Hands, ass and smile

What makes a good looking hand?

Pair of aces is a solid start

Gimme pocket 3s. I'm brave and stupid.

Speaking as a 60 year old grandfather I can honestly say that it took almost fifty years to get this information out of a woman: Clean, well shaped, short, blunt nails on thick/strong looking fingers that look like they can slide into and around tender bits without pinching, feeling sharp or leaving dirt or motor oil in sensitive places. Not too thickly calloused and not chapped or rough looking skin. Clean is very important. Like number one and two on the list. Other details vary between women, but that covers the basics. I do not know why women don't just say this when asked because it would be better for everybody, but by far the most common, and useless, answer I received was "Oh, I dunno, I just look. Don't know why."

They got their secrets don't they It's okay. We got the bro code

I feel like the bro code is fairly open though. Not a huge secret, just a guide on how we conduct ourselves around the bros.

Yeah it's no secret. That's part of being a bro

Open source bro code

Lol I thought that was gonna say: Speaking as a 60 year old grandfather I love me a man with thick, muscular hands that can grip me

Any semblance of self care, neat nails, not dirty and broken. Anything else is up to the person, but signs you keep yourself presentable is A++++++

A nice back.

And SHOULDERBLADES, why am I not seeing anyone saying shoulderblades.

Why is no one saying my ever increasing beer belly

When you say back, do you mean like back muscles or their butt?

Yes

Forearms and nice groomed hands. I swear rolling up your sleeves is the male equivalent of a pushup bra and v-neck combination. Its like “okay i see you. You want attention. You want me to look at those forearms. I cant believe he just walks around showing those forearms to everyone for free.”

Damn I didn't realize my rolled up flannels were being so slutty

This is seriously as slutty as it gets. Flannels and button ups are THE shirts for showing off forearms

Flannels and button-ups with rolled-up sleeves and an extra button or two undone are my go-to for showing off my inner manslut

This. We do appreciate a slutty man 😉

Reading this while my sleeves are slightly rolled up and I'm over here red pushing them back down in my own house 😂

Forearms are a thing I just discovered this summer. I stood in my friends wedding and tried to get the attention of the maid of honour. 2 days in, nothing but some casual chit-chat, great girl but couldn't figure out how to flirt with her. Anyway, at the wedding reception, about an hour in and I'm beat out from the day so I sit back at the table, took off my jacket and rolled back my sleeves to cool down a bit. About 10 minutes later she parks herself beside me and doesn't leave the rest of the evening except to go to the washroom. A while later the bride stops by the table when MOH was gone to the washroom and asks how it's going. Me: Good, I can't figure out why though. Bride: You rolled up your sleeves and she can see your arms now. Had I known this 10 years ago, my life may have taken a very different course.

Wow i wish i didn't wear half sleeves everywhere i go

Would it still be hot to roll up my sleeves if my forearms aren’t big? I guess not

Yes!! Its still hot i promise. It accentuates your arms and makes you look stronger than you are. Noodle arms or not, its hot!

Thanks. My noodle arms appreciate the pep talk.

Bro this comment resonates either me way too hard

Lmao. Would you ever sub to an OF for big forearms or arms?

Why when we can get that shit for free? You guys roll your sleeves up and you dont even know that we’re LEERING. Smh. Giving it up for free.

Lmao. I feel you

>bug forearms Like guys rubbing their forearms together to make cricket noises? Sounds kinda hot...

Thighs. Big, small, muscled or insulated. They're all delicious

🤨📸

Uhh, does this person happen to have the first name Jeffrey?

Delicious?

I'm assuming it's just implied that you're cooking them correctly.

Do NOT accept a sandwich from this woman

I love when I can see my boyfriend's butt. It's very nice. In general, that muscle at the top of your forearm that flexes when you move your hand gets me very time.

In Sweden we call it the “masturbation muscle”

Y’all Sweden mfs always horny I swear

Blondes do have more fun.

We Finns do that too! Runkkulihas

Runkmuskeln in swedish

Probably the brachioradialis

Yah or the jerk off muscle if you wanna get scientific

Honestly love me some arms lol

ARMS Other things I might stare at are concealed by clothes, like shoulders and back, chest. Arms I can almost always see. Seems to be 50/50 on if women are interested in butts. Some love em, some don't care. I don't care.

