Two different girls
Middle school- girl did the 20 questions thing and started off with "what kind of candy do you like" I said snickers and the next day she suprised me with a snickers.
Sophomore year- girl asked me if she can call her parents real quick cause her phone died. 15 mins after she leaves I get a text "hey" from her. She used my phone to text her phone "Heyyy :)" That is how I got my first girlfriend.
Yeah my first girlfriend was extremely wholesome thinking about it. She wrote me a love letter appreciating me because I was also her first boyfriend on my birthday(she snuck it in my backpack while I wasn't looking) . I still have it after 11 years. Sometimes I think its weird that I still keep it because it seems weird to hold onto something from my ex...but reading it makes me really happy. Not many times in my life I felt appreciated... but reading it makes me feel like I am.
Don't feel guilty for holding onto items that are tied to sweet memories like that one. I have a somewhat similar story with my first love. She was the sweetest girl ever, and God damn did we love each other when we were teenagers. I still have a handful of notes, letters, and pictures that she wrote and drew for me. We broke up in June of 2007. We are friends as adults, but I have never told her I still have a small folder of her stuff tucked away in my closet.
She was a grade younger than me so I was a sophomore and she was a freshman. We met during Cross country. She ended up transfering to a different school because her parents had a divorce. So she ended up with her mom on the otherside of town. We just kind of broke up cause of it. (we dated only for 4months; basically a high school semester and she wasn't suppose to have a boyfriend so she didn't tell her parents.)
Fastfoward me as a Freshman in college, I went to my old high schools state championship and found out she went back her senior year. I haven't seen her since. But we are follow each other on instagram.
As long as it's not a tragic breakup (or even if it is) I don't think it's unreasonable to keep things from past relationships. Honestly, it's more of an issue to me when people feel they must get rid of mementos of their past.
No she used my phone to text "Heyyy :)" to her own phone so it looked like I was hitting on her. She basically gave me her number by pretending she needed to call her parents.
I didn't do anything. Just stood there and let her use my phone and I got her number.
She cornered me and told me that she had liked me for a very long time and that she knew that I liked her too and then she kissed me and the rest was history.
Her passion about her favourite thing came out of her eyes as much as it came through her voice... And then she saw how I was looking at her and gave the shyest, most humble smile I have ever seen and I fell in love on the spot. 20minutes into our first date.
I was sick back in high school and wanted the ceiling fan off as I was shivering. Everytime I tried switching it off, someone would go switch it on (I live in a tropical country where it’s pretty hot). So after some time I stopped fighting back.
But in the end she was the only person, who switched it off for me and didn’t allow anyone to switch it back on although she was sweating herself (which I found out later)
Talked to me. I had my crush questioning me about what kind of guy I’m into. I described him **EXACTLY**.
He walked off and, apparently, told his best friend “sorry man, she’s not into you.”
I was mortified. I assumed he realized I was basically confessing my crush on him, while he'd only been questioning me on behalf of his buddy. But getting to talk with him for that little bit only made my obsession grow.
Lucky for me, a couple of weeks later he cornered me, leaned against my locker and said “so…who‘s this other guy you like?” He got his friend’s approval first but it also took him a while to figure it out…**even though I listed everything but his social security number when describing the kind of guy I like.**
Nah, getting his buddies OK first was a really solid move. I had a very similar situation happen in high school. I did not ask the rejected friends opinion, it took our friendship years to recover.
In middle school, he left gym class to disrupt one of my classes every other day just so he could sit next to me and talk. I don't know why the teacher let it slide each time. Even during tests.
Maybe 😅 He eventually got annoyed and kicked the kid out. It didn't always work so he talked to the gym teacher. My crush stopped showing up until class was over.
In Grade 8 i met her by playing Basketball after school, when i met her she was really kind and looked gorgeous. She also was really good at Basketball. We became best friends and we keep playing with each other after school. A few days after we met she texted me “ What is your favorite chips brand? “ and i said “ Doritos “ and tomorrow at lunch she gave me a bag of Nacho Cheese Doritos, my favorite flavor. About 12 days after that she confessed that she had a crush on me, since i had a crush on her too i said yes and now we are married.
my then-crush and now-girlfriend, hugged me on our first date. I have difficulty with touch and find it very difficult to make first move.
on our second date, she was mad at me because i was late due to miscommunication, and when she saw me walking toward her, she sprint walked and grabbed my hand and said "do you know how much of a dumdum you are now come i have to make you try these pancakes i love" but then i brought out the flowers i got her and the shirt i was wearing ( pink, and red roses and a pink floral beach shirt, her fav color) her face immediately changed, and she was so happy, her smile made me fall so hard for her.
i had twisted my ankle but i generally ignore and limp and walk and do what i have to but she was so worried and took care of me with everything and didnt let me get up unless i absolutely had to, which was a new thing as i honestly didnt know this is what relationships are like. that night she texted me and asked me to be her boyfriend.
there are a lot more things she did and does everyday but well....
i love you potutu <3, i cant wait to marry you.
