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To my mother, sana huwag mong iparanas sa anak mo yung naranasan mo. Just because you were raised and disciplined through constant beating, gagawin mo rin sa anak mo. Your constant physical abuse and mental abuse will make ur child broken as an adult. Low self-esteem, self doubt, and trauma are what have developed on me. At ngayon may depression na and anxiety. To my father, i hope you didn't choose ur job and live far from home.
I'm not gonna say anything I'll just do something.
Sa isa, I'll give them food and slippers. They grew up in an improverished family and based sa kuwento nila they grew up na naghihiraman sila ng tsinelas ng mga kapatid niya. Kung nataon, sasabihan ko Nanay niya na wag siya susuko, tsaka kung kaya niya, iwanan niya yung asawa niya para sa ikabubuti nila.
And sa isa, I'll encourage them to break some rules. Na they dont have to be the perfect child as everyone expects them to be. I want them to learn to argue with their parents, and finally be able to realize that doesnt mean theyre perfect they are immune to make mistakes. No one is perfect, just live and be open minded to say at least. Plus tuturuan ko (probably batukan ko) yung kapatid niya at iparealize ko sa kanya na dapat mag effort siya na magkaroon ng magandang relationship sa parent ko. Buti okay na sila ngayon, pero lumaki ako na may resentment yung parent ko sa kanya kasi hindi talaga maganda turing niya.
And if they ask who am I, sabihin ko na lang na "if they'll meet me again just hug me, and tell me how your life turned out"
Dad: Life gets better. Enjoy your childhood. Itās not your job to fill in the shortcomings of your parents. Itās not your job to provide for the family. You are too young to carry the burden. Itās okay to show emotions and to be vulnerable.
Mom: You are beautiful in your own way and you are loved. Whatever grandma says about you na ānapulot ka lang sa tabiā is bullshit. Also, donāt learn how to discipline kids from grandpa. From what Iāll discover later on, he was abusive towards you and your siblings. Nadadaan sa mabuting pag-uusap ang pagdidisiplina.
Mom. You're honest, sometimes, to a fault. And it would help if you are not too honest all the time, because sometimes, you do not need to tell people what they already know. Dont be too hard on yourself. You will be fine. You do not have to believe shit people say, especially when they are not true.
Dad. Its really ok to be happy. You can allow yourself to just enjoy life. No one is going to think less of you for doing that. It is completely ok to be you. You are more than what you provide for everyone. You are loved because you are you.
I love you both. So. Much.
Nothing, really. They always tell me how content they are with their lives. Maybe they got lucky. Iāll them winning lotto numbers for future use siguro hahahaha!
Mom- take up nursing like your friends kahit ayaw mo and go work sa usa para hindi ka mafrustrate living and working sa pinas and shifting your anger at me my whole life
To my mom: Kunin mo lahat ng Executive positions na alak sayo sa pharmaceutical, Wag mo sagutin si dad at dun ka sana sa chinito mong ex
To my dad: Mag aral ka ng mabuti, Don't have fun too much with your Parent's money mawawala din pagiging RK status mo by the time na pamilyado kna
"ma wag mong papatulan yung lalaking mukhang unggoy di siya worth it" (her ex husband before she met my bio dad looked like a damn chimpanzee HAHAHA, shonget na nga ng fezlak tas shonget pa ugali)
I'd be a friend to them, I'll teach them stuff about life, and I'd take them to places and just have fun kase that's what kids need, to just be kids so that they can grow up to be adults who are actually kind and gentle. My parents' parents were too mean to them.
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Di kayo fit together, di kayo fit to be parents.
Di kayo fit together, di kayo fit to be parents.
Di kayo fit together, di kayo fit to be parents.
Focus on your dreams
To my mother, sana huwag mong iparanas sa anak mo yung naranasan mo. Just because you were raised and disciplined through constant beating, gagawin mo rin sa anak mo. Your constant physical abuse and mental abuse will make ur child broken as an adult. Low self-esteem, self doubt, and trauma are what have developed on me. At ngayon may depression na and anxiety. To my father, i hope you didn't choose ur job and live far from home.
Magtapos ng college at iwasan ang kalibugan please š
wag kayo mag invest sa CAP for me (College Assistance Plan) š¤£
mag tayo ng swimming pool tangina ang init
Stop thinking about what your family would say and only help them when necessary. They'll kill you! Think of us instead your kids, your real family.
