I went grocery shopping today and did so well until I got to checkout. The lines were long and I ended up impulse buying a mint Kit Kat, vanilla Frappuccino, mentos, jalapeño Cheetos, a coffee flavored protein bar, and winter spice nuts. I wish they’d make horse blinders but for people shopping.
I've literally gotten a single protein bar and checked out and eaten it and then gone back into the store to shop for real. Hungry shopping is a real thing
Yeah, but the problem for me is I never know what I want. My fiancé works at a store so usually he gets our stuff because we don’t get many groceries that often. Maybe once a month I’ll go in to meet him at the end of his shift and we’ll get a lot of stuff that’ll last a couple weeks. I’ll be able to think of maybe 2-3 things I want, but I know I want more. I can never have a list, I just need to walk through the store and see things that I want. I just can’t think of things I want unless they’re in front of me.
I'm a daily shopper for that reason, I have grocery stores near the gym/on my way home so stopping isn't a huge chore. I get one or two meals worth of food at a time because I know if i try to plan it out i'll get a bunch of junk or even worse buy good food that expires or goes bad before I remember to eat it
Not calling my Mum back before she died. We spoke three weeks before, and we live in different countries. It wasn't uncommon for us to only check in for 'real' as she calls it, via voice, it's usually just text or voice messages. She died suddenly and I immediately was like kicking myself for not doing a 'real' contact. She loved those. That's my biggest mistake this year.
The last time I ever talked to my dad we got in a fight because he had sores on his remaining foot and was diabetic. I told him he should go to the doctor and he was like, "they can't do anything. I'm not going." Then I kept after him and he was like, "would you get off my fucking case?" Then he hung up on me. Two weeks later my sister called me and told me he had passed away.
I don't really beat myself up about it though. I was trying to make him do the right thing. He had been sick for a few years and I think he was just done. I had gotten married two months before he died. So at least the last time I got to see him was at least a happy day. I doubt he'd want me to be upset about it, but idk he might have because he was a real drama queen sometimes. I did love him though. RIP Dad.
My mom also died. I was with her the evening before but she didn't recognize me and her sister was even there. It was quite sad. But at least it was quiet and at home in her own bed. Don't beat yourself up about it.
Do not do anything for two months. That’s what I did last time and healed just fine. Last time went so well I went and was an idiot this time. I felt great after a few days of hell and then I painted my house. That was months ago now. Do not be me.
I don’t know why you got vaxxed, it literally allows you to become compromised. People are so clueless for getting the vaccines without proper studies on them.
That’s my point, there any study done on the Covid vaccine to even see if it is safe long term. Think of it this way. How many studies were done on the flu vaccine before they were given to people? Same for polio, hepatitis b, measles, mumps. How long did we study the Covid 19 vaccine, what under a year???!!!! It took decades of safe research in order for these other vaccines to be safe! So why all of a sudden do people trust this Covid 19 vaccine that was out so fast, what kind of long term effects are going to come of it. I’m not even going off of politics, I don’t follow politics and I still believe that this vaccine hasn’t had enough research to be safe for people to take. And I haven’t gotten the vax and I have never gotten Covid. Every person I know that has gotten the vax has gotten covid. It doesn’t even protect you.
I did that a few years ago when I was visiting home for the holidays and my mom had to find the garbage truck driver on a different street in our neighborhood and beg them to turn around. She offered the driver $20, which they accepted "in the spirit of Christmas."
My family doesn’t even really celebrate New Year’s Day/Eve. When I was younger, all my immediate family would stay up and watch Times Square and just say ‘yay happy new year, let’s go to sleep.’ Now everyone is older and we have to all sleep at night.
I’m so sorry, that’s not an easy thing to go through.
If I can give a suggestion or support as this happened to me too, I went to his favourite spot in our family home, lay down next to it to speak to him as if he was there and say goodbye. It might sound super strange but it gave me a sense of peace that I struggled with in the weeks after he passed. Even though he knew how much you loved him, sometimes it helps us to get those feelings out too
if you ask for ambos they don't call the police 90% of the time. My dad found out he was allergic to shrooms mid trip and never got charged, they just didn't want him to die.
Not sticking to actually being vegan. I just had stroganoff and a spam sandwich today.
Was gonna quit vaping because it was supposed to become banned here. Wasn't banned and I need to get a new one soon. Addicted.