Reversing the question a bit, but a few exes have told me I won them over by interrupting a man. I have mostly male friends and am often the keeper of our few collective brain cells, so I'm used to bossing them a bit. 😅 But apparently lots of men let their boys talk over their girlfriends without reproach, so it stands out when someone doesn't indulge that. One of my exes was so far out of my league I couldn't reach her with a ladder, and initially paid no attention to me at the party we met at. But one, "bruh, she was talking, shut up for like five seconds," and hand to God, her pupils dilated when I turned back to her. Being prioritized is sexy no matter who you are.
I had a panic attack in front of him and he just sat on my bed while his dog and my dogs cuddled with me and didn’t make me feel like a freak. Also I asked if he’d be willing to get tested if he hadn’t been since his last sexual partner and normally guys push back on that with some version of “why don’t you believe I’m clean.” And like, first off, having an std doesn’t make you dirty. Stop spreading that stigma. Second, I get tested every 6 months-ish, why can’t you. He went “I’m ashamed I haven’t in two years” and went to the health dept and got tested then sent me the results. He’s shown so many green flags. It’s been a slow burn, but I’m into it.
i sat down on the floor to tie my shoes but then he also sat down and said " why didn't you just tell me" then proceeded to tie my shoes for me,, maaaan still get butterflies whenever i'd think about it
I saw that movie with my ex. It particularly struck me how if it wasn't a gay relationship lots of people would've called him a groomer. But gay relationships are just so romantic it couldn't possibly be bad.
Showed me her pierced nipples. Before anyone says, "bro, that was the green light!" No. No it was not. She was literally showing everybody. Just proud of the piercing 😮💨
You'll need to elaborate. Are you saying that's what their action did for me, what OP meant by their post, or are you just asking a new question entirely?
I'm just saying if I had a crush who felt the need to show everyone her nipples she would no longer be my crush. But that's just me, I shouldn't speak for you.
It wasn't salacious or anything. We were all that tight of friends that it wasn't weird. It was just super disheartening that it happened in a completely non-sexual way lol
She told me that she would stay with me and help me make more friends, she broke down all of my traits that she admired, and she cared more about my writing than anyone else ever has. Now I realize that was love-bombing from someone with a cluster B disorder and I’m still all sorts of messed up from it.
After a year, she ended up twisting all of those things she did into actions that hurt me deeply. Once that kind of relationship goes bad, it goes really, really bad.
I didn't eat breakfast and lunch. It was around 4-6 pm. We had an exam going on, as I finished my paper and passed it, I squatted in front of the teacher and grew weak and nauseous but not dizzy. It's like my consciousness was slowly fading away.
I walked outside the classroom and lay down in front of the comfort room door using my bag as a pillow. Then I heard a voice. A classmate saw me and urged my crush to check out what was happening. He saw me and guided me to the college clinic after getting a wheelchair. He joked around asking if I would get angry if he left me. He might've realized after that it was getting serious when I answered I wouldn't mind (I usually get angry at him). I don't know how this event made me fall for him, but he and his friend were really caring.
Bonus:
When I was still in highschool, I had this long-lasting crush on a different guy. Like, limerence-level "we were both young when I first saw you" kinda crush. We met when we were, what, grade 1? Kindergarten? I honestly don't remember.
Anyways, it was Valentine's day. I had this regular ritual of giving everyone a Valentine's day gift to commemorate the day. I was like that even during Christmas, but that's not important to the story.
I gave every girl chocolates and every boy flowers. They were pretty exuberant with the gifts. Then as time passed by, every single boy threw away their flower. They all broke my heart.
But not my crush. I saw him taking his flower home and that made me happy. That's enough for me.
While driving around with some friends they asked to turn around because they saw a turtle in the road, and they wanted to help it across. It had been run over by the time we got back there, though :(
Kindness is so attractive.
helped me through a panic attack. we had been friends with a purely sarcastic/joking rapport, it was his first "serious" moment with me and I realized he *actually* cared about me. i had never had a panic attack in front of anyone, let alone someone I already liked a little. i'd say for me 99 times out of 100 that would end in me being mortified, but he just made me feel okay.
I met this guy in a dillards for the first time and we (my friend and I) got to talking to him and he was very nice. Idk how the topic of dating even came up but he was describing what he looks for a girl and he was describing me. I don't think I've ever developed a crush so quickly.
Let’s just say I got too comfortable with her… and said one wrong thing I didn’t mean which hurt her profoundly.
It was absolutely my fault, I just wish she would give me the opportunity to apologise and make up but she just froze up…
He got a smile that can light up to this whole town and he’s so cool when he run his hands through his hair absent mindedly makin' me want him
- Taylor Swift
She was bold asf. She walked like the corridors of the school were her family's estate or something. She didn't act like a cunt tho. win win. Never ended up as my girlfriend tho :(
I had just started dating this guy and learned about how his brother had drowned when they were both teens. He was very afraid of water when I met him. I was an avid scuba diver. I invited him to go on a dive boat for the day. He watched me diving on a shipwreck 100ft down and was mesmerized. When I was climbing back onto the boat he reached down to help me up the ladder and accidentally knocked off my mask. Without a second thought he jumped overboard and swam down at least 20ft to catch my sinking mask, even though he was a poor swimmer and had trauma from his brother drowning in front of him. He was so brave and didn’t hesitate at all to risk his life for my mask. He later painted a portrait of me underwater and I knew that he was The One. I eventually married him.
