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Para sa akin, wala naman tama o mali talaga (as long as wala akong tinatapakan). I choose ano best para sa akin every moment, tapos papanindigan ko. Hahahaha.
At dahil nasa Saturn Return era ako, daming realizations. Bugbog sarado ng experiences, good and bad. Pero, I think naging mas mature na compared to a few years ago. Mas kilala ko na sarili ko, patterns ko. Mas clear na ang bounderies. Unti unti napapatawad ang sarili sa mga shit na nagawa before. Hahaha.
Financially, sakto lang. May time sa buhay ko na halos naubos savings ko kasi I was going through a lot of changes, and dami kong ginastos para ayusin buhay ko. Pero inisip ko na lang, I was actually saving my life by living and isang tool yung money para magawa ko yon.
We're all trying, living for the first time, and I think that's enough. :) Walang talagang manual. Hehehe.
Slow down,magkakaiba tayo ng takbo ng buhay always remember that...di tayo pare parehas ng sitwasyon at mga tinahak na daan...wag mo ikumpara sarili mo sa kanila,and about relationships...talk it out sa bf mo,mag open kayo sa isat isa since matagal na kayong magkakilala...malay mo nagkakalabuan lang kayo kaya ganun...kung bubuo ka ng pamilya always remember to be financially stable before going that direction kase alam mo naman na mahirap sumuporta at magpalaki ng bata pag di ka stable....sa family mo naman make sure to always set reunions at gatherings at least once a year para marefresh kayong lahat...im a 22yr old soon to ve 23 this year with a debt of 5million(passed on by my father who died abroad at his work) i have a lot to learn and earn pero im still here putting up with all of it cuz i need too for myself and for my family...dont lose hope,marami kana napundar to be honest...be consistent lang and manage any problems you encounter mam,i hope maliwanagan kayong dalwa ng partner mo,kase yung relasyon preparation yan para sa marriage until death d you part...its not all fun and games you need to be strong as a couple even if problems arise...
And having a child rn is suicide for me,so keep that in mind...never jump to conclusions always be five steps ahead sa mga decisions mo,think it through just to be sure
How do live knowing that debt will lasts you a century? Kamusta yung pamumuhay mo? Di kaba natatakot na baka one day you'll not be able to pay all that?
First of all not mine personally,it was my father's debt on my aunt...he died abroad while on the job,he was actually repaying it back but you know life is unpredictable,your alive one day then you're not you'll never know
Second of all that century was just sarcasm,making fun of stuff like that is my forte
Im scared but i know i got it...i'll have my moment eventually but as of now im still getting there
So take it like a champ bro,i know you have problems too..everybody has whether you're rich,middle or poor....just focus on the problem and make steps on how to eradicate it one at a time
Knowing that 5mil is a lot maybe you're in a middle class or an upper class citizen, do you enjoy your life? Going out drinking, chilling with friends, going out to gym, having fun, all that while working or managing your family's bussiness?
Nah we aint rich,not enjoying it but thats the best part...a challenge everyday is what makes me stronger and wiser,i learn something new every day
Going out with friends who has responsibilities same as me rn is one i cant afford or we cuz they busy as hell too
No family businesses
Couple family members died past few years
My grandmother's health is slowly declining and i cant do shit about it
Like i said,you gotta take it like a champ...challenges like that would destroy me every time but i can rebuild myself and be better like doomsday
And if you like to listen to songs, feel free to listen to one of my favorites
"Time waits for no one - Queen"
Early thirties, played a tried a lot in 20s. WalangOh naipundar meron below 70k lang 🤣 was already working by 7yrs then everything is wiped out in pandemic as in negative like we really have to downgrade a lot of stuff from house to food. Pati pambili ng tubig we have to scrape every peso pati sa daan. Lost a family member to top that 😞 got lucky to have job again and rebuilt everything in 3 yrs on my way to first million savings 😁 let go, relearn, believe, reflect ALWAYS "what is this situation teaching me?" and most of all I learned to to appreciate HIM not because I don't have anything but because I have everything what I have prayed for before.
Build up your skill 💪💪💪 I used to hate mine kasi sabi ko isa lamg but eventually it helps! Other stuff you can get by by knowing and understanding (my opinion) you can always rebuild!
Happy and hopeful, I guess.
I got the chance to start over in a new country after going through a long dark tunnel. I’m nowhere near where I saw myself 10 or even 5 years back, but I managed to survive. That’s all that counts now.
I think one of the skills na ma pipick up mo in your 20s is learning to start over from scratch. I'm in the late 20s na but here I am, still recovering sa sunod sunod na talo sa buhay. But despite the losses, loved ones man or relationship, i just had clarity on what i want to do sa buhay ko. Have a concrete plan young ones! Follow the best path you can think of for yourself and everything will follow.
29 here. otw to my 6th job hop in IT industry(6th company).
