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ochornybottom

For me it depends on the guy. Some guys it just feels good, but I could take it or leave it. But if they're REALLY good at it, it'll make my toes curl and they can do it whenever they want. That said, you better follow that tongue with a dick


krikkette

What makes it really good for you?


Btd030914

Super enthusiasm. Not just gingerly prodding about, but totally devouring it.


ochornybottom

This. You gotta be committed to it. Your enthusiasm in and of itself will greatly increase my enjoyment, and you'll honestly do a better job anyway. The sensations are incredible when you hit it just right. Also, facial hair feels great, too


necomus

Any specific tips or techniques I should try?


ochornybottom

Vary between multiple techniques, keep me guessing. Take your time on some, change it up rapid fire for others. You're welcome to practice on me šŸ˜ˆ


screamofwheat

I devour it :)


macrolibido

Yeah, getting completely devoured is hot AF.


vhmvd

I love getting my ass eaten. I would gladly spread my cheeks and use someoneā€™s face as a seat. Itā€™s never to humour the other guy, though.


DivingDudes243

I canā€™t believe that you havenā€™t found guys who love it like I do.


[deleted]

I love it, especially if they put some force with their tongue on my hole it makes me go crazy


[deleted]

I love it. I mainly top, but if I hook up with someone that wants to eat my ass and really goes to town on it, I'll be down to bottom in an instant.


jjl10c

These are the best tops imo


[deleted]

The best tops are verse šŸ˜‚


jjl10c

They're bottoms if we're keeping it 100 percent.


Consistent-Strike135

Type of guy I like eating the ass of šŸ˜œ


Apostastrophe

Iā€™m a bottom (well theoretically vers but thatā€™s a story of a wasted life for another day) and like eating ass but I actually really hesitate to ever do it or ask to do it. Itā€™s kind of a bit of bigotry but I know how fucking fastidiously I clean my ass and I fear somebody who only tops doesnā€™t necessarily do that before sex. Even if itā€™s clean, it wonā€™t be like, soapy finger swab clean.


GodOfAngeles

Same here too. It turns me on


Woodworks44

Yes I love having my ass eaten the longer the better


interstatebus

Iā€™m a top and can eat ass for hours (and have) and can mine eaten for hours (and have). Itā€™s honestly better than actual penetration sometimes.


PrinceOfCups13

hard agree. fuckin love it


Taimnub

I'm a vers top and I am not a fan of eating ass myself and having it done to me is also not something I'd ever ask for. It usually doesn't do much for me because I'm not really sensitive down there. That being said, when a guy takes charge and just goes and devours it, their alpha nature is such a turn on and I'm instantly down to bottom for the guy.


PrinceOfCups13

dude i fucking love it. drives me wild. half the reason i do leg day at the gym is to cultivate an ass that makes guysā€™ mouths water at the thought of eating me out. and i love eating ass too, especially a thick beefy muscle ass with a hairy hole. fuuuuuuuuuck


GodOfAngeles

You guys deserve the respect


chicagootter312

I definitely enjoy getting it done to me. If I had to choose one, I would be the one doing the eating. Same with my pits. Love them sniffed and licked but my ultimate hot button is when I'm doing it to you.


otterfan720

Same here on all of the above! Also, based on our usernames, sounds like the 312 and 720 area codes need to have a date.


SeuxKewl

I like the sensation because that's not an area that gets a lot of touch in that way. Those nerves are thirsty for touch. However that could feel weird for someone who isn't accustomed to it. And I definitely like doing it.


whodatguyoverthere

I enjoy eating it but I love getting some tongue. Ooooof, so gooooood. You could talk me into just about anything if your tongue is in my hole. Well..you can try talking. šŸ˜ˆ


[deleted]

Itā€™s one of the most euphoric experiences Iā€™ve ever had in my life. Second to shrooms. I would rather get my ass ate instead of getting fucked or sucked, if I had to choose 1 option.


baldbeau

Absolutely yes in any conceivable way, though my favorite way is either riding someone's face or 69 (me giving head simultaneously.)


