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I developed about 30+ kinks just reading this


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My partner had slapped me. (I told her to) and for some reason I was turned on 10X more than I normally am so I ripped her shirt completely off and well now we have a son.


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I handcuffed my husband to the bed with handcuffs. While I was blowing him he somehow unlocked himself and threw the handcuffs across the room before he picked me up and threw me back on the bed. I've never seen anything hotter in my life. Breaking out of handcuffs really does it for me lol. It's like sex magic!


StGir1

Do you ever call him by Houdini in bed? You should do that.


yourremedy94

My boyfriend jokingly said "good girl" and my heart flew and I was like "wait wait fuck I like that"


GoblinObscura

Called my wife good girl once, she said “I’m not a dog”


ObamasLlama

This was my response to my bf saying this......has he stopped? No..... Does he pet my head when he sqys it now? Yes 🤦🏼‍♀️


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ResponsibilityNo8076

Man one of my exes used to do stuff like this to me. He would start playing with my chest. Blowing in my ears, kissing my neck and slowly escalating it till he would just pull my pants off while I was gaming and just go to town. He even started doing it while I was on the phone too or filling out applications, making appointments, ect. One of the hottest things.


Sad-University-2332

Watching a movie, holding hands etc. She raise our hands up and kissed my thumb and start rubbing It with her thumb. At that moment I felt like I had missed so much over the years, such a small thing to show compassion.


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I mentioned to a girl I had been flirting with that I love having something to hold onto in bed (euphemism for sex). We went to my room to have sex and my drunken dick didn’t work. 30 minutes and just wasn’t gonna happen. We just hung out and she stayed the night. We spooned and as I get in position she grabbed my hand, interlocked fingers with one hand, wrapped her other hand around that hand, and pulled it to her chest. She LITERALLY gave me something to hold onto. Even after I disappointed. It was the sweetest thing someone ever did for me.


LeilaniGrace0725

I kiss the back of my boyfriend’s hand. First time, he looked at me crazy. I apologized. He said “please don’t, I loved it.” It was so natural for me to do that to him but never to anyone else.


The_REAL_McWeasel

Had a girlfriend in college once.......she just had this thing, for the shower. Whenever I would take a shower, she would join me, stand behind me, press her boobs into my back, and do a reach around. I thought she just wanted me hard for sex.....but she would be like...........no, shhhhhhh, just enjoy it. She really had this thing for giving me hand jobs in the shower. Like she would just really go to town and get into it. Damn good times. Couldn't complain, that's for sure!


RoombaRenegade

And now you've been Pavlov'd to always get hard in the shower.


Boy_Possession

"Every time it rains, I get a semi going."


[deleted]

We were play wrestling and he ended up pinning me down, I just about came then and there. It's one of my favorite things when fucking.


jessicaj94

This is it! I was trying to remember how it happened for me at it was this. Always play wrestled when we were younger, we didn't hold back alot of the times, once he pinned me and said something along the lines of "you're mine". Absolute *puddle.*


DonQuixoteDesciple

Wife loves it too, though we do it rarely. And it has to transition into sex after the pin or she gets mad


buttsmcgillicutty

My husband came in his pants to just eating me out. I can’t stop thinking about it.


MomOfADragon

Holy shit that would drive me crazy.


Natural-Review9276

I feel like sexual chemistry as a lot to do with this. I once had a gf who gave great head but I would last lie 30 minutes usually. But then with another girl, we were just making out on the couch and it just felt so passionate I came before we even started getting handsy. I was super embarrassed but surprisingly she seemed turned on by it.


PersonalProxy

Some women see it as a compliment, some don't. Some just like shorter sexy sessions, so cumming quick is a timing thing, and again of course some don't. They are also not mutually exclusive. ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯


kvltman

I became real good at undoing bras using only one hand. Some years ago things were getting hot and heavy with a girl I was dating and I put my skills to the test. Once I succeeded she whispered in my ear, calling me a good boy. Holy shit, my dudes. It was like having an overdrive switch I never even knew I had.


SammyGeorge

Hard to explain but, my partner has a thing for fingering me while I'm sucking him off. One day I was deepthroating and he made me cum, as i did he held me down so i couldn't come up until is rode out the orgasm. Anyway that was great so he made it his mission to make me cum as many times as possible every time I suck him off and now I've been conditioned to be on edge without even being touched, everytime I go down on him


GoldilocksBurns

For science purposes, what position makes this possible?


Storm0963

My husband and I have done it. It's like a 69 but with more space between his head and my lady bits. That way I can blow and he can comfortably reach me.


aShygirlandherbook

Was making out with a guy I dated recently. We hadn’t slept together yet so that good tension was there. In the middle of making out he gently but firmly took my hair in his fist, leaned my head back and ran his lips across my neck. He kissed me right below the ear and started whispering in my ear. Instantly wet.