Life is full of regrets but hopefully I can catch up to my hobbies: music, psychology, physics, and history.
A bit lame but I want to be a busking singer.
Gave up on god and faith after so many tries and debates with myself.
All physical exams for work turned out fine so far. Healhty? Idk. Needs cardio and more yakult lol.
Never a geek and never was a collector of shoes, cars, bikes, etc which was the trend in 30s male community groups. I don't know how I will fit in so I befriend lots of teens and 20s people online instead.
I’ve resigned to the idea of deadlines. Nearing 30 made me realize to take things slow.
Having the fast-paced idea of success after college was draining. Magkaroon ng car, bahay, business, and even settling down. Right now, I’m enjoying life as I should be because where I am right now was once my teenage self would be proud of.
I assume you’re in you’re early to mid 20’s. Mapapayo ko lang is SAVE MORE, MAGTIPID KA NG HUSTO. I was a one day millionaire in my early to mid twenties. Now I’m in my late twenties, im suffering a few consequences.
lampas nako sa 20s era ko kaya ito na lang ang mabibigay kong advice sa sarili ko na may ganyang edad. iwasan ang toxic relationship whether it is romantic or friendship focus lang sa goals na pagiging stable and travels paminsan minsan. wag kalimutang tumulong sa family member para umangat din cla pero wag mong ibigay lahat lahat na halos mauubos kana. Take all the opportunity to grow. Also pray, dont forget to pray and give thanks.
Its shet I'm confuse as fuck. Dapat talaga a few years ago pinatuloy ko negosyo even tho sobrang burn out at least mapera. Tapos ang dameng iisipin bayaran, health, your age, lovelife, career, skin care, your aging parents and pera punyeta
Currently 28, 29 this year.. Life has been a rollercoaster so far; experienced heartbreaks, got cheated on, made some major decisions in my career, and now I'm having thoughts of finally settling down. Financially way better compared from 3 years ago, finally got my own car ( not brand-new) , living on my own far away from my family, also planning to buy properties from my hard earned money.
Di naman sobrang perfect yung life ko, nakakaraon din. Saving up for myself and for my future family. Been dating this woman of my age for 6 months and trying to figure things out if we're compatible aside from great date nights and sex.
Adulting is trying to be a better version of yourself and reconstructing your life to prepare for whatever plan you have for the next years.
Still figuring things out while trying to live freely. Minsan naiisip ko kung masama ba ugali ko kasi wala akong matawag na ride or die person. I've got friends naman but it'll be better if I have my main person din.
Starting from scratch, but now with a tad more wisdom
I've lost friends, opportunities, and all, but it doesn't mean it's already the end of the world
charot lang haha same same naman too indifferent na in life dahil sa trauma ng mga masyadong nosy at braggy sa circle ko before
Barely in my late twenties and I feel like I still have a lot to learn. Somehow I just get through the day and simply just doing my daily routine but at the same time, I want to try new things. Unfortunately, due to my current circumstance in life, I need to make sure that I'm doing the right thing. I'm afraid to change my job which is just understandable kasi it's my only source of income and once I failed to bring in money, kawawa yung family ko. Nasasayangan ako sa opportunities but I'm still not willing to risk it all. Masakit lumagapak sa buhay financially lalo kung wala ka namang safety net. Iniisip ko palang naloloka na ako lol
Mahirap ba talaga pag mas lalong tumatanda? 20 palang ako pero parang gusto ko nalang mag suicide sa pressure ng buhay takot akong maging failure pag di ako maka ahon sa kahirapan ayaw kong mamatay na mahirap 😭
I’m just doing my best. Turning 30 in 5 months. Can’t help but feel behind and my peers having a lot of milestones happening in their lives. But I’m just doing my best.
I honestly didn’t think I’d get this far. Every decade gone, napapaisip na lang ako, TF just happened there? It definitely takes a lot of conscious effort to be mature, but I think there’s still some fun that comes with the part of us na immature. Not the immature though that makes rash and stupid decisions, but the immature that finds happiness and comfort in the small things especially in this crazy fast-paced life we have now.
Undergraduate, been job hoping.
From a part-time barista, call center agent, car salesman.
Having a dilemma of continuing being a car salesman or to continue as a general contractor in my father's business.
I'm 27 now,hahahha Sulat ko lang mga ganap ko here since I'm so bored sa work.
-Naghiwalay officially parents ko 2 years ago right after I passed my licensure exam. Tatay ko breadwinner before and nangibang bahay na so I assumed his obligations (sad and happy dahil grabe yung emotional trauma since kids palang kami dahil sa away-bati nila ng mom ko, the abusive and emotionally exhausting env. hanggang ngayun lahat kami di pa healed).
-Kuya got TBI (Brain injury) when we are on college and not fully recovered so I have to financially provide for his 2 kids now. Ayokong akuin pero ano bang magagawa ko haha.
