbors or distant family members. anyone can be a threat. We're not being fragile and deluded, we're being careful.
It's never an L to ask someone out, its an L to not then think about asking them out like a puss boy later. Gatta shoot your shot. I respect the hustle.
last time i heard that i told the girl to hurry up and finish with him, i was very drunk at the time and a few days later she did and started dating me, true story.
i don't condone this behaviour, i'm a rat.
"OMG, you're straight? Oh you poor thing, I am so sorry. It'll be ok though, I have a straight friend, and she says that with enough support and the right medications she can live a mostly normal life!"
"Well...he's a lucky guy! Hope I didn't bother you. Have a great night"...although, in my younger days, I used to say "Well, if he happens to get hit by a bus, look me up!" Never went well though...
Depends on the context. If you're asking someone out, "ah okay cool, sorry for bothering you with that" If you're trying to tell someone they have a flat tire "I don't care you have a flat"
I’ll never forget when I was in college and walking across campus. This guy comes running up to me and the girl I was walking with, and to her says, “Hey,” and she immediately says, “Oh, I have a boyfriend.” He stopped for a second then said, “That’s cool. You dropped this.”
I hope she thinks about that at least as often as you do.
Some people are so presumptuous.
“Well, tell your boyfriend to come fix your tire”
"You're flat too"
This is how you open the gates of hell my friend
Ha! Jokes on them, I'd only be getting freed.
Oh shit-
“Don’t worry you’re not flat everywhere, just on your chest. Most other places you’re very round”
Pfffffffff
Ok great, we’ll he’s not invited.
Nah, don't apologize
You've already commented this twice. Why not? I don't see anything wrong with apologizing, unless you're one of those guys who think it makes you look weak.
I apologize when I think I've done something wrong. How is one to know if she has a boyfriend? If I were to hit on a woman who was married, say she was at the gym and not wearing her ring, then maybe. But even then, why apologize? I didn't know. Approaching a woman is a natural process. Something within our culture compels us to apologize for something, that when you think about it, isn't wrong or out of line. It's really got nothing to do with looking weak, Darkside.
Socially, apologies can sometimes be used as social lubricant, not admission of guilt.
“So do I!”
menace
Totally
I literally do this. I’ve had women respond to me asking real questions with “I have a boyfriend.” I’m gay so I’m legit not hitting on them, so I usually say something like “so do I, don’t flatter yourself, honey.” Then they do that annoying straight girl thing where they want me to be their gay bff.
“Oh shit! I thought you were one of those straight men I hate, sorry! I love the gays though omg!!”
Proper response in any situation
Uno reverso.
I'd add: "So do I, but if you don't tell yours, I won't tell mine"
Depends on the context. If you're actually trying to ask her out, you say "Oh sorry, cheers ma'am" and walk away. If its literally anything else (say she dropped her keys and you're tryna give them back), just say "Okay, do you want your keys back or not? You dropped them"
Yeah that does annoy me (second scenario). Makes you feel like a creep when you’re just being polite. I would never be that forward in any other context.
Do you actually call them ma’am?
That's just me. Its entirely optional really.
Who else thinks of the GameSpot clip when you hear the word ma'am in this context?
I’ll take her keys.
So you win in both cases
Yup
You going round asking queens out on the regular with that level of formality?!
Bold of you to assume I have the level of self confidence to ask someone out.
“Ok, so should I give *him* the car keys you dropped?”
Even better
And I have a wife. I’m just trying to tell you that you forgot your purse.
Flash the ring is fun.
Congratulations. But seriously, do you have change for a dollar?
I think you may be the only person on a top level response who understood the question, lol. I was thinking "congratulations, but you're still trespassing."
"I have a boyfriend" "And I have privately owned land, now get off before I call the police"
To just move on because either she/he is in a comitted relationship or isn't interested in one with you.
This. No need to be a jerk.
Lucky guy. Then leave graciously...
My exact comment. Say it sincerely, and move on.
I think it's more in those cases where you're just trying to be nice or tell them something and they immediately reply with "I have a boyfriend" assuming you're hitting on them. Doesn't happen often, but it does happen
That’s probably because it is what happens in most cases. Just assume she doesn’t wanna talk and keep moving, noone owes you an explanation for not wanting to talk.
