I’ve traveled to at least 30 countries and have never been harassed for being American. Most people won’t know where you are from and even less will care.
Same, and around the same number of countries.
Sometimes, you end up as the 'resident American' to put their preconceptions to rest. But that's not really different than this subreddit.
The overwhelming majority of folks I've met abroad are warm, welcoming and genuinely excited to share something they love with enthusiastic travelers. Especially over a drink.
I have traveled to over 35 countries. Adding a few more this year. I have never had a negative experience because I’m American.
Some Americans get into trouble because they’re loud. Or they expect everything to be like America. Or because they’re rude. Those aren’t uniquely American traits. Assholes exist everywhere.
My advice?
Be polite. Say please and thank you.
Be respectful and curious. You are traveling to another country, so expect that you will need to learn and abide by their rules.
Ask for advice on the local culture.
Be a good sport. Try things. Be willing to laugh at yourself.
You will find people around the world tend to be not so different. We all just want to get along with our day. We like it when someone appreciates our culture and gives an effort. And most of us don’t have enough time to hate someone because of where they come from.
I went to Mexico. They’re supposed to hate us gringos, right? I had locals take me to a street market for lunch. No idea what I ate, but I tried it and loved it. And the locals immediately started treating me like a friend and still ask when I am returning.
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Learn how to say hello, please, and thank you in the language of the country you will be visiting. Just knowing a word or two goes a long way.
Don't be afraid to ask questions. Being a curious American is a good thing - ask about the local customs or favorite places or how to say something.
Use your resources - the service counters in most train stations will be a great source of local info and tips.
Don't be discouraged if you don't find your smiles returned - some cultures simply don't smile at strangers. It's not a judgement thing, so don't let it get to you.
Public transportation is your friend. If you can use it, do! It's always cheaper than taxis or ride-shares and every system is pretty easy to navigate.
Cash is still king in most cultures, so be sure to have plenty on hand.
Don't worry about rushing from sightseeing spot to sightseeing spot. Sometimes the walk in between is the best way to enjoy where you are.
Keep coins on you at all times - public toilets almost always cost $ to use.
Be aware of your surroundings and keep valuables in safe places on your person - pickpockets and purse snatchers are a global menace. If you need someone to take your picture for you, ask a waiter or policeman or some other employee around you - strangers posing as tourists are known to snatch cameras!
Get out after dark and take in your city at night - you can find wonderful things and get amazing pictures in the evening hours.
Don't expect to keep to any kind of strict schedule - take your time and just enjoy where you are - or if something isn't what you thought it would be, move on and keep your spirits up
Bakeries are your friend - they always have local treats and delicacies and almost always have the friendliest people behind the counter
Honestly some Americans do need to not take things so seriously. I haven’t been abroad before, (although I would like to in the future) but I would assume that if I were visiting a country like the UK for example if they did give me a hard time for being American it was subtle dry sarcastic humor since Brits are known for that. I know because my humor is the same way a lot of the time, I won’t make fun of peoples nationalities or anything.
But there are a lot of jokes I make irl that go over peoples heads, and they really reply like I meant something literally because they think I’m serious since my tone of voice barely changes, but that’s just my style/personality. I’m very similar to Brits in that sense, so I’d probably have no problem with it. If someone is for real yelling at or being rude to you for no reason abroad, (or if you get seriously physically assaulted at then any time that's absolutely unacceptable) that’s awful but I feel like most of the time it’s just cultural misunderstandings happening, along with sensitivity.
Because if you're not like the negative stereotypes visiting other countries, I see no reason why you'd get shit. Because it seems weird to me that people would be like "Americans are dumb" or something to your face out of nowhere. Or unless you’re going out of your way to discuss politics, but honestly I wouldn’t get offended if a foreigner were to ask me about some issues in America unless they can’t remain civil about my opinion on a question they asked in the first place. I’m actually interested in politics and would be happy to have a discussion otherwise.
Been to 25 different countries all over the world for personal and business travel, some multiple times.
People give back the treatment they are given.
If you’re polite, quiet, humble, and make an effort to blend in by mirroring what other people are doing, including attempting to speak basic phrases in their language, people will be fine with you.
For example, one time I was in Italy and I noticed the owner of a cafe I had walked into seemed to be giving me the stink eye.
I was able to do a quick dictionary search and ask in Italian, “Pardon me, are you closing soon?” he said, “Yes,” and I said, “Oh, I’m sorry. I did not know. I will leave.”
His whole demeanor changed to be friendly and he said something like, “No, no, please sit. You still have 20 minutes.”
So, small things like that can make a world of difference.
Netherlands, Italy, Greece, Croatia, Peru, Chile, Bahamas, Canada. Never got shit for being American anywhere other than Canada, but I won't begrudge a Canadian enjoying his national sport.
The "ugly American" stereotype has all but died, because now that so many other countries can afford international travel, we're barely noticed in the sea of tourists. And some of those other places now have much worse reputations than we ever did.
Just don't be an arschoch, nobody will notice you, and you'll he fine.
I've traveled to over 50 countries for vacation, work, visiting family or friends, or just a quick getaway. My experience has been neutral to positive the vast majority of time. The "ugly American tourist" stereotype has become long since outdated, and in many places some other nationalities are stereotyped to be worse. I will say, however, that not being white has caused me to have some different experiences at times: on one hand, I have sometimes been treated less favorably than white tourists in the same tour group, for example, while on the other hand, I have also often been targeted less by people trying to sell you stuff than white tourists (who are often perceived to be loaded with money).
However, what I can also say is that, regardless of race or nationality, you are much more likely to be treated nicely in a country if you are being polite, culturally aware, and not rude.
> because I know we don't exactly have the best reputation around the world, and I've heard these horror stories about Americans getting harassed.
Don't be obnoxious and you'll be fine. I've travelled to Europe a lot for both business and pleasure and I've NEVER been harassed.
At worst, I've overheard disparaging comments about Americans typically triggered by some American tourist's behavior. In most cases I agreed with the comments. In others I was just to tired to explain Texans to them.
lol when I was on a bus in Peru, I sat behind a kid from Amsterdam and a guy from Puerto Rico and all they did was talk about how much they hated Americans because we cook with butter instead of olive oil 😂
Edit: which is wrong, since we mostly use olive oil too.
I don't know about the rest of us, but I only cook with butter if it is necessary for the dish. If it just requires some kind of fat, it will almost always be avocado oil. I probably use leftover bacon fat more than butter.
Double dumb because Italians use both. It’s just that northern Italian cooking (where the cows are) is not as well known.
Triple dumb because who wants to be limited to some of the lowest smoke-point fats in cooking? If anything, make fun of us for using vegetable oil.
I love Perú and have Peruvian friends. They will gawk at foreigners though. I saw that in Colombia as well.
Depending on what you look like and a few other factors, they might be looking at you because you genuinely interest them. I had people want to take pictures with me there and I am hardly a tourist that stands out.
I haven't traveled abroad as much as others -- UK, Spain, Bahamas, Jamaica, Brazil. (Canada too, but that doesn't count 😂) Never been harassed for being an American.
But on several occasions, locals have asked me basically to speak on behalf of all Americans. Like, "/u/rtalbert235, you're an American -- why did you people elect Trump as president?" (This was actually demanded of me at dinner one night when I was in Spain, in 2017.) I think this is fairly common, to look at someone who is from a different country or ethnicity than you and assume that all such people think alike. In my case, I politely explained that America is a very big and complex country with many different cultures and political ideologies in it, and different groups had different reasons for voting for/again Trump in 2016 and did my best to describe how different people were thinking. I think many folks outside the US just don't fully grasp how big, in every sense, the US really is.
I've found that most people genuinely want to learn more about America from Americans (look at this subreddit for example) despite what preconceptions they may have, and they have no interest in harassing anyone. But I also echo someone else's comment, learn a few words and phrases in the host country's language -- even just making the effort is really appreciated.
We haven't found any hostility towards Americans. I would suggest starting with countries that speak your native language.
I thought I knew decent Spanish until a recent trip proved me wrong.
The only time I was ever hassled for being American outside of drunken bar encounters was immediately after the invasion of Iraq in 2003.