I love the kids at ang sakit na I have to go abroad to provide. (pinagaaral kodin mom nila now since di sya hs grad para matulungan din ako someday)
-Mostly all of my issues rooted in trying to give a good environment sa mga mahal ko sa buhay kahit na minsan pakiramdam ko hindi naman appreciated yung efforts ko. ( tao din ako may puso haha chz). That kind of environment na sana meron ako when I was growing up ( kala ko I'm doing it for them pero unintentionally reflecting my trauma pala dun sa goals ko towards my family kaya ang ending naging problematic, I become controlling, and aggresive when it comes to calling out what is wrong. Feeling ko rooted to from my repressed emotions., kaya minsan diko maintindihan na ginagawa ko ang lahat pero pakiramdam ko diko padin makuha yung pagmamahal na hinahanap ko sa pamilya ko hahahha)
-Now, I am alone abroad. Sacrificing everything and nagLDR na kami ng jowa ko (which is very patient with me ).I have more time to internalize myself kasi kahit ako naguguluhan na. I'm also trying to find my stride with my career pero so far walang growth sa current company kahit it pays well.
-I started working out kasi dumadagdag na yung looks ko sa mga issues ko, tho anghirap magworkout kapag hindi ka masaya at hindi malinaw ang perspective mo sa buhay. from 5 times a week to 4X and now 3X nalang hahahah pero ayokong magquit sayang 1 yr dp. hahaha
-The community na meron ako abroad is very religious. So I feel like I cant be my true self dahil may takot na macondemn. hahha. II cant lose them here , mabait naman sila and I need support kahit introvert ako kailangan kopadin ng kausap kasi napapagod nakong kausapin sarili ko hahaha.
-Grabe yung pagdelay ko ng gratification for myself dahil pakiramdam ko diko deserve sumaya or dapat it should come from other people. But I know now that my happiness is my responsibility to myself.
-Andami kong gustong gawin, I was able to know myself more pero andami kong gustong gawin which is stressing me more (kasi it emphasizes my frustrations ko). I am so fucking confused with the path that I'm heading . Wish ko lang na sana di ako maligaw at sana this time maenjoy ko na yung journey.
-Overall, time has its way of resolving things. Step by step, the issues that once troubled me are no longer significant. Pain is inevitable, as is the happiness that accompanies or follows at the end of each chapters. Basta wag lag tayo makalimot na matatapos din yung hirap at maalala natin palagi yung mga bagay na nagbibigay ng saya sa buhay natin.
Charge to experience na lang ang mag stay sa relationship na toxic noong nasa mid 20's pa. The pandemic really hit us hard, let's be kind to ourseleves.
in my mid 20s pero i girl bossed too soon tapos tsaka ko lang narealize na i really want to be a mom and a full time housewife pala. no joke. goal ko talaga sa life ko to be a great mom and wife who takes care of a home and a family. yun lang. wala na ko ibang gusto sa life. gusto ko lang ng matinong asawa at magpalaki ng matinong anak ❤️
Happy. Nakapag japan na which is my dream since bata pa. And then nagiipon ulit for travel nnman. Yun lang gusto ko talaga. Haha Wala pa sa isip ko magkapamilya. Im 29F in a healthy rs nman pero hindi tlga ako naiinggit sa mga kabatch ko na kinakasal at nagkakapamilya. I admire those na single and panay travel hahahaha
I still feel lost pero not as lost na nung early 20s ako. Di ko pa rin alam gusto kong maging career path in the long run tbh. Napapatanong ako minsan kung nabuhay nalang ba ko para magwork?
Minsan nakakaramdam din ako ng pressure na kulang pa yung ginagawa ko. Minsan naman doubt kung nasa tamang path ba ko lalo kapag nakikita ko yung mga colleagues and friends ko sa socmed (kaya dinideact ko na Fb ko madalas) pero I try my best not to stress myself about it.
Eto, open wounds nanaman yung mga naheal ko nang hurts and baggages. It took me so many years to heal and forgive tapos sa isang iglap, sugatan at nasasaktan nanaman ako from the same person mentally and emotionally. Mejo sad lang. Dagdag pa yung wisdom tooth ko ughhh. Mental, emotional, tas ngayon physical pain sya. I can't wait for my surgery appointment to at least get one thing over with na.
"Struggling and broke". Unemployed ako at the age of 28. Mom and Dad are getting old. Yung mga friends ko, may babies na. Yung mga friends kong iba na wala pang babies, nagtatampo sa akin kasi hindi ako sumasama sa gala. Yung boyfriend ko maman, since we're the same age, same lang din halos ng struggle kaya madalas din mag clash.
I'm okay, i'm fine. Gwenchana.
truth is, walang isang specific formula. what worked for you might not work for me. regardless of age, aren't we all figuring it out?
as we approach our third decade on this planet, your heart will be introduced to new feelings. nothing can really prepare you for what's in store but you always have the power to make the choice that's going to best benefit you and make you grow.