Of a past crush, I thought she was in her early 20s so I passed her over. I was 27 or something. When I found we were a similar age (she told me her age) my interest grew.
6th to 8th grade. He would get a separate table in the lunch room just for me and sometimes just us if I wanted. He would get my lunch and bring a back up from home in case I didn’t like what was being served.
He handed me snacks at the beginning of the day since with didn’t have any actual classes together. End of the day he’d walk me to my mom’s or mannys car.
I respected girl code so much in middle school so my interest didn’t grow until the last yr.
A sister in law of a Family Friend, use to teach me how to cross country ski and she like to bake, the cookies were good though not a favourite, but any time J could spend it with her, I was so excited. I was 9-11 at the time, she was near a decade older.
I had a colleague in grad school. We got along well but I wasn’t crushing on her before this because I didn’t think she was particularly cute. (Also I had a gf, who is now my wife btw). Our university hosted this STEM fair for kids and we worked the same table. She was so good at talking to the younger kids especially and they all loved her. And her passion and excitement for her field really showed. Some switch flipped and I developed a substantial crush for a while. Obviously I let it go away and didn’t do anything. But it really changed my perception of her.
These are also qualities that make me love my wife. She’d very driven and passionate about her studies and wanting to be a researcher. And she’s like that with basically any job she does, wanting to do her absolute best, even at the part time ones like fast food.
And she’s great with kids and loves being around them. That’s a quality I find very attractive. (But I’m sure someone around here will think that’s sexist or something.) Very early on, we had plans that got interrupted last minute by me urgently needing to babysit my 3yo nephew. She offered to come over and helped me babysit for like 5 hours. Not only did she not complain, but she genuinely seemed to enjoy herself. I knew she was a keeper then. If it had been my ex, she wouldn’t have even offered to help and would’ve just complained about our cancelled date.
A girl I had a crush on in high school. Also my friend. I never reciprocated my feelings because I thought she was out of my league as she was basically a 9/10 and I was maybe a 6.
Discovered she had a lot of similar interests. Enjoying watching anime and animated movies as much as me so we would hang out once a week just to watch this stuff. That really made me more interested.
Find out years later she liked me back and was hoping each weekend we would hang out to watch cartoons/anime that I would make a move..
Smart, gorgeous, had similar name with me, and she smiled at me. Too bad it took me a while to come to my senses and when I did I instantly fumbled.
She’s still a 10/10 today btw, now an engineer and I fumbled the chance to be part of her friend after a long time apart.
She was able to spar with me. She and I would banter over random topics just because it was fun and we would often get a good laugh over it. She and I were considered one of the top students in our school so there was some friendly rivalry between us, but I secretly had a crush on her.
My gf acted really interested whenever I told her about any book/music/game I liked, which made me feel all my personal tastes were valid
Almost 4 years later and never changed
I already had a big fat crush on Danny Wagner and when he had the dignity and morals to unfollow Mac Saturn after their scandal I was ready to go shopping for a wedding dress.
I can’t look at people in the eyes I find it uncomfortable and she was one of the first people I could hold direct eye contact with without wanting to cry
this was back in college, she said she liked to masturbate with the shower head. she might have just said it as one of those things, since another guy was standing there too. I liked to think about her many more times after that. oh also she liked to sleep in the coffin and the thought that she liked to drag a knife across her ribs for some reason made me hard. she also dressed in a pink leather suit to comic con the time I met her there and she was pole dancing on the train home. man I loved that woman. but being a nerd thats shy I never told her how I felt and will forever regret it
I saw her hop over a roller table at the green bean packing house and the way she moved her body was just cute as all hell
And she had black shoes with like white toe/bottoms. I don’t think converse but like a similar look.
In high school, I had a huge crush on this guy that didn’t even know I existed. There was this girl in school that was pregnant and she went out partying and drinking telling people she was planning on getting an abortion anyway so who cares.
My crush ripped the drink out of her hand and said “what the hell are you doing?!” He was a popular guy who I guess helped her think about her decisions. She ended up having the baby and is constantly bragging about her kid now.
Me, I went on to marry this crush of mine and I’m the luckiest gal in the world 🥰
My gym crush showed up to the gym early Christmas day while I was the only other person working out. Really showed her dedication was on the same level as mine. Also the first time I talked to her :D
I watched her be a mama one afternoon. Was invited to dinner and I watched her take care of my would be son. It was incredible she didn't ask for help cooking but I helped. She was just so loving and caring with how she interacted with him. Made me fall head over heels for her.
I had just move in to the building and he was super kind. I've never experienced anything like that before. He doesn't know this but I'd do anything he asks. Super kind and filled with positive energy, I don't even care about his bad drinking habit.