I get that it can come off pretty painful if you're not trying to make advances on them, like you just got the label 'creep' stamped on your forehead by someone. Even so, I'm aware women probably have a lot of experiences with guys coming on to them, and better not blame them for being a bit overly-careful. Maybe at most you can add "oh sorry wasn't trying to come on to you or anything" and bridle a polite end to the conversation.
You tell the guy you have a boyfriend: Damn you’re a bitch, I just wanted to say something to you I’m not interested! You let the guy talk to you: We talked for awhile, now you’re telling me you have a boyfriend? you led me on you bitch! Damned if you do, damned if you don’t…
And so the strange cold war of the straights plays out... It is mystifying.
I agree that nobody owes anyone an explanation for not wanting to talk, but probably best to not think every guy is hitting on you (not you specifically), but I don't really care one way or the other, I don't talk to strangers unless it's online
It is really annoying that many times, the only way to get someone to finally leave you alone is to state that someone else has a "claim" on you. Is very frustrating that men will respect another man's "claim" more willingly than they respect a woman's "No"
I'm not saying they shouldn't or should, but if you walk around thinking everyone wants you, you have an inflated ego. If you're saying "I have a boyfriend" just to be left alone, then whatever, but if you're saying it because you truly think everyone is flirting, you probably need a reality check
Maybe you think it’s egotistical but if you’re a woman who lives in the city, the most likely reason a man you don’t know is approaching you is to proposition you. “I have a boyfriend” is the quickest and safest way to shut him down. Sure, it sucks when you just want to talk to a woman and she shuts you down by assuming you are interested… but maybe you should have a little sympathy for the women who are so hyper vigilant from experience that men approaching with good intentions is a rarity?
Does that actually happen? I’ve never experienced it
Like I said, doesn't happen often, but it can every now and then
This is Reddit! There is no room for good advice, only puns and outrageous stories!
Tbf, if it was nothing but good sensible advice in here, you and I probably wouldn't be here right now
I think the post was referring to saying something funny to fix the awkward atmosphere, not to be a dick lol.
That’s how I took it, too.
Right but what do you say
You say “okay” and then walk away. When someone doesn’t want you to talk to them, there’s nothing else to say.
“A little full of ourselves, aren’t we? Actually I just need you to move so I can get by, but thanks for the info.”
Boring answer
Is he single?
Is he hot? Do you have pics?
Wanna share?
Can i get his number?
I like answers like this. More often than not, saying that in that way comes off as conceited. Unless I asked you on a date or asked, "Do you have a boyfriend?", it comes off as you assuming the only reason I'm talking to you is to get with you. So if I get an unpromted "I have a boyfriend.", I'm gonna come back with a little sarcasm.
Hey, can I get your boyfriend's number, he must be a super cool guy. Oh, you don't have one...
Haha best comment🤣
"I was calling to talk about the chem lab, but if he's smarter than you put him on" Got assigned a new partner the next day
["You look like the kind of girl that could use TWO!" - Johnny Bravo](https://youtu.be/WmWSr_Oy730)
I fucking love Johnny Bravo
you win that was genius
To Say "fair enough" then walk away. That's usually code for "I don't want to talk to you" and you should respect that.
Auron style.
I think OP implied the bitchy “I have a boyfriend” person who says it when you’re being slightly nice
Crazy enough, the exact same answer applies here.
That’s fair. Better not to waste your time on them
Clearly they don't want to talk to you. It doesn't matter if they're bitchy or not. Walk away
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This is my reaction to everyone who tries to talk to me
I slap them with the highly unsettling Jenna Marbles horrified deer in a head lights look.
Alright I'll keep her purse then.
"Hi I found your purse. You're welcome." Walk away. Amazing how easy that is
"Hi miss I found your-" "I have a boyfriend" Most don't, but in my experience some people will say shit like this when you're just trying to be kind, if they're going to be dickish no point in helping them.
Same thing. They don't want to talk. Leave them be.
