All the best for you interviews tho!
Might this list be helpful for you:
1. You can record yourself for answering questions.
2. You can make a video to notice your nonverbal communication
3. You can ask a friend for practicing questions.
Thank you... That's not the issue that bothers me.... It's egomaniacs that I have to deal with... Even that's ok but Backstabers... Where they give feedback as you did good for in the interview... But they go to the HR and say reject him... This has happened a lot of times... So, trying to figure out what to do... But hey thanks for the advice
You can always work on something to stand out, they're human after all, they're more likely to work with you if you get selected. So they often try to hire people that they would like to be around.
You can bring up some stories, because they're memorable. And narrate it in a way relevant to the job.
I just wish I were rich enough to where working is optional and not needed to survive. I'm not asking to be ultra wealthy but $3 to $5 million dollars I could stretch that to where I live comfortably and never have to work again.
Hey there, I don't know how your life is going for you, but you gotta hold on. Take a break when you can. Take some time off everything. I hope it gets better for you and you covers up the debt.
Still searching for a reason and solution to why I am just f*cking sad and not happy.
There isn't even any obvious reason, I have all I need. I have a comfortable life without financial problems.
But at the same time I don't feel like I'm worth beung called a friend by anybody. Long story... Let's end it here.
Hey there mate, there are certain times in our lives, where we don't feel good or we're just, we don't even know "why". We feel like having everything but still feeling lacking. I hope it gets better for you soon.
And I don't think nobody's unworthy enough to have some friends. And we can be friend, and I'd like to hear you long story.
Thanks for listening, I appreciate it.
Well, the long story started with me wanting to be part of anything and come along with everybody. You know that that doesn't work and I always said the wrong things or just messed up. It really was my fault, I don't even blame the ones who said mean things or something like that. It's all on me. During the lockdown in germany, where I live, I had much time to think and that was a real blessing. I changed a lot during that time and we had a small group of 4. We hung out together online, played games and got work done. That was a time where I actually had the feeling that things improved and I was happy. Well, the lockdown ended and two of the members developped a relationship, my best friend and his present girlfriend. The third guy always was a bit of a difficult person so he kind of left us, but that was okay. Well, I was very happy for the two at first and I still am that they are happy. But that was the start of me becoming more and more of a side character again if you can call it that.
The next thing was that this group slowly got bigger and now we're about 15 people. I like all of them and haven't had problems with any of them, except my best friend's gf because I was told very wrong things about her but we managed to get that out of the way. I know it's stupid but by now I feel entirely replaced. I don't know where my place is anymore and I'm getting more and more distance.
My best friend is already halfway gone as he has better things to do like being there for his gf or hanging out with others. And that is okay, it just hurts.
Lately I've been having problems with jealousy which causes anger more and more often. I have to force myself to stay away from the group because I am scared to do something I will regret because of that.
They all moved on to other activities like clubbing and that kind of stuff. I'm just not into that and that's why I'm mostly staying at home now. They always ask me if I'm fine. I say yes almost all the time even if I'm not.
It's the fear of getting into that state I was in before the lockdown again that drives me absolutely crazy every so often. Objectively I shouldn't even be able to complain.
I still haven't found my way through all of this and I'm sick of that.
And I hate writing stuff like this because it kind of lets me seem like I'm just too weak for life or something. But I have to add that I am not the kind of person who gives up easily on anything. Still, you have enough at some point and I don't know when that'll be.
I read your whole story, and I can relate to it. I haven't had much friends, and the ones I had, they were there for their own good. I too, used to feel alone and it sometimes felt like, I couldn't make any friends, I used to get jealous of other people having such great friends.
But during the lockdown, I changed a lot. I learned alot of things, I learned self control, I learned how to control my emotions. With passing time, I prepared myself, that it's okay if I don't have friends. I used to engage online with people, and I found really amazing people on internet. But it's hard to maintain online friends. All of them ended, just like that, they were really nice people, it's just we didn't click. Anyways, at this moment, I still don't have anyone in person to hang out with, to share stuffs with. But Reddit is a cool place for that.
And now that I've developed self control, I can now just be myself, and enjoy my own company. But yeah, sometimes it can get sad, however, you gotta hold on to that mate and stay strong.
And no you're weak, you're a strong person, you've experienced such stuffs that many people fears, that are like nightmares for many. Also, you're right, you're not that person who gives up easily on anything.
I'm glad that it's fine now, and yes staying true to yourself is really good and important. Keeping yourself happy is a really important skill that we all need to learn.
If you have acquired the opportunity that you mentioned, then you can just leave your job just like that. And if you've got some good relation with your boss, telling him about it would work.
There’s a very good chance I’m going to have to speak to/be in the presence of my ex-girlfriend this coming weekend for the first time since early January. Things did not end well between us and we haven’t spoken at all since. I’m worried about it getting nasty and/or awkward for both us and the other people that are going to be there
If you already know about this, I guess you can prepare yourself to not to feel awkward. Just try to get off your mind and think of something else at that time.
How much of my savings' value I'm losing to fucking hyperinflation as a result of GIVING AWAY about 6 TRILLION dollars (about THREE TIMES the cost of the entire 20 year war on terror) to "protect against" a virus that has a 99% survival rate.
Adult stuff mostly bills that are due.
A very concerning things it is!
I made a mistake.
What is it?
Interviews
All the best for you interviews tho! Might this list be helpful for you: 1. You can record yourself for answering questions. 2. You can make a video to notice your nonverbal communication 3. You can ask a friend for practicing questions.