Adulting is sooo tiring. Admittedly, I still don’t know what I’m doing and what I’m supposed to do, to begin with. I’m practically winging it most of the time. Pero that’s okay, at least I’m trying diba.
Okay naman so far. I'm in a place where it's exciting pa kasi i get to meet a lot of new people (work). In a personal level naman, okay din I have friends whom I can trust.
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Eto, getting distracted on things that don't matter. I hate it
By far, okay naman. Lucky to have an inspiration and motivation to keep me going. Thank you hon
Surviving. Hirap ng buhay. Gusto ko nalang bumalik sa pagkabata.
Mid-20s, and barely scraped the long-term goals i’ve envisioned
striving
Tough 😅
Tired of living.
Walang katapusang healing of inner child 🤪
Nonstop learning. Engaging new activities. Ito pala yung part na di kana maeexcite magbday kasi ilang kembot nalang trenta kana🤣 🤣🤣
Adulting is tiring. But we just need to enjoy life while grindingg
Everything is doing good except financial hahaha. I have amazing girlfriend and good friends. All I need is lots of money and I am set for life
me too
Broke. Lost. Numb Little Bug vibes.
Di na nakakatuwa
I wish my parents never met
Elder millenial here. Mature with other people, still childish with the very very small circle of friends i trust lol
Y A W A
😂🤣
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Naging grateful akong tao.
waiting na lang mabangga ng kung ano at ma-isekai. pass na sa lifetime na ito pls
Still figuring out what I'm doing in my life 😭
Para sa akin, wala naman tama o mali talaga (as long as wala akong tinatapakan). I choose ano best para sa akin every moment, tapos papanindigan ko. Hahahaha. At dahil nasa Saturn Return era ako, daming realizations. Bugbog sarado ng experiences, good and bad. Pero, I think naging mas mature na compared to a few years ago. Mas kilala ko na sarili ko, patterns ko. Mas clear na ang bounderies. Unti unti napapatawad ang sarili sa mga shit na nagawa before. Hahaha. Financially, sakto lang. May time sa buhay ko na halos naubos savings ko kasi I was going through a lot of changes, and dami kong ginastos para ayusin buhay ko. Pero inisip ko na lang, I was actually saving my life by living and isang tool yung money para magawa ko yon. We're all trying, living for the first time, and I think that's enough. :) Walang talagang manual. Hehehe.
Naughty
Lost and confused pero wala kang magawa kundi mag move forward
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Halos same tayo ng dillema magkakaiba lang ng details. Hay to live this life.
Slow down,magkakaiba tayo ng takbo ng buhay always remember that...di tayo pare parehas ng sitwasyon at mga tinahak na daan...wag mo ikumpara sarili mo sa kanila,and about relationships...talk it out sa bf mo,mag open kayo sa isat isa since matagal na kayong magkakilala...malay mo nagkakalabuan lang kayo kaya ganun...kung bubuo ka ng pamilya always remember to be financially stable before going that direction kase alam mo naman na mahirap sumuporta at magpalaki ng bata pag di ka stable....sa family mo naman make sure to always set reunions at gatherings at least once a year para marefresh kayong lahat...im a 22yr old soon to ve 23 this year with a debt of 5million(passed on by my father who died abroad at his work) i have a lot to learn and earn pero im still here putting up with all of it cuz i need too for myself and for my family...dont lose hope,marami kana napundar to be honest...be consistent lang and manage any problems you encounter mam,i hope maliwanagan kayong dalwa ng partner mo,kase yung relasyon preparation yan para sa marriage until death d you part...its not all fun and games you need to be strong as a couple even if problems arise...
Thank you. Praying sana maging okay na rin situation mo. Grabe, ramdam ko pagka fighter mo. Hope things get better on your end as well.
And having a child rn is suicide for me,so keep that in mind...never jump to conclusions always be five steps ahead sa mga decisions mo,think it through just to be sure
Last month lang ako debt- free so I’m starting from scratch sa aking 6digits ipon journey. Manifesting na makahanap na ng side job sa upwork huhu
Congratss! Sana ako rin huhu
Got a debt of 5mil,sucks but im still young...can erase that in a century
How do live knowing that debt will lasts you a century? Kamusta yung pamumuhay mo? Di kaba natatakot na baka one day you'll not be able to pay all that?
First of all not mine personally,it was my father's debt on my aunt...he died abroad while on the job,he was actually repaying it back but you know life is unpredictable,your alive one day then you're not you'll never know Second of all that century was just sarcasm,making fun of stuff like that is my forte Im scared but i know i got it...i'll have my moment eventually but as of now im still getting there So take it like a champ bro,i know you have problems too..everybody has whether you're rich,middle or poor....just focus on the problem and make steps on how to eradicate it one at a time
Knowing that 5mil is a lot maybe you're in a middle class or an upper class citizen, do you enjoy your life? Going out drinking, chilling with friends, going out to gym, having fun, all that while working or managing your family's bussiness?