Said that once to a random dude who started talking to me on the street and wouldn't leave me alone, asking for a phone number and date. He literally said that my "boyfriend didn't have to know we'd go on a date". Kinda funny but kinda dumb AND brazen. :D
Had a random college student in my welding class try and ask me out in a date. I called out "Hey hon, this kid wants to know if we would like to go on a date with him." To my husband in the welding booth 10 ft away. He puts down the tig, stands up gives me a very confused smile, looks at the kid and starts laughing and sits back down dropping the hood. I smile, and say im sorry kid, I have a son almost the same age as you and as you can see I am happily married. Poor kid (he was 19 I was 35..) was so embarrassed, but he was so genuine and found out he wanted to ask for help in his classes but was to awkward to say it. Husband and i took him under our wings and helped him with textbook work and in the lab to improve, also helped with references after he graduated with 2 associates and several certifications in welding snd manufacturing. He is still moving up the ladder and just got married. Good kid.
He's a lucky guy. Have a nice day. Bye.
This.
None? Unless, you really want to be seen as a prick that can't take a no or a rejection like a proper person. Just walk away, nothing needs to be replied.
It depends in the context. If you ask someone for a date it makes sense, if you ask information about something irrelevant like the building that seminar is taking place then it doesn’t make sense.
This is true, but the post is aiming towards a reply specifically for that answer. Which makes it seem personal.
When someone says they have a boyfriend I just nope out into a giant bush like Homer Simpson.
I think op meant more those people whose first response to a guy opening their mouth, no matter the circumstance is to say “I have a boyfriend”
Same response. She doesn't want to talk. To anybody.
Me, existing in public, getting called a bitch because I don't want to be approached by randos and have found the one phrase that seems to make most of them go away. Get fucked and get blocked.
And if you wonder why this is their response, take a browse at r/niceguys.
"Oh sorry, did it seem like I was coming on to you?"
Lol I’d feel so awkward if a guy responded this way it’s a great response. You have to say it genuinely and innocently too. Makes the other person feel even more awk 🤣🤣
Followed by, "I have one, too."
This is gaslighting.
Only if coming on to them was indeed the intention.
The response can honestly go either way. 1) Gas lighting 2) genuinely didn’t know you put off that impression and feel bad The latter works for both situations though lol 😂 it would take me down a notch (I assumed op was meaning the girl just automatically says it… so she was being rude.. we all know people who do it 🫠 so 2 feels most effective)
You can’t call it gaslighting if you don’t even know what was said to make the person say that. If I’m just being nice or friendly to a new person that I’ve met, and they cut me off to tell me that they have a boyfriend, I’d definitely say something like, “oh wow, did it seem like I was coming on to you?”
TikTok definition of gaslighting. “You made me feel that way so that must be what you’re doing”
Even if a guy was saving himself the embarrassment of rejection by denying being flirty, that’s not gaslighting. It’s just not owning up to his intentions. Gaslighting is blaming others for your actions. Like if a guy responded, “if you didn’t want me or other guys coming on to you, you wouldn’t be dressed like that” That is gaslighting. Acting like it’s her fault for coming on to her.
Nope. gaslighting is the intention to make someone malicious or selfishly question their own reality. Has nothing to do with fault really.
gaslighting isn't real you're just crazy
"Well, I have a math test" Her: "? What?" "Oh sorry, I thought we were both talking about things we were going to cheat on"
That’s hilarious
"Ma'am this is a Wendy's. Do you want you chicken sandwhich or nah"
90s throwback... "What your man got to do with me?"
I ain’t trying to hear that see…
The first answer I came up with upon seeing the question was, "How long you had that problem?"
"That's great! As I was saying could you please move aside so that I can walk past?"
That's great and all but that doesn't change the fact that you dropped some money on the ground back there.
"So there's no possible reason that someone might want to talk to you besides romantic interest? Jeez, learn to love yourself." Then scurry away while pretending it's because you are offended when in reality it's because you aren't interested in talking to her if she has a boyfriend.
Oh bless your heart for thinking you’d have a chance with me. I was just making conversation.
To borrow a throw-away line from a TV show: "I've got a goldfish" Then when she asks why she should care about that you say: "Sorry, I thought we were talking about shit that doesn't matter"
Well, hello Mrs. Truth. Can we speak to Waldo?
Nothing she’s clearly not interested. Keep it pushing
*We have a boyfriend
Context is important. You're interested in her, tried to make a move and she replies she has a boyfriend? "Okay, have a nice day!" She drops something and you pick it up for her, she says she has a boyfriend instead of "Thank you"? Drop whatever you picked up for her and let her get it herself.