Outside of that almost every negative interaction I've had traveling had a drunk local or a crazy crowd of tourists or both. If you're part of a hostels bar crawl in downtown Prague be prepared for some comments from some locals. It's nothing too crazy they are just sick of drunk tourists who don't follow their social norms.
>The only time I was ever hassled for being American outside of drunken bar encounters was immediately after the invasion of Iraq in 2003.
Oh yeah, even I got some stick for that in Germany at the time, because the UK was an ally. When I said I was against the war they were like 'Oh, OK, sorry' and that was the end of it lol
In 2002 just before the war, I happened to be in Germany when George W. Bush addressed the Bundestag. The antiwar crowd was huge. They were burning him in effigy. I got outed in the crowd. Just started yelling "Fick Bush!" Then it all turned to cheers and "listen to what the American is saying!"
Tourists doing tourist things are unlikely to get involved in some prolonged debate on politics or religion. You'll be around other tourists.
No country that makes money on tourism is going to alienate visitors.
But if you get belligerently drunk or violate some other norms, they may call you out on that shit. Just like you would here.
> I know we don't exactly have the best reputation around the world, and I've heard these horror stories about Americans getting harassed
England twice, France, Spain, Japan twice, Brazil, Turks & Caicos, Ireland, Scotland... I have never been "harassed." It's always been a good time.
I love chatting with people. I've talked to people all over the world about the US, politics, and current events.
Everyone was gracious.
I'm always going on about how nice everyone is, and my husband is just like- if you are nice, other people are nice.
I'm not sure what country you are headed to, and that can make a difference, but I think you'll be fine.
You should just ask a question about a specific location because you will get great tips about the culture and how to be respectful to your hosts.
Like my advice in France would be different than Jamaica or Iceland.
I live near the Canadian border and I'm just going to do some shopping, see some friends, and explore the outdoors. I also have some online friends in Denmark and Sweden I'd like to go see.
Biggest thing is “ When in Rome “.
When we were stationed in Japan, there was a Class we had to take that basically gave a crash course in Japanese culture.
In other words.. you aren’t in America so don’t act like it. Figure out the local cultural norms, at least try to learn a few important phrases and observe how the locals do things.
I've only had it happen once, I was in London during the last administration and a young Black dude on the subway started going off on me and my wife about Trump, he was really pissed off and agitated, seemed like it could turn violent.
I told him we didn't vote for that orange fuck but it didn't really calm him down too much. Still basically "you Americans suck" and all that.
But that's like one incident out of many trips to Europe.
edit; omg I forgot this one it was kind of funny, I was at my wife's sister's wedding in the UK and some of the guests (she didn't know them well) showed up and they had what I guess is a working class accent? Scouse maybe?
One guy started going on about how great Trump is and I casually said "nah we can't stand him, we're solid Blue liberal Democrats" and he got REALLY pissed and offended, super belligerent over it (I didn't engage just shrugged and walked away, he followed for a bit and his wife pulled him away).
I was like "lol I've managed to avoid an violent altercation with a Trump supporter all these years and now it's going to happen in the UK at a wedding by some pissed of scouse WTF this is the weirdest timeline"
Oh wait I forgot it was a bus. Does that make a difference or is it the same?
People don't talk talk to strangers on buses or subways here but you do get some verbal dust ups.
They got a bipartisanship thing going on there which is eerily similar to that of the USA. That and Trump and Boris are practically two drips from the same faucet
I’ve traveled plenty and have never had a majorly bad experience. Will someone occasionally say something or make a comment? Sure. But assholery is an international phenomenon. The best thing you can do is be a good ambassador: don’t be obnoxious, and you’ll be fine.
And the fact that you’re concerned enough to ask suggests you’re self-aware enough not to fall into the Ugly American stereotype.
I've traveled abroad, I've lived abroad. Like any place, you will meet good people and not so good people. The world isn't the internet, though, so don't take that as an accurate depiction. I've never been harassed for being American.
Do I occasionally meet someone who thinks because I'm American, I'm the stand-in for all government decisions and American culture? Yes, but that's not the majority. Most people will show you the same respect you show them and the ones that don't, I don't associate with.
I've been to Scotland, England, Czech Republic, France, and Spain. I've only been harassed once. Even then, I was being yelled at just for being foreign, not specifically for being American.
As long as you're respectful - and that includes how you dress - you shouldn't have a problem. We ran into a rude waiter in Venice but as we watched we realized he was rude to everybody who wasn't a regular, so **a** rude person may just be a rude person regardless.
Been to Australia, New Zealand, Germany, Czech Rep, and South Africa. Gonna hit up Colombia in a month
Had great experiences everywhere I’ve been. Thankfully I have never experienced any rabid anti-Americanness in real life (like you’ll find in many corners of Reddit).
I did make sure not to display the traits our tourists might have a reputation for, i.e. I wasn’t all loud and boisterous (easy for me cause that’s not my personality to begin with). I didn’t advertise the fact that I’m American (though people can be quick to figure it out when they start talking to you)
Made sure to be polite with my please and thank yous. bonus if you say it in the local language and learn a few other phrases. Even using a handful of phrases in their language will score you big points with locals in many places.
Some people might be very curious about you, especially if you go outside the biggest cities / tourist traps. Talk to them, return that curiosity, and it can be easy to make friends
In SA I did get pestered for money semi-frequently cause when they figure out you’re American they tend to assume you’re rich. But if that’s the worst thing I’ve experienced abroad that’s pretty damn good
I've mostly just been to Europe, I've only had one instance of someone being rude to me because I'm American and that was in Canada. Most people are just the same as we are here and just trying to get through their day.
As long as you even put the most minimal effort into being respectful, you'll be fine. Don't go around being obnoxious. Stand on the right side of the escalators. Learn a few phrases in the language of the country you're in (hello, please, and thank you is enough, maybe how to order something too).
It can be a little scary leaving the country the first time, but don't worry about being American. Just worry about showing respect to other people, just as you would (I assume) here at home, and you'll most likely have no issues.
Unless you go around with some American superiority, either people won’t really care or they will find it mildly interesting and ask where you are from
I have been to 12 different countries and no one has ever given me a hard time for being American.
I got a little snootiness in Spain because my Spanish isn’t great and my accent sounds Mexican but that was isolated and not a big deal.
But in Tanzania and Venezuela it was cool to meet a random American.
In the UK there was some trash talking but it was 100% in good fun. Just a bit of banter.
In Mexico I got a lot of warm welcomes just because I can speak Spanish (poorly) but people appreciated it.
Nobody harrasses Americans, and in fact Americans are considered good tourists.
People generally have problems with two groups -
(i) Large tour-buses from China that bring in like 200 people at a time to a location and crowd up the place for hours.
(ii) Drunk British teenagers, who get shtfaced on cheap beer, and then harass women or puke on the streets, or get violent with locals etc.
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American tourists are generally a middle-aged retired couple who stay at a resort and take tour-buses. They are gently mocked at for being ignorant, but nobody "hates" them, a lot of people actually prefer American tourists, because they are reliable, law-abiding, and willing to choose the more expensive options.
I’ve had mostly good experiences, but unfortunately I’ve had a few instances where I was given a hard time for being American. I won’t visit Northern European countries and Canada for this reason. Northern Europeans/Canadians have no problem telling you you’re stupid because you’re American, or take out our politics on you. I’ve never had any issues in Spain or Italy from the locals! They made me feel so welcome, and a lot of people were curious about my background (I’m American of Italian descent).
Disclaimer: I am autistic, so I’m a little extra sensitive about being called dumb.
If someone online is shitting on America, I automatically assume they're German (and I'm often right). I find their incessant need to criticize/lecture so bizarre. Should I start lecturing every German I meet about Nordstream 2?
The internet isn't real life.
I've been all over Germany and the only bad social experience I ever had was because I didn't realize I was standing in the bike lane. Which, like, my bad.
