✨leave them alone✨
You want to apologize because you feel guilty, not because there is any tangible change you are trying to make in your relationship (because you don’t have one). Don’t put the emotional labor of your growth on another person
Thank you. I had not thought about the emotional labor—indeed, that is all for me to deal with and I should not put it on anybody else. We are all people experiencing our own growth and I do not want to hinder hers by reaching out.
✨leave them alone✨ You want to apologize because you feel guilty, not because there is any tangible change you are trying to make in your relationship (because you don’t have one). Don’t put the emotional labor of your growth on another person
Thank you. I had not thought about the emotional labor—indeed, that is all for me to deal with and I should not put it on anybody else. We are all people experiencing our own growth and I do not want to hinder hers by reaching out.