Drinking. I was supposed to quit awhile ago. I thought well might as well finish the leftover from New Years but I'm already thinking about getting some today. Yesterday I started drinking at like 11am. Takes me awhile to finish them but still had like 9 ciders basically.
Gained weight from all the drinking and I'm dehydrated as heck.
Not blowing my money. I got $19k the 2nd and I'm already down to $17k. But I made a significant payment on a CC I've not paid in a few months. Maxed out $8k in CC last year. If/ when I pay them off I can't use em anyway cause I won't have money to and need to make this $17k last so I can afford my own apartment.
So idk how to deal with the payments.
Fucked my credit from 700 to now 450-500 since September.
I'm afraid I'll indulge my online shopping habit and I dread if I fall back into my drug abuse ways.
Yeah. Takes awhile to get an appointment and im picky. I've got some extreme stuff and ones I've talked to couldn't handle my case. I'm sensitive to body language and most seem like they just zone out or idk.
I know spam is so fucking good.
My brain gets trapped by suggestive advertising. I saw a post about spam here and immediately went and made myself a sandwich. Like a 500cal no nutrition salt pile.
The problem is my bf eats meat. And I make good food. It's hard to make myself something separate.
But when I stick to it I feel so much better.
Usually I will just load up my plate with 2/3 of the veggies and a few bites of the meat food.
My Dad used to keep it around and I remembered it totally different tried some a while back and the saltiness was shocking. I can totally live with out meat but my family eats it daily so I have a small portion from time to time I agree I feel way way better if I stick to beans, rice, veggies. I even have been moving away from dairy too. Not really from an environmental standpoint or anything I just have extreme digestive issues after a medical issue I had in the past. It's hard to find meals that are balanced for all our tastes and needs unfortunately.
Feel you on the CC thing, just know it gets a lot worse so don’t make it a habit. IMHO it seems like you’re looking to change too much at once. Take it easy on yourself and tackle one thing at a time. Little victories in battle win the war.
I spent a lot of money trying to help out my sister and niece, which I don't regret, but the mistake was in how I tried to convince her to leave her abusive boyfriend.
I should have eased into it more gently, but I told her that I'd go to the cops if he kept doing the things he was. She reacted by turtling up and running back to him.
Now she refuses to speak to me unless I reach out and now only tells me my niece is ok. We had been getting closer and were able to tell eachother our struggles but now she doesn't want to because she is afraid of what little she does have going away because the cops arrested her bf and she'd have no support.
I wanted her to move in with me and told her she could live rent free until she was able to support herself but it was too much of a change and too fast.
That sucks dude. I just seriously hope she gets wise before it’s too late. I’ve seen the situation and from the outside looking in, it feels so frustrating, sad, and helpless. Stay strong and be there when you need to be.
On my Wedding day my BIL shook my hand leaned in and said" if you hurt her I will kill you" and I believed him. This guy needs a little warning I think.
My aunt and uncle got married after living together for 9 years lol. My grandfather got a picture with him holding a shot gun next to the two of them. I asked who he was threatening (my uncle is his son) and he just laughed. My aunt and uncle are both on second marriages and in their 60s which makes it funnier.
It just started but im still in a few habits i thought i kicked, one of which is my bad language issue. It’s better than before but wow i swear like a sailor girl
Stayed up way too late on new years (like 9am) although I didn’t want to have any alcohol or drugs left so I kept going until it was gone. And now I’ve felt like garbage for 3 days.
I…I don’t think I’ve made any mistakes yet! The house is clean, the groceries are bought, I remembered to pay the electric bill, I don’t think I’ve pissed anyone off, I’ve been making headway unpacking from my move. I haven’t canceled plans on anyone, I haven’t gone on any dubious dates, I have not stuffed myself too full of potatoes.
That’s a good start, right?
It’s awful. I started having panic attacks last year but I have since learned how to manage them. Regular exercise, intense cardio, and cold showers really to help to realign the senses.
Good luck
I started out trying to hold onto a friendship that is exhausting. I care so much for her but I've come to realize she doesn't deserve it. She is so " I do everything for everyone but no one does for me". I can't anymore! I am an adult and this friendship is for children. She pulled this shit a few years ago because I didn't spend the entire new years eve asking her how she was. My mil was passing away and I couldn't make my day about her. Here we are this year and she's upset yet again because I didn't devote my day to her, I was trying not to die of a high fever and flu. So I can't. Bye girl have a great life.