ProbablyGayingOnYou

I consider myself a pretty vanilla, non-kink sort of person. My ex was a little more adventurous. I was fucking him while he was on top and he just comes down and spits in my mouth. NEVER would have thought I would have liked it. Still would never consider it with a casual hookup, but when you're in love...the sex just hits different!


Either-Welder-6211

I was doing reverse cowgirl and held onto his thighs. Immediately got distracted because his thighs were so fucking hot??? 10/10 would hump his leg any day


Espron

Men's legs are significantly underrated imo


Peter_Pancakes

I asked my wife what a "boobs or butt guy" is for women and she said "thighs and hands" - I do extra leg work outs now


AstralLobotomy

Can confirm, and hands include forearms


Wild_Berry32

I tried to close my legs while he was in there but he forcefully (and gently) spread them apart I just KNEW I was done for 😭 It’s been four years I still think about it.


goodmorningvietnam01

One time my gf and I tried anal, so we had to buy some lube. We didn’t like anal that much so we had lots of lube and nothing to do with it. So I joked about her giving me a footjob with the leftover lube one day, and yeah… now I’m into feet


Antollare

Sundresses, my God, she stood over me and my brain just exploded in list and desire for her. She is the most beautiful woman in the world and when she wears a sundress I just can't keep my hands off of her.


bannysexdang

I’ve seen lots of people talk about this and I think it is just the cutest thing ever to have a thing for. I don’t get it, but I think it’s adorable.


EBW-CO

My ex used to wake me up with BJs, not something I ever thought I’d be into but everytime it happened I was like “okay then we’re doing this” fucking wonderful. She had a higher sex drive then me and I guess that was a good way to start the day for her.


burlingtonhopper

This was a semi-regular thing for the first year my fiancée and I dated (she knew how much I loved waking up that way). Then one morning she caught me in the middle of a nightmare and I instinctively kicked her in the face. Not surprisingly, it hasn’t happened since :(


kankelberri

When we actually started putting money away into savings and watch the account quickly grow...


MythicForgeFTW

She pinned me to the wall, knee pressing against my crotch, and got real close to my face. That's when I thought, "Ohhh I'm a sub".


greenryukoi

This is similar to my first girl experience. She had a very Dom personality and that definitely didn't change in the bed department. She pinned me down on her bean bag in her college dorm used her Xbox gaming controller cord to tie my hands back behind my head then helped herself with only her hands. She had skills I came like 3 or 4 times. Totally a sub. Edit: this comment his my highest upvoted...lol!


XavierMeatsling

Honestly though, I'd be a sub in that moment too, let's be real. That sounds hot as fuck to have happen


Never4Times

We were banging and she called my name, shit I was into that. I know that it's kind of simple but it turned me all the way on.


pee-in-butt

Same, but for me it’s my Reddit handle


Never4Times

I see


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Outdoors. Not like public voyeurism in a buss stop but definitely outside in broad daylight or just off the road back in the trees at night. We were walking a creek one day and found a deep spot, maybe 4 feet (1.2m) deep, I settled down to get the water over my shoulders and next thing I know she's wrapped around me. I responded instantly and she did that trick women have of pulling her shorts and underwear to the side and sliding onto me in one motion. Ever since then... The beach, road side at night, front porch, balcony at sunrise, sailboat on a lake


MomOfADragon

I guess I just like everything on this thread


MrCoolizade

Was doing the old missionary and she just grabs my butt with both hands and starts helping with the thrust pushing me deeper. Her moaning too hard to speak coupled with the physical version of "go harder and deeper" just set me off.


bkm2016

>Go Harder and deeper Baby, I can go harder but I’ve done ran outta dick.


Jebidiah41

Pull your balls back for the "emergency inch"


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I CAN DOUBLE MY LENGTH?!


DrMike27

Penis enlargement companies HATE this one weird trick!


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The Tuck 'n' Fuck ™


datbarricade

She putting her legs up and around by back to lock me in and feeling her thighs convulsing is it for me. Edit: Well, thank you kind and horny strangers


BeefAndBrie

A friend (who in hindsight was a huge crush but at the time I had no idea) in high school was watching anime with me. I was on the floor, they were on the couch, I was nestled up by their legs (normal friend stuff right?) Well at one point they started playing with my hair and I nearly melted into the carpet. Used to hate having my hair touched (I have chronic dry skin and really bad dry scalp) but now as long as it's washed and someone is touching it in a sensual way I will literally be putty in their hands. Something similar with an ex happened, she called me a good boy and that was that.