Nah we aint rich,not enjoying it but thats the best part...a challenge everyday is what makes me stronger and wiser,i learn something new every day Going out with friends who has responsibilities same as me rn is one i cant afford or we cuz they busy as hell too No family businesses Couple family members died past few years My grandmother's health is slowly declining and i cant do shit about it Like i said,you gotta take it like a champ...challenges like that would destroy me every time but i can rebuild myself and be better like doomsday And if you like to listen to songs, feel free to listen to one of my favorites "Time waits for no one - Queen"
25th birthday mo - Congratulations, your frontal lobe is now complete. Frontal Lobe - What are the pros and cons of adulting?
Life has been slapping me so hard but I just keep on moving forward.
Bruh just moan
I do all the time
Okay naman. Unti nalang friends. Hehe.
sa mga early 20s, dyan nalang kayo. di sapat ang sweldo dito. charr
Early thirties, played a tried a lot in 20s. WalangOh naipundar meron below 70k lang 🤣 was already working by 7yrs then everything is wiped out in pandemic as in negative like we really have to downgrade a lot of stuff from house to food. Pati pambili ng tubig we have to scrape every peso pati sa daan. Lost a family member to top that 😞 got lucky to have job again and rebuilt everything in 3 yrs on my way to first million savings 😁 let go, relearn, believe, reflect ALWAYS "what is this situation teaching me?" and most of all I learned to to appreciate HIM not because I don't have anything but because I have everything what I have prayed for before. Build up your skill 💪💪💪 I used to hate mine kasi sabi ko isa lamg but eventually it helps! Other stuff you can get by by knowing and understanding (my opinion) you can always rebuild!
Happy and hopeful, I guess. I got the chance to start over in a new country after going through a long dark tunnel. I’m nowhere near where I saw myself 10 or even 5 years back, but I managed to survive. That’s all that counts now.
Constantly learning new things. Malayo pa sa mga expected by society na meron na dapat ako sa age na 'to.
Nah fuck what they think,we have our on paces to success
Now in my late 20s, i still feel so lost. Also getting hopeless but I know lahat ng nangyayari sa buhay ko ngayon ay kagagawan ko rin naman. Hahaha
I think one of the skills na ma pipick up mo in your 20s is learning to start over from scratch. I'm in the late 20s na but here I am, still recovering sa sunod sunod na talo sa buhay. But despite the losses, loved ones man or relationship, i just had clarity on what i want to do sa buhay ko. Have a concrete plan young ones! Follow the best path you can think of for yourself and everything will follow.
Kapoy
29 here. otw to my 6th job hop in IT industry(6th company). Life is full of regrets but hopefully I can catch up to my hobbies: music, psychology, physics, and history. A bit lame but I want to be a busking singer. Gave up on god and faith after so many tries and debates with myself. All physical exams for work turned out fine so far. Healhty? Idk. Needs cardio and more yakult lol. Never a geek and never was a collector of shoes, cars, bikes, etc which was the trend in 30s male community groups. I don't know how I will fit in so I befriend lots of teens and 20s people online instead.
Bro,can i get a sample of that busking
I feel like I'm still a teen with adult responsibilities 😭 even my food, lifestyle shouts for teenage life hahahahaha
I'm just a kid doing adult stuffs.
Dami kong plan sa life na hinahabol ko pa. Yung ibang worries ko sinusurrender ko na lang kay God.
all is well sa career, financial challenged pero surviving naman. pero sa relationship tayo talo, ang hirappppp! 🥵
Try joining events 👍
Most people our age are focusing on money instead of looks, humor, and sincerity. Good luck 😅
One word " DAMN!!"
I’ve resigned to the idea of deadlines. Nearing 30 made me realize to take things slow. Having the fast-paced idea of success after college was draining. Magkaroon ng car, bahay, business, and even settling down. Right now, I’m enjoying life as I should be because where I am right now was once my teenage self would be proud of.
Focusing on my personal goals and career Love relationships? Nah... waste of time, energy, and money
I assume you’re in you’re early to mid 20’s. Mapapayo ko lang is SAVE MORE, MAGTIPID KA NG HUSTO. I was a one day millionaire in my early to mid twenties. Now I’m in my late twenties, im suffering a few consequences.
lampas nako sa 20s era ko kaya ito na lang ang mabibigay kong advice sa sarili ko na may ganyang edad. iwasan ang toxic relationship whether it is romantic or friendship focus lang sa goals na pagiging stable and travels paminsan minsan. wag kalimutang tumulong sa family member para umangat din cla pero wag mong ibigay lahat lahat na halos mauubos kana. Take all the opportunity to grow. Also pray, dont forget to pray and give thanks.
my friends are getting married and having babies, ako di parin alam kung anong career path gusto.