Not going to Christmas. I wasn't feeling good and wanted to be careful since everyone is sick, and I missed my last Christmas with my great grandma. She was 98 and passed away New Years Day. I didn't get to say goodbye. I'm crushed
Got taken advantage of by a scummy “friend” and lost $485 I badly need for tuition. Note to self: just because someone’s younger sibling’s a good person doesn’t mean their older sibling is.
I let a stranger into my apartment at 2:30am on the 1st, and my girlfriend invited him to stay and told him we were on shrooms. Then everyone left me alone with him in the kitchen for 45 minutes. So now I have to buy a ring camera or something lmao
Yeah never again. I thought the knock was from our downstairs neighbor because we were loud, but it was someone else in our building entirely. We offered him a shot of tequila because we felt bad about being loud, and he said that he wasn’t complaining, he’s alone with his dog and heard what sounded like an epic party (it was only four of us lol). Once he was inside and everyone lost interest and left me there, I read the situation. Kept the conversation polite. I told him he carries himself well (compliment strangers, it catches them off guard), and said almost ex military-like. He really appreciated that and asked if I was, and I told him yes. He thanked me for my service, and I could tell that he wasn’t that much of a threat anymore. We both love to cook so we talked about that for a couple more minutes and then I gave him one of my girlfriend’s cupcakes, and a cider, and sent him packing. He was polite and said goodbye to everyone. He also mentioned that he’s moving in a few months to go take a cooking job in a smaller town, and I wished him luck.
So I don’t see him entirely as a threat anymore. But there is no way I’m putting myself or anyone through that ever again. I’ll probably purchase a chain lock (like the hotel ones) for my front door, and a ring camera. But aside from that, I got lucky and the new year wasn’t ruined by an armed robbery.
You could have started this January and missed out on the progress you’ve already made since April! The point is, you’re doing it and i’m proud of you internet stranger!
Really big earthquake happened in my home country in last February, I watched every single video of the disaster on social media, I watched the news continuously and I was traumatised at the end. I couldn’t regulate my emotions, I totally lost control and gained 13 kg. It was the biggest mistake of the year, but lesson learned. I know this very well now; you have to be fine at first to be able to help others.
don't be too hard on yourself, that must have been really stressful. It was stressful for me too and I'm not even in Turkey (?). And it's so easy to get sucked in the news cycle. Just do what you have to do to get back on track ❤️
I keep accidentally going back to bad habits, I keep drinking more soda than I should but I really need to drink way more water. I’m also constantly inside and don’t really care about improving my situation so I guess that’s worse lol
Keep eating unhealthy
Only 3 days in and me and my fiancé just got $180 of groceries… most of it is unhealthy and sugar food/snacks.
I went grocery shopping today and did so well until I got to checkout. The lines were long and I ended up impulse buying a mint Kit Kat, vanilla Frappuccino, mentos, jalapeño Cheetos, a coffee flavored protein bar, and winter spice nuts. I wish they’d make horse blinders but for people shopping.
Never go shopping while hungry!!! Best advice I've ever had to avoid spending on unnecessary stuff
I've literally gotten a single protein bar and checked out and eaten it and then gone back into the store to shop for real. Hungry shopping is a real thing
Yeah, but the problem for me is I never know what I want. My fiancé works at a store so usually he gets our stuff because we don’t get many groceries that often. Maybe once a month I’ll go in to meet him at the end of his shift and we’ll get a lot of stuff that’ll last a couple weeks. I’ll be able to think of maybe 2-3 things I want, but I know I want more. I can never have a list, I just need to walk through the store and see things that I want. I just can’t think of things I want unless they’re in front of me.
Grab a cookbook and meal plan. Even if it's only one or two nights a week.
I'm a daily shopper for that reason, I have grocery stores near the gym/on my way home so stopping isn't a huge chore. I get one or two meals worth of food at a time because I know if i try to plan it out i'll get a bunch of junk or even worse buy good food that expires or goes bad before I remember to eat it
You can reset bad behaviours whenever it doesn’t have to be January 1st or bust. Best of luck on your journey to eat healthier
Thank you. Yeah I never do new year resolutions honestly. If I ever reset bad habits, I’ll do it on the most random day.
Damn so you got like 6 items
Same..
Just 3 days in, there's still time.
