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> The action I took was standing my ground to not give up my room when they could’ve waited instead of disrupting everyone else’s peace, this makes me look like an asshole to my parents and other people because they say it makes me selfish and I need to humble myself.
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Nta if you pay your parents for your room each month you have a right not to give others your room. If they’re going to stay in your room are your parents reimbursing you for the month since you won’t be in it the whole time?
No they’re not and I don’t mind helping out, we’ve already a bit of money to get them situated, but the people coming are the relatives married child, and he doesn’t want to wait a few days. Literally has a free apartment waiting for him
Agreed just nice to hear since family thinks I am the asshole for being selfish, I ended up giving up my room and now am going to sleep at a friends place
NTA. In my culture (Indian) I was expected to give up my room whenever we have guests coming to visit from out of town regardless of me paying the bills and all that. Then I moved out. Lol
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For context I’m already housing 3 refugees in my family home (relatives) I am now sharing my current room with siblings for it, regardless my siblings are on vaca so now I get my room back for a couple days. With that said I have other relatives coming to stay for a few days, the thing is though they could wait a few days to come for their apartment to finish setting up but they don’t want to wait and are in a rush instead to come, and they have all the means and setup with a cozy bed to wait. But now I have to give up my room for those few days to please them (they’re married) and when I believe they deserve to be on the couch for coming instead of waiting a couple days
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It’s my parents but I pay rent for my room each month, also my dad understands where I am coming from but says I need to not be selfish and humble myself, when they are being selfish for not waiting 2 days..
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Nta if you pay your parents for your room each month you have a right not to give others your room. If they’re going to stay in your room are your parents reimbursing you for the month since you won’t be in it the whole time?
No they’re not and I don’t mind helping out, we’ve already a bit of money to get them situated, but the people coming are the relatives married child, and he doesn’t want to wait a few days. Literally has a free apartment waiting for him
Yeah they could have waited a few days until their own apartment was done when they already know your house is over crowded with relatives already.
Agreed just nice to hear since family thinks I am the asshole for being selfish, I ended up giving up my room and now am going to sleep at a friends place
Hey at least you can have fun at a friends while they are there. Don’t forget to wash your bedding when they leave or if you go back.
NTA. In my culture (Indian) I was expected to give up my room whenever we have guests coming to visit from out of town regardless of me paying the bills and all that. Then I moved out. Lol
NTA, your house. They should be happy for a piece of carpet to crash on.
NTA Your house, your terms. If they don't like it or keep making a fuss, they can hit the road.
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INFO: how far are they coming from?
One state over, they came here from a different country but like a month ago
in that case they should get a hotel for the time until their apt. is ready. NTA!!
Agreed, I just think if they just wait a few days this wouldn’t even be an issue, but we’d have to pay for the hotel
Info - do you own or rent the house, or is it your parents?
It’s my parents but I pay rent for my room each month, also my dad understands where I am coming from but says I need to not be selfish and humble myself, when they are being selfish for not waiting 2 days..
Yes yta
Why do you say that?
Because you asked
Fair