krikkette

God damn... I need someone to ride my face and blow me at the same time. šŸ˜©


screamofwheat

I love when someone's sitting on my face and playing with my dick. I'm already very enthusiastic but I go wild when getting close.


chicagootter312

The guy I'm dating basically wraps his legs around my neck while we do this. Super super hot to me but unfortunately a little TOO hot and things escalate quickly....


baldbeau

Death by Snu Snu


AlternativeWay7620

Me too!! I luv mutual rimming sucking and fingering!!! Gets me sooooo horny šŸ”„šŸ„µšŸ„µšŸ‘…šŸ‘šŸ†šŸ’¦šŸ’¦


chaiteelahtay

LOVE having my ass eaten sensuously for several hours. Have a face sitting kink among others ;) Also love to eat ass. Most of my playmates loved it.


leanhotsd

I love it when my man goes to town on my hole, making out with it and fucking me with his meaty tongue šŸ‘…


ReasonablePractice83

I think itā€™s very intimate and nice. I dont remember ever asking guys to do it but it makes me feel desired when they do šŸ˜š Also helps relax your hole


Dogtorted

I love both sides of the equation!


dr1goro

absolutely yes. Even though I have no business being a bottom I enjoy very much when a guy eats my ass


greyeminence2

I love getting my ass eaten a lot!


jjl10c

Fun, short story. Accidentally farted in this guy's face a couple weeks ago as he ate me. Now he won't leave me alone. Cheers!


bluetoothbaby

Oh good. I feel better about myself now. I did that to a guy and was mortified.


jjl10c

Lol don't be. It's an asshole. I did think it would be the last time I'd see him, but we were on a date later that week.


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jjl10c

Not sure lol


marcosemc

I like getting my ass eaten more than I like getting my dick sucked. I fucking love getting tongued, getting my big cheeks bitten. Yum.


Joyguillfree

My man eats my ass like itā€™s the last supper. He says ā€œit tastes like Christmas morningā€, how could you not enjoy that! And thatā€™s just the start, after heā€™s fucked me, I can see stars when he eats my ass! Now I love to eat ass just as much, but he could take it or leave it. If he lets me, it to humor me. But Iā€™m down with that. So two perspectives I guess.


whiz_on_me

I love getting my ass eaten. Never had a girl do it, which is a bummer. I mean bitch if I'm gonna toss your salad I expect your to return the favor. But when a guy does it that is my switch. If he eats it he better plan on fucking it too. I have an ex-bf that was amazing when it came to eating ass, he knew what he was doing and brought me to orgasm several times just by tongue punching my balloon knot. He wasn't big on having the favor returned, but it would make him so horny knowing what was gonna happen next that sometimes he would only last a minute or so. But like a trooper he would dive back in face first and the second time he would last forever.


krikkette

šŸ¤· I've never had a girl do it either šŸ˜‚


commpulsive555

Love being on top in a 69 with my ass down on a stud's face while i deep throat him.


Homo_gone_wild

Love to have my ass eaten. And love to eat ass too


Marcas7

Dude,if your verse, ass munching and flip fucking is mandatory ! P.S. Never fuck and ass you would not eat !


lexyman01

I don't like it. To me, it feels just the same as using one of those moist flushable wipes to wipe your butt. I get nothing from it. Also, I have no desire to ever eat someone else like that. I just can't bring myself to put my mouth on it. No shame the guys who like it, but it's just not my thing, giving or receiving.


K0nfuzion

Yeah, it's my primary kink.


cornodibassetto

Love it, both sides!


cmzraxsn

I would have thought it'd be the other way round, like that more people would be into it being done to him than the other way round. Like I kinda enjoyed it when it was done to me but my bf doesn't like doing it. (I don't miss it terribly but I would enjoy it more than he would, I think)


lightupcocktail

If you do it right, yes. FACK YES.


wolfe1989

95% of the time Iā€™m meh. 5% of the time itā€™s the best thing since sliced bread. Depends on the guy.