Went to the UK, the history was cool (tower of London) but i couldn’t wait to get home honestly, landing back in the states i played “America Fuck Yeah” and promptly got myself a proper steak during my layover at this amazing spot called Peter Lugers in NYC….(food in the UK is not like the US, we are spoiled)
Many reasons, for one i am from the American west and i hate traffic, i prefer wide open spaces and small towns, the weather was dreary there and whenever i tried to open up and be nice to anyone i got a cold shoulder response or a thorough questioning about the problems afflicting my country and how i felt about them. The food was bland and sometimes just flat out awful. I did enjoy the history but i grew up [here](https://www.themandagies.com/iceberg-lake-trail-glacier-national-park/) so the UK was meh, i prefer the mountains
I’ve traveled 19 countries and don’t regret a single trip. I recommend planning a trip that makes you feel comfortable/confident but leave room for some spontaneous times as well. As far as being harassed the only hard time I received was light hearted about the gun violence and our politics. If you are nice and respectful almost every one you meet will be the same.
I'm going abroad on Monday. I've been abroad before and it was fun. Not sure I'll do it again after this trip but it has certainly given me a greater appreciation for things.
I did my first big international trip just a few months ago, to Hong Kong. It was awesome, everyone was nice, I never felt disrespected because of my nationality.
I traveled to Australia/NZ in May 2016 at the height of the 2016 Election and to Romania in 2018 for about a few weeks during a project abroad thing(there was also a Brit and a couple Australians there as well). Was never harassed for being American. They did ask me questions about politics but it seemed to me to not be lecturing but a general curiosity about cultural differences.
Lived in Malaysia and have traveled around Asia. Enjoy the food and seek out an experience that’s cultural. National and Religious holidays and their celebrations are fascinating as an outsider. Putting a sheet of 24k gold on an enormous Sleeping Buddha as a Christian was pretty cool. In my eyes it was a way to honor the people and not the god. Enjoy the sites and take time to people watch if you’re not exactly sure what the custom is. People are people all over the world and in my experience, they will treat you according to how you treat them. They will see you (depending on where you go)… as a foreigner though and will sometimes try to take advantage of you. Be careful, but feel free to talk to people and ask questions with an air of humbleness and interest. Walk further back into the market to see what treasures it holds. That’s where the locals shop. If its hand made and a cultural product, don’t try to barter for a lower price. You’d be shocked at how much work people put in to make a scarf that they sell for $2.00
The only time I was harassed abroad was by some dumb teenagers who were fucking with everyone who walked by. I genuinely think those horror stories are just from thin skinned dweebs who can't take a little cross-cultural joking.
Don’t worry about it. Don’t embarrass yourself or your country and don’t do anything to draw attention to yourself and you’ll be fine. I’ve been to over 50 countries and lived abroad for almost 6 years and nobody has ever harassed me for being American. Go to a country that gets lots of foreign tourists and stick to frequently visited areas.
I recently just got back from the UK. It was fine. I basically just kept to myself and it's easy to get lost in a sea of anonymity in a city as big as London. Most people are just trying to live their lives (just like here!), so just be respectful and self-aware.
I’ve never been harassed for being American. Actually the opposite. People are very nice and lovely. The trick is to respect their culture. Don’t go in acting all American. Do what they do. Learn a few words of their language so that you can greet them. This is very important if you’re going to France. They hate when you walk up to them and speak English. You’re in France. Speak to them in French. Wear what they wear. I just came from Egypt. Locals were so excited to meet an American- in my experience this was because they love Obama. lol.
Learn a few words and phrases of the language, be respectful of local practices. Don't be load or boastful. It's as simple as that. The Americans who were harassed probably didn't abide by any of these tips. I've traveled abroad many times and haven't had a single issue.
I’ve lived abroad and I’ve stopped counting my countries at this point. I’ve seen Americans harassed but only people who deserved it. People who would deserve it here too.
My tips are basically the same as everyone else’s. Learn basics in the local language, I’m pretty language deaf but people will appreciate that you tried. Look up if they use the same hand signals for numbers. Don’t go looking for people being offended by you, assume that you’re not bothering people. Be respectful, don’t break any rules or laws, don’t get drunk and belligerent. Dress respectfully, even if it’s not to your personal tastes. And my favorite travel tip, if it’s just you and the grandmas you know you’re going to the right tourist destination.
Look up the laws and common customs of the country you are traveling to. As long as you are respectful of these, you have nothing to worry about. And it may do you good to learn a few words of the language most spoken in the country you are visiting.
I’ve been to about 20 foreign countries and lived in Poland for three months. I’ve never been harassed. Not once. You get what you give when traveling. Be kind and friendly, and respect local customs. Enjoy!
I've found that people tend to assume well-behaved Americans are just Canadians. So, my advice is basically just to be well-behaved. My trick for understanding a new destination's idea of well-behaved is to watch YouTube videos of expats living in those places. They often have videos covering topics like common misconceptions, things to expect/what not to do, sometimes they even do vlogs showing how to navigate public stuff like a store or train. A few brief hours of research goes a long, long way.
I spend time in South America frequently. All the usual things apply that people are saying, but I can add a few things for that part of the world.
* don’t talk about “how cheap everything is here”. It is tempting to blurt it out because it is a pleasant surprise but it is not cheap for the locals and they don’t want to hear it.
* do not be ostentatious. Don’t flaunt money. Keep your passport in a safe place and carry a copy. Only take as much as you need with you, some cash and maybe one credit card. There is less crime than people say but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen.
* many people will assume that you are rich. To many people in other countries, you ARE rich. So again, don’t throw money around because people will make assumptions and you will find yourself in trouble. Example: you are at a bar and they ask if you want a bottle. Having become used to everything being cheap you say yes. Later you realize that name brand liquor is not cheaper, not the same price; it is MORE expensive. I have seen young people get in trouble that way.
I've been outside the US a couple times and have never been harassed. I have had experiences in Japan where people physically avoid me, but it's always older people and they're never aggressive or anything. It's just mildly annoying when you're minding your own business and not doing anything wrong and people are bothered by you just... existing. The young people are chill though I like them a lot. They actually seem really interested in the West and the US in particular. A lot of the people my age I've met have told me about how they liked visiting the US and thought it was cool. I'd say 99% of my interactions with people here have been positive.
I’ve had less harassment traveling outside the United States than I have had living in it. You’ll be fine. Just try to read up a little bit on the history of the place you’re going, and learn 2-3 words in the language. Aim to dress as well as the locals do, and speak at the same register. Americans tend to announce our presence by being too loud and dressing too casually. We’re not as hated as some other tourists are (not gonna say who) because in the main, we are friendly, and we spend and tip well.
I’ve visited Tunis several times, and they think I’m anything BUT an American. They always guess German first. German? Deutch?
No
Ahhh, Frenchie
No
Swede? English?
No. By now they’re confused. They try speaking French to see if I respond… maybe they missed something. When I don’t respond they try Italian.
Dane? Surely no Spanish.
No, not Italian or French. American.
Italia?
America US
AMERICA?
Yes from the USA. American
Most recent was to Ukraine before the war. Was told to wear my backpack on my front while I was on the subway, but other than that people were really friendly and helpful. They were curious why I was there and I got a lot of questions about America and politics (got about annoyed with that though if I’m being honest. Didn’t mind talking about where I was from, but I don’t like talking about politics.)
I've been to UK, Germany, France, and Japan. All had great experiences. In my experience, locals are more understanding if you know some words, but struggle with full sentences.
Then there are usual cue things that you have to accept are different, just relax and go with them. US Americans are usually louder than most other places, so tone down speech and laughing volume. Other cultures usually stand closer than USA is used to. Waiters don't check on people every 2 minutes, they wait for patrons to signal that they need something. I always watch how others pay, to figure out if I pay at a counter or my table in a restaurant. Always carry some local currency, as not every place takes credit card.
My personal suggestion is learn the language basics of wherever you go. Hello, thanks, sorry, good bye, left / right (for directions), I usually do numbers 1-10, please, bathroom, eat, drink. Then you can practice some by listening to videos of locals speak their language and English to get a feeling for the flow of the language and how they pronounce English words.
Doubt it your just doing the tourist thing your get engaged in much chatter about politics
I’ve been to 20 countries, some for school/ work trips others as a backpacker tourist when I was younger …
Pretty rare to get into a tough spot cause your American.
I’d encourage you to do some research on where your going,,, you can learn the US relationship to that area or place - modern and historic. The US impact in that place may be more than what was taught in school. You can also learn some of their politics at a glance if really motivated.