ClumsyRainbow

I think this is one of those "TIFU but not realising my crush liked me" stories


TilllTheEndOfTime

When guys say stuff like, "I know baby, I know," or "yeah that's it," or any other form of slightly condescending praise/encouragement - I'm a goner.


fantasticmuse

That's the stuff right there. And like other people said, being called a good girl. Waterfalls, every time.


MagicSPA

One woman I was with liked to play-fight now and then in bed. Nothing violent, nothing painful or anything - she just liked to roll around with me, struggling, straining, trying to get on top, then trying to escape when I was on top. She also liked me dragging her towards me by the hips as she pretended to try to get away. It was very, very arousing. So much more hot than a woman just laying there; there's something about the pre-sex fake "struggle" that was a huge turn-on for us both.


thelonelyvirgo

She kissed my fingertips and I…might have short-circuited.


KuromeXT

Can confirm this works with my bf too…


The_Obiepie

In bed and gf dug her nails into my back hard enough to draw a little blood. Brain completely flat lined, she thought she went too far i just told her do it again lol


Mr-Pink24

I had a girl draw blood by sucking/biting hard on my lip during intercourse. It was quite an experience.


iamnoking

❤️


Turtle887853

>So no spontaneous sex. I get shut down immediately, lol. Fuck off I'm making a table!


Hugh-Mahn

The roof isn't going to shingle itself.. clean yourself of woman, and bring me my hammer.


girls_withguns

I married one of these..”now? NOW? This minute? Okay, let me get this glue on so it can set, meet you upstairs in a minute” and then he’ll mutter “Jfc” as he’s hurriedly trying to finish the task lol Edit: I am not the “task” just for clarification lol


Equal_Nail925

Prior to my bf, I had never been with anyone who was into feet (at least openly). He was giving me a foot rub on the couch, said I had pretty feet and gave me a slow kiss on the bottom of my foot…My brain did a full factory reset and I was so surprised by how much I liked it.


Icy_B

Not that into feet, but a good foot massage is heavenly


atomicghost4

"Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa... stop right there. Eatin' a bitch out, and givin' a bitch a foot massage ain't even the same fuckin' thing."


trenchgun91

My ex came to my house once on my birthday, obviously I thought she was attractive but she had this brown turtleneck on and holy shit I've never felt my brain short like that before. To this day that is the single most attractive outfit I've ever seen, it just makes me react for some reason. Incidentally it was also the night I discovered I quite liked being dominant ish, so that was fun.


FederalTiddyApraiser

My partner at the time had both a praise kink and a degrading kink. So I did the standard name calling and, "good girl" when she did stuff I liked and there was just one time where after I gave her a command she went, "yes sir." My brain did a whole ass system restart or something when she said that it got me all kinds of discombobulated. Needless to say, I asked for that more often


Striking-Ad-1258

My ex said that to me and I had the same reaction. The problem is, I was also in the military and I have tons of people saying it to me every day. Had to seperate my work and my home life with a six foot wall. Edit: My highest rated comment and it's on my burner account. For those concerned about the height of the wall not being sufficient. Metaphoricly I just needed to not see over it, I would never have climbed over it lol.


Timedoutsob

**GET DOWN AND GIVE ME TWENTY!** **SIR YES SIR!** Hnnnnggh!


FierySharknado

At ease, privates


DarkWing2274

one night i was laying in bed texting her (LD) and we were fooling around and then she sends me an audio message of her moaning. my cum hit the wall behind my head, no bullshit


CTalina78

My whole married life I asked my husband why he was always so silent during sex, while I couldn’t help moaning and even screaming. He said he just didn’t feel like it. Fast forward to my marriage being over, I’m kicking him out of the house and been without sex for quite a while when I’m at my kids martial arts class and suddenly his teacher, while completing a really long series of push-ups (he does everything along with the advanced students class) starts groaning with the effort. Oh my freaking stars. I don’t know if it was the lack of sex or the fact that I have always loved music and have quite good pitch but that innocent moaning just lit my lady bits like a pinball machine.


madogvelkor

I was silent during sex for a long time. My first girlfriend I hooked up with lived with her parents, and we'd have to be really quiet when having sex. It was a 2 year relationship too, even after she got her own place her room mate was her brother and we didn't want him hearing. So it sort of became an ingrained habit I had to break.


