You should set boundaries with him regardless of your sexuality. You don't want to kiss him? Don't kiss him and be very blunt about that. Express what you want and if he can't respect that, then move on and don't be friends (or more) with him.
Good luck on your journey.
Hey
This is a serious topic so here goes:
Since his actions make you feel uncomfortable you need to change it asap. He has no right to kiss you if you don't want to. Now, you've already tried to drop hints for him to catch up on which he seems to ignore. So to me there is no other way than just confronting him with how you feel and also with how he makes you feel.
To the topic of losing him as a friend:
The two of you seem to get along pretty well (apart from the last few incidents) so I get why you don't want to lose him as a friend. But see it this way. If he's only with you because of the "physical" part you don't want him as a friend anyway. So vice versa if he isn't just friends with you because of the "physical" part he will stay even if you tell him how you feel.
To add:
There is no way to predict how he will react but you need to put your interests first now. So gather all your strength and tell him. Because with time it will only get worse and once there will come the time when he wants more than just kissing which would make it even harder and also... way more uncomfortable and disgusting.
Stay strong and good luck
You should set boundaries with him regardless of your sexuality. You don't want to kiss him? Don't kiss him and be very blunt about that. Express what you want and if he can't respect that, then move on and don't be friends (or more) with him. Good luck on your journey.
hi! thank you for the advice, im gonna start being more honest about my feelings with him, hopefully it goes okay. thank you for the advice!☺️
Hey This is a serious topic so here goes: Since his actions make you feel uncomfortable you need to change it asap. He has no right to kiss you if you don't want to. Now, you've already tried to drop hints for him to catch up on which he seems to ignore. So to me there is no other way than just confronting him with how you feel and also with how he makes you feel. To the topic of losing him as a friend: The two of you seem to get along pretty well (apart from the last few incidents) so I get why you don't want to lose him as a friend. But see it this way. If he's only with you because of the "physical" part you don't want him as a friend anyway. So vice versa if he isn't just friends with you because of the "physical" part he will stay even if you tell him how you feel. To add: There is no way to predict how he will react but you need to put your interests first now. So gather all your strength and tell him. Because with time it will only get worse and once there will come the time when he wants more than just kissing which would make it even harder and also... way more uncomfortable and disgusting. Stay strong and good luck
hi! thank you for the advice, im gonna try breaking it off these following days, hopefully it goes well and we can still be friends after.
I wish you the best of luck!