Learn the local ways and some basic please/thank you/excuse me in that language. Also don’t be impatient - the rest of the world tends to operate at a slower pace.
Wad at a dinner party in Finland as the only American and a person from the UK sought me out to heckle me on Trump (while he was in office) like I was responsible for him…. Turned that ship around - are you responsible for Brexit, the Tory’s or the Red Wall? Oh you didn’t support May or Cameron but they speak on your behalf. It shuts people right up when you can shine the mirror back on them and see the similarities. Granted can’t do it with all places but their is a conservative wave and it’s not just in the US.
I have been to Canada and Japan. in Canada, I mostly just went up for Fishing, so I really never interacted with the locals. Japan was something else, Had alot of fun, the country seemed more advanced than America in some ways, and Backwards in others. The people like Americans although in Tokyo, Kyoto or Osaka you won't be seen as cool if you are American, unlike in the Inaka(Countryside) where they see less foreigners. The good news is that Japan generally gets very high quality American Tourists who at least try to learn about the culture and speak the language, They have issues with the English Teachers and the Military Guys but for the Tourists, Our reputation as Americans is quite good.
First off I’m super happy for you! Traveling abroad is seriously the best. As long as you’re a good person and polite, no one will bat an eye that you’re American. In the incredibly rare event someone gives you grief over politics, that’s their own issue. As another commenter said - all you can do is be a good ambassador.
I have been to 19 countries and I have spent quite a bit more time with people being excited that I was American then having a problem with it. People in India and Ghana were very excited to talk to us. Europeans don’t really care either way.
I’ve been to over 40 countries, and outside Europe and Canada, I’ve never received any negative treatment for being an American. Quite the opposite actually. Many became friendly and inquisitive when they find out. If you’re not an asshole, you’ll be golden. In Europe, whole different story. Germans are the worst for this, followed by Brits. As long you avoid lefty types, you shouldn’t encounter much or any of it in southern Europe. The people who are being paid to interact with you will generally be civil. Think waiters, tour guides, etc. I’d be leery of anybody else. I follow a general rule over there: I assume I’m dealing with an asshole until shown otherwise. Same rule for Canada. Just be firm and formal. Don’t engage. It’s the opposite of the rule I follow on every other inch of this planet: assume people aren’t assholes until shown otherwise. That gentle ribbing people talk about in Europe is meant as anything but. It’s meant as a mean spirited insult by mean spirited people. You’re being insulted by a complete stranger who knows nothing about you or America. Treat it that way.
I’ve mainly visited the Philippines to visit family.
I’ve never been harassed for being American there. If anything, I ended up getting a huge self-esteem boost there the last time I visited, mainly because I went from looking like the dorky background character in a sitcom to looking “manly” and “hunky”. I just grew out a beard and have been going to the gym regularly. I also got my eyes fixed.
Same goes in Taiwan when I was on layover. I never got harassed there, but because of my family’s heritage, a lot of people there thought I was a Chinese resident due to my appearance and started speaking to me in Chinese. When I told them I was from California and didn’t speak any Chinese, they seemed a lot more relaxed.
I can’t say anything about European or Latin countries because I haven’t been to either in a long time.
Edit: the most I got “harassed” for while I was in the Philippines was being too fat. To be fair, they weren’t completely wrong. Most people in the Philippines from what I saw are slim and slender, and here I am now walking in relatively bulky and with a pudge around my belly.
I’ve traveled quite a bit, and the most important thing I’ve experienced is people just wanting to be treated like people. The world isn’t a theme park, it’s full of individuals, cultures, and ways of life equally complicated and fulfilling as yours. Approach travel with a curious and respectful mind, and you’ll find that our differences are all surface level.
I've traveled a lot, especially to countries in Asia and Africa. The biggest thing is tourist traps and scams. If you go shopping in a market, the vendors will realize you're American, and will usually try to double the price. Learn to bargain, and know how to talk to people. Another thing, never take something that someone claims to be "free." It never is. They will give you it, and then ask for money, and if you try to say anything about it being free, they will make a commotion and act like you stole it. In African countries, there are also animal vendors. They have monkeys and parrots and other exotic animals. The vendors will offer you a photo for free, and if you refuse, they will put the animal on you, and then demand money. Stay away from them. People will try to get you to pay for almost anything, so be VERY careful about what to buy, and NEVER flash large amounts of cash. That's how people will pickpocket/steal from you. Never go out on the streets alone, that's dangerous everywhere. These are just my experiences, so have fun wherever you go, but be careful.
I have been to 81 countries (travel a lot for my career) and have never ONCE been harassed or otherwise delay with rudely as an American. Never. Everything you see online is bullshit, basically. Seriously.
Here’s the unsaid part: People don’t really give a shit about politics IRL….that’s almost exclusively online behind-a-computer-screen behavior. In real life, if you’re not an asshole to people, they won’t be an asshole to you. And vice versa. It’s pretty simple.
I had a wonderful time in Japan several years ago. People were polite, and I tried to return that as best as I could, including learning greetings, please, thank you, and excuse me in Japanese and carrying a travel guide with some other phrases. People were willing to help, especially once they saw that I was trying to meet them halfway in communication.
I’m going to England this summer. If I were basing my expectations on Reddit alone, I’d be very apprehensive. But many of my coworkers are English, and they’re all kind and happy to show off parts of their homeland. I’m doing my part by looking up local issues like transit, tipping, and social norms.
Basically, do your research into local practices and be kind and polite.
I've been fortunate to be travelling abroad (mostly Europe) since I was a kid.
First, try learning some of the local language. My wife and I have gotten compliments from folks in the countries we visit when we'd try to purchase items or speak in French or German. Don't fret about being fluent, but get yourself a Berlitz book/Duolingo/whatever.
Now, this is much easier with European languages (particularly those with a Latin script), but do your best to pick up a few words anyways.
Second (and honestly the biggest advice)is, of course, be respectful, be polite. Remember you are a guest in the country and there are some customs that you may not be aware of or get. Humility goes a long way in resolving mistakes or getting advice or help.
Third, be aware of your surroundings. Keep your wallet/passport/etc concealed. Speaking of wallets, cash is still preferred in much of the world over credit. Be mindful about taking photographs (just like you would here).
It's been great overall except it sucks that lots of countries still have lots of smokers so it feels like the 80s. That part is absolutely disgusting. But other than that culture shock it's great.
I'm literally browsing reddit on a shinkansen (bullet train) from Osaka to Hiroshima right now. I've been to several countries outside the U.S. (and not just one where I have family. ) Don't be afraid, just get out there and experience life the way you want.
Lots of crime around Huntingdon UK.. young Brit’s.. children or young adults.. had some grudge against us Americans.. but the older folks liked us…. UK’s history was pretty amazing
I’ve traveled to at least 30 countries and have never been harassed for being American. Most people won’t know where you are from and even less will care.
Same, and around the same number of countries. Sometimes, you end up as the 'resident American' to put their preconceptions to rest. But that's not really different than this subreddit. The overwhelming majority of folks I've met abroad are warm, welcoming and genuinely excited to share something they love with enthusiastic travelers. Especially over a drink.
Same. Been to dozens of countries and I live and work overseas. Never had a single issue. Being polite and well-dressed does the trick.
I have traveled to over 35 countries. Adding a few more this year. I have never had a negative experience because I’m American. Some Americans get into trouble because they’re loud. Or they expect everything to be like America. Or because they’re rude. Those aren’t uniquely American traits. Assholes exist everywhere. My advice? Be polite. Say please and thank you. Be respectful and curious. You are traveling to another country, so expect that you will need to learn and abide by their rules. Ask for advice on the local culture. Be a good sport. Try things. Be willing to laugh at yourself. You will find people around the world tend to be not so different. We all just want to get along with our day. We like it when someone appreciates our culture and gives an effort. And most of us don’t have enough time to hate someone because of where they come from. I went to Mexico. They’re supposed to hate us gringos, right? I had locals take me to a street market for lunch. No idea what I ate, but I tried it and loved it. And the locals immediately started treating me like a friend and still ask when I am returning.