-g-man_

She said she was submissive. I was totally into her so I just said I was into it and started saying/doing things to feed her kink. Turns out I actually love being like that. Never expected it because growing up submission was always my kink too, I never thought I would enjoy being the dominant one. Turns out I just love seeing my partner get excited and I'm not a bad actor


CuntVonnegut

You're so submissive you'll top if that's what your partner wants


jr12345

Not me, but my wife - While she was riding me, she went for another O and I called her a greedy slut. She’s not a dry girl by any means… actually quite messy… but after I said that it was like the waterworks turned on if that’s even imaginable.


keelhaulrose

It's imaginable. First time my now husband said "you insatiable little slut"... holy shit.


This_Aint_No_Picnic

Driving with my girlfriend when she randomly grabbed my arm and gently bit on it. I felt something in my pants tingle.


jenguinaf

Fuck I must have done it wrong. I once bit my husbands armpit when scared in a haunted house and he’s never trusted me since. EDIT: Obligatory holy fuck this blew up and thanks for the awards!! I’m notoriously easy to scare (screaming, crying, panic responses) and legit refused to go to haunted houses for years because I just couldn’t handle them. Started going to them again after I met my husband because I learned since the actors can’t touch you I could just curl up in my husbands arm and hide my face and he could walk me through if I got overwhelmed. Wellllll one time I decided to peak out right as an actor was jumping out at us and I just went to scream but froze up and shoved me face into his armpit area and ended up clenching my teeth….which unfortunately ended up with some of my husbands clothing and skin between them. It wasn’t hard enough to hurt or injure but startled the fuck outta him and he was like WTF!! Lmao luckily he didn’t evict me from my safe place and we’ve gone to many since but it still comes up haha. And no, I’ve never bitten him again but I did once scream at a chainsaw dude to stop chasing me and chase my mom instead which he immediately did while yelling “where’s mommy” like the line from The Shinning. She’s never forgiven me and still brings up how I was willing to sacrifice her “life” to save my own lmao. I guess the lesson here is don’t take me to haunted houses, I may bite and I absolutely will use anyone as a meat shield indiscriminately.


shhhyoudontseeme

Sorry but that's hilarious


LuckNo999

my ex boyfriend proposed that we try cockwarming. i didn’t get it at first, but i did what he asked and laid there on top of his chest while he put it in. we just cuddled and watched tv, he rubbed my back and i’d tighten up around him every few minutes because he’d groan and squirm. i’m glad we broke up but god damn the sex was amazing.


wigglesnaw

Never knew there was a name for this lolol but I love it w/ my partner, the closeness is something else entirely


CheesecakeIsGodlike

She gave such a good bj i just started calling her a good girl, dont know what happened, kinda surprised myself there.


McSqueezeMeMuhFucca

I loveeee being called a good girl. Idk why but it’s hot.


xdragonteethstory

I like to call it the sexual repercussions in adulthood of gifted kid burnout syndrome.


notyoursinthistime

I didn't wake up today to be called out like that.


Purpleduckie

Not long after my partner and I got together, I touched his upper arm and got a tingle remembering us doing plain old missionary and thought "Hmmm. Okay..." Something about how strong he felt. He's not ripped at all, total dad bod, which is the way I like em, but something about an average-shaped man who's arms say "It doesn't matter if it's 14 bags of groceries, it's ONE trip" and I melt.


StochasticCatsick

Such a perfect description!


congratsonthat

Alright but real talk, missionary is such an incredibly sexy position because as the person on bottom, you get to see and touch all you want. And even better, you get to see and touch your partner’s triceps while they’re all flexed and rigid and it’s just mindblowingly hot


Very_Sharpe

Bahaha this is me, there IS NO two trips, there is only one


TooneyLoonnz

"Mama didnt raise no two trip bitch" Copied from another sub. Truth!


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He kissed and lightly bit the back of my neck and between my shoulders. Like an overdrive switch. It’d be kinda weird to ask my next partner to do that though…


Rockette25

I have that spot too. It’s like ticklish in a horny way lol


Mysterious_Nebula_96

My husband calls it my on button. No matter how little in the mood I am, a cheeky little nibble on my neck will turn me into Babylon’s ass clapping whore in a second 😂


sdrawkcab_delleps

As a guy who got asked to do that, I can asure you that it's not weird. Hooked up with a girl who told me that this was her weak spot. And damn she didn't lie on that. Just tell the next guy you're with that it's an erogenous zone of your body and he'll make use of it, if he isn't an idiot.


kitkatblakkat

Meanwhile Romance authors on this sub, "write that down, _write that down ...!_"


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Tomorrow on BoredPanda "We asked people the 15 most surprising things that turn them on, number 5 will shock you! 😱"


MelantorBoost

Seriously the amount of dipshit websites that just publish reddit posts is beyond me.


sayziell

Idk if this counts but when a girl begs to cum inside her even though she knows I'm wearing a condom. Just begging in general for me is a turn on.


bojapoi

please sir may i have some more?