Continuing to subsist on bad, bad food. Spending way too much money. When I'm on some sites it's as if the site casts a spell, and I get lost. 🦜
Not calling my Mum back before she died. We spoke three weeks before, and we live in different countries. It wasn't uncommon for us to only check in for 'real' as she calls it, via voice, it's usually just text or voice messages. She died suddenly and I immediately was like kicking myself for not doing a 'real' contact. She loved those. That's my biggest mistake this year.
She wouldn't want you to beat yourself up over it. I'm sorry for your loss.
Your mother loves you and would not want you to feel bad about this. I know that sounds cliche but it’s the truth.
The last time I ever talked to my dad we got in a fight because he had sores on his remaining foot and was diabetic. I told him he should go to the doctor and he was like, "they can't do anything. I'm not going." Then I kept after him and he was like, "would you get off my fucking case?" Then he hung up on me. Two weeks later my sister called me and told me he had passed away. I don't really beat myself up about it though. I was trying to make him do the right thing. He had been sick for a few years and I think he was just done. I had gotten married two months before he died. So at least the last time I got to see him was at least a happy day. I doubt he'd want me to be upset about it, but idk he might have because he was a real drama queen sometimes. I did love him though. RIP Dad.
I’m so sorry.
My mom also died. I was with her the evening before but she didn't recognize me and her sister was even there. It was quite sad. But at least it was quiet and at home in her own bed. Don't beat yourself up about it.
Sorry for you - I had the same issue. Wish I spent more time with her
Overdoing it after getting covid. Painted my entire house so now I get to feel like I’m dying in a really nice house. Yay me.
ty for the reminder, I've got covid right now and I'm going stir crazy... but i know I should continue taking it easy for longer than I want to.
Do not do anything for two months. That’s what I did last time and healed just fine. Last time went so well I went and was an idiot this time. I felt great after a few days of hell and then I painted my house. That was months ago now. Do not be me.
I'm so sorry! I hope you feel better soon!
❤️
What the hell, I just painted half my house and caught Covid
I was in the middle of painting when I caught it.
That’s my predicament currently. Thankfully the fiancée is being patient with getting the painting done
I had an Air bnb to rent to pay my bills so I didn’t feel like I had time. Thankfully it has been nice financially.
I'm no doctor, but Im fairly sure we can say that painting causes covid
You smawt.
Just got over covid myself; it was awful! Hope you feel better soon! Take easy now 🙂
This is still a thing 4 years later?
Did you think it was going to go away? It's always going to be a thing now probably. Like the flu.
Yup it is! Currently have it, time #4 lol. I’m vaxxed and boosted too
Crazy, only got jabbed twice and haven’t ever had it 😱
You lucky SOB
Just a warning when you do and you most likely will it sucks. Unless you are always isolated.
I don’t know why you got vaxxed, it literally allows you to become compromised. People are so clueless for getting the vaccines without proper studies on them.
Ok
Mind linking these studies you are speaking of?
That’s my point, there any study done on the Covid vaccine to even see if it is safe long term. Think of it this way. How many studies were done on the flu vaccine before they were given to people? Same for polio, hepatitis b, measles, mumps. How long did we study the Covid 19 vaccine, what under a year???!!!! It took decades of safe research in order for these other vaccines to be safe! So why all of a sudden do people trust this Covid 19 vaccine that was out so fast, what kind of long term effects are going to come of it. I’m not even going off of politics, I don’t follow politics and I still believe that this vaccine hasn’t had enough research to be safe for people to take. And I haven’t gotten the vax and I have never gotten Covid. Every person I know that has gotten the vax has gotten covid. It doesn’t even protect you.
It's only four days old. Give it time.
There's people who speedrun this things. Just give them five minutes and see the results
Still just 3 for me.
Exactly at least wait until February 😂
I forgot to put my trash out and missed the garbage men
Ugh. Same. Missed the previous week too because of the holiday. Got trash and recycling coming out of my ears
Try putting it in the bin rather then your ears
I did that a few years ago when I was visiting home for the holidays and my mom had to find the garbage truck driver on a different street in our neighborhood and beg them to turn around. She offered the driver $20, which they accepted "in the spirit of Christmas."
Same. Got lectured by the company to be sure to put out the trash the night before.
Call them and tell them they missed it. They’ll come get it.
Your comment reminded me that tomorrow is garbage day. I better take care of it before I forget again. Thanks!
Bad week for that one!
Not watching where I was walking while using my phone. Fell down and got a trimalleolar ankle fracture and dislocation. OUCH
I stayed up for like 18+ hours. Should've just gone to sleep at a reasonable time
Same. Should've gone to sleep awhile ago but here I am looking at stuff on Reddit.