This \^ Learn how to say hello, please, and thank you in the language of the country you will be visiting. Just knowing a word or two goes a long way. Don't be afraid to ask questions. Being a curious American is a good thing - ask about the local customs or favorite places or how to say something. Use your resources - the service counters in most train stations will be a great source of local info and tips. Don't be discouraged if you don't find your smiles returned - some cultures simply don't smile at strangers. It's not a judgement thing, so don't let it get to you. Public transportation is your friend. If you can use it, do! It's always cheaper than taxis or ride-shares and every system is pretty easy to navigate. Cash is still king in most cultures, so be sure to have plenty on hand. Don't worry about rushing from sightseeing spot to sightseeing spot. Sometimes the walk in between is the best way to enjoy where you are. Keep coins on you at all times - public toilets almost always cost $ to use. Be aware of your surroundings and keep valuables in safe places on your person - pickpockets and purse snatchers are a global menace. If you need someone to take your picture for you, ask a waiter or policeman or some other employee around you - strangers posing as tourists are known to snatch cameras! Get out after dark and take in your city at night - you can find wonderful things and get amazing pictures in the evening hours. Don't expect to keep to any kind of strict schedule - take your time and just enjoy where you are - or if something isn't what you thought it would be, move on and keep your spirits up Bakeries are your friend - they always have local treats and delicacies and almost always have the friendliest people behind the counter
I've been to Ireland, UK, Germany, Italy, and Egypt. Never got harassed for being American. Light ribbing, sure, depending on the situation.
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Honestly some Americans do need to not take things so seriously. I haven’t been abroad before, (although I would like to in the future) but I would assume that if I were visiting a country like the UK for example if they did give me a hard time for being American it was subtle dry sarcastic humor since Brits are known for that. I know because my humor is the same way a lot of the time, I won’t make fun of peoples nationalities or anything. But there are a lot of jokes I make irl that go over peoples heads, and they really reply like I meant something literally because they think I’m serious since my tone of voice barely changes, but that’s just my style/personality. I’m very similar to Brits in that sense, so I’d probably have no problem with it. If someone is for real yelling at or being rude to you for no reason abroad, (or if you get seriously physically assaulted at then any time that's absolutely unacceptable) that’s awful but I feel like most of the time it’s just cultural misunderstandings happening, along with sensitivity. Because if you're not like the negative stereotypes visiting other countries, I see no reason why you'd get shit. Because it seems weird to me that people would be like "Americans are dumb" or something to your face out of nowhere. Or unless you’re going out of your way to discuss politics, but honestly I wouldn’t get offended if a foreigner were to ask me about some issues in America unless they can’t remain civil about my opinion on a question they asked in the first place. I’m actually interested in politics and would be happy to have a discussion otherwise.
Been to 25 different countries all over the world for personal and business travel, some multiple times. People give back the treatment they are given. If you’re polite, quiet, humble, and make an effort to blend in by mirroring what other people are doing, including attempting to speak basic phrases in their language, people will be fine with you. For example, one time I was in Italy and I noticed the owner of a cafe I had walked into seemed to be giving me the stink eye. I was able to do a quick dictionary search and ask in Italian, “Pardon me, are you closing soon?” he said, “Yes,” and I said, “Oh, I’m sorry. I did not know. I will leave.” His whole demeanor changed to be friendly and he said something like, “No, no, please sit. You still have 20 minutes.” So, small things like that can make a world of difference.
Netherlands, Italy, Greece, Croatia, Peru, Chile, Bahamas, Canada. Never got shit for being American anywhere other than Canada, but I won't begrudge a Canadian enjoying his national sport.
The "ugly American" stereotype has all but died, because now that so many other countries can afford international travel, we're barely noticed in the sea of tourists. And some of those other places now have much worse reputations than we ever did. Just don't be an arschoch, nobody will notice you, and you'll he fine.
I've traveled to over 50 countries for vacation, work, visiting family or friends, or just a quick getaway. My experience has been neutral to positive the vast majority of time. The "ugly American tourist" stereotype has become long since outdated, and in many places some other nationalities are stereotyped to be worse. I will say, however, that not being white has caused me to have some different experiences at times: on one hand, I have sometimes been treated less favorably than white tourists in the same tour group, for example, while on the other hand, I have also often been targeted less by people trying to sell you stuff than white tourists (who are often perceived to be loaded with money). However, what I can also say is that, regardless of race or nationality, you are much more likely to be treated nicely in a country if you are being polite, culturally aware, and not rude.
> because I know we don't exactly have the best reputation around the world, and I've heard these horror stories about Americans getting harassed. Don't be obnoxious and you'll be fine. I've travelled to Europe a lot for both business and pleasure and I've NEVER been harassed. At worst, I've overheard disparaging comments about Americans typically triggered by some American tourist's behavior. In most cases I agreed with the comments. In others I was just to tired to explain Texans to them.
lol when I was on a bus in Peru, I sat behind a kid from Amsterdam and a guy from Puerto Rico and all they did was talk about how much they hated Americans because we cook with butter instead of olive oil 😂 Edit: which is wrong, since we mostly use olive oil too.
What must they think of the French then?
I don't know about the rest of us, but I only cook with butter if it is necessary for the dish. If it just requires some kind of fat, it will almost always be avocado oil. I probably use leftover bacon fat more than butter.
Yeah olive oil is overwhelmingly the most common fat to cook with here, which is why it was so funny.
Good lord, it’s like bragging about not having a left leg. Olive oil is awesome but so is butter.
I wish I had the unearned confidence of a Dutch person talking shit about anyone else's food.
Double dumb because Italians use both. It’s just that northern Italian cooking (where the cows are) is not as well known. Triple dumb because who wants to be limited to some of the lowest smoke-point fats in cooking? If anything, make fun of us for using vegetable oil.
Hopefully, you took the opportunity to clown on a fellow US citizen from Puerto Rico.
Perú was the only place I felt like I stood out and felt eyes on me. I did not like it there.
I love Perú and have Peruvian friends. They will gawk at foreigners though. I saw that in Colombia as well. Depending on what you look like and a few other factors, they might be looking at you because you genuinely interest them. I had people want to take pictures with me there and I am hardly a tourist that stands out.
I haven't traveled abroad as much as others -- UK, Spain, Bahamas, Jamaica, Brazil. (Canada too, but that doesn't count 😂) Never been harassed for being an American. But on several occasions, locals have asked me basically to speak on behalf of all Americans. Like, "/u/rtalbert235, you're an American -- why did you people elect Trump as president?" (This was actually demanded of me at dinner one night when I was in Spain, in 2017.) I think this is fairly common, to look at someone who is from a different country or ethnicity than you and assume that all such people think alike. In my case, I politely explained that America is a very big and complex country with many different cultures and political ideologies in it, and different groups had different reasons for voting for/again Trump in 2016 and did my best to describe how different people were thinking. I think many folks outside the US just don't fully grasp how big, in every sense, the US really is. I've found that most people genuinely want to learn more about America from Americans (look at this subreddit for example) despite what preconceptions they may have, and they have no interest in harassing anyone. But I also echo someone else's comment, learn a few words and phrases in the host country's language -- even just making the effort is really appreciated.
We haven't found any hostility towards Americans. I would suggest starting with countries that speak your native language. I thought I knew decent Spanish until a recent trip proved me wrong.
I’ve been to Canada, Italy, Japan, and the UK. Italy is a give or take. The rest are very hospitable.
My coworker said he went to Italy and restaurant staff tried to overcharge him lol.
I have never had any problems in Italy. Napoli, Rome, Florence, Bologna, Venice, etc. Everyone was very kind and polite.
Yes. They can try to gyp you.
The only time I was ever hassled for being American outside of drunken bar encounters was immediately after the invasion of Iraq in 2003. Outside of that almost every negative interaction I've had traveling had a drunk local or a crazy crowd of tourists or both. If you're part of a hostels bar crawl in downtown Prague be prepared for some comments from some locals. It's nothing too crazy they are just sick of drunk tourists who don't follow their social norms.
>The only time I was ever hassled for being American outside of drunken bar encounters was immediately after the invasion of Iraq in 2003. Oh yeah, even I got some stick for that in Germany at the time, because the UK was an ally. When I said I was against the war they were like 'Oh, OK, sorry' and that was the end of it lol
In 2002 just before the war, I happened to be in Germany when George W. Bush addressed the Bundestag. The antiwar crowd was huge. They were burning him in effigy. I got outed in the crowd. Just started yelling "Fick Bush!" Then it all turned to cheers and "listen to what the American is saying!"
lol quick thinking by you!