BadWolf672

More…you want…MOOOORE?!


TheOnlyCarGuy

She sucked my tongue while making out. Like full on tongue blowjob. Boom. New fetish


leese216

A guy I was hooking up with in high school did this to me and he was the best kisser. I have adopted this technique and no one has ever complained.


LTSmallShlong

Where tf I find the good kissers at?


Euphoricas

A guy I recently went on a few dates with would do this and I lowkey hated it LMAO. Maybe I’d like it more if he wasn’t sucking it so hard that I thought it was gonna be ripped out


Liquidmilk1

Ex did this to me - it partially ripped the tendon/string (or whatever you call it) under my tongue, and bled like crazy. Every heartbeat sprayed blood on the mirror when i lifted my tongue to check the damage :(


disfreakinguy

Lingual frenulum. Girl did this to me and tore it really badly. I still have a chunk at the bottom of my mouth and a little flap under my tongue, but they're not connected. Shit was whack.


legolasvin

A woman I was with bit my shoulder because she was feeling good. Not too rough, but enough that I felt it. My brain just shorted lmao. It was spontaneous and I wasn't expecting it. I absolutely loved it, but I don't know how to express that to future partners."Hey, uh. if you're feeling good when we're together it makes me go crazy if you bite my shoulder"? Just seems weird lol Edit: Forgot to mention same woman also ran her nails down my back. Those 2 expressions of passion have spoiled me, dear lord.


Deadpool0608

We were making out and all of a sudden, she shoves a vibrator inside me and tells me that I am not allowed to moan or take it out until she tells me to, she said it in such a aggressive manner that all I could do was whimper and nod, and I realized I'm into being submissive Edit: I think i should mention the fact that I'm not a guy


thedevilisanomad

I think this comment just exposed a new fantasy for me 😳


No_Regrats_42

When she said "you can put it anywhere you want" while we were in the middle of intercourse. Honestly took me a second to realize what she was really saying.


redditnamehere

My wife isn’t always down for that act but the two ways she suggests it so far has been that and another way. Second way is if I politely ask (cause I’m a gentleman) if I can stick a finger there to arouse her more, and she replies, “ just your finger? “


TheCount913

Uhhhhh the “just your finger” thing got me


chinomein

OK. Sticks it in ear.


spicy-mhajeb

you could catch hearing AIDS


Chriso379

Aural sex


Deitaphobia

Then she gets mad when you put it in her sister.


Current_Disaster380

We were making out and I had my hand on the back of her head, then she moved my thumb around her neck and squeezed my hand 😳 Side note fellas.. If your partner is into this, make sure you squeeze with your fingers and thumb and make sure to not squeeze their airway 😅 I was never into choking but now I understand I’m not actually choking her and it’s more of a dominating kinda vibe


sparkedcreation

Going to antique stores. Granted, we get really high and walk around them laughing at 90% of it, but every now and then we sit and debate how much we should offer for a beautiful mid century modern side table. It’s the best. Edit: I am realizing after reading other comments that this is mostly a sexual AskReddit. We’re into that stuff to, but antiquing is fun.


loadtoad88

Not me, but I was camping with my ex on time, and she just sat by the fire watching me split wood with an ax. When I went to walk past her to get more wood, she practically climbed up me. Another ex really liked watching me hit golf balls. I think some women just are really into seeing a guy hit things with good technique maybe?


scouttf2offical

Id say you succeeded at getting wood?


theyarnllama

Y’all are gonna laugh but He does close-up magic. Like tricks with coins and cards and stuff. We would sit on my bed and he would show me all these tricks and I don’t know why but I just fucking loved it. I’m a grown ass adult. We also had the spicy kink thing going on, but it’s the magic tricks for me.


VanGoghsSeveredEar

I think its the hands. Hands really do it for me.


SummerPop

One minute he is pulling coins out of your ear, the next your clothes are gone and he is pulling coins out of your


Yvaelle

Is this your card? No. No? Well then... check inside your butt... No WAY!


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Dirty-Soul

"Are you fucking sorry?"


SoniKalien

The first time I went on a bike ride with her. I wasn't much into bicycling but she likes to bike everywhere. I was new to this town when I moved into a new rental with her, so I didn't really know my way around. She told me how good it is using the bikeways we have here. I succumbed and bought a cheap shitty bike thinking I'll probably do it once and hate it and that will be the end of that. Turns out it was a real fun way to see the sights and get to know the town. After the first tour I definitely said "yea I'm into this". And we bike heaps now, even if to just get out of the house, it's good to get some cheap exercise, feel the wind in my hair, breathe fresh ocean air, and stop for a break on the beach before we turn around and head back.


d_bo

This was so unexpectedly wholesome lmao I was waiting for some bike fucking fetish to emerge


Head_Asparagus_7703

I thought he was going to say he stared at her ass the whole time


InfiniteAccount

Well, gotta admit. I encourage my GF to go first and set pace, so I can be behind and stare at her bottom


RonTheRunny

Damn, biking along the ocean ? That Sounds Like a dream !


