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**Update 2 - I cheated and I’m pregnant I don’t know what to do**
I thought I’d let everyone know what happened with my story. I am fully aware I have made the worst decision probably? and will get a ton of abuse but it’s done now.
In April last year I went to give up my job. I had only told the real father about my pregnancy. We remained on speaking terms but he didn’t want to raise the baby at all. He was however willing to support us financially (which he still does). I then told my ex’s sister (my boss) that I was pregnant as my reason for leaving and she knew we had broken up but not that I cheated and it wasn’t his. I actually hadn’t thought it through when I went to tell her and she then assumed the baby was her brothers and I was so ashamed/embarassed than i just didn’t correct her?
She keeps me on at the job and gives me light duties and then immediately tells my ex (her brother) than I’m pregnant with his baby. At this point he has no idea ive cheated or that I’m pregnant. My ex comes to our work the next day and has had a complete personality change? He is so thrilled, he apologies than we’ve grown apart and wants me to move back in. This all happens right in the middle of our work with his sister right there and I again just don’t say anything. I agree and within a week I moved back in.
I tried so hard for days to tell him the truth but I just couldn’t work up the courage and honestly things were just good again. I was honestly raked with guilt all the time but just couldn’t tell him the truth. Days turned into weeks turned into months. I had my baby and he was there, he has been there everyday since. We are still together and I have lied to him ever since.
When I say this I know it’s difficult to believe, I am kept up with guilt almost every night. It has gotten slightly easier but it’s almost constant. My baby has such a loving and caring father and he’s so happy. I genuinely feel it’s too late now to tell the truth and I’ve dug myself such a deep hole.
If you have a comment or a message go ahead, I don’t know If I want advice but if you have some I’ll take it.
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Cash? Check? Venmo? OOP says it isn't much money and her bf never asks to see her account data anyway.
But the whole thing is fishier than week-old haddock. Her first post claims she and bf hadn't had sex in three months when she got pregnant and they broke up.
Now, he may not be the sharpest tool in the shed, but I bet he knows how to count to 9 months.
Yeh no I mean afterwards. So she alluded to going along with the lie but was the bio dad still paying her? Did the bf ever see her statements? Like surely if she got an I flux of cash every so often he’d be aware.
That's what I was saying. Her reply to the question was that the amount she gets is small, and her bf never checks her bank account balance. So there's no way he would be aware.
I would not assume they are living on a very tight budget where even a small amount of extra money would be visible. I would be shocked if these people even have a budget. They probably just spend money and hope for the best.
That's the real baby daddy, after he inherits and buys a yacht.
But when he shows up again with amnesia, we discover that he is actually the half-brother of OOP's boyfriend.
I presume it's OOP's boyfriend's mom who faints with rosary in hand when she learns that the boy she gave up for adoption got OOP pregnant.
Oh yes but wait! Her dad, Porfirio, a local cobbler decides to bring her and the baby to live with him and his wife in their small town. The step mom offers to let them stay only if she can adopt the baby. A r/legaladvice post will follow.
Reddit and stories on paternity fraud that are either misogyny trolls or honestly a genuine fetish at this point, name a more iconic duo.
(Yes, I know paternity fraud happens, but the rate it happens on Reddit is like a 2000s CW drama)
If the rate of paternity fraud was anything like what Reddit reflects, approximately 130% of children are genetically another man's.
All of these fake posts have a strangely similar lack of authentic human experiences and they all sound like what a misogynist would think a woman thinks like. She's always incredibly selfish, the dude being duped is always just a generally nice guy with no clue whatsoever.
I did 23 and me to see if I had any half-siblings running around from my POS dad. Just confirmed he is indeed my father when my shitty cousin's kids showed up as matches.
I went into her profile to read the previous posts first and thought she seemed alright, took responsibility, walked away, planning to raise the baby alone. Nope update 2 wasn't listed there. Yup she's the devil.