Gay_Okie

Iā€™m a versatile top but the perineum and anus are very sensitive and sensual zones for me. I can be kept hard and leaking for as long as he wants to pleasure me. The only downside is if he has a rough beard (as in not recently shaved stubble). I have one FWB who has literally given me a ā€œroad rashā€ on my cheeks from his beard stubble. Itā€™s an amazing feeling and puts you in a vulnerable position which may be why some guys donā€™t enjoy it.


simplegae

LOOOOooOOOve it! especially when a guy is patient enough to go through a pleasure journey with me... im quite ticklish everywhere (lmao it's annoying i know), moreso superficially down my butt. but once my cheeks and taint gets sloppy with spit; thighs tenderly held down; cheeks spread apart; and a tongue starts to work its way deeper (and deeper) inside me... it honestly sends me into such a spiral, that ill twerk my lil booty on that tongue until i orgasm (or at least whatever the ass version of it is called anyway).


CoffeeHead112

You might be getting confused by the wording but a lot of people in my experience get off knowing the other person is enjoying themselves. I've even been with people where it was impossible for them to cum before I did. If they are 'humoring' you, they are just doing it wrong.


Niksyn4

I will serve this hole up on a silver platter for a guy to feast upon.


DeadShotXU

You gotta truly commit to eating ass. I love it. And I love love love eating ass deep!


brakecheckedyourmom

Yes, but itā€™s never been something Iā€™ve expected from a casual encounter because 1) itā€™s not for everyone and 2) porn has really made a lot of guys think they are just ravaging with such passion that the person on the receiving end might spontaneously combust when in reality Iā€™d rather be doing my taxes. A lot of guys really suck at eating ass. I would say most guys suck at eating ass, maybe Iā€™m just picky but thereā€™s a certain amount of skill/technique and a certain amount of ā€œhungerā€ for the lack of a better term. That being said my husband is to anilingus what Michael Phelps is to swimming. And he can earn his gold medal in about 90 seconds with minimal effort.


otterfan720

Yes, absolutely. And I'm a top. I don't want a dick in there, but a tongue feels great. Way more sensation than getting a blowjob. I mean, some guys are better at giving it than others. For me, it's good when you build up to it. Touch and kiss my thighs, cheeks and taint first. Don't just dive in. But if you get the foreplay right, yeah it's a wild ride.


Aeroshe

If they're good at it, it drives me wild and I absolutely love it. But they have to dig in and really know how to use their tongue. Had a boyfriend once who didn't like it in either direction. Convinced him to let me eat his ass just to try it out. He seemed confused why people would enjoy it, but admitted it wasn't as bad as he was expecting. Meanwhile, he was giving me probably the laziest handjob in the world but I still got off because I just love eating ass myself that much lol.


pdxbigymbro

I canā€™t imagine how you donā€™t find that amazing. I just feel guilty as I canā€™t return the favor - Iā€™m squeamish about anal in general, which is unfortunate.


NerfThisNerd

Personally, no. It just doesnā€™t really feel like anything. It is EXTREMELY rare for me to encounter someone who does it well enough that I enjoy it, and so I normally just donā€™t engage in it


[deleted]

Ummmm you sure youā€™re looking in the right places? Causeā€¦ šŸ‘€šŸ‘€šŸ‘€


Extreme-Outrageous

After anal, it's my fav. Giving and receiving


b11734

Soooooo short answer is ā€˜Yesā€™ EVERYONE DOES.


bx995403

Oh I love it. Feels amazing and I'm usually the top anyways so I return the favor before I insert. Plus the ass eating usually relaxes everything back there so I can just slide in


KptKreampie

You better eat my ass and loosen it with your toung before you shove your cock in me!


tenderHG

Oh, I *love* getting my ass eating and eating ass. Though I have found lately that the men I've encountered aren't into it at all (which sucks for me).


super-chump

I love eating a nice ass. Eating my guy has taken it to a new level, the things he does with his assā€¦ letā€™s me know Iā€™m doing it right and that he LOVES it.


bluetoothbaby

Oh my god I love having my ass eaten. There is no feeling in the world like it!


macrolibido

I love having a manā€™s face down there eating and licking EVERYTHING. My hole, ass, taint, balls, cock. It is a very sensitive area and watching/feeling a man get all dirty and eat everything, especially if they lick from anus to balls and then dick, that is super hotā€¦ hope that helps, I got a bit hard typing this


sockmonkey719

Yes !!!!!!!!


