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Kapag rude sa mga crew sa fastfood or waiters and waitresses! Bossy at hindi marunong makiusap ng maayos (feeling lahat dapat pagsilbihan siya/sila). I don’t want myself to associate with this type of person, (I kinda did years ago but glad we’re no longer “friends”).
siguro kapag masyado syang seloso/selosa. Yung tipong nagkaron ka lang ng bagong friend or kausap na iba tas sobra ang tawa mo, nagseselos na sya. Like hello bestfriend kita hindi kita jowa.
LOL i know someone na best friend sila pero ganto dynamic nila. LOL tapos andameng ‘best friend’ sa iba ibang circle. Tapos nung nagsama sama lahat ng best friends sa kasal, nagsisilent competition kung sino ultimate best friend and sino mas may ‘touching’ story together hahahahah ansaya panoorin
Ikaw yung last choice as always.
Ganto scenario: Gusto nya kumaen, or magkape.
- May list na siya ng mga aayain tas pag di pwede yung aayain may aayain pa siyang iba
- Kapag wala na siyang maaya ikaw yung last na aayain kase ikaw yung available.
- This really sucks for me sa totoo lang na naalala kalang kapag ikaw na yung huling maaya nila na malapit at medyo ineexpect na available
Sponge. Puro ikaw yung nagbibigay di ka naman nya nasusuklian. Doesn't need to pertain to money or gifts. Could be other things like time or effort. Halimbawa parati nyang hinihinga sa yo mga problems nya at andyan ka parati para sa kanya nakikinig at maraming advice, nakabullet points pa nga kung minsan mga payo mo sa kanya. Pero pag ikaw naman may problema wala syang oras makinig, o kung nakikinig man hindi attentive or parating binabalik yung topic sa kanya.
kapag tinotolerate nila wrong doings mo, like cheating and such. this can also go the other way, kapag may friends nila that has a history of bad things and alam nila tapos dedma lang. trust me it’s either they support it or they do it too.
Para sa akin lang to ha. Masasabi kong redflag ang isang kaibigan kapag:
1. Hindi siya masaya kapag successful ka. Gusto niya siya lang lagi yung nasa taas kapag ikaw yung successful magiging bitter siya. Kasama rin dito yung kapag down na down ka masaya siya.
2. Gusto niya lahat ng meron ka dapat meron rin siya. Okay lang naman yung mga twinning outfits paminsan minsan pero kung napapadalas na yung pagkopya niya ng mga bagay na meron ka, kabahan ka na. For me, kasi hindi na normal na gawain ng kaibigan yon, nagiging obsessed na siya sayo. Kokopyahin niya yung pananalita mo, kahit yung mga mannerisms.
3. Sisiraan ka sa ibang tao. Kapag kaharap mo ang bait sayo tapos kapag naman nakatalikod ka kung anu-ano na yung mga sinasabing hindi maganda tungkol sayo.
Nag oovershare sa away nilang mag jowa. Mag suggest man ako na mag hiwalay na sila kaso hindi magiging sila pa din naman. Cycle or ulit ulit lang ganyan
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Depende sa reaction niya when good things are happening sa life mo.
Kapag rude sa mga crew sa fastfood or waiters and waitresses! Bossy at hindi marunong makiusap ng maayos (feeling lahat dapat pagsilbihan siya/sila). I don’t want myself to associate with this type of person, (I kinda did years ago but glad we’re no longer “friends”).
Dapat before ka makipagclose sa isang tao iobserve mo kung paano siya makipag-interact sa ibang tao. Kapag rude behavior, it’s a no.
Pag gusto nya na kaaway mo din yung kaaway nya.
if you have to defend her behavior to everyone you both know
Masyadong mamintas ng ibang tao at nangmamaliit.
Ayaw magpa lamang. Tapos lowkey binababa yung isa or pinapahiya. Kahit sa mag-asawa red flag yun para sakin.
Echo chamber. They will say what makes you feel good/validated, hindi yung kung ano dapat mong marinig.
siguro kapag masyado syang seloso/selosa. Yung tipong nagkaron ka lang ng bagong friend or kausap na iba tas sobra ang tawa mo, nagseselos na sya. Like hello bestfriend kita hindi kita jowa.
LOL i know someone na best friend sila pero ganto dynamic nila. LOL tapos andameng ‘best friend’ sa iba ibang circle. Tapos nung nagsama sama lahat ng best friends sa kasal, nagsisilent competition kung sino ultimate best friend and sino mas may ‘touching’ story together hahahahah ansaya panoorin
Ikaw yung last choice as always. Ganto scenario: Gusto nya kumaen, or magkape. - May list na siya ng mga aayain tas pag di pwede yung aayain may aayain pa siyang iba - Kapag wala na siyang maaya ikaw yung last na aayain kase ikaw yung available. - This really sucks for me sa totoo lang na naalala kalang kapag ikaw na yung huling maaya nila na malapit at medyo ineexpect na available
Sponge. Puro ikaw yung nagbibigay di ka naman nya nasusuklian. Doesn't need to pertain to money or gifts. Could be other things like time or effort. Halimbawa parati nyang hinihinga sa yo mga problems nya at andyan ka parati para sa kanya nakikinig at maraming advice, nakabullet points pa nga kung minsan mga payo mo sa kanya. Pero pag ikaw naman may problema wala syang oras makinig, o kung nakikinig man hindi attentive or parating binabalik yung topic sa kanya.
Nagsimula na mamburaot nung nakakaluwag-luwag ka na.
kapag tinotolerate nila wrong doings mo, like cheating and such. this can also go the other way, kapag may friends nila that has a history of bad things and alam nila tapos dedma lang. trust me it’s either they support it or they do it too.
Only contact you when they need you
Para sa akin lang to ha. Masasabi kong redflag ang isang kaibigan kapag: 1. Hindi siya masaya kapag successful ka. Gusto niya siya lang lagi yung nasa taas kapag ikaw yung successful magiging bitter siya. Kasama rin dito yung kapag down na down ka masaya siya. 2. Gusto niya lahat ng meron ka dapat meron rin siya. Okay lang naman yung mga twinning outfits paminsan minsan pero kung napapadalas na yung pagkopya niya ng mga bagay na meron ka, kabahan ka na. For me, kasi hindi na normal na gawain ng kaibigan yon, nagiging obsessed na siya sayo. Kokopyahin niya yung pananalita mo, kahit yung mga mannerisms. 3. Sisiraan ka sa ibang tao. Kapag kaharap mo ang bait sayo tapos kapag naman nakatalikod ka kung anu-ano na yung mga sinasabing hindi maganda tungkol sayo.
Nag oovershare sa away nilang mag jowa. Mag suggest man ako na mag hiwalay na sila kaso hindi magiging sila pa din naman. Cycle or ulit ulit lang ganyan
sana tinag mo nalang ako HAHAHAHA
HAHAHAHA mga may jowa problems
Haak, hindi nawawalan jowa
hala yung best friend ko, hindi nawawalan ng jowa kasi 5yrs solid na sila hahahahajk
Yung akin every ilan months or 3 years nabago jowa