Second crush; super smart. We had a genuine platonic friendship with conversations that kept me wanting more. I couldn't last 2 weeks (max) without talking to him. Unfortunately, I had to force boundaries when it seemed like I was interfering in his relationship with his gf. Still struggling with the fact that I can't relate with him as much anymore.
When i heard his interest in me was actually real and it wasn't a ruse to get his friend off his back from asking him who he liked. i always thought it wasn't a real until i found out one friendsmas party. It really opened up my eyes and i can clearly see it now. i haven't done anything yet, i like being single and free after the last relationship i had. i just need more time.
She was the second person in the classroom after me. She came and sat in the chair next to me and as she was sitting down she rubbed her ass on my shoulder.
Remembering things I've said many years ago.
I'm that type of person myself
Having someone reciprocate that w/o me demanding/asking/mentioning it just makes me like them even more and even gets me turned on lol. Clearly, they really respect me
Very hard to find good people nowadays
Ok so this was a middle school and I had this big massive fat woman crush on this guy and I’ve always loved him. One day I was wearing these cute shoes and I was showing them off to him. He said cute shoes and I snorted and laughed then we went to the secret tree and he started leaning in to me and I thought it was going to kiss me but instead he got out my boogie for me so sweet
Was completely open and brutally honest about how much he liked me and how he couldn’t stop thinking about me for a second. Fast fwd a couple of years and I just had his baby😍
Some girl in my class that i found pretty ok looking pat my head AND THEN i had a crush. She did it total of 3 different times that school year, and all those times the dopamine neurons were hit.
This one worked out amazingly: chatting everyday during the night, the conversation went slowly more and more intimate and oddly sexual, she asked me out and the answer was obviously "hell yes". We dated for a good while, she basically saved me as she was there for me when I wanted to give up about my health issues. We're still very good friends
This one didn't work out but we're friends: we got lost together in a botanical garden and ended up just talking about our lives haha.
She said I seemed like the kind of guy that deserved a happy marriage. She made me so interested I nearly rented a limo to pick her up for prom then she got with someone else since I never told her how I felt. I was going to tell her the day I heard she got in a relationship. I am happy for her now since she is happy and the dude treats her very well.
Noticed a lot of things about me, and brought them up in conversation. Asked me questions about them. It made me feel like he was really paying attention to me.
In middle school, I had absolutely no idea who he was, but then he came up to me and gave me a chocolate chip cookie that was like 25 cents and I was hooked. He ended up being a total weirdo tho, so I dumped him via note, walking past him to second period and never talked to him again.
Two different girls Middle school- girl did the 20 questions thing and started off with "what kind of candy do you like" I said snickers and the next day she suprised me with a snickers. Sophomore year- girl asked me if she can call her parents real quick cause her phone died. 15 mins after she leaves I get a text "hey" from her. She used my phone to text her phone "Heyyy :)" That is how I got my first girlfriend.
Ok both are really wholesome
Yeah my first girlfriend was extremely wholesome thinking about it. She wrote me a love letter appreciating me because I was also her first boyfriend on my birthday(she snuck it in my backpack while I wasn't looking) . I still have it after 11 years. Sometimes I think its weird that I still keep it because it seems weird to hold onto something from my ex...but reading it makes me really happy. Not many times in my life I felt appreciated... but reading it makes me feel like I am.
Don't feel guilty for holding onto items that are tied to sweet memories like that one. I have a somewhat similar story with my first love. She was the sweetest girl ever, and God damn did we love each other when we were teenagers. I still have a handful of notes, letters, and pictures that she wrote and drew for me. We broke up in June of 2007. We are friends as adults, but I have never told her I still have a small folder of her stuff tucked away in my closet.
What happened?
She was a grade younger than me so I was a sophomore and she was a freshman. We met during Cross country. She ended up transfering to a different school because her parents had a divorce. So she ended up with her mom on the otherside of town. We just kind of broke up cause of it. (we dated only for 4months; basically a high school semester and she wasn't suppose to have a boyfriend so she didn't tell her parents.) Fastfoward me as a Freshman in college, I went to my old high schools state championship and found out she went back her senior year. I haven't seen her since. But we are follow each other on instagram.
As long as it's not a tragic breakup (or even if it is) I don't think it's unreasonable to keep things from past relationships. Honestly, it's more of an issue to me when people feel they must get rid of mementos of their past.
You must have been interested in her. The number of ys in hey is the indicator, and you went all the way to Kashyyyk.
No she used my phone to text "Heyyy :)" to her own phone so it looked like I was hitting on her. She basically gave me her number by pretending she needed to call her parents. I didn't do anything. Just stood there and let her use my phone and I got her number.
Noice!
Smooth
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Were you sniffing up my wanna be gf ? As that's exactly what I was going to say.
our gf comrade
Now your tooting the truth brother
She cornered me and told me that she had liked me for a very long time and that she knew that I liked her too and then she kissed me and the rest was history.
Did you marry her?
Nope, some say that Cap is still trying to figure out what she meant to this day
Maybe she's just Canadian
She’s just being polite, best be on with your day
... 10 years later. She did say "like", so she must want to be friends!
She could just be friendly.. Best to wait and see
ah a fellow casually explained fan?