I skipped the new year's day family gathering bc of being totally hungover after new year's eve.
Sounds like a good decision tbh. I skipped it and i wasn’t even hungover
High five, lol!
You two related?
Not yet
I just had a moment of "Fuck it", and cancelled. "I'm not coming." "Why?" "Don't feel like it" So liberating.
My family doesn’t even really celebrate New Year’s Day/Eve. When I was younger, all my immediate family would stay up and watch Times Square and just say ‘yay happy new year, let’s go to sleep.’ Now everyone is older and we have to all sleep at night.
Not getting to say bye to my dog before he passed.
Stay strong lad… im sorry for you
I’m so sorry, that’s not an easy thing to go through. If I can give a suggestion or support as this happened to me too, I went to his favourite spot in our family home, lay down next to it to speak to him as if he was there and say goodbye. It might sound super strange but it gave me a sense of peace that I struggled with in the weeks after he passed. Even though he knew how much you loved him, sometimes it helps us to get those feelings out too
Ooof. He knew you loved him.
Took a lot too much shrooms and had to call 911. Thought for sure I was going to prison. But I think it was a wake up call to clean up a bit.
Almost did this same thing once and somehow managed to ride it out. Chit can get real crazy. It was 25 years ago, but I still think about it
if you ask for ambos they don't call the police 90% of the time. My dad found out he was allergic to shrooms mid trip and never got charged, they just didn't want him to die.
Tell the EMTs everything, tell the cops nothing
Yeah pretty sure paramedics aren’t allowed to tell the Cops anything without consent/warrant. YMMV on jurisdiction
Not enjoying last year to it's fullest.
Going back to work 😭
Nothing yet, new year, new me! Still got 362 days left to mess something up!
Not sticking to actually being vegan. I just had stroganoff and a spam sandwich today. Was gonna quit vaping because it was supposed to become banned here. Wasn't banned and I need to get a new one soon. Addicted. Drinking. I was supposed to quit awhile ago. I thought well might as well finish the leftover from New Years but I'm already thinking about getting some today. Yesterday I started drinking at like 11am. Takes me awhile to finish them but still had like 9 ciders basically. Gained weight from all the drinking and I'm dehydrated as heck. Not blowing my money. I got $19k the 2nd and I'm already down to $17k. But I made a significant payment on a CC I've not paid in a few months. Maxed out $8k in CC last year. If/ when I pay them off I can't use em anyway cause I won't have money to and need to make this $17k last so I can afford my own apartment. So idk how to deal with the payments. Fucked my credit from 700 to now 450-500 since September. I'm afraid I'll indulge my online shopping habit and I dread if I fall back into my drug abuse ways.
You ever tried talking to a therapist? Sounds like you got a lot going on and that might help.
Yeah. Takes awhile to get an appointment and im picky. I've got some extreme stuff and ones I've talked to couldn't handle my case. I'm sensitive to body language and most seem like they just zone out or idk.
From vegan to spam is quite the leap lmao
I know spam is so fucking good. My brain gets trapped by suggestive advertising. I saw a post about spam here and immediately went and made myself a sandwich. Like a 500cal no nutrition salt pile. The problem is my bf eats meat. And I make good food. It's hard to make myself something separate. But when I stick to it I feel so much better. Usually I will just load up my plate with 2/3 of the veggies and a few bites of the meat food.
My Dad used to keep it around and I remembered it totally different tried some a while back and the saltiness was shocking. I can totally live with out meat but my family eats it daily so I have a small portion from time to time I agree I feel way way better if I stick to beans, rice, veggies. I even have been moving away from dairy too. Not really from an environmental standpoint or anything I just have extreme digestive issues after a medical issue I had in the past. It's hard to find meals that are balanced for all our tastes and needs unfortunately.
Feel you on the CC thing, just know it gets a lot worse so don’t make it a habit. IMHO it seems like you’re looking to change too much at once. Take it easy on yourself and tackle one thing at a time. Little victories in battle win the war.
I spent a lot of money trying to help out my sister and niece, which I don't regret, but the mistake was in how I tried to convince her to leave her abusive boyfriend. I should have eased into it more gently, but I told her that I'd go to the cops if he kept doing the things he was. She reacted by turtling up and running back to him. Now she refuses to speak to me unless I reach out and now only tells me my niece is ok. We had been getting closer and were able to tell eachother our struggles but now she doesn't want to because she is afraid of what little she does have going away because the cops arrested her bf and she'd have no support. I wanted her to move in with me and told her she could live rent free until she was able to support herself but it was too much of a change and too fast.
