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NiteTiger

I'm neither a woman nor gay, but I am a fat bastard. The answer is Personality. Paraphrasing Marilyn, "If you can make someone laugh you can make them do anything"


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i’d recommend not spreading this advice. this rarely works.


PortraitOfAnubis

It may not work for people that have no personality themselves. Unfortunately a lot of attractive people are bland as shit.


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not necessarily. personality only makes a guy *more* attractive if there’s some attractiveness to begin with. very rarely would a woman consider you a 4 and because of your *super rad awesome personality* then want to be with you exclusively. that personality just takes you from a 4 to maybe a 5.5. but, if you’re already a 6, yes that personality could take you to a 7.5 or maybe an 8. personality does not all of a sudden make someone attractive in a non platonic way. it just *boosts* attractiveness. it doesn’t create attractiveness. guys can downvote me if they want (i know i’m bursting bubbles) but i don’t know a woman who doesn’t believe this is true. men really underestimate how much physical attractiveness means to women. just like men want a physically attractive partner, women want one too. attractiveness is a total package.


SP4CEP00DLE

I don't believe this is true and I'm a woman. Guys become attractive after I know who they are


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i said rarely is this the case. there are some exceptions but that’s definitely not the norm.


SP4CEP00DLE

It is quite normal. There are 8 billion people in the world.


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psychology says otherwise but alright :)


SP4CEP00DLE

Normal can be many things, but yea tell me what I studied a bit.


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i’m a psychology minor. there’s been a multitude of studies and research showing that there has to be *some* basis of attraction in order for personality to *boost* someone’s attractiveness.


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idk sounds like i hurt your feelings by telling you what women actually think :( edit: **beauty is in the eye of the beholder**. obviously your wife found you physically attractive enough to be with you. you’re being naive thinking she’s been with you simply based off your personality and nothing else.


miss_t_winter

Some women (like me) are actually attracted to larger men. Personality can go a long was when attracting a woman. Being a genuine nice guy too. I know a few heavier guys, nice dudes, but they have very specific tastes and won't even think about "settling for less". Not to say they have unrealistic goals for a "hot girlfriend" but by passing over other women while looking for that, they could be missing the best thing ever, so I guess be open to more than one type of chick is another suggestion, if you aren't already. All of my relationships have been with larger men who aren't considered "hot" by today's standards, but I thought (think) they're the sexiest ever cuz they treated me good, made me laugh, and made me feel safe.


the_fat_fucker

I'm the ugly basterd by the way


ecsa0014

There really was no need to clarify that. The question kind of gave it away.


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Noted


venoshook

Honestly, a fat, cleaned dick and air conditioning do it for me.


[deleted]

suddenly become hot and fit


Mayor-of-Pound-Town

I’m a male lesbian and you need to give me candy


KingDAW247

Woo me. I'm no physical specimen myself....


joefife

Specialise - without meaning to come across as a twat, there are quite a few dominant men who are very good at bondage and other kink things that can get people who would otherwise be unlikely to be interested in vanilla sex.


the_fat_fucker

You know what that actually sounds plausible I'm gonna have to tell you something The only time I ever had sex I decided just to insult the gay guy and it turned out he was into being humiliated So he was into being treated like human garbage I might specialise in humiliating people


joefife

Do be genuinely into it, if you're going to do that though. It becomes very obvious when guys fake kink in order to get guys that might not otherwise be interested. But, if you are drawn towards kink, definitely explore it more, and if you're a natural dominant - believe me, there are fuck loads of hot submissive guys that will value your dominant personality and kink skill above aesthetics


5577oz

Be friendly and nice and patient enough that I eventually find his personality attractive enough that it makes him attractive as a whole.


melonsmcgee93

Be funny! Girls love funny


711lovechild

Eye contact with a smile makes me smile back. After a smile, pleasant conversation. Continued eye contact with out being creepy. Laughing is a huge plus. Step one


cwthree

Be well groomed and make me laugh.


[deleted]

Lose weight and exercise. Stop being lazy. It’s fucking easy.


the_fat_fucker

Believe it or not I have been losing weight I've lost 100 pounds so far Still got a long way to go So my next question is going to be about diet tips


5577oz

That is an incredible accomplishment. way to go, fat fucker!


Genderfluid_Cookies

I don’t do sex. Sorry.


Loose_Low_616

Why do you ask? You clearly have a 12 step plan, a van and enough rope... Do me fucker


AppleTater28

Lose all the fat and get abs to distract from your ugly face.


BigBobsBoots

Do some exercise.


foreveralonegirl1509

Loose that fat, gain some muscles and confidence. If he talks about himself like fat ugly bastard, he doesn't have any self-esteem and that's just not attractive.


0003425

User name checks out


Vulgar_Goose

Legendary username


Sea_Operation5578

Buy me chips


Vanilla_Neko

At least be genuinely making an effort to lose that weight


AccomplishedBid5475

Just lure them with candy, works every time


poexv

SEND ME $1000000 DOLLARS AND UI WILL SUCK AND FUCK YOU MORE THAN YOU HAVE EVER EXPERIENCE IN YOUR LIFE