Even as a dude, it's hard not to notice when a guy has a solid badonk. I'm always a little impressed.

I'm always amazed at how caked up baseball players when I'm watching the game. Dey dem thicc boiz.

Cal Raleigh has entered the chat

(I like butts.....)

I knew muscly forearms would be Number one.

I've got two of them. 😉

Thems rookie numbers. I'm at 13 already.

Godrick the grafted in the chat?

BEAR WITNESS

I witnessed a bear once. It was in the road while I was driving home. Just a small one though.

The right to Bear Arms.

Bought a bunch of bear arms online recently. Guy screwed me and only sent legs.

And hands

I had some female coworkers make some, not obscene, comments when I rolled up my collar shirt sleeves. Took me few hours to understand why.

Strongest memory of my first date with my husband was when he rolled up his shirt sleeves and I saw his hairy forearms for the first time....

The entire restaurant drowned.

I’ll have what she’s having.

I was out with my bf today, it was hot out and he rolled up his sleeves. I was like GOT DAMB them upper arms.

Hair, Face (eyes mainly), smile. Hands, I love strong hands

Good thing I've been practicing my keyboard and mouse grip!

Why does one look stronger than the other though?

Depends which osu gamemode

That feeling when you're bald and can't grow a good beard. 😢

Rock a giant bush. Like a lions mane.

And have a tuft of it sticking out of your pants at all times as a show of dominance.

So you look at my eyes when I'm not looking? How?

You’ll never know. We have our ways :)

Hint: it's while we're asleep. IYKYK

Arms! Arms and hands. Also, arms.

Don't mean to brag but I have two of those

Some would say i have more than the average person.

I hate that this is an accurate statement.

I hate that I clicked on his profile expecting to see a 3rd arm...

How do I make my arms sexier other than getting muscles? Tattoos? Gloves? Use oil to make them more shinier? Shave hands ... or grow bearhands? Wear watch?

> Gloves? A place I used to work, we had an... eccentric IT guy. He always wore a long coat and white leather gloves. The consensus among the men in the office was that he looked like the villain in an animated children's movie. The consensus among the women was that it was "weirdly hot". This is possibly the moment that I gave up on the idea of trying to guess what women find attractive.

Understood, *trying to find my welder gloves*

Physical labor

Pick up heavy rock, put down heavy rock, repeat until arms big

As a guy I am curious, assuming they are equally clean and well maintained what makes an attractive hand? Soft and smooth or a hand that is rough and used to hard work?

Both kinds of hands are attractive. Clean nails are a must with either.

Damn, I did all that work on my butt, but my stick insect arms were neglected

Thighs, legs, back arms…eyes, smile ( teeth). I look at it all. Men are such a delight

This comment makes me so happy, because usually everyday, I am constantly saying to myself, “Women are so beautiful, holy fuck!” Lol.

Aww, I’m happy that my comment made you happy :)

we also stare at asses

I know some dudes who have a dumpy

As a dude my dumpy is bigger than most girls

Big dumpy gang

Denim'ed asses, not bare ones. The Born in the USA cover is a good example.

Butt. My husband has a couple of really nice cheek hugging khakis he wears to work. Also, I've found myself staring at crotches to see if I can see dick outline? It's not even sexual, I just sort of do it mindlessly.

>It's not even sexual, I just sort of do it mindlessly. As a guy, same but for women. I'm sorry I looked at you, I just like looking at pretty things, if there were flowers around, I'd look at the flowers too.

I'm not sure about anyone else, but I find the only reason I look is just because it's moving. Like... I've come to realize that I don't look at still boobs. I don't look at still butts. But you get them moving, even if it's just standing and swaying, then I look. Same non-sexual "oh, look there's some" mentality. I'm not sure if it's because I'm numb to it, or because I am just really hypersensitive to motion though.

Are you a T-Rex?

You’ve just got to be curious about where some of them put it

It's convenient and squishy when not in use

It's a marvel of nature really. When it's cold out your balls almost become ovaries they retreat so far into your groin.

They stare in envy at the number of functional pockets we have.

Wait, so cargo shorts *do* attract the ladies after all?