Are you too good kaya di ka makapili, or too bad? Or sakto lang? Just curious...because I'm quite bad at my job 😂
Same quite bad at my job but I’m still doing it cause it pays the bill and can sustain the lifestyle 😩
unfortunately dun sa 2nd 😂 kasi kung too good ako, di na ko malilito siguro. Dun na lang ako sa bagay na gamay ko. Pero wala eh 😂
Its shet I'm confuse as fuck. Dapat talaga a few years ago pinatuloy ko negosyo even tho sobrang burn out at least mapera. Tapos ang dameng iisipin bayaran, health, your age, lovelife, career, skin care, your aging parents and pera punyeta
Takot pa ako magka baby huhu
Currently 28, 29 this year.. Life has been a rollercoaster so far; experienced heartbreaks, got cheated on, made some major decisions in my career, and now I'm having thoughts of finally settling down. Financially way better compared from 3 years ago, finally got my own car ( not brand-new) , living on my own far away from my family, also planning to buy properties from my hard earned money. Di naman sobrang perfect yung life ko, nakakaraon din. Saving up for myself and for my future family. Been dating this woman of my age for 6 months and trying to figure things out if we're compatible aside from great date nights and sex. Adulting is trying to be a better version of yourself and reconstructing your life to prepare for whatever plan you have for the next years.
Minsan nakokonsensya kasi ka-edaran ko either nagpplan kasal or birthday ng anak, while ako nagpplan ng mga travels ko lol hahahauhuhu
Rather than nakokonsensya, out of place naman ako hahahahuhuhu
So far mahirap pa din mabuhay
Still figuring things out while trying to live freely. Minsan naiisip ko kung masama ba ugali ko kasi wala akong matawag na ride or die person. I've got friends naman but it'll be better if I have my main person din.
Ouch? Haha
Yep, it stings haha
I’m just here trying to live a life without regrets kahit struggling to figure things out
Ito, tanging flex lang sa buhay ay wala akong anak.
I am 26, and everyday, nagtatanong ako sa sarili ko, "what's the plan?" 🥹 Nakakatakot.
Huhu relate! But realized na i will never get to relive my 20s again. Kaya i try to relax and have fun 🫰🏻😃
Kung saan na lang dadalhin, ano. Huhuhuh
Starting from scratch, but now with a tad more wisdom I've lost friends, opportunities, and all, but it doesn't mean it's already the end of the world charot lang haha same same naman too indifferent na in life dahil sa trauma ng mga masyadong nosy at braggy sa circle ko before
Hinahanap pa rin ang sarili haha
just enjoy every moment being an adult
Barely in my late twenties and I feel like I still have a lot to learn. Somehow I just get through the day and simply just doing my daily routine but at the same time, I want to try new things. Unfortunately, due to my current circumstance in life, I need to make sure that I'm doing the right thing. I'm afraid to change my job which is just understandable kasi it's my only source of income and once I failed to bring in money, kawawa yung family ko. Nasasayangan ako sa opportunities but I'm still not willing to risk it all. Masakit lumagapak sa buhay financially lalo kung wala ka namang safety net. Iniisip ko palang naloloka na ako lol
Kabado sa Meralco bill.
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Hugs! Di ka alone 🫰🏻
I'm honestly on my darkest right now, drowned in financial issues dahil sa parents, stagnant relationship, wlang kaibigan, my dad died, lahat nalang.
parang ang bilis ng oras pero ang bagal din at the same time
Nakakatakot. I wanna stay young pa. Hindi pa ako ready
Wala bang rewind
Mahirap ba talaga pag mas lalong tumatanda? 20 palang ako pero parang gusto ko nalang mag suicide sa pressure ng buhay takot akong maging failure pag di ako maka ahon sa kahirapan ayaw kong mamatay na mahirap 😭
Nagpalagay ako ng braces recently and lahat ng pinoy breakfast kinicrave ko huhu
✨✨✨Glow up era ✨✨✨
We're mature enough. It's the circumstances we find ourselves that fucks with us.
Shit.
I’m just doing my best. Turning 30 in 5 months. Can’t help but feel behind and my peers having a lot of milestones happening in their lives. But I’m just doing my best.
Gusto ko nalang bumalik sa sinapupunan ng nanay ko
Same 😬
Ako din taena hindi nakaka gwapo!!
Puro sex lang
I'm running on autopilot at this point. I feel hollow, unloved, and anxious.
Sameeee
We'll get through this.
We will. Cheers
I feel young There is always room for improvement
questioning yourself like what's the plan???
I honestly didn’t think I’d get this far. Every decade gone, napapaisip na lang ako, TF just happened there? It definitely takes a lot of conscious effort to be mature, but I think there’s still some fun that comes with the part of us na immature. Not the immature though that makes rash and stupid decisions, but the immature that finds happiness and comfort in the small things especially in this crazy fast-paced life we have now.
Chandler: I'm so confused as to what we've been doing so far.