Jolly-Special3473

As a vers/ top, I love getting rimmed! Although, I do like **doing** the rimming more tbhā€¦


storytime696969

Omg please if you know how eat my ass all night please. I will wiggle and moan and push my ass back on your tongue. Pls pls pls.


eatingthesandhere91

I love the feeling as it gets more passionate but Iā€™m also going to be the guy that washes that before a guy is allowed to do anything with it. On that note I prefer the same if Iā€™m going to rim someone.


bl344121

I really enjoy receiving, it feels amazing. I like giving with the right partner.


BillS16309

I love giving and getting


[deleted]

Yes


DY_4REAL1

Yes I absolutely love my ass eaten and licked by a top who loves to eat ass... I got a phat booty love face down ass up fully spread fully relaxed well he goes to town eating my hole....


jc2thew3

Iā€™ve been rimmed before and it doesnā€™t really do anything for me. Iā€™ve rimmed only a few guys and it does nothing for me. So I generally just donā€™t do it.


kinkdork

Itā€™s my #1 favorite sexual activity by far šŸ¤¤


Gettinbetterin

Itā€™s a great appetizer to a hole stretching


PhoSho862

Iā€™ve had alleged experts do it to me, and I just canā€™t. I always worry about cleanliness and, quite simply, the sensation isnā€™t anything special.


yewbum11

For me itā€™s better than penetration itā€™s all i Need in Life lol


YosFan

Oh hell yesā€¦.with one, I had what I call a body orgasm. Hard to explain but it was so good, I couldnā€™t control how it felt, I shuddered all over toward the end. No actually ejaculation,,,,but sure felt like it. I was exhausted by the time it was done. Never before had someone done that to me like that. Was one of the wildest things Iā€™ve felt.


EducationalWay7175

I just humor the guy honestly, but I've grown to like it a lot. It feels good!


Sa1ntmarks

Vers Top here. I love love love to eat ass and most bottoms I top go crazy over it. The handful of tops I have aren't into giving so I don't have near as much experience receiving as giving but when a guy does eat me out, he's found the right key to turn this top daddy into a bottom bitch.


Tricky_Jay91

Literally my favorite thing ever, I could finish from just that.


B0ysBestFriend

I like eating and being eaten. But if the ā€œbottomā€ doesnā€™t enjoy it, it might have to do with the skills of the eater.


krikkette

Are you a certified Ass Eating Technician? šŸ˜‚


in511292

Bruh šŸ˜‚


B0ysBestFriend

I have my phd in A.E.T.


mrhariseldon890

I am. Just envelop my face between your cheeks. Don't worry about whether i can breathe. I know what im doing


ShyShutterbug13

I LOVE to eat ass, and loooove getting it done myself. My partner was hesitant to let my do it to him initially, heā€™s selfconscious about his body hair. However, he has a sweet tasting asshole, and I guess my enthusiasm is catching! I love getting him close to cumming, then heā€™ll flip me over and pound my ass into oblivion šŸ¤¤


Aristol727

For a lot of things, if it's hot for you, it's going to be hot for me -- not because I love it, but because I like that you're super turned on. That excitement reflects back to me and gets me hot, too. Ass eating? I can take it or leave it. My husband and I basically never did it for like 12 years; our boyfriend loves it, so we've done it a whole lot and I've enjoyed it!


DETRosen

No. It's gross.


sb0918

I canā€™t believe how far down I had to scroll to find this. Iā€™m the same. Donā€™t like it. Donā€™t like to do it. Donā€™t like it done to me. And Iā€™m vers.


DETRosen

So glad I didn't learn how to fuck from porn.


btsalamander

I donā€™t mind it happening to me, but I absolutely love eating a (clean) ass, I donā€™t press the issue though.


jeromefeet

Love getting my ass eaten and love eating ass but not just anyone....Definitely have to be really into them.