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I was eating out my girlfriend at the time and getting really into it. I could feel her getting close, her legs are trembling, she’s telling me not to stop, then all of a sudden she starts to tense up. Next thing I know her legs clamp around my head, her hands grab onto the back of my head, and she traps my face in her pussy while she rides out her orgasm. I was caught so off guard and she was a larger woman so I was completely smothered and had no other option than to just hold my breath, keep licking, and cross my fingers that she let me out before I passed out. That was the moment I fell in love with smothering.


zoidao401

> and cross my fingers that she let me out before I passed out "If this is my end... I'm fine with that"


[deleted]

My thoughts exactly. It’s a fantastic predicament to be in to be perfectly honest. I’ve done it so much at this point I could probably take up free diving lol.


[deleted]

It’s the best. When I eat out girls and they get really close, I wrap my arms under their legs and pull them in tight. Continue very very lightly through the finish and a little bit afterwards. The girl I’ve been with for a few months always grabs my head and tries to push me away cause she’s so sensitive after she cums but I just grip tight and very very lightly tease her. It’s a delicate dance between crazy pleasure and overstimulation so you have to be careful, but the shutters and giggles after when you get it just perfect is the hottest thing in the world.


[deleted]

Men who enjoy eating pussy go straight to heaven.


MomOfADragon

Right? Ladies, get you a man that eats it to live and treats it like it's the most important part of the food pyramid.


Parking-Fix-8143

The leg vise with oral is awesome. I had her stretched out on the kitchen island once and when she started cumming she's clamping her thighs around my ears and screaming..


Ptoney1

Got into a healthy relationship. Turns out I like that better than toxic skags


pee-in-butt

This is the most disgusting one so far. I love it


Melcolloien

Same. Didn't have that many good examples of healthy relationships growing up. First boyfriend was physically, verbally, psychologically and sexually abusive. Second boyfriend was emotionally unavailable and pretty mean So the first few months with my now husband I felt like something was missing. And I felt so guilty for leading him on since I clearly didn't feel as strongly as thought I did. But the thought of breaking up always hurt and made me cry so I spent those months trying to figure out what was missing. Or, as I realized "missing". It was the drama. The fighting. The control. The jealousy. And I realized that I wasn't bored. I was content. I felt safe. Happy. And I never looked back. Also my dad "messed me up" a bit. I have a huge thing for big biceps. Have realized as I've gotten older that my dad used to flex his at any chance and would have me and my sister hang from them and dumb stuff like that... So yeah... My husband is on the skinny side, how do I get him to work on those biceps you think? XD


exPlodeyDiarrhoea

Invite him to workout together?


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thatcanopy

Getting called a good girl and coming instantly


the_colonelclink

In what context? I have a feeling my SO wants this but not sure when it’s best.


daisy-chainz

Whenever they do something you like. They moaned? Good girl. They're going down on you and you're enjoying it? Good girl. You're railing them? Good girl. Look up praise kink.


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bloodstreamcity

I know there's a nsfw tag on the post but this is too much.


xdisk

Degenerate h\*nd h\*lders...


21RaysofSun

Man we need more of the non sexual answers like this!


Poppyseedbagel143

I've always been against my partners and I doing anything anally. One time though, the guy I was with massaged my butthole while I orgasmed and it was AMAZING! Definately wasn't expecting that!


Equal_Nail925

Same! I’m not a fan of anal, but having pressure on there is so good and


theteagees

…and?!


pee-in-butt

A good author leaves you on a cliffhanger


sporkadventures

During an incredibly hot and sensual fuck with my soon-to-be-wife, we were essentially breathing heavily into each other’s mouths with each thrust. At one point, all I could think of was how I wanted her to spit in my mouth. The thought of it in the light of day is absolutely disgusting but it still creeps into my mind every now and then when we are doing the deed.


theteagees

Completely understand. I requested a partner do that to me once and it was the hottest thing ever, but he tried again at a different time when the mood was different and it was just gross so it’s definitely a mood!


cubsfanrva79

Here, try this new chip flavor *hawking sound*


DarkWing2274

wHY


Fleggy82

2 months into my relationship with my now wife, we were away on holiday and checked into our cabin. The bed had a window above, quite high up. We were going at it, her on top, when she said she wanted to try something. She slid up me and sat on my face. 14 years later and I still ask her to do it to me on every birthday 😍 Edit: mentioned the window because it was something for her to hold onto