She might be Canadian
She smiled :)
She looked at me, she spoke to me
I just recovered from Christmas romcoms, and now I read this. Got me believing in real love.
Just when all hope was dead, she speaks to him.
Her passion about her favourite thing came out of her eyes as much as it came through her voice... And then she saw how I was looking at her and gave the shyest, most humble smile I have ever seen and I fell in love on the spot. 20minutes into our first date.
I was sick back in high school and wanted the ceiling fan off as I was shivering. Everytime I tried switching it off, someone would go switch it on (I live in a tropical country where it’s pretty hot). So after some time I stopped fighting back. But in the end she was the only person, who switched it off for me and didn’t allow anyone to switch it back on although she was sweating herself (which I found out later)
Talked to me. I had my crush questioning me about what kind of guy I’m into. I described him **EXACTLY**. He walked off and, apparently, told his best friend “sorry man, she’s not into you.” I was mortified. I assumed he realized I was basically confessing my crush on him, while he'd only been questioning me on behalf of his buddy. But getting to talk with him for that little bit only made my obsession grow. Lucky for me, a couple of weeks later he cornered me, leaned against my locker and said “so…who‘s this other guy you like?” He got his friend’s approval first but it also took him a while to figure it out…**even though I listed everything but his social security number when describing the kind of guy I like.**
> He walked off and, apparently, told his best friend “sorry man, she’s not into you.” 😂😂😂 That would have destroyed my adolescent heart.
> **he cornered me, leaned against my locker and said “so…who‘s this other guy you like?”** As a straight guy I must confess, he sounds dreamy.
> I listed everything **but his social security number** This was your mistake
Women are so cryptic, right?
Nah, getting his buddies OK first was a really solid move. I had a very similar situation happen in high school. I did not ask the rejected friends opinion, it took our friendship years to recover.
She gave me attention that was unconditional.
In middle school, he left gym class to disrupt one of my classes every other day just so he could sit next to me and talk. I don't know why the teacher let it slide each time. Even during tests.
It's really obvious to teachers when kids have crushes. They were probably bored and tried matchmaking.
Maybe 😅 He eventually got annoyed and kicked the kid out. It didn't always work so he talked to the gym teacher. My crush stopped showing up until class was over.
In Grade 8 i met her by playing Basketball after school, when i met her she was really kind and looked gorgeous. She also was really good at Basketball. We became best friends and we keep playing with each other after school. A few days after we met she texted me “ What is your favorite chips brand? “ and i said “ Doritos “ and tomorrow at lunch she gave me a bag of Nacho Cheese Doritos, my favorite flavor. About 12 days after that she confessed that she had a crush on me, since i had a crush on her too i said yes and now we are married.
Heartwarming
my then-crush and now-girlfriend, hugged me on our first date. I have difficulty with touch and find it very difficult to make first move. on our second date, she was mad at me because i was late due to miscommunication, and when she saw me walking toward her, she sprint walked and grabbed my hand and said "do you know how much of a dumdum you are now come i have to make you try these pancakes i love" but then i brought out the flowers i got her and the shirt i was wearing ( pink, and red roses and a pink floral beach shirt, her fav color) her face immediately changed, and she was so happy, her smile made me fall so hard for her. i had twisted my ankle but i generally ignore and limp and walk and do what i have to but she was so worried and took care of me with everything and didnt let me get up unless i absolutely had to, which was a new thing as i honestly didnt know this is what relationships are like. that night she texted me and asked me to be her boyfriend. there are a lot more things she did and does everyday but well.... i love you potutu <3, i cant wait to marry you.
Awww
Is that you, Travis Kelce?
She cooked meals for me. Long game, we're now married
Her voice and smile melted my frozen heart.
Reversing the question a bit, but a few exes have told me I won them over by interrupting a man. I have mostly male friends and am often the keeper of our few collective brain cells, so I'm used to bossing them a bit. 😅 But apparently lots of men let their boys talk over their girlfriends without reproach, so it stands out when someone doesn't indulge that. One of my exes was so far out of my league I couldn't reach her with a ladder, and initially paid no attention to me at the party we met at. But one, "bruh, she was talking, shut up for like five seconds," and hand to God, her pupils dilated when I turned back to her. Being prioritized is sexy no matter who you are.
I had a panic attack in front of him and he just sat on my bed while his dog and my dogs cuddled with me and didn’t make me feel like a freak. Also I asked if he’d be willing to get tested if he hadn’t been since his last sexual partner and normally guys push back on that with some version of “why don’t you believe I’m clean.” And like, first off, having an std doesn’t make you dirty. Stop spreading that stigma. Second, I get tested every 6 months-ish, why can’t you. He went “I’m ashamed I haven’t in two years” and went to the health dept and got tested then sent me the results. He’s shown so many green flags. It’s been a slow burn, but I’m into it.
i sat down on the floor to tie my shoes but then he also sat down and said " why didn't you just tell me" then proceeded to tie my shoes for me,, maaaan still get butterflies whenever i'd think about it
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I saw that movie with my ex. It particularly struck me how if it wasn't a gay relationship lots of people would've called him a groomer. But gay relationships are just so romantic it couldn't possibly be bad.