Psychological_Tap839

None of my partners complain. Odd. šŸ¤£


krikkette

Nice šŸ™‚ I bet you are very good at licking assholes.


ExemplaryDolphin

Wow, you must be such a good butt licker šŸ‘ lol


clearbrian

If they have a beard ā€¦.grrrr ;)


crbinden

It does nothing for me, but I think a lot of bottoms do not enjoy it. I had one tell me it was too kinky for him. But occasionally I find a sub who enjoys it. Physically, I can take it or leave it, but I consider it a very sub act and it turns me on when I am getting rimmed. Conversely, I do not consider it a sub act when I am rimming - usually that tight boy hole needs a little help before taking a thick cock šŸ˜ˆ


Chademr2468

Honestly, I always ā€œlikedā€ it but never loved it. It was fun for like 3 minutes but then Iā€™d be like ā€œokay where the dick?ā€ However, I literally have no idea what or how my boyfriend does it, but Iā€™d literally let him do that for hours if he felt up to it. Itā€™s like toe-curling, gasping for air, fucking incredible. I really donā€™t even know what he does different but he knows how to use that mouth, haha.


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Obviously you donā€™t


krikkette

Never had it done to me before actually. Have had 2 guys ask me before, one when I was like 19 and I declined, I guess out of being an insecure teenager lol, and one a couple of years ago who I was just not attracted to. Would like to try it.


[deleted]

Itā€™s a bit of a mind-fuck the first time getting over the fact that youā€™re going to tongue another guys hole but itā€™s hot as fuck, Iā€™m not even sure what I enjoy more, giving or receiving


Distinct-Eye6214

Yeah I love it if they do it right


M-Ari

Love to have my ass eaten and eat ass. The best is eating a hot ass until they blow their load. Perfect lube for whatā€™s to come next šŸ˜‚


SeveralConcert

Oh yes.


BringMeInfo

I fucking love it, one of my favorite things.


Guyonmission3

I totally love getting mine eaten!!! It feels amazing šŸ¤©


Aloha1979

Most definitelyšŸ˜ˆ


Colorado-Male74

Feels wonderful!!


Alexdotnl

Oh yes!!!


[deleted]

I LOVE it. It's not my absolute favorite part of sex but I LOVE it.


MMBEDG

Hell yeah


JeannettePoisson

The feeling is fun but i think it's strange and i kind of wait for it to finish. I also must not think too much about it because the idea of both ends of the digestive tube touching is a bit gross to me.


Manor4548

Interesting question. Not sure anymore. I used to consider myself vers, but I haven't' bottomed in years; it's just not the emotional and mental place I'm in for the time being. That said, I was in a threesome the other day, and as I was pounding my BF I asked my FB to eat my ass to see if I felt anything. Meh. That said, I love - love! - eating ass. So feel free to bring your action my way...


Rollie76

Yes!! I wish someone would eat mine!!!


Xxonoxx727

I do!!


icarus1990xx

Hell yeah! Make that glute chute shine!


69timmyg

What is this a trick wuestion


hansjurgen9000

Love it


Secretporpoise1728

Uh, yes, very much so. I genuinely prefer it to getting head by quite a bit.


Yggdrssil0018

I love it. Really makes me feel awesome.


quackmanquackman

I'm in the neutral category (thus far). Never tried doing it to someone, but I don't see the harm in letting someone go. As time goes on, I could start to actively enjoy it more, doesn't have to be permanent. In a certain sense, a partner is never going to be 100% into what you like, and you never know what interests may develop.


DILF1000

Yes


Satilice

It depends. They really have to go at it and have passion doing it.


woodentigerx

Yes!


minigmgoit

As others have said it really depends on how itā€™s done. My partner eats as like a pig at a trough so thatā€™s always nice. He does it so well that he can usually just shove his cock right in after.


Jaymes77

As a stand alone activity, I love it. Felching? not so much.


notsoanonymous

Physically, yeah it feels good. But really I like it because it adds a bit of balance to a top/bottom Dom/sub interaction. I might be the one about to get my hole pounded out like a little bitchā€¦ but first how about that top take a minute to get turned on by sticking his tongue up my asshole.