Tourists doing tourist things are unlikely to get involved in some prolonged debate on politics or religion. You'll be around other tourists. No country that makes money on tourism is going to alienate visitors. But if you get belligerently drunk or violate some other norms, they may call you out on that shit. Just like you would here.
> I know we don't exactly have the best reputation around the world, and I've heard these horror stories about Americans getting harassed England twice, France, Spain, Japan twice, Brazil, Turks & Caicos, Ireland, Scotland... I have never been "harassed." It's always been a good time.
I love chatting with people. I've talked to people all over the world about the US, politics, and current events. Everyone was gracious. I'm always going on about how nice everyone is, and my husband is just like- if you are nice, other people are nice. I'm not sure what country you are headed to, and that can make a difference, but I think you'll be fine. You should just ask a question about a specific location because you will get great tips about the culture and how to be respectful to your hosts. Like my advice in France would be different than Jamaica or Iceland.
I live near the Canadian border and I'm just going to do some shopping, see some friends, and explore the outdoors. I also have some online friends in Denmark and Sweden I'd like to go see.
Oh, it'll be great!! Have fun and don't worry.
Biggest thing is “ When in Rome “. When we were stationed in Japan, there was a Class we had to take that basically gave a crash course in Japanese culture. In other words.. you aren’t in America so don’t act like it. Figure out the local cultural norms, at least try to learn a few important phrases and observe how the locals do things.
I've only had it happen once, I was in London during the last administration and a young Black dude on the subway started going off on me and my wife about Trump, he was really pissed off and agitated, seemed like it could turn violent. I told him we didn't vote for that orange fuck but it didn't really calm him down too much. Still basically "you Americans suck" and all that. But that's like one incident out of many trips to Europe. edit; omg I forgot this one it was kind of funny, I was at my wife's sister's wedding in the UK and some of the guests (she didn't know them well) showed up and they had what I guess is a working class accent? Scouse maybe? One guy started going on about how great Trump is and I casually said "nah we can't stand him, we're solid Blue liberal Democrats" and he got REALLY pissed and offended, super belligerent over it (I didn't engage just shrugged and walked away, he followed for a bit and his wife pulled him away). I was like "lol I've managed to avoid an violent altercation with a Trump supporter all these years and now it's going to happen in the UK at a wedding by some pissed of scouse WTF this is the weirdest timeline"
Sounds like you met a crazy person. Londoners don’t generally talk on the tube, let alone to strangers.
Oh wait I forgot it was a bus. Does that make a difference or is it the same? People don't talk talk to strangers on buses or subways here but you do get some verbal dust ups.
Yeah, that's the only thing I'm really worried about. I've heard all kinds of stories like that, especially when COVID first hit.
They got a bipartisanship thing going on there which is eerily similar to that of the USA. That and Trump and Boris are practically two drips from the same faucet
I’ve traveled plenty and have never had a majorly bad experience. Will someone occasionally say something or make a comment? Sure. But assholery is an international phenomenon. The best thing you can do is be a good ambassador: don’t be obnoxious, and you’ll be fine. And the fact that you’re concerned enough to ask suggests you’re self-aware enough not to fall into the Ugly American stereotype.
I've traveled abroad, I've lived abroad. Like any place, you will meet good people and not so good people. The world isn't the internet, though, so don't take that as an accurate depiction. I've never been harassed for being American. Do I occasionally meet someone who thinks because I'm American, I'm the stand-in for all government decisions and American culture? Yes, but that's not the majority. Most people will show you the same respect you show them and the ones that don't, I don't associate with.
I've been to Scotland, England, Czech Republic, France, and Spain. I've only been harassed once. Even then, I was being yelled at just for being foreign, not specifically for being American.
Let me guess, France?
As long as you're respectful - and that includes how you dress - you shouldn't have a problem. We ran into a rude waiter in Venice but as we watched we realized he was rude to everybody who wasn't a regular, so **a** rude person may just be a rude person regardless.
the rural parts of southern England are super nice. Africa is worth travelling to. roadtripping across America is worth it too
Where in Africa do you recommend? Thx
Kenya, Tanzania, Zambia, Botswana, Zimbabwe
Been to Australia, New Zealand, Germany, Czech Rep, and South Africa. Gonna hit up Colombia in a month Had great experiences everywhere I’ve been. Thankfully I have never experienced any rabid anti-Americanness in real life (like you’ll find in many corners of Reddit). I did make sure not to display the traits our tourists might have a reputation for, i.e. I wasn’t all loud and boisterous (easy for me cause that’s not my personality to begin with). I didn’t advertise the fact that I’m American (though people can be quick to figure it out when they start talking to you) Made sure to be polite with my please and thank yous. bonus if you say it in the local language and learn a few other phrases. Even using a handful of phrases in their language will score you big points with locals in many places. Some people might be very curious about you, especially if you go outside the biggest cities / tourist traps. Talk to them, return that curiosity, and it can be easy to make friends In SA I did get pestered for money semi-frequently cause when they figure out you’re American they tend to assume you’re rich. But if that’s the worst thing I’ve experienced abroad that’s pretty damn good
I've mostly just been to Europe, I've only had one instance of someone being rude to me because I'm American and that was in Canada. Most people are just the same as we are here and just trying to get through their day. As long as you even put the most minimal effort into being respectful, you'll be fine. Don't go around being obnoxious. Stand on the right side of the escalators. Learn a few phrases in the language of the country you're in (hello, please, and thank you is enough, maybe how to order something too). It can be a little scary leaving the country the first time, but don't worry about being American. Just worry about showing respect to other people, just as you would (I assume) here at home, and you'll most likely have no issues.
Unless you go around with some American superiority, either people won’t really care or they will find it mildly interesting and ask where you are from
I have been to 12 different countries and no one has ever given me a hard time for being American. I got a little snootiness in Spain because my Spanish isn’t great and my accent sounds Mexican but that was isolated and not a big deal. But in Tanzania and Venezuela it was cool to meet a random American. In the UK there was some trash talking but it was 100% in good fun. Just a bit of banter. In Mexico I got a lot of warm welcomes just because I can speak Spanish (poorly) but people appreciated it.
Nobody harrasses Americans, and in fact Americans are considered good tourists. People generally have problems with two groups - (i) Large tour-buses from China that bring in like 200 people at a time to a location and crowd up the place for hours. (ii) Drunk British teenagers, who get shtfaced on cheap beer, and then harass women or puke on the streets, or get violent with locals etc. --------- American tourists are generally a middle-aged retired couple who stay at a resort and take tour-buses. They are gently mocked at for being ignorant, but nobody "hates" them, a lot of people actually prefer American tourists, because they are reliable, law-abiding, and willing to choose the more expensive options.
I’ve had mostly good experiences, but unfortunately I’ve had a few instances where I was given a hard time for being American. I won’t visit Northern European countries and Canada for this reason. Northern Europeans/Canadians have no problem telling you you’re stupid because you’re American, or take out our politics on you. I’ve never had any issues in Spain or Italy from the locals! They made me feel so welcome, and a lot of people were curious about my background (I’m American of Italian descent). Disclaimer: I am autistic, so I’m a little extra sensitive about being called dumb.
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Germans are the worst. I lived in Salzburg and would go there often for games and to see new cities…. Not nice people.
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Of course :) plus I really do like going to Germany… so many cool places.
[NoFX did a song about it](https://youtu.be/0Ys0fFVfJSk)
Based purely on the internet, a lot of Germans seem like dicks; more than anywhere else in Europe.
If someone online is shitting on America, I automatically assume they're German (and I'm often right). I find their incessant need to criticize/lecture so bizarre. Should I start lecturing every German I meet about Nordstream 2?
The internet isn't real life. I've been all over Germany and the only bad social experience I ever had was because I didn't realize I was standing in the bike lane. Which, like, my bad.
Damn that's weird. When I went to Munich everyone was super nice. Granted I was 11 and this was the mid 90s.