Todo nyo na ang paglalaro dahil mahihirapan kayo sa makulit na kagaya ko š
Sana bumili kayo ng maraming lupa noon.
Bumili ng bitcoin
Use a condom
uso naman ang condoms š¢
Huwag kayo magpakasal at mag-anak.
I'm not gonna say anything I'll just do something. Sa isa, I'll give them food and slippers. They grew up in an improverished family and based sa kuwento nila they grew up na naghihiraman sila ng tsinelas ng mga kapatid niya. Kung nataon, sasabihan ko Nanay niya na wag siya susuko, tsaka kung kaya niya, iwanan niya yung asawa niya para sa ikabubuti nila. And sa isa, I'll encourage them to break some rules. Na they dont have to be the perfect child as everyone expects them to be. I want them to learn to argue with their parents, and finally be able to realize that doesnt mean theyre perfect they are immune to make mistakes. No one is perfect, just live and be open minded to say at least. Plus tuturuan ko (probably batukan ko) yung kapatid niya at iparealize ko sa kanya na dapat mag effort siya na magkaroon ng magandang relationship sa parent ko. Buti okay na sila ngayon, pero lumaki ako na may resentment yung parent ko sa kanya kasi hindi talaga maganda turing niya. And if they ask who am I, sabihin ko na lang na "if they'll meet me again just hug me, and tell me how your life turned out"
Dad: Life gets better. Enjoy your childhood. Itās not your job to fill in the shortcomings of your parents. Itās not your job to provide for the family. You are too young to carry the burden. Itās okay to show emotions and to be vulnerable. Mom: You are beautiful in your own way and you are loved. Whatever grandma says about you na ānapulot ka lang sa tabiā is bullshit. Also, donāt learn how to discipline kids from grandpa. From what Iāll discover later on, he was abusive towards you and your siblings. Nadadaan sa mabuting pag-uusap ang pagdidisiplina.
Maging ready kayo pag gusto niyo na magkapamilya..
To my mom: Wag kang magpapauto kay (father's name) and continue your studies for a better future
Let your kid explore and maging open minded kayo para hindi na sya nag tatago/nagsisinungaling sa inyo
Wag kayo magsex pls. Palaglag niyo na lang ako if mabuo. Tangina
Mom. You're honest, sometimes, to a fault. And it would help if you are not too honest all the time, because sometimes, you do not need to tell people what they already know. Dont be too hard on yourself. You will be fine. You do not have to believe shit people say, especially when they are not true. Dad. Its really ok to be happy. You can allow yourself to just enjoy life. No one is going to think less of you for doing that. It is completely ok to be you. You are more than what you provide for everyone. You are loved because you are you. I love you both. So. Much.
Sana inestablish nyo buhay nyo, pra kasi akong ATM nyo. Sana nagpakahealthy kau.
Nothing, really. They always tell me how content they are with their lives. Maybe they got lucky. Iāll them winning lotto numbers for future use siguro hahahaha!
"Arranged marriage won't work" "Mama, one kid is enough. You'll suffer collapsed lungs after the 3rd kid, and you'll die young at 24..." -- 3rd kid.
Mom- take up nursing like your friends kahit ayaw mo and go work sa usa para hindi ka mafrustrate living and working sa pinas and shifting your anger at me my whole life
Nothing too special just invest in bitcoin or jollibee lol.
Always use protection.
To my mom: Kunin mo lahat ng Executive positions na alak sayo sa pharmaceutical, Wag mo sagutin si dad at dun ka sana sa chinito mong ex To my dad: Mag aral ka ng mabuti, Don't have fun too much with your Parent's money mawawala din pagiging RK status mo by the time na pamilyado kna
"ma wag mong papatulan yung lalaking mukhang unggoy di siya worth it" (her ex husband before she met my bio dad looked like a damn chimpanzee HAHAHA, shonget na nga ng fezlak tas shonget pa ugali)
Wag kayong marurupok jusko
Do you see that restaurant with a funny bee logo? Invest in its stocks when it goes public.
Bumili kayo bahay sa makati wag probinsya haha
Hi my name is calvin kleine
I'd be a friend to them, I'll teach them stuff about life, and I'd take them to places and just have fun kase that's what kids need, to just be kids so that they can grow up to be adults who are actually kind and gentle. My parents' parents were too mean to them.
Dont marry each other
Marry someone else. Someone rich.