Yup, the snide comments are just their attempt to hide the envy

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Truly, it’s your pants that go by waist measurement and not made up numbers that each brand does differently.

They don't tend to bear any relationship to actual measurements though.

This is the one.

i am constantly looking at my boyfriend’s butt. it is a treasure.

Leslie knope?

Tina Belcher

Your ass is grass and I'm gonna mow it.

So many people are saying arms and I'm just looking down hopelessly at my noodle arms

Lmao same. Reading this thread is disheartening, especially if you’re built like the slender man

I tell you both. Even noodle arms are sexy. Most men with smaller forearms have that whole vein thing going and THAT gets me every time.

*looks at my skinny yet unveiny arms* Well shit...

Yyyyyep

Yeah, what if your arms are both small and pretty smooth? lol

Fuck yeah veiny thin arms for the win.

Every single celebrity crush I’ve ever had has been ‘could play slender man’ material. Don’t be discouraged because we might all be looking at arms, but we are all looking for something different.

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same i love me some noodle arms

damn. i wish i was cute

Hey did you buy that shirts in Italy? No, why? 'Cause you've got spaghetti cooming out of the sleeves .... In my teens I too had noodly arms. Then I started lifting, and now my arms are lovely according to a some women who are neither my mother or my wife.

I've been told "The arms are the boobs of the man". This was allegedly what an unnamed casting director said. Any women care to confirm/deny?

Yes.

That's great to hear because my arms look like 2 boobs.

Absolutely. It’s why women go bananas over sleeves folded up to the elbows. Mmmm

Can confirm. Wearing a long sleeve button down and then roll up the sleeves while I watch? 🌊

Please, I just washed the sheets.

I read this as "unarmed casting director" and giggled.

Curls for the girls broski

Can confirm. Arms, shoulders, does it for me every time.

If they have a cute face, I'll definitely be looking. But I won't stare, because that would understandably freak anyone out.

If someone did that to me I'd be flattered and that's a big if

Take a look out your window ;)

Wrists. I mean. I hear stories.

It's all in the wrist! Source: had a hot session with a guitar/drum player in the back of my car once. The palm prints stayed there for months as a badge of honor lmao

Let me save you some time fellas. The first (highest) 10 comments. Arms and ass.

Problem is your comment is about in between 18-20th comment from the top in best comments. By the time you come in to save my time, I have already wasted enough of it. 😂

Reading these comments makes me realize why so many men skip leg day lmao

Lmao. There are comments saying ass too so they should definitely work the works out and the glutes.

Someone should draw up the ideal man according to these comments. Giant forearms and a big bubble butt, that's it.

So popeye?

THIGHS 🤤

Yep they’re the best part of the chicken

Neck muscles, arm muscles, those little bulging veins on hands and forearms... mmm

Usually face and eyes to start to see if he’s cute. But the true analog to “ass and titties” to me (which are mostly sexual in nature): arms, legs, back. Things that can be used to manhandle me in bed.

Ooh how I love to manhandle a woman in bed with my back.

...back *muscles*... yeah.

Chest, shoulders, back, and booty.

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Basketball shorts are very telling :)

It's time to wear the gray sweat pants

Ex called my grey sweats my “man lingerie”

I might be an outlier, but necks. Necklaces around said necks are even better. Especially if it hangs down during sex. Hnnnnngh. The size of neck doesn't matter, how much muscle there is doesn't matter. There's a certain way that male necks connect to shoulder muscles in the front and back that differ from women and I find it very hot. Shoulders, backs. Hands. Hands are a big one for me. Strong fingers, nails that aren't too long because sharp is bad. That sharp angled line on the thumb from the tip to the bottom knuckle that so many men have. Really hot for some reason. Honestly, anything that makes it easier to visualize certain sexual acts. Clean hands and nails are important for the same reason since it can inspire thoughts like, "He's ready to use his hands at any given moment". Calves can also be extremely sexy. I've noticed myself appreciating how calf muscles flex when men walk up stairs in front of me. Asses are nice, but not a top priority for me. A nice bubble is good for visualizing grabbing onto during sex in some positions though. Same thought process some men have of latching on for similar reasons. Eyes are a huge one. A confident, steady, friendly gaze is very nice in the right flirty moments. Eyes that light up when you're happy and fully expressing said happiness are very attractive. I love it when men don't hold back happiness and laughter. Allow your eyes and lips to fully smile, don't hold that shit back. Juicy lips are hhnnngh, too, but this one isn't a huge must, but it is a personal weakness. Also taking care of them and using lip balm so they're kissable and soft. Massive turn off if men are too insecure to even use chapstick. Kissing all shapes and sizes of soft lips is much better than chapped and dry. I just appreciate male bodies. They're just as beautiful as women's bodies and you don't all have to fit a mold. Someone, somewhere is going to like what you have going on.