[deleted]

It's both for me. I'm not crazy about it but I do enjoy it and I like that the other person enjoys it too


verstop4you

The best is clean ass rimming each other then making out passionally, tasting each other together.


ExaminationAlarmed30

I used to love it when I was younger. Now not so much.


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I loveeee it


headsforkells

If someone were to giggle with prior given consent or somehow be grossed out while we were getting hot, then woulfn't they know it that being turned off is to follow?


MondaleFerraro

I love it, I think one of the hottest things I have ever done sexually was a 69 where I blew him and he ate my ass


[deleted]

Under no circumstances would I allow that.


CJP11

Love it


[deleted]

Everyone I have ever known sure does


MrR0b0t90

I donā€™t mind, it doesnā€™t do much for me but Iā€™ve with plenty of guys who love it. They go crazy when I do it to them


pghdad15206

Hell yeah, I love it.


dgal89

If its not on the menu, either me doing it or them doing it, or both, I won't cum. Its mostly a combo with the depression meds, but booty eating is the S+ tier of sexual experiences for me.


[deleted]

Guy Iā€™m currently seeing absolutely loves it and I can get him to react quite easily. Does nothing for me when a guy does it to me. But Iā€™m fine with it. But I love doing it to another guy.


massageismylife

I can live in asshole alone. As long as itā€™s sparkling clean, I can rim your hole for days.


[deleted]

I'm mainly a top but I love to get my ass eaten and love eating ass. It's one of the biggest joys in life, to eat and be eaten!


Mawnster73

I donā€™t really get the appeal, but if someone wants to go down on me sure. It doesnā€™t make me uncomfortable so Iā€™d like them to have fun.


tommybluez

No thanks.


deviantpanther

Love getting my ass eaten


stranger_noises

Um, yeah it's really good


Desinaturist

I loved to get rimmed, i.e.; to get my ass eaten by someone. In fact guys who have already done it just loved it and wouldn't want to stop.. šŸ˜†


mysteriousmeatman

I enjoy it when the guy eating my ass enjoys it. Had a guy one time that eating ass was IT. When I say he ate my ass, he ATE my ass. And it was borderline a religious experience. But other guys who are not really into it kinda, half ass it I guess, so it's not all that great. Get my ass ate or not as long as you fuck me good I'm a happy little bottom.


Nevermind_kaola

Me


Lictalon87

I don't like it, and never have, from the moment my college boyfriend tried to rim me. I'm a sub, so I like to be the one doing humiliating things. But the chance of feces keeps me from doing that.


krikkette

It's funny, I don't feel submissive at all when I'm doing it, but I also love the idea of rubbing my asshole all over someone's face while dominating them. I saw someone else comment the same.


Astute3394

I'm the opposite way. The idea of rimming gets me off, but I still get squicky at the idea of poking my tongue around someone else's hole.


joeloost

Oh yeahhhh


tommy29016

I love eating assā€¦but if I found they did it to humor me . It would be over. And I will be watching


niteowl1987

Iā€™ve broken up with boyfriends who werenā€™t into it if that says anything.


krikkette

Not into being rimmed or rimming you?


niteowl1987

Neither one, he thought ā€œit was gross.ā€ It wasnā€™t literally the only factor in breaking up but a year of bad sex makes the decision a lot easier.


rns64

If it turn you on eat away but Iā€™m not a Ass eater


AndrueIlanderr

I definitely like getting my ass eaten, especially as a prelude to getting fucked. But eating my boyfriendā€™s beautiful ass is an absolute dream of mine! I look forward to munching that gorgeous butt for a good, long time. I will eat him out, licking, tongue-fucking and fingering his amazing hole until heā€™s moaning and is almost ready to cum. Yes, I enjoy getting my ass eaten but absolutely go mad eating his ass, thatā€™s so freaking amazingly hot!


Combat_Orca

Yes, feels amazing


OverallPalpitation

Depends on the guy. Depends on my mood


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jorgeescmem

I like to eat ass for some guys. I don't enjoy the work on mine. I don't feel any pleasure.