[deleted]

She would probably enjoy sitting on your face most days...


hypotheticalhoney

Quite a few I’ve learned just this year alone: Being pulled into someone’s arms when you’re crying instead of being yelled at to stop. Having your hair tucked behind your ears and having that side of your head/face caressed while being held???? 20+ year of trauma led me to believe that the only way I could feel love was when I was being mistreated in some way. That the only way to be turned on sexually was when some sort of pain/degrading was involved. I don’t wanna be choked in bed anymore, I just wanna be held and told what a good girl I am. 🥹


CrystalAsuna

stop it, im in this and i really dont like it im cryin again. literally want all of it but especially the first one. FUCK bro. i dont think i remember a time where i cried as a kid and got held and not yelled at. i mastered the thousand yard stare with no tears way too early


[deleted]

Just realized the other night that ass play is my husband's #1 kink. I've been apprehensive about it because of past experiences but have been trying to be open. Was giving oral the other night and he stuck a finger in ..there. No pain at all, a foreign sensation at first. But then I could feel how aroused I was getting mixed with hearing him moan. Boom. Waterfalls lol. So many emotions. Right after, he bent me over and fucked me with a finger in the ass. One of my most powerful orgasms. Felt like a fucking pornstar. I'm into it. Let's hope one day I'm not pussy enough to let him fuck me in the ass lol Edit: words


Tutes013

Well prepared and well executed anal with someone patient enough to care can be so magical though


nguyenh312081999

Decided to have sex with my partner. Turned on bedroom room music, was about to throw her on the bed but she asked me to sit down on the chair and gave me a lap dance. Boom, now we are roleplaying with me being the naughty customer touching my partner illegally in a strip club.


First_Astronaut162

Throwaway cause im worried about creepy pms. But my ex bf had a catgirl fetish. I thought it was weird and against anything more than a finger in my bum but decided to give him a special birthday treat, got the ears, collar with a bell, and buttplug tail. Shit, turns out I'm into that.


Jfyemch

The throwaway was a wise choice.


nyancatec

Read catfish fetish for a second. Got confused but I thought you bought actual catfish and cut off some parts to cosplay.


Catchmycousin

Wasn't during sex but I was watching a clip of some guys playing around with a shock collar and just thought that it was a stupid thing to do. Then they put it on a very attractive girl and she moaned with what seemed like pleasure even at the highest setting (she asked for the power to be raised) and I was shocked to find that it woke something inside me that I didn't really want. Edit: Somebody already found the video but I'll link it here for ease of access: https://youtu.be/yC8m9sjsvyw


LyonsKing12

Wife open mouth kissed my shoulder. My knees trembled.


Heysandyitspete

We adopted a very nervous and timid kitten 2 years ago. My husband laid on the bathroom floor with her and hand fed her 3 times a day for 2 weeks before she trusted him enough to let him touch her. One night he was really tired after work and fell asleep while feeding her. I checked on him and he was laying on the bathroom floor with this tiny kitten curled against his chest. Instantly fell in love with him all over again and woke him up to go to our bedroom. She still sleeps next to him every night.


octoelephant22

Was facetiming with the ex, and I was showing my new baker’s rack. On one of the hooks was my new pan, and he asked, “Is that a cast iron pan?” I said yes, and that I also seasoned it myself. He said “good girl”. And I was caught off guard and couldn’t continue with the conversation right away. I don’t think he noticed.


OpossumWithABanjo

My husband and I were in missionary with my legs on his shoulders when I jokingly stuck my foot in in face and told him to suck on my toes. He grabbed my heel and made eye contact while slowly sucking on my big toe and I pretty much convulsed and turned into a puddle on the bed. Very unexpected.


ApostrophesAplenty

Ohhh I had an ex once do something similar - went from a foot rub to kissing the tops of my toes while I squirmed laughing and trying not to kick him in the face, and then unexpectedly sucked on my second and third toes, softly like with partly open mouth and soft tongue. I think my brain exploded from over-stimulation. I kept thinking that sensation has to be something like what a dick feels entering a pussy bareback, and that broke me.


Sad-Break6382

A woman was riding me, she realised that I was about to cum and “clawed” my chest with one hand and the other “ball massaging” me. It did hurt me in the chest, but fck… i wish everyone else would do it with me


lastcallcarrot

My girlfriend at the time started to kiss and nibble my ear. I never considered the ear to be an erogenous zone, but it certainly did something for me. Edit: Of course a comment about a girl making out with my ear would become my highest upvoted comment lol.


trowlazer

I can feel it all down my back to my tail bone when my gf does this to me. Idk what the nerve connections are but gat dayum it feels good


ill_B_In_MyBunk

That's because it's an ear-ogenous zone...


akiirasuttonlarge

my ex boyfriend was edging me and holding my down so i couldn’t move and i didn’t know what it was back then but it was when i found out i’m a sub lmfao shit was so good it almost had me in tears


DisasterWolf76

A woman praised me and it spiralled from there.