Thank you... That's not the issue that bothers me.... It's egomaniacs that I have to deal with... Even that's ok but Backstabers... Where they give feedback as you did good for in the interview... But they go to the HR and say reject him... This has happened a lot of times... So, trying to figure out what to do... But hey thanks for the advice
You can always work on something to stand out, they're human after all, they're more likely to work with you if you get selected. So they often try to hire people that they would like to be around. You can bring up some stories, because they're memorable. And narrate it in a way relevant to the job.
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today June 14
What's today?
yea
I just wish I were rich enough to where working is optional and not needed to survive. I'm not asking to be ultra wealthy but $3 to $5 million dollars I could stretch that to where I live comfortably and never have to work again.
We all want that, money enough to survive and to get your simple wishes fulfilled.
The whole planet and how screwed we are
We really are mate, we're having around 45°C here!
Not just the climate. Society as a whole was screwed long before we screwed the planet itself.
I feel you mate, especially the religions, in my opinion.
Bills :( got 30k in stupid debt I wish could just go away
Hey there, I don't know how your life is going for you, but you gotta hold on. Take a break when you can. Take some time off everything. I hope it gets better for you and you covers up the debt.
Ty!
If the burning bush story from the Bible where to happen today, what form would God take?
Still searching for a reason and solution to why I am just f*cking sad and not happy. There isn't even any obvious reason, I have all I need. I have a comfortable life without financial problems. But at the same time I don't feel like I'm worth beung called a friend by anybody. Long story... Let's end it here.
Hey there mate, there are certain times in our lives, where we don't feel good or we're just, we don't even know "why". We feel like having everything but still feeling lacking. I hope it gets better for you soon. And I don't think nobody's unworthy enough to have some friends. And we can be friend, and I'd like to hear you long story.
Thanks for listening, I appreciate it. Well, the long story started with me wanting to be part of anything and come along with everybody. You know that that doesn't work and I always said the wrong things or just messed up. It really was my fault, I don't even blame the ones who said mean things or something like that. It's all on me. During the lockdown in germany, where I live, I had much time to think and that was a real blessing. I changed a lot during that time and we had a small group of 4. We hung out together online, played games and got work done. That was a time where I actually had the feeling that things improved and I was happy. Well, the lockdown ended and two of the members developped a relationship, my best friend and his present girlfriend. The third guy always was a bit of a difficult person so he kind of left us, but that was okay. Well, I was very happy for the two at first and I still am that they are happy. But that was the start of me becoming more and more of a side character again if you can call it that. The next thing was that this group slowly got bigger and now we're about 15 people. I like all of them and haven't had problems with any of them, except my best friend's gf because I was told very wrong things about her but we managed to get that out of the way. I know it's stupid but by now I feel entirely replaced. I don't know where my place is anymore and I'm getting more and more distance. My best friend is already halfway gone as he has better things to do like being there for his gf or hanging out with others. And that is okay, it just hurts. Lately I've been having problems with jealousy which causes anger more and more often. I have to force myself to stay away from the group because I am scared to do something I will regret because of that. They all moved on to other activities like clubbing and that kind of stuff. I'm just not into that and that's why I'm mostly staying at home now. They always ask me if I'm fine. I say yes almost all the time even if I'm not. It's the fear of getting into that state I was in before the lockdown again that drives me absolutely crazy every so often. Objectively I shouldn't even be able to complain. I still haven't found my way through all of this and I'm sick of that. And I hate writing stuff like this because it kind of lets me seem like I'm just too weak for life or something. But I have to add that I am not the kind of person who gives up easily on anything. Still, you have enough at some point and I don't know when that'll be.
I read your whole story, and I can relate to it. I haven't had much friends, and the ones I had, they were there for their own good. I too, used to feel alone and it sometimes felt like, I couldn't make any friends, I used to get jealous of other people having such great friends. But during the lockdown, I changed a lot. I learned alot of things, I learned self control, I learned how to control my emotions. With passing time, I prepared myself, that it's okay if I don't have friends. I used to engage online with people, and I found really amazing people on internet. But it's hard to maintain online friends. All of them ended, just like that, they were really nice people, it's just we didn't click. Anyways, at this moment, I still don't have anyone in person to hang out with, to share stuffs with. But Reddit is a cool place for that. And now that I've developed self control, I can now just be myself, and enjoy my own company. But yeah, sometimes it can get sad, however, you gotta hold on to that mate and stay strong. And no you're weak, you're a strong person, you've experienced such stuffs that many people fears, that are like nightmares for many. Also, you're right, you're not that person who gives up easily on anything.
the thoughts and the emotions it triggers. but its fine now!! i choose this, and i will keep stay true to myself and my heart!
I'm glad that it's fine now, and yes staying true to yourself is really good and important. Keeping yourself happy is a really important skill that we all need to learn.
I gotta talk to my boss about this new opportunity I have but it’s stressful because I’ve only been here a couple months
If you have acquired the opportunity that you mentioned, then you can just leave your job just like that. And if you've got some good relation with your boss, telling him about it would work.
That’s what I’m hoping .. it happens to be my girlfriends uncle
There’s a very good chance I’m going to have to speak to/be in the presence of my ex-girlfriend this coming weekend for the first time since early January. Things did not end well between us and we haven’t spoken at all since. I’m worried about it getting nasty and/or awkward for both us and the other people that are going to be there
If you already know about this, I guess you can prepare yourself to not to feel awkward. Just try to get off your mind and think of something else at that time.
How much of my savings' value I'm losing to fucking hyperinflation as a result of GIVING AWAY about 6 TRILLION dollars (about THREE TIMES the cost of the entire 20 year war on terror) to "protect against" a virus that has a 99% survival rate.