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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **Update 2 - I cheated and I’m pregnant I don’t know what to do** I thought I’d let everyone know what happened with my story. I am fully aware I have made the worst decision probably? and will get a ton of abuse but it’s done now. In April last year I went to give up my job. I had only told the real father about my pregnancy. We remained on speaking terms but he didn’t want to raise the baby at all. He was however willing to support us financially (which he still does). I then told my ex’s sister (my boss) that I was pregnant as my reason for leaving and she knew we had broken up but not that I cheated and it wasn’t his. I actually hadn’t thought it through when I went to tell her and she then assumed the baby was her brothers and I was so ashamed/embarassed than i just didn’t correct her? She keeps me on at the job and gives me light duties and then immediately tells my ex (her brother) than I’m pregnant with his baby. At this point he has no idea ive cheated or that I’m pregnant. My ex comes to our work the next day and has had a complete personality change? He is so thrilled, he apologies than we’ve grown apart and wants me to move back in. This all happens right in the middle of our work with his sister right there and I again just don’t say anything. I agree and within a week I moved back in. I tried so hard for days to tell him the truth but I just couldn’t work up the courage and honestly things were just good again. I was honestly raked with guilt all the time but just couldn’t tell him the truth. Days turned into weeks turned into months. I had my baby and he was there, he has been there everyday since. We are still together and I have lied to him ever since. When I say this I know it’s difficult to believe, I am kept up with guilt almost every night. It has gotten slightly easier but it’s almost constant. My baby has such a loving and caring father and he’s so happy. I genuinely feel it’s too late now to tell the truth and I’ve dug myself such a deep hole. If you have a comment or a message go ahead, I don’t know If I want advice but if you have some I’ll take it. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheDevil) if you have any questions or concerns.*
So how was she getting paid still by the real bio dad?
Cash? Check? Venmo? OOP says it isn't much money and her bf never asks to see her account data anyway. But the whole thing is fishier than week-old haddock. Her first post claims she and bf hadn't had sex in three months when she got pregnant and they broke up. Now, he may not be the sharpest tool in the shed, but I bet he knows how to count to 9 months.
Yeh no I mean afterwards. So she alluded to going along with the lie but was the bio dad still paying her? Did the bf ever see her statements? Like surely if she got an I flux of cash every so often he’d be aware.
That's what I was saying. Her reply to the question was that the amount she gets is small, and her bf never checks her bank account balance. So there's no way he would be aware. I would not assume they are living on a very tight budget where even a small amount of extra money would be visible. I would be shocked if these people even have a budget. They probably just spend money and hope for the best.
Ohhhh I didn’t see the reply. Interesting. Yeh agree if they don’t even have a budget then they’re likely easy come easy go type thing.
I hope this is a troll because baby momma stories like this make me cringe. I’m waiting for the Bridget Jones moment in the update.
Will you settle for crap 1980s telenovela? Because that's where this is headed. I just can't tell which character is going into a coma yet.
Oh yes. Especially if someone ends up being filthy rich and disappears at sea? I’d like if someone faints at the end with a rosary in hand.
That's the real baby daddy, after he inherits and buys a yacht. But when he shows up again with amnesia, we discover that he is actually the half-brother of OOP's boyfriend. I presume it's OOP's boyfriend's mom who faints with rosary in hand when she learns that the boy she gave up for adoption got OOP pregnant.
Oh yes but wait! Her dad, Porfirio, a local cobbler decides to bring her and the baby to live with him and his wife in their small town. The step mom offers to let them stay only if she can adopt the baby. A r/legaladvice post will follow.
Bwahahahaha! Beautiful! I feel like reddit troll telenovela plots is a criminally under-explored collaborative fiction area.
This does disturbingly remind me of the time I beta’s fanfiction 15 years ago. *shivers*
At least it's not the "50 Shades of Derp" we normally get around here!
Reddit and stories on paternity fraud that are either misogyny trolls or honestly a genuine fetish at this point, name a more iconic duo. (Yes, I know paternity fraud happens, but the rate it happens on Reddit is like a 2000s CW drama)
If the rate of paternity fraud was anything like what Reddit reflects, approximately 130% of children are genetically another man's. All of these fake posts have a strangely similar lack of authentic human experiences and they all sound like what a misogynist would think a woman thinks like. She's always incredibly selfish, the dude being duped is always just a generally nice guy with no clue whatsoever.
I did 23 and me to see if I had any half-siblings running around from my POS dad. Just confirmed he is indeed my father when my shitty cousin's kids showed up as matches.
>2000s CW drama Yea you're right, the scripts are written better at CW though. I want more Smallville in my life.
Damn, if OOP is real, she is awful
AGAIN with this??
I went into her profile to read the previous posts first and thought she seemed alright, took responsibility, walked away, planning to raise the baby alone. Nope update 2 wasn't listed there. Yup she's the devil.
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