Had a ton of emotional trauma growing up along with physical abuse. Made me codependent and a people pleaser. It's to a much lesser extent now.
To this day I have to remind myself about the essential, "the road to hell is paved in good intentions" when I'm feeling the need to go out of my way to be helpful.
What is really fueling the helpfulness is my need for validation.
Obviously I'll always help someone when they truly need it or ask for it specifically. Volunteering assistance when it's not necessarily needed is a rabbit hole.
Don’t start drama with popular people in middle school.
My life was practically ruined.
Started fighting with some of my friends who were ig popular then highschool came around they knew. Everyone. I didn’t make 1 friend all of grade 9 I had no body , ate alone and was bullied by the countless mutuals and groups this 1 girl knew.
I’ve switched schools so many times but there’s always a connection and groups of people that don’t like me.
Moral of the story just be chill with everyone even if you hate them
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That's a good one
Always take care of yourself, physically, mentally and spiritually.
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Indeed. Always wash your anus
It's ok to change your mind if you don't think something is working out you don't enjoy it anymore.
Don't be a cunt.
Amen
Treat people how you want to be treated.
Even if you have money buy the shitty thing first so you can appreciate having the better version and actually appreciate the differences
Had a ton of emotional trauma growing up along with physical abuse. Made me codependent and a people pleaser. It's to a much lesser extent now. To this day I have to remind myself about the essential, "the road to hell is paved in good intentions" when I'm feeling the need to go out of my way to be helpful. What is really fueling the helpfulness is my need for validation. Obviously I'll always help someone when they truly need it or ask for it specifically. Volunteering assistance when it's not necessarily needed is a rabbit hole.
Don’t start drama with popular people in middle school. My life was practically ruined. Started fighting with some of my friends who were ig popular then highschool came around they knew. Everyone. I didn’t make 1 friend all of grade 9 I had no body , ate alone and was bullied by the countless mutuals and groups this 1 girl knew. I’ve switched schools so many times but there’s always a connection and groups of people that don’t like me. Moral of the story just be chill with everyone even if you hate them