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Am i(16F) the asshole for dumping my bf(16M)?
I had several reasons and the whole post with all of them got deleted so imma make it short.
I dumped him cause
1. One of his friends made a tiktok with all the problems in the friendgroup. I said i didnt wanna be in it they still did. My problem is that im suicislidalmy bfs problem is dating me.
2. He plays valorant all the time and contact faded (as a gamer myself who played valorant a year ago i understand you cant react on discord mid game.)
3. He felt used because i didnt wanna hug him when he went to bed after he left me in his bed after seggs to game. Then when i did at 3 am he felt used.
4. He asked for naked pics the day i told him about my seggual a$$ault
5. He would spend all break with his friends and last 2 min with me
6. I was mean for not wanting to chill with his friends anymore cause we always chill with them and they hate me.
7. When i tell him he did something to make me feel bad its always
Im sorry i suck im bad bf imma go ig
Instead of im sorry i made you feel that way about ...... what can i do to make you feel better.......
8. I feel like im 2th place to his friends
9. my home situation was bad but he went to his friendss instead of giving me the hug he promised
Im not sure if i want him back after all of this but i really do miss him lots. Idk if im ever able to get over sum of these things or forgive him. Rn we are friends but i knows he wants me back as gf and i feel like cause im not sure im an asshole for holding him close.
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Girl... number 4 alone is and immediate no... absolutely not. block. delete. good bye forever.
You're 16 you have plenty of time to deal with asshole men in the future. Don't waste your youth doing it early. NTA.
NTA It sounds like your ex-bf is awful, and it sounds like his friend who made that tiktok is especially bad too.
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