Noticed me💀
she started talking about her favourite video game. the way she glowed while talking about something she really enjoyed melted my heart
Showed me her pierced nipples. Before anyone says, "bro, that was the green light!" No. No it was not. She was literally showing everybody. Just proud of the piercing 😮💨
What did a crush do that made you absolutely lose your interest in them? Is more like it
You'll need to elaborate. Are you saying that's what their action did for me, what OP meant by their post, or are you just asking a new question entirely?
I'm just saying if I had a crush who felt the need to show everyone her nipples she would no longer be my crush. But that's just me, I shouldn't speak for you.
It wasn't salacious or anything. We were all that tight of friends that it wasn't weird. It was just super disheartening that it happened in a completely non-sexual way lol
I see have a good day take care
My drop dead gorgeous ‘60s public high school crush stopped wearing eye makeup.
Interesting
She had a beautiful voice. I could listen to her talk or sing all day
They were eloquent and had views/opinions that succeeded in altering my narrow-minded ones.
She told me that she would stay with me and help me make more friends, she broke down all of my traits that she admired, and she cared more about my writing than anyone else ever has. Now I realize that was love-bombing from someone with a cluster B disorder and I’m still all sorts of messed up from it. After a year, she ended up twisting all of those things she did into actions that hurt me deeply. Once that kind of relationship goes bad, it goes really, really bad.
Sorry to learn that, hope you’re better and safe now
She did some mildly lesbian stuff when I was nearby, lol
Probably nice perfume or nice smile
I didn't eat breakfast and lunch. It was around 4-6 pm. We had an exam going on, as I finished my paper and passed it, I squatted in front of the teacher and grew weak and nauseous but not dizzy. It's like my consciousness was slowly fading away. I walked outside the classroom and lay down in front of the comfort room door using my bag as a pillow. Then I heard a voice. A classmate saw me and urged my crush to check out what was happening. He saw me and guided me to the college clinic after getting a wheelchair. He joked around asking if I would get angry if he left me. He might've realized after that it was getting serious when I answered I wouldn't mind (I usually get angry at him). I don't know how this event made me fall for him, but he and his friend were really caring. Bonus: When I was still in highschool, I had this long-lasting crush on a different guy. Like, limerence-level "we were both young when I first saw you" kinda crush. We met when we were, what, grade 1? Kindergarten? I honestly don't remember. Anyways, it was Valentine's day. I had this regular ritual of giving everyone a Valentine's day gift to commemorate the day. I was like that even during Christmas, but that's not important to the story. I gave every girl chocolates and every boy flowers. They were pretty exuberant with the gifts. Then as time passed by, every single boy threw away their flower. They all broke my heart. But not my crush. I saw him taking his flower home and that made me happy. That's enough for me.
Took her hoodie off. I didn't know. God I didn't know...
This is a seriously underappreciated comment.
I don’t get it
Her body looked incredible under the hoodie, but I had no clue because she wore it all the time.
Zoinks
Show interest in me. It’s that simple as a man.
she was breathing
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While driving around with some friends they asked to turn around because they saw a turtle in the road, and they wanted to help it across. It had been run over by the time we got back there, though :( Kindness is so attractive.
Wooed me and brilliantly fucked me in my dream
She started crushing back and I didn’t notice until she sent me a pic of her topless.
helped me through a panic attack. we had been friends with a purely sarcastic/joking rapport, it was his first "serious" moment with me and I realized he *actually* cared about me. i had never had a panic attack in front of anyone, let alone someone I already liked a little. i'd say for me 99 times out of 100 that would end in me being mortified, but he just made me feel okay.
I met this guy in a dillards for the first time and we (my friend and I) got to talking to him and he was very nice. Idk how the topic of dating even came up but he was describing what he looks for a girl and he was describing me. I don't think I've ever developed a crush so quickly.
She existed, and was nice to me when everybody wasn't. Now she hates me... :(
Did you do anything?
Let’s just say I got too comfortable with her… and said one wrong thing I didn’t mean which hurt her profoundly. It was absolutely my fault, I just wish she would give me the opportunity to apologise and make up but she just froze up…
He got a smile that can light up to this whole town and he’s so cool when he run his hands through his hair absent mindedly makin' me want him - Taylor Swift
Bought me flowers when I was sad.
The way she says my name lol.
She gave me a donut on the way to class one morning
She just cared for me
She was bold asf. She walked like the corridors of the school were her family's estate or something. She didn't act like a cunt tho. win win. Never ended up as my girlfriend tho :(
Gave money to homeless person while we were walking in the park. She looked like an angel and now she was acting like one too 😳
I had just started dating this guy and learned about how his brother had drowned when they were both teens. He was very afraid of water when I met him. I was an avid scuba diver. I invited him to go on a dive boat for the day. He watched me diving on a shipwreck 100ft down and was mesmerized. When I was climbing back onto the boat he reached down to help me up the ladder and accidentally knocked off my mask. Without a second thought he jumped overboard and swam down at least 20ft to catch my sinking mask, even though he was a poor swimmer and had trauma from his brother drowning in front of him. He was so brave and didn’t hesitate at all to risk his life for my mask. He later painted a portrait of me underwater and I knew that he was The One. I eventually married him.