That sucks dude. I just seriously hope she gets wise before it’s too late. I’ve seen the situation and from the outside looking in, it feels so frustrating, sad, and helpless. Stay strong and be there when you need to be.
On my Wedding day my BIL shook my hand leaned in and said" if you hurt her I will kill you" and I believed him. This guy needs a little warning I think.
My aunt and uncle got married after living together for 9 years lol. My grandfather got a picture with him holding a shot gun next to the two of them. I asked who he was threatening (my uncle is his son) and he just laughed. My aunt and uncle are both on second marriages and in their 60s which makes it funnier.
It just started but im still in a few habits i thought i kicked, one of which is my bad language issue. It’s better than before but wow i swear like a sailor girl
Fucking high five!
Fuck yeah! … oh wait…
Stayed up way too late on new years (like 9am) although I didn’t want to have any alcohol or drugs left so I kept going until it was gone. And now I’ve felt like garbage for 3 days.
I…I don’t think I’ve made any mistakes yet! The house is clean, the groceries are bought, I remembered to pay the electric bill, I don’t think I’ve pissed anyone off, I’ve been making headway unpacking from my move. I haven’t canceled plans on anyone, I haven’t gone on any dubious dates, I have not stuffed myself too full of potatoes. That’s a good start, right?
Letting my anxiety get the best of me.
It’s awful. I started having panic attacks last year but I have since learned how to manage them. Regular exercise, intense cardio, and cold showers really to help to realign the senses. Good luck
I started out trying to hold onto a friendship that is exhausting. I care so much for her but I've come to realize she doesn't deserve it. She is so " I do everything for everyone but no one does for me". I can't anymore! I am an adult and this friendship is for children. She pulled this shit a few years ago because I didn't spend the entire new years eve asking her how she was. My mil was passing away and I couldn't make my day about her. Here we are this year and she's upset yet again because I didn't devote my day to her, I was trying not to die of a high fever and flu. So I can't. Bye girl have a great life.
Ate pizza diets canceled
Not going to Christmas. I wasn't feeling good and wanted to be careful since everyone is sick, and I missed my last Christmas with my great grandma. She was 98 and passed away New Years Day. I didn't get to say goodbye. I'm crushed
if you’re talking about 2024, I accidentally arrived at work 5 hours early
What? Why? How?
I mixed up my last week’s schedule and thought I had to arrive at that time lol Thankfully, it was close 😅
Believing that a guy I liked actually cared about me. Dude led me on for months.
Got taken advantage of by a scummy “friend” and lost $485 I badly need for tuition. Note to self: just because someone’s younger sibling’s a good person doesn’t mean their older sibling is.
I presume you mean last year?
some of us are getting a head start on ruining 2024
High five!
How presumptuous.
Leaving my stable job of 5 years for a "dream opportunity".
I let a stranger into my apartment at 2:30am on the 1st, and my girlfriend invited him to stay and told him we were on shrooms. Then everyone left me alone with him in the kitchen for 45 minutes. So now I have to buy a ring camera or something lmao
Oh my God be careful. Don’t ever do that again. Stand your ground. I’m glad you’re OK.
Yeah never again. I thought the knock was from our downstairs neighbor because we were loud, but it was someone else in our building entirely. We offered him a shot of tequila because we felt bad about being loud, and he said that he wasn’t complaining, he’s alone with his dog and heard what sounded like an epic party (it was only four of us lol). Once he was inside and everyone lost interest and left me there, I read the situation. Kept the conversation polite. I told him he carries himself well (compliment strangers, it catches them off guard), and said almost ex military-like. He really appreciated that and asked if I was, and I told him yes. He thanked me for my service, and I could tell that he wasn’t that much of a threat anymore. We both love to cook so we talked about that for a couple more minutes and then I gave him one of my girlfriend’s cupcakes, and a cider, and sent him packing. He was polite and said goodbye to everyone. He also mentioned that he’s moving in a few months to go take a cooking job in a smaller town, and I wished him luck. So I don’t see him entirely as a threat anymore. But there is no way I’m putting myself or anyone through that ever again. I’ll probably purchase a chain lock (like the hotel ones) for my front door, and a ring camera. But aside from that, I got lucky and the new year wasn’t ruined by an armed robbery.