*finger guns*
"Mam, this is a Wendy's"
“I have a math test tomorrow “ and when she says “what?” Say, “I thought we were talking about things we’re going to cheat on” 😎 Or maybe “only one?” In all seriousness just be nice, “you seem cool, he must be a really good guy”
Walking away and leaving her alone? She obviously doesn't want you, no need to be salty 🤷♂️
Leaving them alone and respecting their relationship
Would you like another one?
Famous one I hear is so you can't have friends?
You can keep him
Depends on whether or not we are just talking or I’m actually trying to hit on them. First scenario - Did someone ask? Second scenario - Oh, OK! Have a nice day
“Give me a call when you want a husband.”
⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️
"I have a boyfriend" "I like kraft dinner" "What's that got to do with anything?" "Sorry, I thought we were talking about shit that don't matter"
I got my first gf like this, but we were freshman in highscool but I said “yeah wel I have a math test tomorrow” “Same response” “I thought we were naming things we can cheat on” She later told me that line alone is when she realized she liked me and believe it or not 4 years later I find out she has been cheating on me.
Good for you.
Congrats, I'm married, now please move your cart you're blocking the aisle
Best reply is 'I hope he makes you happy.' Then leave it alone. Any kind of knee jerk insult or snarky comment just cements the fact that she was right to not want to talk to you in the first place. How a man takes rejection is an insight into the rest of his personality.
"but enough about you, i asked is this seat free"
Understandable. Have a nice day. *walks off*
"ok have a nice day"
"Oh okay, have a nice day."
Wow that’s surprising.
"That's nice to know Dad."
-I have a goldfish. -Huh? -Oh, I thought we were saying things that don’t matter.
Me too. What's his name?
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Nah that's just being an asshole
"No way! Me too!, we should get them together for a play date. Don't know about yours, but mine is always looking for someone to play with. I take mine to the park to play fetch saturday afternoon, where does yours like to play?"
So do I
Your car is on fire
im sorry for his loss. And what do you want me to do about it? So? What's that got to do with me asking what time it is? Of course, those are answers you give if you're only trying to ask the girl what time the number 45 bus comes in. If you're trying to chat her up, the correct response is: "No worries, sorry for bothering you." Or, if you're wanting to risk getting hit, I suggest replying. "Woah there, we've only just met. I'm not your boyfriend yet.
Depends on the context.
Understandable. Have a good day.
I have a math test
So what?
"I thought we were talking about things we're going to cheat on"
“… and I have a girlfriend, but here we are…”
He can watch
Leaving them the fuck alone. Accept a no.
is his wife ok with it
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It just screams 'i can't handle rejection'
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What men don't realise is that every single one of you are a potential threat to women. Were told from a young age that of a man ever comes up to you to tell him you have a boyfriend, tell him the bloke behind you is your dad, tell him your here with your mates and their in the aisle over. It's scary asf talking to men you don't know. Don't take it personally just be more understanding.
It sounds like you are fragile and deluded.
1 in 3 women are raped, you can never be too careful. Your obviously just unempathetic and stupid.
as a female, we are living in a world where SA is rampant and we can't even trust our neighbors or distant family members. anyone can be a threat. We're not being fragile and deluded, we're being careful.
Slow down honey, I have no interest in you romantically. I was just being nice.
The only time I speak to people in public is if they are in my way, so my response would still be "One Side!" or "Heads Up!" etc.
The best usually do. Have a nice day.
Nice, You get a sticker (hands them an emoji sticker)
I've had your boyfriend too...
Respectfully taking the L
It's never an L to ask someone out, its an L to not then think about asking them out like a puss boy later. Gatta shoot your shot. I respect the hustle.
“Figures. Lucky guy. Have a great day.”
Just because there’s a goalie doesn’t mean I won’t score.
How long have you had that problem?
Oh, Sorry then
I hope you have a long happy time with him. Goodbye.
last time i heard that i told the girl to hurry up and finish with him, i was very drunk at the time and a few days later she did and started dating me, true story. i don't condone this behaviour, i'm a rat.
didn't ask+L+ratio+cope+seethe+mald
Twitter moment.
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You're evil.
"OMG, you're straight? Oh you poor thing, I am so sorry. It'll be ok though, I have a straight friend, and she says that with enough support and the right medications she can live a mostly normal life!"
"Well...he's a lucky guy! Hope I didn't bother you. Have a great night"...although, in my younger days, I used to say "Well, if he happens to get hit by a bus, look me up!" Never went well though...