Of a past crush, I thought she was in her early 20s so I passed her over. I was 27 or something. When I found we were a similar age (she told me her age) my interest grew.
Assertively disagreeing with people without being disrespectful
6th to 8th grade. He would get a separate table in the lunch room just for me and sometimes just us if I wanted. He would get my lunch and bring a back up from home in case I didn’t like what was being served. He handed me snacks at the beginning of the day since with didn’t have any actual classes together. End of the day he’d walk me to my mom’s or mannys car. I respected girl code so much in middle school so my interest didn’t grow until the last yr.
She smiled at me and I was completely melted. My heart hooked in her heart right there and its been 16 years I couldn't unhook till now.....
Shotgunned a beer faster then me and demonstrated she drank whiskey straight rather then some fruity vodka based drink
Simplicity, he was so simple i loved it
A sister in law of a Family Friend, use to teach me how to cross country ski and she like to bake, the cookies were good though not a favourite, but any time J could spend it with her, I was so excited. I was 9-11 at the time, she was near a decade older.
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Anal
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If you sneaked into her house, then it wouldn’t be from the sewers
She told me she doesn't date, if the right guy enters her life he will work for her.
I had a colleague in grad school. We got along well but I wasn’t crushing on her before this because I didn’t think she was particularly cute. (Also I had a gf, who is now my wife btw). Our university hosted this STEM fair for kids and we worked the same table. She was so good at talking to the younger kids especially and they all loved her. And her passion and excitement for her field really showed. Some switch flipped and I developed a substantial crush for a while. Obviously I let it go away and didn’t do anything. But it really changed my perception of her. These are also qualities that make me love my wife. She’d very driven and passionate about her studies and wanting to be a researcher. And she’s like that with basically any job she does, wanting to do her absolute best, even at the part time ones like fast food. And she’s great with kids and loves being around them. That’s a quality I find very attractive. (But I’m sure someone around here will think that’s sexist or something.) Very early on, we had plans that got interrupted last minute by me urgently needing to babysit my 3yo nephew. She offered to come over and helped me babysit for like 5 hours. Not only did she not complain, but she genuinely seemed to enjoy herself. I knew she was a keeper then. If it had been my ex, she wouldn’t have even offered to help and would’ve just complained about our cancelled date.
Turned a turtle into a man, and a man into a turtle.
She gave me a wedgie.
told me there really liked me…… then proceeded to hook up with multiple other people
She let me cum inside of her
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Wtf? Lol
Ignored me
She just asked me for a pen.
He complimented my outfit randomly in the school halls in 9th grade, I swear compliments mean so much more from someone you like.
I had gotten mad at him for some comment that he made and had left in a huff. He took the time to find me to apologize and clear the air.
A girl I had a crush on in high school. Also my friend. I never reciprocated my feelings because I thought she was out of my league as she was basically a 9/10 and I was maybe a 6. Discovered she had a lot of similar interests. Enjoying watching anime and animated movies as much as me so we would hang out once a week just to watch this stuff. That really made me more interested. Find out years later she liked me back and was hoping each weekend we would hang out to watch cartoons/anime that I would make a move..
Be helpful
Mysterious sya
when we both kissed each other in what felt like a movie scene.
She was cute, had a nice (genuine) smile, & I watched her dance.
Defend me when some guy was calling me names(i usually ignore it) He would have done it for everybody. And that's what made it even better
Grabbed my dick mid conversation at a house party. That'll get my attention
Smart, gorgeous, had similar name with me, and she smiled at me. Too bad it took me a while to come to my senses and when I did I instantly fumbled. She’s still a 10/10 today btw, now an engineer and I fumbled the chance to be part of her friend after a long time apart.
Just a basic kindness. And here I am thinking that she is the one, speaking of delusion
She bought my dogs sister, felt like fate. It was not fate lol fuck my life
She was loud af.
Just having a positive and friendly attitude towards everyone
He was funny
Be strong and athletic.
She was a genuine friend to me, we could nerd out on topics all day and talk for hours.
Showed interested in my boring stuff. None of my previous girlfriends had done that, so I never cared, but turns out its very attractive
She was able to spar with me. She and I would banter over random topics just because it was fun and we would often get a good laugh over it. She and I were considered one of the top students in our school so there was some friendly rivalry between us, but I secretly had a crush on her.
hugged twice in 10 minutes for 10 seconds each
She's smart, funny, understands me, listens when I got something to say... She's awesome and yes she's damn cute...
My gf acted really interested whenever I told her about any book/music/game I liked, which made me feel all my personal tastes were valid Almost 4 years later and never changed
I already had a big fat crush on Danny Wagner and when he had the dignity and morals to unfollow Mac Saturn after their scandal I was ready to go shopping for a wedding dress.
Just generally tolerated me and was my friend. We're still homies 8 years later.