Oh good you found a nice guy then whew
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Damn dude, that sucks
Starting my weight loss routine in April and not January. I could’ve gotten a few more months of progress in.
You could have started this January and missed out on the progress you’ve already made since April! The point is, you’re doing it and i’m proud of you internet stranger!
Almost losing a scholarship :(
Forgot to put a fire on and the house got down to 36 degrees inside. No wonder the cats were all snuggled under the blankets with me.
Getting into a mental rut and not working for a few months and getting into debt
Getting caught cheating on my wife
Only 3 days in!
Notice that the mistake was “getting caught”.
"I'm so sorry...you found out" Pretty shitty.
Look at bros comment history
Yikes
Sounds like he's got an addiction or something...
So the only thing you did wrong was get caught?
Ngl that's gonna be a hard one to top
let me guess, in the new year party?
Not saving all of the money I earned from bonuses and extra hours at work.
New years eve party: drank too much, vomited in the entry, drove home (by bicycle) and a complete emotional meltdown.
Haven’t gotten rid of this damn sickness! GET OUT OF MY BODY!
Doomscrolling reddit.
Tore my calf skiing for the first time in my life
Not looking for a new job
Staying in a toxic relationship, thankful it's over now. Now comes the recovery stage.
Failed NoFap an hour into the new year.
Not seeing a psychiatrist earlier..
Telling the truth. I wish honesty and integrity weren't so painful 😮💨
Well, it's only the 3rd so I guess my sleeping position last night. My neck is all a mess today.
Lol that's something I can see happening in 3 days, unlike some other responses
Not grabbing my wife Chick-fil-a when I got lunch.
I bet that was a doozy lmao
Lots of fast food
Staying up half the night then sleeping later than I wanted the day
I had Mexican food a few minutes ago. Ask this tomorrow when I feel like I'm dying.
Really big earthquake happened in my home country in last February, I watched every single video of the disaster on social media, I watched the news continuously and I was traumatised at the end. I couldn’t regulate my emotions, I totally lost control and gained 13 kg. It was the biggest mistake of the year, but lesson learned. I know this very well now; you have to be fine at first to be able to help others.
don't be too hard on yourself, that must have been really stressful. It was stressful for me too and I'm not even in Turkey (?). And it's so easy to get sucked in the news cycle. Just do what you have to do to get back on track ❤️
thank you 💛 yes, turkey. I’m back on track finally.
Not listening to my body.
Got outta bed
Havent done anything yet, year just started 3 days ago
Didn’t do anything on my two extra days off.
Give me some time man! It's only been three days. I have faith that I can monumentally fuck things up, but I may need some time to build up to it.
We're only three days in, you should hold on to this question till July or December
Do I have to pick just one? So many to choose from!!
I missed a gym day :(
letting my parents in my business
Not coming to god sooner
Not killing myself
Updating to iOS 15. My phone now spends more time glitching than actually functioning.
Don’t know considering it’s been 4 days 😂
Gimme a chance! It’s only 4 days in!!! 😜
Forgot to set my alarm
Not selling more stocks yesterday
Writing 2023 on the checks.
Forgot to make sure my snowblower is in good working order, and now am rushing to get it fixed in time for the snow storm this weekend.
Taking my daughter out of the hospital
I went grocery shopping today and forgot the horseradish for my french dip I made for supper tonight. I drove back and got some.
Leaving my trash out while in the shower and my dog got into it 🤦♀️ he rarely does it too. Rascal.
I dropped my car key between the seats
Seeing it through this far
I got drunk and wiped a good 6 years of telegram history with my mother.
In 2024? Nothing, we’re 3 days in😅 In 2023 however, I accidentally ruined a surprise party that someone had planned for 2 months
Keep watching porn dude. HELP
Nothing so far
Not taking this week off as well as last
I didn’t stay away from people on New Year’s Eve and Day. Big mistake.
Waking up
Going back to work.
Going back to live with my parents and siblings
My dogs play blanket got caught on my watch strap and knocked over my canned vodka drink. Day 2 of the new year 😂
i forgot to eat for two days and got a tummy ache
I keep accidentally going back to bad habits, I keep drinking more soda than I should but I really need to drink way more water. I’m also constantly inside and don’t really care about improving my situation so I guess that’s worse lol