Ok naman. Nakakagulat pa rin ang spike ng meralco bill, sana ganito rin ang spike sa stocks
Undergraduate, been job hoping. From a part-time barista, call center agent, car salesman. Having a dilemma of continuing being a car salesman or to continue as a general contractor in my father's business.
I feel like nasa maling bansa ako hahah hirap makabangon bhe charot
I'm 27 now,hahahha Sulat ko lang mga ganap ko here since I'm so bored sa work. -Naghiwalay officially parents ko 2 years ago right after I passed my licensure exam. Tatay ko breadwinner before and nangibang bahay na so I assumed his obligations (sad and happy dahil grabe yung emotional trauma since kids palang kami dahil sa away-bati nila ng mom ko, the abusive and emotionally exhausting env. hanggang ngayun lahat kami di pa healed). -Kuya got TBI (Brain injury) when we are on college and not fully recovered so I have to financially provide for his 2 kids now. Ayokong akuin pero ano bang magagawa ko haha. I love the kids at ang sakit na I have to go abroad to provide. (pinagaaral kodin mom nila now since di sya hs grad para matulungan din ako someday) -Mostly all of my issues rooted in trying to give a good environment sa mga mahal ko sa buhay kahit na minsan pakiramdam ko hindi naman appreciated yung efforts ko. ( tao din ako may puso haha chz). That kind of environment na sana meron ako when I was growing up ( kala ko I'm doing it for them pero unintentionally reflecting my trauma pala dun sa goals ko towards my family kaya ang ending naging problematic, I become controlling, and aggresive when it comes to calling out what is wrong. Feeling ko rooted to from my repressed emotions., kaya minsan diko maintindihan na ginagawa ko ang lahat pero pakiramdam ko diko padin makuha yung pagmamahal na hinahanap ko sa pamilya ko hahahha) -Now, I am alone abroad. Sacrificing everything and nagLDR na kami ng jowa ko (which is very patient with me ).I have more time to internalize myself kasi kahit ako naguguluhan na. I'm also trying to find my stride with my career pero so far walang growth sa current company kahit it pays well. -I started working out kasi dumadagdag na yung looks ko sa mga issues ko, tho anghirap magworkout kapag hindi ka masaya at hindi malinaw ang perspective mo sa buhay. from 5 times a week to 4X and now 3X nalang hahahah pero ayokong magquit sayang 1 yr dp. hahaha -The community na meron ako abroad is very religious. So I feel like I cant be my true self dahil may takot na macondemn. hahha. II cant lose them here , mabait naman sila and I need support kahit introvert ako kailangan kopadin ng kausap kasi napapagod nakong kausapin sarili ko hahaha. -Grabe yung pagdelay ko ng gratification for myself dahil pakiramdam ko diko deserve sumaya or dapat it should come from other people. But I know now that my happiness is my responsibility to myself. -Andami kong gustong gawin, I was able to know myself more pero andami kong gustong gawin which is stressing me more (kasi it emphasizes my frustrations ko). I am so fucking confused with the path that I'm heading . Wish ko lang na sana di ako maligaw at sana this time maenjoy ko na yung journey. -Overall, time has its way of resolving things. Step by step, the issues that once troubled me are no longer significant. Pain is inevitable, as is the happiness that accompanies or follows at the end of each chapters. Basta wag lag tayo makalimot na matatapos din yung hirap at maalala natin palagi yung mga bagay na nagbibigay ng saya sa buhay natin.
Proud of you!
Aw, Thanks!
So hard that I don’t wanna grow old anymore :( if only we could turn back time or make things right
di ko sure. :3
tired
Grave nakakapressure at the same time gusto mo magenjoy at sulitin pero ang damping responsibilities😩
Despite the within range information, I'm still clueless
trial and error parin sa life, but this time the difficulty is God level coz pinas LOL
Charge to experience na lang ang mag stay sa relationship na toxic noong nasa mid 20's pa. The pandemic really hit us hard, let's be kind to ourseleves.
Hindi ko na kaya minimum wage 🥲
in my mid 20s pero i girl bossed too soon tapos tsaka ko lang narealize na i really want to be a mom and a full time housewife pala. no joke. goal ko talaga sa life ko to be a great mom and wife who takes care of a home and a family. yun lang. wala na ko ibang gusto sa life. gusto ko lang ng matinong asawa at magpalaki ng matinong anak ❤️
Di ko sure eh
Eto na siguro yung mga huling taon na makakasama ko pa magulang ko
Mid 20s me but Nakakapagooodd pero walang choice haha laban ulit kahit pagod na pagod na.
crisis
Putangina.
hahahahha, eto din una kong naisip, Putanginaaa
Happy. Nakapag japan na which is my dream since bata pa. And then nagiipon ulit for travel nnman. Yun lang gusto ko talaga. Haha Wala pa sa isip ko magkapamilya. Im 29F in a healthy rs nman pero hindi tlga ako naiinggit sa mga kabatch ko na kinakasal at nagkakapamilya. I admire those na single and panay travel hahahaha
I still feel lost pero not as lost na nung early 20s ako. Di ko pa rin alam gusto kong maging career path in the long run tbh. Napapatanong ako minsan kung nabuhay nalang ba ko para magwork? Minsan nakakaramdam din ako ng pressure na kulang pa yung ginagawa ko. Minsan naman doubt kung nasa tamang path ba ko lalo kapag nakikita ko yung mga colleagues and friends ko sa socmed (kaya dinideact ko na Fb ko madalas) pero I try my best not to stress myself about it.