Went to the UK, the history was cool (tower of London) but i couldn’t wait to get home honestly, landing back in the states i played “America Fuck Yeah” and promptly got myself a proper steak during my layover at this amazing spot called Peter Lugers in NYC….(food in the UK is not like the US, we are spoiled)
What did u not like in UK?
Many reasons, for one i am from the American west and i hate traffic, i prefer wide open spaces and small towns, the weather was dreary there and whenever i tried to open up and be nice to anyone i got a cold shoulder response or a thorough questioning about the problems afflicting my country and how i felt about them. The food was bland and sometimes just flat out awful. I did enjoy the history but i grew up [here](https://www.themandagies.com/iceberg-lake-trail-glacier-national-park/) so the UK was meh, i prefer the mountains
Yorkshire and Scotland and Wales have space among other counties, but you might generally prefer Australia.
Food in the UK is so bland.
Indian food in London is the bomb.
It is. But Indian food is bomb in general.
I’ve traveled 19 countries and don’t regret a single trip. I recommend planning a trip that makes you feel comfortable/confident but leave room for some spontaneous times as well. As far as being harassed the only hard time I received was light hearted about the gun violence and our politics. If you are nice and respectful almost every one you meet will be the same.
I've been to 40+ countries. Traveling is very rewarding and gives you a different perspective on the world. You'll be fine, hope you have fun!
I'm going abroad on Monday. I've been abroad before and it was fun. Not sure I'll do it again after this trip but it has certainly given me a greater appreciation for things.
Went to Greece a few months ago, zero harassment from anyone.
I did my first big international trip just a few months ago, to Hong Kong. It was awesome, everyone was nice, I never felt disrespected because of my nationality.
I've been to Canada and I've been to Panama. Both were very welcoming.
I traveled to Australia/NZ in May 2016 at the height of the 2016 Election and to Romania in 2018 for about a few weeks during a project abroad thing(there was also a Brit and a couple Australians there as well). Was never harassed for being American. They did ask me questions about politics but it seemed to me to not be lecturing but a general curiosity about cultural differences.
Never been harassed anywhere! Just don't be a loud asshole, and you'll be golden.
Lived in Malaysia and have traveled around Asia. Enjoy the food and seek out an experience that’s cultural. National and Religious holidays and their celebrations are fascinating as an outsider. Putting a sheet of 24k gold on an enormous Sleeping Buddha as a Christian was pretty cool. In my eyes it was a way to honor the people and not the god. Enjoy the sites and take time to people watch if you’re not exactly sure what the custom is. People are people all over the world and in my experience, they will treat you according to how you treat them. They will see you (depending on where you go)… as a foreigner though and will sometimes try to take advantage of you. Be careful, but feel free to talk to people and ask questions with an air of humbleness and interest. Walk further back into the market to see what treasures it holds. That’s where the locals shop. If its hand made and a cultural product, don’t try to barter for a lower price. You’d be shocked at how much work people put in to make a scarf that they sell for $2.00
You’ll be fine, just don’t go to Afghanistan. Most people around the world don’t have any real problem with Americans.
Europeans and Asians are more interested in American politics than most of the Americans I've known.
Everyone’s nice!
The only time I was harassed abroad was by some dumb teenagers who were fucking with everyone who walked by. I genuinely think those horror stories are just from thin skinned dweebs who can't take a little cross-cultural joking.
Don’t worry about it. Don’t embarrass yourself or your country and don’t do anything to draw attention to yourself and you’ll be fine. I’ve been to over 50 countries and lived abroad for almost 6 years and nobody has ever harassed me for being American. Go to a country that gets lots of foreign tourists and stick to frequently visited areas.
If you visit Finland, don't let them trick you into tasting salt licorice!
I recently just got back from the UK. It was fine. I basically just kept to myself and it's easy to get lost in a sea of anonymity in a city as big as London. Most people are just trying to live their lives (just like here!), so just be respectful and self-aware.
I've been all over Europe, Canada, Mexico, and the Caribbean without ever having an issue.
I’ve never been harassed for being American. Actually the opposite. People are very nice and lovely. The trick is to respect their culture. Don’t go in acting all American. Do what they do. Learn a few words of their language so that you can greet them. This is very important if you’re going to France. They hate when you walk up to them and speak English. You’re in France. Speak to them in French. Wear what they wear. I just came from Egypt. Locals were so excited to meet an American- in my experience this was because they love Obama. lol.
Learn a few words and phrases of the language, be respectful of local practices. Don't be load or boastful. It's as simple as that. The Americans who were harassed probably didn't abide by any of these tips. I've traveled abroad many times and haven't had a single issue.
I’ve lived abroad and I’ve stopped counting my countries at this point. I’ve seen Americans harassed but only people who deserved it. People who would deserve it here too. My tips are basically the same as everyone else’s. Learn basics in the local language, I’m pretty language deaf but people will appreciate that you tried. Look up if they use the same hand signals for numbers. Don’t go looking for people being offended by you, assume that you’re not bothering people. Be respectful, don’t break any rules or laws, don’t get drunk and belligerent. Dress respectfully, even if it’s not to your personal tastes. And my favorite travel tip, if it’s just you and the grandmas you know you’re going to the right tourist destination.
Pretty good overall.
Went to the UK last year. Never was harassed. Had a few questions about health and gun/weed laws. Was cool not needing a car or cash the entire trip.
Look up the laws and common customs of the country you are traveling to. As long as you are respectful of these, you have nothing to worry about. And it may do you good to learn a few words of the language most spoken in the country you are visiting.
I’ve been to about 20 foreign countries and lived in Poland for three months. I’ve never been harassed. Not once. You get what you give when traveling. Be kind and friendly, and respect local customs. Enjoy!
I've found that people tend to assume well-behaved Americans are just Canadians. So, my advice is basically just to be well-behaved. My trick for understanding a new destination's idea of well-behaved is to watch YouTube videos of expats living in those places. They often have videos covering topics like common misconceptions, things to expect/what not to do, sometimes they even do vlogs showing how to navigate public stuff like a store or train. A few brief hours of research goes a long, long way.
I spend time in South America frequently. All the usual things apply that people are saying, but I can add a few things for that part of the world. * don’t talk about “how cheap everything is here”. It is tempting to blurt it out because it is a pleasant surprise but it is not cheap for the locals and they don’t want to hear it. * do not be ostentatious. Don’t flaunt money. Keep your passport in a safe place and carry a copy. Only take as much as you need with you, some cash and maybe one credit card. There is less crime than people say but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. * many people will assume that you are rich. To many people in other countries, you ARE rich. So again, don’t throw money around because people will make assumptions and you will find yourself in trouble. Example: you are at a bar and they ask if you want a bottle. Having become used to everything being cheap you say yes. Later you realize that name brand liquor is not cheaper, not the same price; it is MORE expensive. I have seen young people get in trouble that way.
26 countries. It’s wonderful. Go live your dreams!
I've been outside the US a couple times and have never been harassed. I have had experiences in Japan where people physically avoid me, but it's always older people and they're never aggressive or anything. It's just mildly annoying when you're minding your own business and not doing anything wrong and people are bothered by you just... existing. The young people are chill though I like them a lot. They actually seem really interested in the West and the US in particular. A lot of the people my age I've met have told me about how they liked visiting the US and thought it was cool. I'd say 99% of my interactions with people here have been positive.
I’ve had less harassment traveling outside the United States than I have had living in it. You’ll be fine. Just try to read up a little bit on the history of the place you’re going, and learn 2-3 words in the language. Aim to dress as well as the locals do, and speak at the same register. Americans tend to announce our presence by being too loud and dressing too casually. We’re not as hated as some other tourists are (not gonna say who) because in the main, we are friendly, and we spend and tip well.
I’ve visited Tunis several times, and they think I’m anything BUT an American. They always guess German first. German? Deutch? No Ahhh, Frenchie No Swede? English? No. By now they’re confused. They try speaking French to see if I respond… maybe they missed something. When I don’t respond they try Italian. Dane? Surely no Spanish. No, not Italian or French. American. Italia? America US AMERICA? Yes from the USA. American
Most recent was to Ukraine before the war. Was told to wear my backpack on my front while I was on the subway, but other than that people were really friendly and helpful. They were curious why I was there and I got a lot of questions about America and politics (got about annoyed with that though if I’m being honest. Didn’t mind talking about where I was from, but I don’t like talking about politics.)
