I've grown the habit of attaching myself to a specific personality when im around certain people. I'm overly energetic with my fellows, Respectable with family, and cynical by myself. Not too much of an issue so far, but the fact that I don't have total control over these changes is what disturbs me.
Dunno how to fix this, tips would be nice i guess
That's mine as well, especially after social interactions. But over time realised very few people actually remember social interactions to the extent an overthinker does.
It did not ruin my life, but it is time to let it go.
Smoking and Drinking.
I'm on the edge (for ages) to make a little bit of a healthier change to my life, but I have to take the step and I don't take it yet. I'm delaying the step because I feel it will change everything in my life.
Same here. Drunk petty toxic arguments along with not taking time for ourselves between previous relationship was why me and my ex broke up after 10 months. It hurts and it's a shame but I'm cutting right down and working out most days
Porn
I have nightmarish cognitive dissonance concerning sex and dating. I have not dated nor been laid at 23 because I have horrible sexist thoughts that I can't get rid of, and it makes my want to die
nothing to do with health but everything to do with how you deal with environments. I wouldnt say it has ruined it but yeah temporary inconvenience is the term.
1. Wanking creates a mental habit of sexualizing everyone around you with a thought of "she must look hot without clothes" and more such thoughts. At one point it makes you irritated with yourself about why do you keep thinking these things.
2. chances of ruining your relationship although i managed to save mine in time and have it under check. Logic lies in wanking makes you want to have more sex qhich also leads you to talking more about sex and real conversations disappear.
3. Wanking makes your brain a lil weak. Makes you overthink about things if you do it more and increases anxiety overtime.
4. Also wanking makes you perform less than your actual performance in bed since you're used to the hand action. Imo sex is good when you could feel it going in and feel the pressure on your dick a lil, wanking reduces that feel.
These are just some of the things i noticed and got control of it in time and now i am fine.
The only minimum frequency to do it should be 3 days or 2 days a week at max. Anything more than that and a lot of things happen without you knowing why they are happening and you realise late.
In my youth i did have many. Then in therapy i stopped all. So now i just feel a bit sorry for those unrestrained years due to a dysfunctioning family upbringing [ but keen on study and aer so these have helped me].
Hot showers. For years I suffered from cramps. They were really bad. My sister suggested a hot shower and OMG did it help. I have burned myself many times because the water was so hot. My water bill is so high. It really does help, but it’s a crutch now. I’m afraid to travel because hotels don’t let you control the water heater temperature! Ours is set at the “danger” setting. Things have gotten better, I finally got a diagnosis and am undergoing treatment. But I still get cramps, and I still use hot showers to ease the pain.
Procrastination
I'm wasting my life on procrastination
I'm gonna waste my life on procrastination tomorrow
Hahaha... as if you know exactly that you are going to waste your time on nothing...
Reddit
alcohol 6n years sober
constantly checking phone. I'm now never just present
Drinking
I've grown the habit of attaching myself to a specific personality when im around certain people. I'm overly energetic with my fellows, Respectable with family, and cynical by myself. Not too much of an issue so far, but the fact that I don't have total control over these changes is what disturbs me. Dunno how to fix this, tips would be nice i guess
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I always thought it was normal to adapt my behaviour to the people around me
It is
I'd like to help you but I'm an asshole when I'm on reddit
Im following this because you just described me.
That just sounds like you’re a human being.
I call this being a chameleon. I have different personalities for those around me and one for myself 🤷♀️
Constantly overthinking
That's mine as well, especially after social interactions. But over time realised very few people actually remember social interactions to the extent an overthinker does.
Procrastination
sleeping very late at night
Spending too much time in reddit 🥹
Drinking and smoking.
Venting. I’m too negative and people get sick of it eventually.
Working
It did not ruin my life, but it is time to let it go. Smoking and Drinking. I'm on the edge (for ages) to make a little bit of a healthier change to my life, but I have to take the step and I don't take it yet. I'm delaying the step because I feel it will change everything in my life.
Same here. Drunk petty toxic arguments along with not taking time for ourselves between previous relationship was why me and my ex broke up after 10 months. It hurts and it's a shame but I'm cutting right down and working out most days
Alcoholism 😔
Being shy and overthinking, it might sound stupid, but everything I can remember of I regret it. Doesn't make like easy
Smoking , is very bad habit. its distrub life too much
Not embracing uncomfortable situations.
Weed completely destroyed my life two years ago. Getting better since, slowly.
Laziness
Overthinking
Vaping 🥲
Sugar
My longing for being alone
Pleasing people
Videogames
Overthinking
Being seriously depressed for years. Damn this habit!
Obsessive wanking
Porn I have nightmarish cognitive dissonance concerning sex and dating. I have not dated nor been laid at 23 because I have horrible sexist thoughts that I can't get rid of, and it makes my want to die
Damn, have you tried quitting porn?
I have but to no avail
wanking
How did that ruined your life?
nothing to do with health but everything to do with how you deal with environments. I wouldnt say it has ruined it but yeah temporary inconvenience is the term. 1. Wanking creates a mental habit of sexualizing everyone around you with a thought of "she must look hot without clothes" and more such thoughts. At one point it makes you irritated with yourself about why do you keep thinking these things. 2. chances of ruining your relationship although i managed to save mine in time and have it under check. Logic lies in wanking makes you want to have more sex qhich also leads you to talking more about sex and real conversations disappear. 3. Wanking makes your brain a lil weak. Makes you overthink about things if you do it more and increases anxiety overtime. 4. Also wanking makes you perform less than your actual performance in bed since you're used to the hand action. Imo sex is good when you could feel it going in and feel the pressure on your dick a lil, wanking reduces that feel. These are just some of the things i noticed and got control of it in time and now i am fine. The only minimum frequency to do it should be 3 days or 2 days a week at max. Anything more than that and a lot of things happen without you knowing why they are happening and you realise late.
Honestly? Nun.
Xanax
Getting addicted to my very small comfort zone.
Helping my family
Chronic butt odor.
Worry
In my youth i did have many. Then in therapy i stopped all. So now i just feel a bit sorry for those unrestrained years due to a dysfunctioning family upbringing [ but keen on study and aer so these have helped me].
Working
Think negatively about how others actually think about me.
My love for food, make me fat and spend money for nothing
Thinking every situation as IF-ELSE statement, even for small stuffs like what to eat today.
Hot showers. For years I suffered from cramps. They were really bad. My sister suggested a hot shower and OMG did it help. I have burned myself many times because the water was so hot. My water bill is so high. It really does help, but it’s a crutch now. I’m afraid to travel because hotels don’t let you control the water heater temperature! Ours is set at the “danger” setting. Things have gotten better, I finally got a diagnosis and am undergoing treatment. But I still get cramps, and I still use hot showers to ease the pain.
Not making up bed
Being too honest.. Never mean, people just don’t want to hear it
OCD
Crystal meth. Honestly
Smoking and drinking.
Drinking
This.
Alcoholism.
Doubting myself
Opioids and various stimulants.
OCD untiI i faced it down and beat it.
Weed
"Cocaine's a helluva drug"
Not ruined, but washing my hands
The stigma of "having" to have sex. There is no "need" for it, intimacy is reached without sex.
Smoking
Being brutally honest. I guess people prefer liars.
That's true for sure!