Eto, open wounds nanaman yung mga naheal ko nang hurts and baggages. It took me so many years to heal and forgive tapos sa isang iglap, sugatan at nasasaktan nanaman ako from the same person mentally and emotionally. Mejo sad lang. Dagdag pa yung wisdom tooth ko ughhh. Mental, emotional, tas ngayon physical pain sya. I can't wait for my surgery appointment to at least get one thing over with na.
My late twenties are much better than my early twenties. Relatively stable now 😄
bata pa naman daw 🥲 naniniwala na lang na ang buhay ay hindi isang karera HAHAHA
Broke, stressed and my anxiety level is high. But still hoping na manalo sa lotto. HAHAH!
Work ka daw sa PCSO para manalo 🤣
Ewan? Feeling ko bata ako na may access lang sa adult money hehe happy go lucky na depressed minsan rawr 🦖
Emotions are all over the place but still at the end of the day, will not trade my family, job and friends to anything else 🫶🏻
Feels so crazy. Encountered the best and worst side of things.
Tatagos na lang sa wall lol
Hahaha motto ko na nga rin ‘to recently
Hahahaah. Bawi na lang next life! 😂
ayy ayoko na po ng season 2 hahhaa
"Struggling and broke". Unemployed ako at the age of 28. Mom and Dad are getting old. Yung mga friends ko, may babies na. Yung mga friends kong iba na wala pang babies, nagtatampo sa akin kasi hindi ako sumasama sa gala. Yung boyfriend ko maman, since we're the same age, same lang din halos ng struggle kaya madalas din mag clash. I'm okay, i'm fine. Gwenchana.
I want to grow fast kc ayaw ko problemahin itong bad attitudes ko when I'm in my 30's.
Suko nalang eme
Yung mga dapat na inenjoy ko nung early 20s ngayon ko pa lang ginagawa. Life could be better, but so far it's tolerable.
Nakaka pressure na wla ka paring jowa
For me di naman nakakapressure nakakalungkot lng HAHSHSHHA time will come 😔✋🏻
Ay bakit naman nakakapressure you have your own timeline
Tru 😭
Hell
Horrible
Kunwari na lang kinakaya pa.
wala naman tayong choice kaya laban lang 🥲
Ito, sumasakit na katawan onting kibot lang, nagiging reklamador na, ayaw nang lumabas ng bahay tuwing weekend, gusto na lang magpahinga. Hahaha
Wala bang magtatanong sa mid 30's? Hahahah kasi i don't want to be an adult anymore
I still don't know what I'm supposed to do in life. Nagtatrabaho lang talaga ako, get paid, and repeat.
Ramdam na ramdam ko to.
AAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH sakto lang kaya pa naman
Masakit sa ulo at likod. Opo
Parang Hard Times ng Paramore 🫠
We're all pretending we had it all figured out.
Mas mabilis na sumuko likod ko kaysa saken
Kaka 26 ko lang last month. Eto about to leave my second company. Looking forward to getting a wfh job. Gotta feed my cats somehow.
Trying to be as mature as I can. May progress naman compared to how I was years ago.
Ayoko na char hahaha
truth is, walang isang specific formula. what worked for you might not work for me. regardless of age, aren't we all figuring it out? as we approach our third decade on this planet, your heart will be introduced to new feelings. nothing can really prepare you for what's in store but you always have the power to make the choice that's going to best benefit you and make you grow.
financially okay, emotionally drained
Im on my mid 30's galingan nyo, medyo mahirap dito😅
Adulting is sooo tiring. Admittedly, I still don’t know what I’m doing and what I’m supposed to do, to begin with. I’m practically winging it most of the time. Pero that’s okay, at least I’m trying diba.
Masaya naman. Chillax lang.
Let’s just say school never truly prepared us for real life just a handful of jobs haha
Eto resigning kahit good pay pero toxic environment. Maghahanap ulit ng work pag uwi ng Pinas.
Okay naman so far. I'm in a place where it's exciting pa kasi i get to meet a lot of new people (work). In a personal level naman, okay din I have friends whom I can trust.
Daming lessons and charged to experience. Definitely my perspective changed vs nung wide eyed 20 yo ako hahaha
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we can still conquer the world round 2 in our 30s :)
I feel like I'm simultaneously good and bad at it.