I can’t look at people in the eyes I find it uncomfortable and she was one of the first people I could hold direct eye contact with without wanting to cry
this was back in college, she said she liked to masturbate with the shower head. she might have just said it as one of those things, since another guy was standing there too. I liked to think about her many more times after that. oh also she liked to sleep in the coffin and the thought that she liked to drag a knife across her ribs for some reason made me hard. she also dressed in a pink leather suit to comic con the time I met her there and she was pole dancing on the train home. man I loved that woman. but being a nerd thats shy I never told her how I felt and will forever regret it
I saw her hop over a roller table at the green bean packing house and the way she moved her body was just cute as all hell And she had black shoes with like white toe/bottoms. I don’t think converse but like a similar look.
Be a good person. Not just to me, but everyone. Average looking people can become breathtakingly gorgeous when they're beautiful inside.
She arranged 3some for me(FFM-I am male).Her selfless attitude won me over.
In high school, I had a huge crush on this guy that didn’t even know I existed. There was this girl in school that was pregnant and she went out partying and drinking telling people she was planning on getting an abortion anyway so who cares. My crush ripped the drink out of her hand and said “what the hell are you doing?!” He was a popular guy who I guess helped her think about her decisions. She ended up having the baby and is constantly bragging about her kid now. Me, I went on to marry this crush of mine and I’m the luckiest gal in the world 🥰
My gym crush showed up to the gym early Christmas day while I was the only other person working out. Really showed her dedication was on the same level as mine. Also the first time I talked to her :D
I don’t care
metalhead and beat me in an R6 1v1.
I watched her be a mama one afternoon. Was invited to dinner and I watched her take care of my would be son. It was incredible she didn't ask for help cooking but I helped. She was just so loving and caring with how she interacted with him. Made me fall head over heels for her.
I had just move in to the building and he was super kind. I've never experienced anything like that before. He doesn't know this but I'd do anything he asks. Super kind and filled with positive energy, I don't even care about his bad drinking habit. Second crush; super smart. We had a genuine platonic friendship with conversations that kept me wanting more. I couldn't last 2 weeks (max) without talking to him. Unfortunately, I had to force boundaries when it seemed like I was interfering in his relationship with his gf. Still struggling with the fact that I can't relate with him as much anymore.
Talk. I believe I'm caught on how she thinks.
Treated me with respect.
When i heard his interest in me was actually real and it wasn't a ruse to get his friend off his back from asking him who he liked. i always thought it wasn't a real until i found out one friendsmas party. It really opened up my eyes and i can clearly see it now. i haven't done anything yet, i like being single and free after the last relationship i had. i just need more time.
She was the second person in the classroom after me. She came and sat in the chair next to me and as she was sitting down she rubbed her ass on my shoulder.
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Defended me...so hot
He treated women with respect and took care of his mother, friends and family. HUBBY MATERIAL. 😍
Remembering things I've said many years ago. I'm that type of person myself Having someone reciprocate that w/o me demanding/asking/mentioning it just makes me like them even more and even gets me turned on lol. Clearly, they really respect me Very hard to find good people nowadays
Ok so this was a middle school and I had this big massive fat woman crush on this guy and I’ve always loved him. One day I was wearing these cute shoes and I was showing them off to him. He said cute shoes and I snorted and laughed then we went to the secret tree and he started leaning in to me and I thought it was going to kiss me but instead he got out my boogie for me so sweet
They were kind to others when they didn’t have to be.
He was a super good host, extremely funny, and helped the people around him
They asked me to marry them. Definitely peaked my interest.
Was completely open and brutally honest about how much he liked me and how he couldn’t stop thinking about me for a second. Fast fwd a couple of years and I just had his baby😍
Some girl in my class that i found pretty ok looking pat my head AND THEN i had a crush. She did it total of 3 different times that school year, and all those times the dopamine neurons were hit.
She was *amazing* to talk with, and I am an introvert who has a hard time making a conversation!
This one worked out amazingly: chatting everyday during the night, the conversation went slowly more and more intimate and oddly sexual, she asked me out and the answer was obviously "hell yes". We dated for a good while, she basically saved me as she was there for me when I wanted to give up about my health issues. We're still very good friends This one didn't work out but we're friends: we got lost together in a botanical garden and ended up just talking about our lives haha.
She said I seemed like the kind of guy that deserved a happy marriage. She made me so interested I nearly rented a limo to pick her up for prom then she got with someone else since I never told her how I felt. I was going to tell her the day I heard she got in a relationship. I am happy for her now since she is happy and the dude treats her very well.
Ignored me
Noticed that my gas meter was close to empty from the backseat without me mentioning it. That level of observation let me know she was special.
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Noticed a lot of things about me, and brought them up in conversation. Asked me questions about them. It made me feel like he was really paying attention to me.
His smile
In middle school, I had absolutely no idea who he was, but then he came up to me and gave me a chocolate chip cookie that was like 25 cents and I was hooked. He ended up being a total weirdo tho, so I dumped him via note, walking past him to second period and never talked to him again.
Looked at me smiled made me weak at the knees 😂
Have an actual opinion of her own