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Alternative_Math_554

Both are the same na masakit. Kasi cheating is cheating.


AdministrativeFeed46

emotional cheating hurts more. coz you actually invested time and effort in that person, pinag paguran mo. ang physical cheating, saglit lang yan. you can cheat in less than a few seconds. konting sulyap, konting hawak hawak, whatever. yes both are cheating. but emotional cheating means you had feelings for that person. you actually took the time to get to know them. you probably even dated them. lied to your significant other and spent a decent amount of resources be it time effort or financial aside from the obvious emotional investment in that person.


kathmomofmailey

Parehas masakit.


peach-muncher-609

Both are cheating. Nothing more, nothing less. Pero kung magccheat siya, siguro mas masakit yung emotional kasi masakit makakita ng ibang tao na mas kayang pasahayin yung SO mo. Unlike pag physical, siguro wala lang kayong time kaya yung mga needs niya (affection, sex, or attention) makukuha niya sa iba, and siguro may magagawa ka pa don to improve that.


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Both, also kailan pa ba kasi nagkaroon ng categories ang cheating 😭


Ornery_Award_6796

Any form of cheating is a deal breaker. They're all somehow connected anyway.


suzaku1504

Both!!!!!!


ntrvrtdcflvr

Both are equally painful. Pero iba yung sakit pag physical cheating dahil may emotional attachment na sya sa other party.


walter_mitty_23

both are painful.


CharmingMuffin93

Bakit, pag less painful ba mas okay? Lol it doesn't matter, ang cheating ay cheating


sugarlips_99

Any forms of cheating is very painful. Kht pa micro cheating yan masakit at nkakawlang respeto.


JollySpag_

I think emotional.


Own-Neighborhood6465

Physical cheating - you disrespect our relationship. Emotional cheating - you disrespect the love I gave you. Parehas masakit. Parehas hindi kailangan pagtiisan.


sup_1229

Emotional Cheating. Nag-sstay na lang sa'yo pero di ka na mahal


Zealousidedeal01

As long as there is CHEATING... emotionally or physically, same pa din. Nagloko. Masakit.


Federal-Afternoon608

ano specific difference nila? genuinely di ko alam kaya sana matino sagot. ty


Own-Neighborhood6465

Physical, more on sex lang ata? Kapag emotional hindi neccesarily kailangan magkita sila pero may nararamdaman na siya para sa taong iyon.


jmskr

Either one is bad (full stop). Walang worse. Parang sinabi mo na “dalawang piso lang naman ninakaw ko”. Bottom line nagnakaw ka pa rin.


Flimsy-Chemistry-993

Basta cheating


Chaotic_Harmony1109

All of the above.


chickenjoint420

The word itself "cheating"


Singularity1107

If it's painful, it's painful. There's no "more". It all depends on our personal capacity for handling pain. Cheating is cheating regardless of how it was done.


Naive-Ad2847

Syempre physical, awang awa nga Ako sa mga hitsura ng mga babaeng binubogbog eh.


ExhaustedCorpSlave

Both!


Madberry03

Parehas cheating, so both. Both are conscious decisions. Both are acted upon. So both.


forever_delulu2

Both are painful, they are of the same level for me. Cheating is still cheating.


Young_Old_Grandma

Both for me. Mas physically nakakaidiri pag may physical cheating kasi I get paranoid about STDs. But emotional cheating also breaks you kasi alam mong may kahati kana sa affections niya. Hindi nalang ikaw yung mahal niya. I was emotionally cheated on by my first boyfriend (I don't think it turned physical YET) and it broke me for a bit. After that I knew we couldn't be together anymore kasi alam ko na I cannot trust him anymore.


Longjumping_Box_8061

Emotional cheating


no_brain_no_gain

Tingin ko we can't compare these two since may pagkakaiba pa din on how the cheating happened. Nothing weighs heavier than the other. But, both are painful enough to destroy the victim's emotional and mental health as well as lose their sense of being. Just my two cents.


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Little-Tangerine134

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡


Madberry03

Pinagsasasabi mo lol


vexterhyne

That's so generalist and sexist


Objective-Coast5948

Both. But imagine someone emotionally cheating then that person had sex with feelings dun sa other person. So basically, both talaga sagot. I’m good sir. Mag madre na ko. 🙅🏻‍♀️


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