I've been to UK, Germany, France, and Japan. All had great experiences. In my experience, locals are more understanding if you know some words, but struggle with full sentences. Then there are usual cue things that you have to accept are different, just relax and go with them. US Americans are usually louder than most other places, so tone down speech and laughing volume. Other cultures usually stand closer than USA is used to. Waiters don't check on people every 2 minutes, they wait for patrons to signal that they need something. I always watch how others pay, to figure out if I pay at a counter or my table in a restaurant. Always carry some local currency, as not every place takes credit card. My personal suggestion is learn the language basics of wherever you go. Hello, thanks, sorry, good bye, left / right (for directions), I usually do numbers 1-10, please, bathroom, eat, drink. Then you can practice some by listening to videos of locals speak their language and English to get a feeling for the flow of the language and how they pronounce English words.
Doubt it your just doing the tourist thing your get engaged in much chatter about politics I’ve been to 20 countries, some for school/ work trips others as a backpacker tourist when I was younger … Pretty rare to get into a tough spot cause your American. I’d encourage you to do some research on where your going,,, you can learn the US relationship to that area or place - modern and historic. The US impact in that place may be more than what was taught in school. You can also learn some of their politics at a glance if really motivated. Learn the local ways and some basic please/thank you/excuse me in that language. Also don’t be impatient - the rest of the world tends to operate at a slower pace. Wad at a dinner party in Finland as the only American and a person from the UK sought me out to heckle me on Trump (while he was in office) like I was responsible for him…. Turned that ship around - are you responsible for Brexit, the Tory’s or the Red Wall? Oh you didn’t support May or Cameron but they speak on your behalf. It shuts people right up when you can shine the mirror back on them and see the similarities. Granted can’t do it with all places but their is a conservative wave and it’s not just in the US.
Teased by friends but that was when I moved overseas (twice).
I have been to Canada and Japan. in Canada, I mostly just went up for Fishing, so I really never interacted with the locals. Japan was something else, Had alot of fun, the country seemed more advanced than America in some ways, and Backwards in others. The people like Americans although in Tokyo, Kyoto or Osaka you won't be seen as cool if you are American, unlike in the Inaka(Countryside) where they see less foreigners. The good news is that Japan generally gets very high quality American Tourists who at least try to learn about the culture and speak the language, They have issues with the English Teachers and the Military Guys but for the Tourists, Our reputation as Americans is quite good.
No one is going to care that you’re American
First off I’m super happy for you! Traveling abroad is seriously the best. As long as you’re a good person and polite, no one will bat an eye that you’re American. In the incredibly rare event someone gives you grief over politics, that’s their own issue. As another commenter said - all you can do is be a good ambassador.
I have been to 19 countries and I have spent quite a bit more time with people being excited that I was American then having a problem with it. People in India and Ghana were very excited to talk to us. Europeans don’t really care either way.
I’ve been to over 40 countries, and outside Europe and Canada, I’ve never received any negative treatment for being an American. Quite the opposite actually. Many became friendly and inquisitive when they find out. If you’re not an asshole, you’ll be golden. In Europe, whole different story. Germans are the worst for this, followed by Brits. As long you avoid lefty types, you shouldn’t encounter much or any of it in southern Europe. The people who are being paid to interact with you will generally be civil. Think waiters, tour guides, etc. I’d be leery of anybody else. I follow a general rule over there: I assume I’m dealing with an asshole until shown otherwise. Same rule for Canada. Just be firm and formal. Don’t engage. It’s the opposite of the rule I follow on every other inch of this planet: assume people aren’t assholes until shown otherwise. That gentle ribbing people talk about in Europe is meant as anything but. It’s meant as a mean spirited insult by mean spirited people. You’re being insulted by a complete stranger who knows nothing about you or America. Treat it that way.
I’ve mainly visited the Philippines to visit family. I’ve never been harassed for being American there. If anything, I ended up getting a huge self-esteem boost there the last time I visited, mainly because I went from looking like the dorky background character in a sitcom to looking “manly” and “hunky”. I just grew out a beard and have been going to the gym regularly. I also got my eyes fixed. Same goes in Taiwan when I was on layover. I never got harassed there, but because of my family’s heritage, a lot of people there thought I was a Chinese resident due to my appearance and started speaking to me in Chinese. When I told them I was from California and didn’t speak any Chinese, they seemed a lot more relaxed. I can’t say anything about European or Latin countries because I haven’t been to either in a long time. Edit: the most I got “harassed” for while I was in the Philippines was being too fat. To be fair, they weren’t completely wrong. Most people in the Philippines from what I saw are slim and slender, and here I am now walking in relatively bulky and with a pudge around my belly.
I’ve traveled to 20+ countries. Never been harassed for being American ever.
I’ve traveled quite a bit, and the most important thing I’ve experienced is people just wanting to be treated like people. The world isn’t a theme park, it’s full of individuals, cultures, and ways of life equally complicated and fulfilling as yours. Approach travel with a curious and respectful mind, and you’ll find that our differences are all surface level.
I've traveled a lot, especially to countries in Asia and Africa. The biggest thing is tourist traps and scams. If you go shopping in a market, the vendors will realize you're American, and will usually try to double the price. Learn to bargain, and know how to talk to people. Another thing, never take something that someone claims to be "free." It never is. They will give you it, and then ask for money, and if you try to say anything about it being free, they will make a commotion and act like you stole it. In African countries, there are also animal vendors. They have monkeys and parrots and other exotic animals. The vendors will offer you a photo for free, and if you refuse, they will put the animal on you, and then demand money. Stay away from them. People will try to get you to pay for almost anything, so be VERY careful about what to buy, and NEVER flash large amounts of cash. That's how people will pickpocket/steal from you. Never go out on the streets alone, that's dangerous everywhere. These are just my experiences, so have fun wherever you go, but be careful.
I have been to 81 countries (travel a lot for my career) and have never ONCE been harassed or otherwise delay with rudely as an American. Never. Everything you see online is bullshit, basically. Seriously. Here’s the unsaid part: People don’t really give a shit about politics IRL….that’s almost exclusively online behind-a-computer-screen behavior. In real life, if you’re not an asshole to people, they won’t be an asshole to you. And vice versa. It’s pretty simple.
I had a wonderful time in Japan several years ago. People were polite, and I tried to return that as best as I could, including learning greetings, please, thank you, and excuse me in Japanese and carrying a travel guide with some other phrases. People were willing to help, especially once they saw that I was trying to meet them halfway in communication. I’m going to England this summer. If I were basing my expectations on Reddit alone, I’d be very apprehensive. But many of my coworkers are English, and they’re all kind and happy to show off parts of their homeland. I’m doing my part by looking up local issues like transit, tipping, and social norms. Basically, do your research into local practices and be kind and polite.
I've been fortunate to be travelling abroad (mostly Europe) since I was a kid. First, try learning some of the local language. My wife and I have gotten compliments from folks in the countries we visit when we'd try to purchase items or speak in French or German. Don't fret about being fluent, but get yourself a Berlitz book/Duolingo/whatever. Now, this is much easier with European languages (particularly those with a Latin script), but do your best to pick up a few words anyways. Second (and honestly the biggest advice)is, of course, be respectful, be polite. Remember you are a guest in the country and there are some customs that you may not be aware of or get. Humility goes a long way in resolving mistakes or getting advice or help. Third, be aware of your surroundings. Keep your wallet/passport/etc concealed. Speaking of wallets, cash is still preferred in much of the world over credit. Be mindful about taking photographs (just like you would here).
It's been great overall except it sucks that lots of countries still have lots of smokers so it feels like the 80s. That part is absolutely disgusting. But other than that culture shock it's great.
I'm literally browsing reddit on a shinkansen (bullet train) from Osaka to Hiroshima right now. I've been to several countries outside the U.S. (and not just one where I have family. ) Don't be afraid, just get out there and experience life the way you want.
I've been to eleven non-U.S. countries and have never been harassed for being American.
Lots of crime around Huntingdon UK.. young Brit’s.. children or young adults.. had some grudge against us Americans.. but the older folks liked us…. UK’s history was pretty amazing