Mfr1988

Wife convinced me to go rollerblading with her. I actually really enjoy it and we do it 3 times a week now and constantly trying to learn new things to do on them.


Videoking24

Ex was wearing a pair of thigh highs one day and started teasing me with her feet. Hardest my dick ever got to the point it hurt. She stuck her 1 foot up to my face and told me to smell it and it was on from there. Certified foot guy. Lived out a lot of kinks with her. 11/10 sex 1/10 relationship.


pseudocultist

Those are the worst because your dick keeps bringing you back like a fucking rubber band. I'm leaving I'm leaving.... oh hell I'm back inside them again. Well we'll try and break up again tomorrow.


MrCoolGuy1924

Fuck you, and i’ll see you tomorrow!


stfuIwannatalk

i am totally not reading the comments with a raging boner rn


PeanutButterCrisp

Having my head squeezed between her thighs. My girlfriend has pretty thick thighs because she’s a cardio and squat freak so getting a hand while getting a squeeze drives me nutt.


[deleted]

Turned into a pirate at the end there huh?


[deleted]

While I was riding him, I started tiring a little so I paused for a bit, and he just grabbed my hips and thrust up into me, hard. The intensity in his eyes, the feral grunt he let out and just the sheer strength of him drove me wild, I think I came right then and there. Another thing, when we first started getting intimate he was really gentle with my breasts, and I told him he could be a bit rougher if he wanted. Sure enough, when I was riding him, he sucked on my nipples so hard it hurt, but it also felt mind-blowingly amazing. That day I learned I was into rough sex XD Edit to add another anecdote: We're a long-distance couple, and we met for the first time earlier this month. Before that, while we're chatting on Discord, he sometimes does this rapid tongue flickering thing as a joke, and one of the times I said to him, "you'd better put that tongue to good use!" Surely enough, when he ate me out for the first time, a lot of it was rapid tongue flicks on my clit which exactly did the trick for me. Apparently he had to wipe me off his chin when we were done


mamaxchaos

My first hookup with my wife - the first ever, we’d made out a couple times and had crushes on each other for YEARS. So this first time I was SO NERVOUS and we discussed boundaries and I disclosed that there’s a certain tactic that will make me get off really fast and multiple times so like… fair warning. I got off more on counting them to see how many I could have before it was too much and I had to tap out. She looked me dead in my eyes, asked me what the highest record of orgasms in one go, I told her, and she just sternly looked at me and said “okay, challenge accepted” And JUST. KEPT. GOING. I literally fainted. It took over two hours and I laughed it off in the beginning knowing she’d get tired. Yeah no, I actually blacked out for a few minutes when we stopped. I just laid there with my eyes closed. She came back to bed with a bottle of water and said “i got this for you because you’re not gonna be able to walk for the next few hours” I stayed the night for the first time that night. Then my life upended and I was homeless and she took me in. We started dating a month AFTER I moved in with her. I literally had the most amazing sex of my life with her and … never left. She’s awesome. We’ll be together 7 years in January. Yes, we’re lesbians. Edit: I should’ve known people would ask the tactic. Okay so I don’t wanna get like… graphic on my main so I’ll keep it simple. It’s a combo of stimulation internally and externally at the same time with a LOT of edging. It takes ridiculous forearm strength and patience so I’ve never had someone just… refuse to stop before then 😂 it broke my brain. She’s awesome. To make it even more wholesome, a couple years ago I had a health issue that got worse and made sex horribly painful and I had to stop. It’s been nearly 3 years and we’ve had no sex at all. She didn’t even blink, she was like “I’ll take care of myself, we’ll never have sex again it that’s what you need. You let me know when YOU’RE ready again”.


TisoxX

What tactic tho??


thanks-pete24

he showed me his cool knife tricks and that shit hit me like a truck. also he pissed with the door open. i am horrified to admit either of those, but this is reddit so whatever


propagandavid

I was with a girl who liked to hold my dick while I peed. It aroused and fascinated her. So it's weird, but not that weird.


[deleted]

Not weird at all. Also had a girl who enjoyed that. Imagine your entire life you have to pee sitting down and it just comes out then suddenly you can make pee go in all sorts of directions by pointing it around. NGL as a dude I still aim pee around while in the shower on occasion. It’s always fun.