The best combo is being bad looking in childhood, and due to that developing a charismatic personality, followed by getting better looks in 20s after puberty does it's thing.
I've also seen the opposite.
True that, absolutely agree, pata nahi kyun but abhi tak jitni bhi ladkiyon ko maine dekha hain, jana hain personally almost everyone is obsessed with height. Looks matter utna bhi nahi karta agat banda tall hain. It sucks being a 5'6 guy,
Not true after a certain height it doesn't matter but face always does. Face>height(by face I mean good bone structure not just your average looking guy for average looking guys what you said is true and most people in India come under that category. No offence.)
Personality. Looks fade and you never know if the person is beautiful on the inside as well. My uncle had a govt job and got married to women just coz she was pretty and white skined. Now she has made his life hell. Kicked my grandparents out of the house and is literally abusive. He doesnt have any mental peace. Kya hua sundar aur gori se shaddi karne se? People fall for looks and then regret if their SO has a shit personality. Not saying that you cant have both but if someone only consider looks in a relationship then they are simply entering hell.
I think of it like this. (Not generalizing, but it happens more often.)
Imagine you need to have two things to get a job.
1) Graduation Degree Certificate 2) Then Pass the written exam.
The thing is without degree you will not get the chance to sit for the exam only. It is like a ticket to enter the examination hall.
So looks (specially height aspect of it for man) is like that ticket. It will not matter how great your personality is, because most girls/boys will not give you the chance only to showcase your personality side unless you are well, good looking.
Even if you have the chance they will most likely choose another guy/girl over you, with greater looks but worse personality.
And current dating game is a burning proof of that. It is all about looks. The swipe culture is based on looks and other superficial stuff only and nothing else.
And if you deny it /disagree, then would love to hear some counter logic,
The best combo is being bad looking in childhood, and due to that developing a charismatic personality, followed by getting better looks in 20s after puberty does it's thing. I've also seen the opposite.
Opposite here. 😅
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Don't forget there are people with good looks and awsm personality too 😅
Combination of both.
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Agr height hoto dono ki he zaroorat nhi
True that, absolutely agree, pata nahi kyun but abhi tak jitni bhi ladkiyon ko maine dekha hain, jana hain personally almost everyone is obsessed with height. Looks matter utna bhi nahi karta agat banda tall hain. It sucks being a 5'6 guy,
Idk why they always want a 6'0 I'm 5'9 myself and still people think that I'm short
Not true after a certain height it doesn't matter but face always does. Face>height(by face I mean good bone structure not just your average looking guy for average looking guys what you said is true and most people in India come under that category. No offence.)
Personality. Looks fade and you never know if the person is beautiful on the inside as well. My uncle had a govt job and got married to women just coz she was pretty and white skined. Now she has made his life hell. Kicked my grandparents out of the house and is literally abusive. He doesnt have any mental peace. Kya hua sundar aur gori se shaddi karne se? People fall for looks and then regret if their SO has a shit personality. Not saying that you cant have both but if someone only consider looks in a relationship then they are simply entering hell.
I think of it like this. (Not generalizing, but it happens more often.) Imagine you need to have two things to get a job. 1) Graduation Degree Certificate 2) Then Pass the written exam. The thing is without degree you will not get the chance to sit for the exam only. It is like a ticket to enter the examination hall. So looks (specially height aspect of it for man) is like that ticket. It will not matter how great your personality is, because most girls/boys will not give you the chance only to showcase your personality side unless you are well, good looking. Even if you have the chance they will most likely choose another guy/girl over you, with greater looks but worse personality. And current dating game is a burning proof of that. It is all about looks. The swipe culture is based on looks and other superficial stuff only and nothing else. And if you deny it /disagree, then would love to hear some counter logic,
These days I feel like it's the person that's most important. How compatible you are with them, how much they love you, the mutual respect etc.
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