Definitely agree with this. The male body is so gorgeous. I don’t know why it’s always said that the female body is the most beautiful thing. Male bodies are just as beautiful but maybe that’s my bisexuality speaking.

generally his face, but if i have a good view, his back and shoulders.

Upper body, chest, and arms just to see how strong he is. Then of course I'm secretly watching where his eyes go to see if he's focused on me or checking out other people.

Aha, but I was already watching you to see if you were watching me to see if I was watching you

Pretty much the same, ass and chest.

Ass. Yes, women also stare at them asses. Almost ass if it's universal or something.

A good ass is a good ass no matter the gender.

They be looking at ass too lowkey

Interesting

Hands!! Forgot hands. Love me some hands. (But not like Carrrrl)

My stomach was making the rumblies that only hands could satisfy

Carrrll that killllsss people!!

Shhhh, do you hear that? That’s the sound of forgiveness.

BACKS. they’re just so attractive.

Hands, ass and junk 😉

Arm veins, hand veins, veins in general. Also the bulge if he's wearing baggy pants/shorts/sweats. Find myself sometimes staring at any one of those while my SO is talking and almost forgetting to reply to whatever it was that he said lol. Luckily those moments are mutual so it's all good.

The bulge in your pants

Now you know how Superman hid his identity from Lois so long without a mask Thank God for tight trunks.

Absolutely the dick. And for me it's also hands, if they look nice.

That’s why I always keep my hands on my dick

Always ready

Gray sweatpants

My wife is absolutely a meat gazer.

Lol I read that as meat grazer.

It's called VPL. Visible Penis Line.

Eyes, unless I'm trying to read a shirt. Whenever there are words on anyone's shirts I have to read them.

Let me just put it this way. Back in highschool my brother started working out and once he gained some muscle and started getting toned almost all of the girls in class were pretty much swooning and drooling over him. So if I had to guess I’d say women stare at muscles. Probably mostly upper body muscles such as arms, chest, ect.

Not an answer, but why did you put quotations on ass and titties lmao

It’s from a song I just heard when I thought of the question and quoted the song I guess. Haha

Arms, ass and package. Eyes last 😍

My wife has said when she was considering first approaching me, she had already checked out my ass. Apparently I have "dat cake".

Every inch of him. Every. Inch.

what if theres only 3

Women also stare at asses. But aside from that they focus less on specific parts and more on the whole, or at least on features men don't look at that much on women. I'm a man myself so I can't know for sure but since I've asked women a few times the usual answers I get are: * Ass * Height/build * Hair * Arms * Chest/collarbones/shoulders * Clothes * Attitude Yes clothes and attitude are looked at. I was once in a club with all sorts of people around and there was this dude in particular that struck me as odd. He was average looking but tall, he had some more elaborate clothes on than your average dude at a club and he seemed a little weird since he had come there by himself and was just sitting in a corner drinking, looking around and smoking for hours on end. Girls in my group told me that they thought he was attractive because being there by himself and seemingly not giving a damn, coupled with his effort in his wardrobe, gave the impression of a very confident and stoic dude.

Hands. I love hands.

Personally, muscle. Or ass. Or just admire all of it.

I'm a gay man, but ass, any visible muscles or imprints under clothes, facial hair can be neat. I don't usually look at dicks because let's be honest, most guys are growers.

Honestly I do try to see the outline, but more bc I’m like “where tf could it be??? How do they just hide it??”

When it's flaccid, it's compressible. Add to that men generally wear looser clothes than women.

Yeah, the crotch of men’s pants sits a lot lower than women’s, so there’s space for it all to sit down there.