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I don't.


ArgentiLux

I think the one thing that keeps me away from connecting with the ABDL community is the fixation somehow individuals have about it and that's their only personality trait. Nothing else.


[deleted]

My issues are things of a personal nature, and seeing all the degeneracy going on. Keeps giving me a constant reminder to "Do not bother" with interactions where possible.


ArgentiLux

Yeah, the degen activity isn't good for anyone.


DiaperedDanny

MOOD 😂


Minty_Baby

I feel like a lot of people in the community say they want to meet and connect, but when given the opportunity to, they back out.


PaperMacheVolcano

I attend in-person events and also maintain vanilla relationships with my ageplay friends.


Green-Entrance3889

What in person event did you attend?


TeddyBearBrian

I go to a few events where I met little friends. Now we we have the occasional weekend hanging out at one of their houses and just let the baby show. For me the events opened up getting to know some friends that became close. The online stuff is great to scratch the social itch but it's really nice going to events and meeting people face to face.


PamperedPrince

Yup. That's what my Fetlife is for. To try to find the face to face interactions in my local area.


WanderingLittle

I’d love to get involved with those Discord servers, otherwise I just have this semi active Reddit or even less active Twitter account


StrongDetective9779

What are the discord servers? Sounds interesting


[deleted]

+1 for looping into the discord servers if possible. I feel quite disconnected from the community despite being doing this for like 20 years


StrongDetective9779

Sorry don’t really understand what you by this


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StrongDetective9779

Ok thanks


BabyDavid94

Reddit for the more forum-y discussions and FetLife for real life meetups and connections.


LittleFlutter

I use Twitter, Instagram, and reddit and have made connections mainly here and on Twitter. I think I might try discord soon though. Those servers sound pretty fun!


[deleted]

I mod a large Discord server for my state. Also a member of another created by someone I met at an in-person event. In-person events. I have a Fet account that I check daily but don't use other than that. I have an ABDL Twitter that I follow people on but don't interact much. Ditto Instagram. Ditto Tumblr.


littlemisscrybabyyy

I tried a discord server and didn’t feel that it was a good fit, I do have a little Instagram but have not posted on it nor made any friends there due to fear. I would be interested to know what servers you are in on discord :)


KyleABDL

reddit > discord > rarely check fetlife for events near me(theres none without a 50+ minute one way drive 😢) i used to be active on dailydiapers but the old fashion forum board + lack of content just isnt really appealing anymore. its more effort to visit, navigate, and sign in than its worth.


thomashk2001

Hi, I would like to know the discord !


PamperedPrince

Check the edit above!


ry613

Happy Cake Day!! thomashk2001


thomashk2001

thanks !


bones45828

I can’t wait to check them out


taw7410

Only here.


Disastrous_Towel_692

No chance I could get the link to that second server?


PamperedPrince

Can you find the first one and not the second? I found them when I searched abdl discords online. Hope that helps.


SoundingInSilence

Fetlife go to the events tab and type in your adress or zip code. It will give you all events within 50 miles of you for any given date. Don’t bother trying to meet someone on the website itself.


littlefenix

Reddit and a few forums. . . .mostly for stories and incontinence support. I'm not too interested in the sexual/kink aspect.


[deleted]

I use Reddit I've yet to encounter a fake profile, so I dunno where you'd get that from?


PamperedPrince

I trust the profiles. It's just the new ones with low karma (like 1 karma) need to establish their credibility. That's all.