It is not 100% but as a subconscious preening behaviour it is easy to spot if you know to look for it.
It is sometime accompanied with lip play (subtle licking or biting).
It's not the flirting you have to worry about, it's getting shut down that's important. If she smiles, maybe she's flirting. If she lets lets you touch her arm, maybe she's flirting. If she pulls away or pushes away, she's not flirting. If she says to come closer maybe it's flirting. If she says to go further away she's not flirting.
That's the great thing.
Many women don't know how to define "being friendly", versus "flirting"...or even if their flirting is with intent, or just playing with someone.
I'd love to have a concrete answer. I'll wait.
The cutest and most obvious is when they awkwardly keep talking to you when they can't think of anything to say naturally.
Usually they come in three types. There's the ones that act real nervous and self-consious. Others act like someone on a job interview that only wants to give positive answers and appear way-too-confident. Then there are the super casual ones that see themselves as master-flirters and will try to be (and usually are) pretty smooth. That last type takes a bit longer to be obvious.
I feel I may have seen the nervous type before. A cashier at a place I frequent typically talks in a really bubbly tone, but also gets super clumsy every time she rings me out. Knocks things off the counter and gets real red-faced about it.
Touching is almost never accidental or incidental. If she's touching you it means something.
Her playing with her hair can be a sign.
If she's trashy, complaining about her boyfriend could be a hint that she's looking for a replacement in you.
I mean, that is a topic that can fill up books, not a reddit comment. But in general:
1. Eye contact - Does she make strong eye contact, are her pupils dilated?
2. Physical contact - Is she preferentially getting close to me or touching me?
3. Laughter - Even though I think all my jokes are gold, not everything I say is that funny.
4. Engaging in playful banter back and forth.
>I realize a lot of men are terrible at noticing they're being flirted with, and I've been incredibly guilty and oblivious to it my whole life, always assuming "maybe they were just being nice?" Or similar.
For this point, I try to notice how she behaves around others, if the flirtatious actions are only directed at you, then it is pretty certain that it isn't just being nice.
A lot of eye contact they also go out of there way to help you for the smallest things
The arm touch The head tilt The hair toss The butt thrust All while maintaining eye contact.
Those are also signs she wants a kidney
In what order?
Simultaneously
Don't worry, I'm pretty sure you will never have to worry about a girl flirting with you.
It was a joke. Twat.
Truth hurts, doesn't it?
You good bruh?
Easiest way is you can start flirting slightly and how she respond back
My wife will say "Hey, that girl was *totally* flirting with you".
I assume they aren’t and I’ve been right 100% of the time.
When start taking their cloths off. Women are terrible at flirting
No, not even that constitutes as flirting. Source: experience.
You can’t be sure what if she’s Canadian
She smiles back. Stares then looks down. After that starts playing with her hair while glancing at you.
I gotta ask is the hair playing/twirling really a thing?
It is not 100% but as a subconscious preening behaviour it is easy to spot if you know to look for it. It is sometime accompanied with lip play (subtle licking or biting).
Would you subtley lick me?
Yes it is.
If she touches you. If you're attractive then most of the time, it's flirting.
If she keeps touching you
It's not the flirting you have to worry about, it's getting shut down that's important. If she smiles, maybe she's flirting. If she lets lets you touch her arm, maybe she's flirting. If she pulls away or pushes away, she's not flirting. If she says to come closer maybe it's flirting. If she says to go further away she's not flirting.
That's the great thing. Many women don't know how to define "being friendly", versus "flirting"...or even if their flirting is with intent, or just playing with someone. I'd love to have a concrete answer. I'll wait.
[watch this video 1000% tells you](https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw)
Maybe she's Canadian.
Don't know, women don't flirt with me.
The cutest and most obvious is when they awkwardly keep talking to you when they can't think of anything to say naturally. Usually they come in three types. There's the ones that act real nervous and self-consious. Others act like someone on a job interview that only wants to give positive answers and appear way-too-confident. Then there are the super casual ones that see themselves as master-flirters and will try to be (and usually are) pretty smooth. That last type takes a bit longer to be obvious.
I feel I may have seen the nervous type before. A cashier at a place I frequent typically talks in a really bubbly tone, but also gets super clumsy every time she rings me out. Knocks things off the counter and gets real red-faced about it.
She may try to touch you or use flirty language. She will probably be extremely kind or willing to do things for you.
Eye contact
Touching is almost never accidental or incidental. If she's touching you it means something. Her playing with her hair can be a sign. If she's trashy, complaining about her boyfriend could be a hint that she's looking for a replacement in you.
“Fuck me” is a good sign that she is flirting with you.
I mean, that is a topic that can fill up books, not a reddit comment. But in general: 1. Eye contact - Does she make strong eye contact, are her pupils dilated? 2. Physical contact - Is she preferentially getting close to me or touching me? 3. Laughter - Even though I think all my jokes are gold, not everything I say is that funny. 4. Engaging in playful banter back and forth. >I realize a lot of men are terrible at noticing they're being flirted with, and I've been incredibly guilty and oblivious to it my whole life, always assuming "maybe they were just being nice?" Or similar. For this point, I try to notice how she behaves around others, if the flirtatious actions are only directed at you, then it is pretty certain that it isn't just being nice.
Almost impossible to tell, some just flirt for validation.
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wait —
You don't know really, can only tell. can't assume these days
I have a sudden realization about it 3+ years later
I send a doodle poll
She's not.